Woman Considers Her Accidentally Taking Her Neighbor’s Child On Vacation With Her For A Week The Biggest Mistake Of Her Life
It’s impossible to get through life without making mistakes and having regrets about things we say or do. Not everyone has a major regret, but maybe some of us shouldn’t have bought that thing we don’t use or eaten that ice cream that made our throats sore.
A TikTok user shared her own biggest mistake of her life which, at the same time, is quite wholesome, but also, it wouldn’t have had a happy ending if it happened today. About 30 years, ago she misunderstood her neighbor and took her child on a week-long holiday. She and the child had a blast and the mom was also happy, but the situation was one step from being called a kidnapping.
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Woman on TikTok shares the biggest mistake in her life and it involves accidentally kidnapping her neighbor’s child
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The TikToker doesn’t reveal her name but her account name is SeenAsYouAsked. Currently she has a quite small following of nearly 4k people, but has time to grow as the woman started uploading only on October 7th.
Although there aren’t many videos on the page yet, every one of them is translated to British sign language for accessibility. And one of them already managed to go viral with 1.7M views.
In that video, SeenAsYouAsked told a story about the biggest mistake in her life. The story takes place in 1991 and the woman was about 20 years old. She was recently married and didn’t have children yet.
The story takes place in 1991 when the woman was about 20 years old
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But she had a neighbor who did have a child and she would take care of the toddler from time to time. One time the neighbor asked the TikToker if she could leave her son at her house overnight. The woman didn’t have a problem with that, but warned the neighbor that she would go on a trip the following morning.
The neighbor took notice and was fine with it. She brought the 2-year-old to SeenAsYouAsked’s house and left him there for the day and night. The TikToker was living in Birmingham and was going to London, where her husband was working, and took the toddler with her.
They both had a blast as they explored the city and indulged in holiday treats. The woman was pleased with how calm the child was without his mom and how well he slept, so they both were enjoying the holiday to the fullest.
Her neighbor would frequently ask her to look after her 2-year-old and this time, she asked if he could stay overnight
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The woman also made sure that the boy’s mom knew how well-behaved he was and what they’d been up to by sending cards as she didn’t have her neighbor’s phone number and cell phones weren’t a thing back then.
After a week, the holiday came to an end and the woman came back home to Birmingham. She was greeted by the neighbor who saw them pull into the driveway. The neighbor was happy to see her boy, but she couldn’t help but point out what a misunderstanding this was.
The woman agreed, as she liked the boy, but warned the mom that in the morning she had to leave for a trip
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When the neighbor said that it was fine that the young SeenAsYouAsked was going on the trip, what the mom meant was that she would take her son back home before she needed to leave. Good thing that the TikToker was thoughtful enough to send the postcards and inform the mom of what was happening, as she would have started to worry, despite trusting her neighbor.
The TikToker was mortified when she realized that she took someone’s kid and drove him to another city. Thankfully, the mom was not mad at all and was actually grateful for the restful week.
The mom said it was fine and the two women thought they were on the same page
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Many people in the comments didn’t expect such a happy ending and were prepared for the story to turn darker and for the police to be involved. But it must have been a different time and a lot of commenters agreed that in the current day, this wouldn’t have ended well.
Maybe one of the reasons could be because people don’t know their neighbors as well as they did in the past: “In 1974, 61% of Americans said they would spend a social evening with someone in their neighborhood at least once a month, while 39% said they would do so less than once a month or not at all. <…> In 2014, fewer than half (46%) said they spend social evenings with their neighbors at least monthly, compared with 54% who do not.”
Turns out, the story teller misunderstood her neighbor, who planned on picking up her son in the morning, and took him with her on her holiday
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It could be because in general, people trust each other less than before. Our World In Data reveals that “people trust each other less today than 40 years ago. This decline in interpersonal trust in the US has been coupled with a long-run reduction in public trust in government.”
Another reason could be that the parenting style has changed and parents pay more attention to their children’s well-being, practicing gentle parenting and emotional intellect. Berkeley Political Review actually sees this overprotectiveness in laws that are being made and points out that older generations are shaking their heads at it.
