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Dating and relationships are difficult even on a good day. And good days are pretty rare. Unfortunately, that is the reality everyone lives in when navigating the romantic world. Especially women. But at least they have a place to vent.

The subreddit r/FemaleDatingStrategy has 175K members (or as it calls them, queens), constantly discussing their love lives, and that includes all the nonsense that arises too. Continue scrolling and check out what they have to say.

#1

Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

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BlackestDawn
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Took me a sec to realize it, but good going. You have to consider yourself first.

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To help you get a better understanding of these posts, Bored Panda got in touch with dating coach, 2 million view TED speaker, and media personality Hayley Quinn. She believes that "dating is different for men and women. However, you'd be wrong to think that one gender has it easy."

"Instead men and women often face equal and opposite problems to one another," Quinn said. "Guys might struggle to think of how to approach a woman, and women (who traditionally and maybe wrongly) have been told they can't make the first move and so panic over where they can find all the guys that want to approach them."

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    #2

    Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

    Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

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    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood this...if you lose control over what a woman wears then you need some serious help. The problem definitely isn't the clothes.

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    In the world of online dating, Quinn also sees noticeable disparities. "Guys may feel like they're having to move heaven and earth to get one lousy response from a woman, whilst women can feel overwhelmed and harassed by unsuitable suitors," she explained. "Men could usually learn from women that they need to have higher standards for the women they interact with, and women could take a leaf out of men's dating and learn how they too can be proactive."

    #4

    Some Men Need To Learn This

    Some Men Need To Learn This

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    BingeFest1
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes for everybody. Treat others the way you want to be treated

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    In 2020, the Pew Research Center surveyed Americans to find out more about their love life. While single-and-looking men and women reported equal levels of dissatisfaction with their dating lives and the ease of finding people to date, women were more likely to say they have had some particularly negative experiences.

    Most women who were single and looking to date (65%) said they have experienced at least one of six harassing behaviors asked about in the survey from someone they were dating or had been on a date with, such as being touched in a way that made them uncomfortable or rumors being spread about their sexual history.

    #6

    Oops

    Oops

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    Nadine Bamberger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you made an effort and treated her well and when you just stopped.

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    #7

    Stop Normalizing Men’s Immaturity

    Stop Normalizing Men’s Immaturity

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    "Though men might think women have guys queuing up to date them (which sounds great right?) in reality women face plenty of dating challenges," Quinn said. "They may feel emotionally drained by dating, as they push through dates where they don't feel a connection. If they're seeking a relationship they may struggle to tell which guy's going to be in for the long haul, and who will disappear at the first inkling of commitment. They may even not know how to get offline and actually meet men in real life; and get stuck in the belief that all the 'good men' have run out, and it's impossible to meet someone."

    The dating coach added that women also face significantly more judgement around things like their age, which can be a challenge on dating apps; and more scrutiny for expressing their sexuality. "So don't think that just because she's got a queue of potential suitors that she's not having a hard time dating."

    We all can be douches to one another. Let's not.

    #8

    That Really Puts It In Perspective

    That Really Puts It In Perspective

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    Nadine Bamberger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it's always on us, don't dress that way, don't walk there, don't provoke. When it happens we didn't fight enough, fought too hard, didn't say no, didn't mean it when we said it. If we report it we get blamed, re traumatized by questions and rape kits that are then left untouched, called liars.

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    #9

    Lol

    Lol

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    I am avoiding my homework
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree entirely and this is one of the reasons I hate Disney movies

    Isabella
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cinderella story is much older than Disney.

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    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, but it was mutual affection in the story - and she was dressed up to not be recognized by her stepmother and- sisters as well.

    Monday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor chap only met her once, maybe he's just bad with faces.

    Miss Cris
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And still he felt in love forever and wanted to marry her?

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    Julie C Rose
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was that or abuse. Women didn’t have a whole lot of options back then.

    Scagsy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. Cinderella was being oppressed by her stepsisters.

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    Hermione Granger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kinda off topic but… Snow White was 14. The prince was 20 or 30 something, and kissed her without her consent. Gross.

    WildBerry
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forget that part of it even.... she lived with a bunch of little men and was their maid. How stupid is that?

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    Loretta
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His father and his chancellor are looking for the girl based on one shoe. How do we know the prince didn't plan on searching for her on his own? And the prince wasn't even the one who put the shoe on her foot.

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a book, but can't remember what it's called, that takes place AFTER Cinderella gets together with the prince. He's boring & vapid. The rest is quite an adventure.

    Xottel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty sure that masquerade balls were a common pastime back then.

    JuJu
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aschenputtel (Cinderella) should have left her "family" and cleaned someone else's house for room and board (and some money).

