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Employee Gets Publicly Shamed For Being 6 Minutes Late, Teaches Boss A Lesson
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Punctuality is important at work—most of us know this. However, sometimes unforeseen circumstances happen, and we’re forced to be late against our best wishes. A supportive manager should understand this and be flexible, especially if it’s not a frequent occurrence.
However, not all bosses are like this. For example, this employee’s supervisor wrote him up for being 6 minutes late for something that was entirely out of the worker’s control. Granted, he was following the company’s policy, but the employee decided to start mischievously complying every time he saw he was going to be late.
Scroll down to find the full story and a conversation with Jeanniey Walden, business and marketing expert and CEO of Liftoff Enterprises, who kindly agreed to share her insights on tardiness.
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According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, an estimated 20% of workers are late to work on a regular basis, which costs businesses around $3 billion each year in America alone. The top three reasons why employees couldn’t make it on time were traffic, personal problems, and oversleeping—all totally understandable. Other common causes for tardiness include health issues, family-related problems, searching for a lost item, and home-related issues.
Interestingly enough, Gen Z is the most likely of all age groups to be late for work, while a whopping 70% of boomers said they have zero tolerance for any level of tardiness. Baby boomer bosses are also intolerant of being late, even when it’s just a minute, because they believe that if a person arrives after an agreed time, then it means they’re late.
In general, the youngest generation is quite laid-back when it comes to showing up at work, as they believe being 10 minutes late is still right on time. This might be because they tend to value their work-life balance more.
“Gen Z is more likely than other generations to value and prioritize work-life balance and mental health above workplace stresses—and that includes rushing around to be on time for a meeting,” Meeting Canary’s founder, Laura van Beers, told Fortune.
“Where working from home has blurred the lines in what good meeting etiquette is for the younger generations, older office workers still have a more established, traditional view,” she explains.
“If there are fair reasons for being late and it’s not impacting others, we can relax the expectations”
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If it’s not common, arriving a few minutes late appears to be harmless. “If there are fair reasons for being late and it’s not impacting others, we can relax the expectations… [but] it’s when we’re burdening someone else that causes the most concern,” Monster career expert Vicki Salemi told Fortune.
“The top excuses of being late to work are mainly the ones that people don’t have control over,” said WorkYard CEO and co-founder Nic De Bonis. “As an employer, you probably can’t tell anything when your employee is late to work because of a family issue or traffic.”
“Life happens,” agrees Jeanniey Walden, business and marketing expert and CEO of Liftoff Enterprises. “Traffic, toddlers, tech meltdowns, and more. They don’t RSVP. If you’re consistently rolling in ten minutes late with a latte but no remorse? That’s not cute. It’s disrespectful. But if you’re someone who shows up with energy, gets results, and occasionally has a “my children’s school line was long” moment? That’s human. And good leaders know the difference.”
That’s why Walden believes that different instances of lateness should be treated differently. “Six minutes late because your kid’s school drop-off line was a NASCAR pit stop? Not the same as rolling in three hours late with zero communication and a sunburn from “working remotely.” Policies should have structure and sense. Think: guideline, not guillotine. Treating every case equally when the context isn’t equal breeds resentment, not results. There’s a difference between being fair and being robotic. Be human. Be consistent. But also, be real,” she advises.
Walden suggests that brief, occasional tardiness should be handled with the AIR strategy:
- Authenticity: Ask. Don’t assume. “Hey, I noticed you’ve been coming in a little late. Everything okay?” can go a long way. In many cases, you can find a way to make a good employee a great one with an open dialogue.
- Inspiration: Remind them why they matter. Nobody wants to disappoint a team that values them.
- Relatability: Set expectations clearly. One-time thing? Cool. Pattern forming? Address it with clarity and consequences, not guilt trips.
Walden says that overly rigid workplace tardiness policies are a recipe for disaster. “It breeds anxiety, resentment, and poor customer service at work. Overly strict policies say, “We care more about your minutes than your magic.” That breeds fear. Fear breeds disengagement. Disengagement kills momentum. You want a team that brings their best, not one that’s terrified of a time clock. Flexibility within bounds fuels performance. Trust your people and they’ll give you more than minutes, they’ll give you mastery.”
That said, extreme and frequent tardiness is unacceptable
That said, extreme and frequent tardiness is unacceptable, as it can show that the employee doesn’t take their job seriously enough and can cost businesses a pretty penny. “It may not seem like a critical issue when employees run slightly late but over time it all adds up and can have serious repercussions for the business, the employee and other team members left to cover for their colleagues,” said Ashik Ahmed, Deputy’s co-founder and CEO.