Thankfully, the story has a happy ending and the mom, who received postcards reassuring her that her kid was fine, took the opportunity to take a rest
Image credits: Jamie Smed (not the actual photo)
You can listen to the woman’s story in the video below
@seenasyouasked #funny #story #parenting #babysitterfails ♬ original sound – SeenAsYouAsked
Even if people thought that today this story would have ended otherwise, they were amused by it and the moms of TikTok actually joked around about wanting it to happen to them.
We would like to know if you would have interpreted the neighbor’s words as the TikToker did or if you understood what the neighbor meant from the start. Also, how would you react if your neighbor disappeared with your child? Let us know in the comments!
People in the comments found the story hilarious as the ending was so unexpected but didn’t think that it could be repeated in this day and age
So you took a toddler with you on vacation and did not have a contact number for the mother? I don’t care that this was pre cell phones. This story would be great fertilizer for my garden.
It also seems an odd misunderstanding to have being that the natural follow on question on finding out they were going on holiday starting Tuesday would be, “What time are you leaving?” If your intention is to pick up your child before they go, you need to know when they’re going. I’ve had some trips that necessitated me leaving before sunrise.
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Growing up in New Zealand 30-40 years ago, I can totally see something like this happening. People were a heck of a lot more trusting. I remember being about four or five and a casual friend of my mum started to read me a book when she was visiting one afternoon. Not having time to finish it, she asked if I wanted to go home with her for the weekend. I was one of four kids, two of them under the age of two, and in retrospect I think they may have been sick, or just vaccinated and grizzly, and that's why the friend started reading to me in the first place, because mum was busy. Whatever the reason, my mum cheerfully accepted her spur-of-the-moment offer, and I happily went to stay with a near stranger for the weekend; I recall having a lot of fun. Kids did just get passed off casually to family and friends or neighbours, with the parents trusting that the adults would take care of them, and eventually bring them back.
Yep. In the summertime, I would ask to spend the night at a friend's house across town, and would ride my bike to get there. I'd end up staying for two weeks. I was a shy, quiet kid, and half the time my friend's mother wouldn't even notice I was there, and my mother would forget that I was gone (until I didn't show up for dinner, LOL).
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uhm wouldn't she need toddler stuff like clothes, diapers etc for a trip?
Well, she said she bought nappies, so she probably bought clothes as well. The whole thing sounds off to me.
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So you took a toddler with you on vacation and did not have a contact number for the mother? I don’t care that this was pre cell phones. This story would be great fertilizer for my garden.
It also seems an odd misunderstanding to have being that the natural follow on question on finding out they were going on holiday starting Tuesday would be, “What time are you leaving?” If your intention is to pick up your child before they go, you need to know when they’re going. I’ve had some trips that necessitated me leaving before sunrise.
Load More Replies... Growing up in New Zealand 30-40 years ago, I can totally see something like this happening. People were a heck of a lot more trusting. I remember being about four or five and a casual friend of my mum started to read me a book when she was visiting one afternoon. Not having time to finish it, she asked if I wanted to go home with her for the weekend. I was one of four kids, two of them under the age of two, and in retrospect I think they may have been sick, or just vaccinated and grizzly, and that's why the friend started reading to me in the first place, because mum was busy. Whatever the reason, my mum cheerfully accepted her spur-of-the-moment offer, and I happily went to stay with a near stranger for the weekend; I recall having a lot of fun. Kids did just get passed off casually to family and friends or neighbours, with the parents trusting that the adults would take care of them, and eventually bring them back.
Yep. In the summertime, I would ask to spend the night at a friend's house across town, and would ride my bike to get there. I'd end up staying for two weeks. I was a shy, quiet kid, and half the time my friend's mother wouldn't even notice I was there, and my mother would forget that I was gone (until I didn't show up for dinner, LOL).
Load More Replies... uhm wouldn't she need toddler stuff like clothes, diapers etc for a trip?
Well, she said she bought nappies, so she probably bought clothes as well. The whole thing sounds off to me.
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