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While it's easy to think that gender bias against girls and women exists only in classrooms and workplaces ("After all, it's the 21st century!"), in reality, you don't need institutions to find examples of the discrimination they face. It's way more widespread.

Recently, writer, politico, and mom Krista Pacion from Arizona, USA, tweeted about an experience she had with a repairman who started ignoring her the second her husband walked into the room, and it inspired other women to share all the similar situations they've had the displeasure of being in themselves.

The discussion under Pacion's tweet eventually evolved into a thread that serves as the perfect reminder to be the change you want to see. We can all do better, people.

We managed to get in touch with Pacion, and the writer said she's very happy about the way her tweet was received.

"I tweeted about an ordinary encounter that resonates with women because it is such a relatable situation, and the comments read like a live action women's studies class, with women sharing specific examples of their own encounters across a wide range of fields," Pacion told Bored Panda

"The follow-up comments range from those of support that build women up to criticism from people who simply don't see or understand the issue. My biggest takeaway is that women want their stories to be heard, and there is a great opportunity to elevate these powerful and real-world stories through other mediums, like an article, a book, or a podcast."

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Pacion believes the large number of replies to her original tweet indicates that gender bias is pervasive. "I think the most blatant forms of gender bias I currently see are with my girls (ages 9 and 13) and what they experience at school, from learning 'pink is a girl color and blue is a boy color' to being admonished to 'sit like a lady' to being told girls can't be spies, not even as a Halloween costume."

"There are far more qualified people who can talk about the areas in which women suffer the most sexism, but an area I see it in a lot is in politics, where coverage for women candidates is often more about what they wear and how they look as opposed to their positions," the writer added.

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appliances? that's weird, usually chauvinists assume the woman is interested in appliances.

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Interestingly, there's a way we can calculate just how different societies treat men and women. Since 2006, the Global Gender Gap Index has been measuring the extent of gender-based gaps among four key dimensions: economic participation and opportunity, educational attainment, health and survival, and political empowerment. Tracking the progress towards closing these gaps over time, it reports benchmarks and provides country rankings that allow for effective comparisons across and within regional peers. According to its 2020 data, there is still a 31.4% gender gap that remains to be closed globally.

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Across the four characteristics, on average, the largest gender disparity lies within political empowerment. Despite being the most improved dimension that year, the gap on this subindex has only been closed by 25%, meaning there are still not enough women occupying seats in government across the world.

However, it's important to note that the political empowerment subindex fails to measure the legal rights of women and girls in comparison to those of men, which plays a significant role in determining the extent to which a society is equal.

"Although progress [has been] made in advancing women’s rights, it has been slow and inconsistent, and many sex-discriminatory laws remain entrenched,” Romina Canessa, a human rights lawyer at Equality Now, told Global Citizen. “When governments deny women and girls the same rights as men and boys, this legitimizes discrimination and abuse, and means they have no formal recourse if their rights are violated.”

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The economic and labor market gender gap has been closed by 58%. This is due to the fact that, on average, only 55% of women are participating in the global workforce, and their presence in higher-yielding positions is even lower.

Plus, this disparity is exacerbated by the global wage gap, which affects women across all industries and backgrounds, and has remained relatively stagnant throughout the last five years or so. These components highlight the challenges women face to escape poverty and become financially and economically independent.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes mechanics will mess something that is perfectly fine up and say that it needs replacing. They do this ESPECIALLY to women or someone who looks like they don't know about cars and hope they don't realize that the part is actually perfectly fine.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard from a moving company guy that was loading my furniture that a pretty girl shouldn't be living alone, creepy and scary...

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At least 35 of the 153 surveyed countries have closed the education gender gap by 96.1%. However, this number varies across education levels.

Globally, girls are less likely to receive an education due to gender-based discrimination, child marriage, and the burden of fulfilling domestic chores, all of which prevent young girls and teens from attending school.

While more young girls and women are attending primary and secondary school, less than half are going on to attend college.

Although the global gender gap for health care and survival has been closed by 95.7%, millions of women worldwide still do not have equal access to health care, especially reproductive health care.

