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Woman Rushes Boyfriend To ER But Ends Up Saving Herself After Accidentally Checking His Phone
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Woman Rushes Boyfriend To ER But Ends Up Saving Herself After Accidentally Checking His Phone

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Life has a funny way of exposing unfaithful partners. Even though they work hard to keep their secrets hidden, the truth comes to light one way or another. 

In this story, a man’s multiple affairs were uncovered when he was rushed into the ER, and he trusted his phone PIN to his long-time girlfriend. The woman shared the unlikely turn of events online, which had netizens buzzing with opinions.

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    While unfaithful partners work hard to hide their secrets, life has a funny way of exposing them

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    In this story, a cheating boyfriend exposed himself while he was being rushed to the ER

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    22% of unfaithful partners had never confessed their affair to their significant other

    Around 22% of people admit to cheating on their partner before marriage. Meanwhile, 22% had never confessed their affair to their significant other. If a cheater doesn’t come forward about infidelity, the signs of unfaithfulness can go unnoticed for a long time, as per this story’s example. 

    According to psychotherapist Oona Metz, LICSW, this happens because many partners assume they can trust their partner. “Romantic relationships are built on love and trust between partners who assume they can trust each other. That trust can lead to blind spots. If one partner is very invested in the relationship, they may ignore certain red flags as they don’t want to believe the signs they are seeing.”

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    The person who is cheated on could also be in denial of the unfaithfulness signs they’re seeing, noted Kendra Capalbo, LICSW, relationship expert and owner of Concierge Couples Counseling, in a previous interview with Bored Panda

    “The betrayed partner might notice warning signs but convince themselves that ignoring them demonstrates trust, when in reality, they simply can’t face the possibility that their relationship is at risk. The fear of what infidelity could mean for their life may be unbearable, and pretending everything is fine allows them to avoid chaos.”

    In addition, infidelity can be hard to spot due to the efforts that the cheating partner puts into hiding it. “When someone has an affair, they go to great lengths to hide their activities and will deny their existence or resort to gaslighting their partner. Gaslighting can make a person question their own beliefs or instincts, making it hard to determine what is true or real,” said Metz. 

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    Betrayal of a loved one can cause severe emotional distress

    When it all finally comes to light, such betrayal of a loved one can cause severe emotional distress. “The effects of betrayal can be profound and disorienting. Because the violation comes from someone within our inner circle—someone we counted on—betrayal trauma can trigger intense distress. Common symptoms include anxiety, hypervigilance, difficulty regulating emotions, disrupted sleep or appetite, and a deep sense of relational insecurity,” explained certified clinical trauma professional Dr. Jill Manning, LMFT, in a previous interview with us. 

    Recovering from such trauma to physical and emotional well-being isn’t an easy process, but it’s possible. “The starting point for healing from betrayal trauma is establishing safety. This includes setting clear boundaries, engaging in meaningful self-care, and learning to regulate one’s nervous system to create an internal sense of calm and stability,” said Dr. Manning.

    “Healing also involves reclaiming agency, seeking trauma-informed support, and processing the impact of the betrayal at emotional, cognitive, and even spiritual levels. It’s not a linear path, and it requires patience and persistence, but healing is absolutely possible,” she continued explaining. 

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    In the meantime, working on releasing resentment after betrayal might be more helpful than focusing on forgiveness. “It is important to take whatever time is necessary to work through the feelings, as there is no timeline for forgiveness. It’s also important to note that forgiveness does not mean condoning the behaviour, and it does not require restitution of the relationship,” concluded registered clinical counselor and trauma recovery coach Karen Bieman.

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    Austeja Zokaite

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    Hi, glad you swung by! My name is Austėja, and I’m a writer at Bored Panda. With a degree in English philology, I’m interested in all aspects of language. My mission is to master the art of writing and add my unique touch to every personal story and uplifting article we publish. In my time here, I’ve covered some fun topics such as scrungy cats and pareidolia, as well as more serious ones about mental health and relationship hiccups. When I’m not on my laptop, you’ll probably find me devouring pastries, especially croissants, paired with a soothing cup of tea. Sunsets, the sea, and swimming are some of my favorite things.

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    Hi, glad you swung by! My name is Austėja, and I’m a writer at Bored Panda. With a degree in English philology, I’m interested in all aspects of language. My mission is to master the art of writing and add my unique touch to every personal story and uplifting article we publish. In my time here, I’ve covered some fun topics such as scrungy cats and pareidolia, as well as more serious ones about mental health and relationship hiccups. When I’m not on my laptop, you’ll probably find me devouring pastries, especially croissants, paired with a soothing cup of tea. Sunsets, the sea, and swimming are some of my favorite things.

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    Mark Childers
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood why people get into relationships if that's not their thing. But I guess some guys want some woman to take care of them (i.e., doing the things they should be doing for themselves) while they go out and have fun. These are not men. Men are actually responsible, faithful, and loyal. They take their job as a man seriously and protect everyone in their care and beyond and be a positive example for those around them.

    HurlWurk
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I doubt it's the case here, but I also know plenty of people that date openly, then get angry when "other" people call while they are spending time with someone. So the reverse problem can also be true

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    Broccoli
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rushing her boyfriend to the ER didn’t end up saving her boyfriend, it ended up saving OP!

    Emilu
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    3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really don't like it when people go through their other half's devices, but I'm glad this woman found out what a cheating scumb ag her partner was so she could leave.

    Nikole
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, I’m glad I did. You don’t look unless you pretty much already know.

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    Mark Childers
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood why people get into relationships if that's not their thing. But I guess some guys want some woman to take care of them (i.e., doing the things they should be doing for themselves) while they go out and have fun. These are not men. Men are actually responsible, faithful, and loyal. They take their job as a man seriously and protect everyone in their care and beyond and be a positive example for those around them.

    HurlWurk
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I doubt it's the case here, but I also know plenty of people that date openly, then get angry when "other" people call while they are spending time with someone. So the reverse problem can also be true

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    Broccoli
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rushing her boyfriend to the ER didn’t end up saving her boyfriend, it ended up saving OP!

    Emilu
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really don't like it when people go through their other half's devices, but I'm glad this woman found out what a cheating scumb ag her partner was so she could leave.

    Nikole
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, I’m glad I did. You don’t look unless you pretty much already know.

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