But even if an employee is chronically late, their manager shouldn’t start addressing the issue by imposing consequences. First, they have to talk with the worker and figure out the reason why they’re late. Perhaps they have some personal issues going on behind the scenes, and they need a different kind of support than they’re getting.
If the cause for being late is poor time management, it’s reason enough to issue a warning and impose consequences specified in the company policy in case they continue with tardiness.
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Petra Peitsch 5 months ago
I'm sure, this post is from USA. Why? Because mentioning write ups. Are you freaking still in high-school, or what? I am in the workfield for like 25 years, in different european countires. Some Eastern-, some Western-Europe ones. To be fair, the word "write up" didn't hear since primary school, not to mention high-school or university. It's insane, how that system is dealing with their people, managing them like toddlers.
Bob Brooce 5 months ago
Being written up is simply a matter of documenting things. What matters is when and why you're written up, and whether or not there are immediate consequences. Writing an employee up for being 10 or 15 minutes late on rare occasions is stupid, but I suspect that behind the scenes, where this guy doesn't see what's really happening, there's some evaluation that makes a big difference between being 10 minutes late and 2 or 3 hours late.
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Mark Childers 5 months ago
Unless there's a chronic issue with an employee, emergencies shouldn't count as "late" to warrant a write up. No one can predict traffic, the weather, and car trouble on top of the family issues like sick kid, burst pipe, school function, and an infinite number of emergencies. Unless the employee is an overall slacker, managers need to let this kind of thing go. It really brings down morale. Adults don't want to be treated like children.
Bob Brooce 5 months ago
This. Shit happens, and in most jobs 8 hours is 8 hours, whether it's 9 to 5 or 9:15 to 5:15. Treating employees who occasionally have trouble the same as habitual offenders is great way to encourage good employees to find new jobs.
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Apatheist Account2 5 months ago
As long as the work gets done, it rarely matters when it gets done. If you're customer facing it might be different, but to ignore the possibility of transport problems is just stupid management.
Lazy Panda 2 5 months ago
Is my team doing the work they need to do? Yes. Is anyone taking the mick and working silly short hours compared to the rest of the team? No. Then I'm generally unfussed what time they start and stop. The problem is if one person doesn't play fair. Then I have to clamp down. But that's normally when their co-workers tell them directly what they think. My problem is balancing work loads so they don't think I'm being unfair. Ain't easy, but that's my job.
Rick Murray 5 months ago
Because people were abusing it, the place I currently work no longer permits shift modification for appointments. I needed to have a 15 minute emergency dental appointment at noon, but extending my lunch break to go do that was not permitted, I had to take the entire day off. Now the (infrequent) times I need to do stuff, I make the appointment at a time that suits me and simply put in for a day off because I work 9-5 and I know they won't allow me to shift an hour either way or just work an hour less. Yes, I lose pay for that day, but whatever, their lack of flexibility for somebody that rarely calls in sick (and certainly never coinciding with important football fixtures), has been late *twice* in 16 years, and often shifts hours to suit what's going on for them...means they don't get me for an entire day (and I can pick an afternoon appointment and have a lie in 😉).
Rick Murray 5 months ago
At a previous place of work (shift work), being late went in fifteen minute increments (but leaving went in single minute increments), and you didn't get to work extra at the end to make up time. That attitude led to: 1, people standing by the clocking in machine and doing nothing until the exact start time; 2, people that were a few minutes late would sit around waiting for the quarter hour; 3, because the clocking in machine was lame and slow it was not possible to clock in forty people within a minute, so those when the clock rolled over to one minute past just walked off for 15 minutes; and 4, people stopped working and left at the assigned time their shift ended whether or not the line manager said they could leave. Management thought that there were an ever present stream of replacement employees, despite the staffing shortages *and* the difficulty of training new hires. So they would call meetings and moan about productivity but the time clocking thing was never recanted.
Rick Murray 5 months ago
It was all quite petty, but then so was management. I left, so I don't know what side won or if they're still doing this nonsense all these years later. Knowing that place, my money would be on "still doing it".
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Scott Rackley 5 months ago
Place I used to work for was cool until it was bought out by a Fortune 500. Before, 15 minutes late? Work 15 minutes over, don't make it a habit. After? 30 seconds late is a "point", also calling out a whole day is a "point", written in stone. I saw from my window several times people pull into the parking lot, run to the front door, look at their watch, and go back home. That lasted for about 3 months. Then they started with late up to half a day, half a point. Lots of people showing up at lunchtime. That lasted about another 6 months. Then they went to manager discretion. I left a few years later because Big Corp starting messing with benefits and 401k match.