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Jennifer Weiss-Wolf, vice-president for development at the Brennan Center for Justice, thinks that period poverty and menstrual stigma play significant roles in holding society back from achieving gender equality, noting that these barriers can also hold them back from participating in politics, the workforce, and education.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They let someone without a y chromosome work as a car salesman? So enlightened of them. We all know it's all about the y chromosome.

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whoever that professor was, needs to be fired. That's not acceptable or even remotely understandable from a prof.

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“If menstruation inhibits anybody from any one of those things, it inhibits them from all four, which places it squarely in the heart of what it means to achieve full gender equality,” Weiss-Wolf explained. “If we don’t have policies in place to ensure a safe and open, and accurate discussion around menstruation, treatment of menstruation, in all of these ways, we are leaving off the table a considerable component.”

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In order to achieve gender equality and make all of these pictures a thing of the past, countries across the globe must increase the number of women in government, ensure education is accessible to all women and girls, create free or affordable child care so that more women can participate in the labor market, and provide access to safe reproductive health care.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had that with a gardener. I always did the gardening in the house, it was my project. Once i became too ill to work i decided to hire a person once or twice a year to give a good trim. Our neighbor was a gardener so i asked him if i could hire his services. He barely listened to my requests and insisted in asking permision of my partner, even after I explained him that my partner did not care, that the garden was mine and i was going to pay him with my money. I didnt fire him in the spot because i didnt want trouble with a neighbor but I should have. He ignored all what i said and did a p**s poor job. Obviously i never called him again. What an a*****e.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

same happens with me and drinks. They always give me the beer and my wife the cocktail and I have to pointedly swap them around with a grunt.

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Across 34 countries surveyed by Pew Research Center, a median of 94% think it is important for women in their country to have the same rights as men, with 74% saying this is very important.

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Men, however, tend to be more optimistic than women about prospects for gender equality, with differences of at least 10 percentage points in 10 countries and smaller but significant differences in 11 others. For example, 77% of men in Japan – compared with 58% of women – say it’s likely that women in their country will eventually attain or already have the same rights as men. Nigeria and the Philippines are the only countries surveyed where a larger share of women than men are optimistic about gender equality.

Krista Pacion thinks that it's not enough to simply want a better future for women. We have to work for it too.

"One of my daughters wants to be president of the United States and my other daughter wants to be an astronaut. It's my job to pave the way for them and other girls and women to achieve their goals," she said. "Whether that's by making a joke about a personal experience on Twitter or by teaching them that colors are colors, I'm operating from a position where I know my personal actions impact their future, and there is always room for improvement."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Obvious the kid didn't know the difference between truck weight and carry capacity.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It bothers me that they enforce consensual sex, where both people have to want the sex, but if having a baby isn't consensual, only the man's opinion matters. My body, my choice.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have (not so) kindly said, "I'M the one who's here now, not him. GTFO of my house."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

err, 1600 sqft is 148sqm or 12x12m, that's not THAT big... definitely suitable for one person.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

did you at least nuke him from high orbit and tell him you're not a child?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On this one you need to just light a nuclear fire under them. Just say "Actually this is my equipment and area of work so you are taking orders from me. IF you don't like it GTFO and I will ask them to find a woman-only repair team who are not a bunch of sexist c***s."

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

should have lifted it on your shoulders and turned around 180 degrees and 'accidently' knocked them unconcious if you know what i mean 😉 Edit: Spelling and thanks for the Upvotes!!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. My name in italian is man's name.... I'm not living in Italy, but sometimes, when I'm applying for jobs, I get a response with "Herr". Funny, because my name in german is woman's name. It has to be the job: different chef positions... (and no, no salads or sweets :D)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Similar happened to me. Went with a friend who was looking to buy a truck. She knew exactly what she wanted. I was literally just along for the ride. Salesman kept talking to me. I finally just said they were taking to the wrong person and anyways, I only liked pretty red ones which they didn't have so they lost a real and an imaginary sale and we went to another dealership.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The neighbor is the “farm animal” that’s making the noise here, clearly.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seen it happen to a friend who is a guy but I suppose wasn't 'dressed right" and was ignored. Sometimes the gals or guys in jeans and plaid shirts are making well into the six figures and the people in flashy suits don't have two dimes to rub together.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It always amazes me when salespeople and business turn down commissions because of stupid s**t like this. Yo a*****e, that’s your paycheck you’re dicking around with, ya f*****g moron.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

why are so many of these posts about care sales? is it coiiiiincidence? (to be sung to the tune of the rainbow connection, but im actually wondering.)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So even if you weren't together he would just ignore someone in line before you? Some people...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was active duty and married to a civilian, we went to get our taxes done. They put his name first. I asked why (I made twice as much, I had a stable work history, and he went thru a job a year.) The tax preparer looked at me blankly for a second and said "Because those are the rules." Yeah, no such rules exist.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sad truth is he still missing that have gotten a better rate.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I (female) used to work on gas drill sites where it was mandatory to wear protective gear. The standard issue steel toe boots were so wide that once when I was climbing stairs one got stuck and it slid off my foot. This was reported as a security incident. They had to buy a pair of shoes special for me after that :-D.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad didn't teach me a lot of traditionally guy things, but he did teach me how to change a tire. Several years later, I had a flat. Pulled into the grocery parking lot to change it. Man and son (son went to the daycare where I worked) saw and recognized me. They came over, and the father offered to help. By that time, all I needed was to put on and tighten the lug nuts. I said as much. The man asked his son if he thought mommy could change a tire if she needed to. I think someone was offered tire-changing lessons that evening.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Credit cards, bank accounts, mortgages, anything having to do with finance. Even if they earned more than their husbands. Even if their husbands were gamblers or spendthrifts and money went through their fingers like water. F*****g ridiculous enforced dependency.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, 11 contractors missed out on a big job. Hope they struggled to pay their bills be abuse of their misogyny.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again, I still cannot understand a business blowing off good money for something as stupid as sexism. My money is just as good as a man’s.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have tried that with a washingmashine.... He actually believed i didn't know how to do laundry! And didn't wan't to talk to me. I found the problem. The mashine couldn't handle powder-soap.. problem solwed. I used fluid soap.... Idiot!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you. Kirby’s are good vacuums, but no one wants to buy from a condescending salesman who will insult them at every turn.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You should have called another realtor while the first one was still there to hear you make the call :P

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wtaf? YOUR HUSBAND'S PERMISSION? Hello this is not f*****g saudi arabia you idiot.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel this. My dad talked me out of becoming a mechanic when I was a kid (80s) and my college prof talked me out of becoming a geologist (90s). Both of them meant well (and my dad wasn’t a sexist jerk), but both used “there are no female mechanics/geologists” as one of the reasons. My dad didn’t want me to get bullied by male colleagues/mistrusted by male customers. I regret letting them talk me out of my dream jobs. I STILL wish I’d become a mechanic or a geologist.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Makes perfect sense to split responsibilities based on strengths, and share the other stuff you’re both vested in (home decor decisions are something you both have to live with, so are both vested in, and realistically should share those choices).

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you! Bet she chewed him several new assholes after you left.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If we give female salespeople all our business, it might make a dent in the pay gap! PLUS, we’ll be treated with respect. Win-Win!

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hope you fired that doctor and found one who listened to you. So many people don’t realize their doctor is working FOR them, so can be FIRED when they don’t do the job we PAY them to do.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually had this happen at the University that my husband and I went to. While he was overseas, anything that required his signature came to me instead of the international office where it was supposed to go. When I confronted them on how I was supposed to get his signature and why I should bear the cost, they pulled up MY financial records to tell me of the money I got, surely I could afford to have the papers faxed/express mailed to them. After speaking to the VP of Fin Aid (who I knew on a first name basis,) the manager of the Fin Aid department was told never to contact me again with requests for my husband and that she was to deal exclusively with the rep at the international office. Guess what she did went against Fin Aid policy.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had one guy try to walk me through the steps of getting my modem back online. I told him I'd already done them. He said he wanted to be sure. I said "Look...my husband spent nearly 10 years in computer repair. He already had me run through the gauntlet. I wouldn't be calling you otherwise." He said in a smart a** tone "Then why isn't he on the phone?" I said "Because he has no patience for condescending idiots." I immediately asked for his supervisor.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dad never drove. Knew nothing about cars. Reading these post, i can just imagine the c**p she went through buying a car. The one she loved and brought home ( he wouldn't even go with her ) , she sadly had to return. He was 6 foot 6 inches and his head hit the roof inside.

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