Petra Peitsch 5 months ago
I'm sure, this post is from USA. Why? Because mentioning write ups. Are you freaking still in high-school, or what? I am in the workfield for like 25 years, in different european countires. Some Eastern-, some Western-Europe ones. To be fair, the word "write up" didn't hear since primary school, not to mention high-school or university. It's insane, how that system is dealing with their people, managing them like toddlers.
Bob Brooce 5 months ago
Being written up is simply a matter of documenting things. What matters is when and why you're written up, and whether or not there are immediate consequences. Writing an employee up for being 10 or 15 minutes late on rare occasions is stupid, but I suspect that behind the scenes, where this guy doesn't see what's really happening, there's some evaluation that makes a big difference between being 10 minutes late and 2 or 3 hours late.
Load More Replies... Mark Childers 5 months ago
Unless there's a chronic issue with an employee, emergencies shouldn't count as "late" to warrant a write up. No one can predict traffic, the weather, and car trouble on top of the family issues like sick kid, burst pipe, school function, and an infinite number of emergencies. Unless the employee is an overall slacker, managers need to let this kind of thing go. It really brings down morale. Adults don't want to be treated like children.
Bob Brooce 5 months ago
This. Shit happens, and in most jobs 8 hours is 8 hours, whether it's 9 to 5 or 9:15 to 5:15. Treating employees who occasionally have trouble the same as habitual offenders is great way to encourage good employees to find new jobs.
Load More Replies... Apatheist Account2 5 months ago
As long as the work gets done, it rarely matters when it gets done. If you're customer facing it might be different, but to ignore the possibility of transport problems is just stupid management.
Lazy Panda 2 5 months ago
Is my team doing the work they need to do? Yes. Is anyone taking the mick and working silly short hours compared to the rest of the team? No. Then I'm generally unfussed what time they start and stop. The problem is if one person doesn't play fair. Then I have to clamp down. But that's normally when their co-workers tell them directly what they think. My problem is balancing work loads so they don't think I'm being unfair. Ain't easy, but that's my job.
Rick Murray 5 months ago
Because people were abusing it, the place I currently work no longer permits shift modification for appointments. I needed to have a 15 minute emergency dental appointment at noon, but extending my lunch break to go do that was not permitted, I had to take the entire day off. Now the (infrequent) times I need to do stuff, I make the appointment at a time that suits me and simply put in for a day off because I work 9-5 and I know they won't allow me to shift an hour either way or just work an hour less. Yes, I lose pay for that day, but whatever, their lack of flexibility for somebody that rarely calls in sick (and certainly never coinciding with important football fixtures), has been late *twice* in 16 years, and often shifts hours to suit what's going on for them...means they don't get me for an entire day (and I can pick an afternoon appointment and have a lie in 😉).
Rick Murray 5 months ago
At a previous place of work (shift work), being late went in fifteen minute increments (but leaving went in single minute increments), and you didn't get to work extra at the end to make up time. That attitude led to: 1, people standing by the clocking in machine and doing nothing until the exact start time; 2, people that were a few minutes late would sit around waiting for the quarter hour; 3, because the clocking in machine was lame and slow it was not possible to clock in forty people within a minute, so those when the clock rolled over to one minute past just walked off for 15 minutes; and 4, people stopped working and left at the assigned time their shift ended whether or not the line manager said they could leave. Management thought that there were an ever present stream of replacement employees, despite the staffing shortages *and* the difficulty of training new hires. So they would call meetings and moan about productivity but the time clocking thing was never recanted.
Rick Murray 5 months ago
It was all quite petty, but then so was management. I left, so I don't know what side won or if they're still doing this nonsense all these years later. Knowing that place, my money would be on "still doing it".
Load More Replies... Scott Rackley 5 months ago
Place I used to work for was cool until it was bought out by a Fortune 500. Before, 15 minutes late? Work 15 minutes over, don't make it a habit. After? 30 seconds late is a "point", also calling out a whole day is a "point", written in stone. I saw from my window several times people pull into the parking lot, run to the front door, look at their watch, and go back home. That lasted for about 3 months. Then they started with late up to half a day, half a point. Lots of people showing up at lunchtime. That lasted about another 6 months. Then they went to manager discretion. I left a few years later because Big Corp starting messing with benefits and 401k match.
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