    Milan
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, please start shaming a f*cking cartoons. Wtf is wrong with people nowadays. Everybody wants to be soooo correct…

    Hermione Granger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, we need to shame the f*****g cartoons because some of them are f*****g messed up. Read my above comments about Snow White and sleeping beauty.

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    Claire Giles
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, the Prince is not the one sent out to have the slipper tried on. In the updated live version he does go out and knows its her from her singing. It's Prince Charming in Into the Woods that is the one in the wrong, he's the one that's all 'I was raised to be charming not faithful'

    ChinmayGhule
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't that just show the power of makeup?

    ~hUmMuS vIbEs~
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always hoped the mice and birds went to live with her in the castle...

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cinderella had animal friends? I thought that was Snow White.

    Lorraine R
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Di$ney "Princesses" all have animal friends.

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    Valley Girl
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only "the one" could fit a shoe

    Robert Jähnigen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe Consumer wearing less makeup. 😂

    Pamela Blue
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had to laugh at this one. Let's face it. Some women put on SO.MUCH.MAKEUP that recognizing her without it could actually be a problem. Besides, if you're talking Cinderella, he sent his henchmen from house to house. He couldn't be bothered to do it himself.

    Tommy Edison
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lol @ pathetic people who take disney movies that seriously.. you people need f****n help

    skint boy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends on the amount of make up she wore.

    Julius
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ITS A F*****G FAIRY TALE.

    Jessica B
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair I don't generally recognize people without their heavy makeup easily either. Also, he sent out his henchmen to look. Because he's a prince and couldn't look for himself? Different issue.

    Keyy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lool i never thought of it this way

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nitpicking fairytales about comeuppance doesn't make you look smart. quite the contrary

    Canada
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    4 years ago

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    Robert Robi Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess the prince has a fetish for feet

    Ashley_Queen688
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should have just stood up to her step sisters and step mother

    Hermione Granger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You’re right, although I think it was either them or living on the street. But she could have gone and worked as an actual maid, so she could pay for board until she could get her own house.

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    Erwin doe
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a fairytale ffs. Stop taking everything so serious

    ChrisZAUR
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean in all fairness have you seen the amount of makeup some women put on I swear you need a trowel to apply that amount of concealer

    Helen Horning
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He didn't "try on a shoe." It was a servant doing that job and he had never seen her

    Gerry Higgins
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she had too much make-up? It's a JOKE ! Don't hate me !

    Leigh C.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He saw her once and didn't know where she lived or her name ffs. Wouldn't have mattered since the evil stepmom locked her in her room.

    Debbie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read the story to my son the other day. When I replaced things like "sweet" and "beautiful" by "smart" "intelligent" "funny" "caring". (as empathic is not a word he relates to yet). After the story was done I sad: actually this was a stupid story. They don't know eachother. They danced all night and he still doesn't know here name, where she lives or what she does for a living. And her - she gets a pretty dress and suddenly is envied by all. It's only about her looks and her being sweet. They should get to know eachother better first.

    Icecream
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did Cinderella just settled with prince charming?

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she only got with him because he was rich

    Legen ( wait for it ) dary
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited)

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    To be fair, I saw some before and after and not even I would recognized the person, not even if was my mother. Seriously blow my mind. A friend dated and moved on with a guy. Took 1 year, for him to see her without make-up. It took me as a friend 5 years.

    Jason Boling
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    4 years ago (edited)

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    Well to be fair the other side of that coin is she was looking to gold digger her way into wealth.

    Benjamin Thor Collier V
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    4 years ago

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    Fun fact: In the original story, Cinderella had to CUT OFF HER TOES for the slipper to fit.

    Bronwyn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not quite... one of the step sisters cut off her toes, the other her heels. When the blood was noticed the gig was up. Then Cinderella's foot fit perfectly, without any maiming.

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    Dillon Hughes
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    4 years ago

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    You hate an honest problem with women? Women nowadays look totally different with all that crap on them.

    TheWickedOne
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    4 years ago

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    Stop wearing 30 lbs of make-up

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    #11

    100% True For Me

    100% True For Me

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    Legen ( wait for it ) dary
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel a drop off interest on men (thanks a lot) when I say my husband is a police officer or a jujitsu master.

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    #12

    A Queen Grandmama

    A Queen Grandmama

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    #13

    Cracks Me Up Every Time

    Cracks Me Up Every Time

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    #14

    They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

    They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

    TheOGJammies , blackwomensday Report

    #15

    Speaks For Itself

    Speaks For Itself

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    Ana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm still thinking about the time women had to use hat pins to defend themselves from handsy men. They were covered in fabric from head to tow. It's never about the way you dress, it's about being decent.

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    #16

    Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

    Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

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    Nandina
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sure wish I was that savy when I was that age

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    #17

    Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

    Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

    OhDionne , OhDionne Report

    Rachel Peterson
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always support the allies, reminding them how much I value them.

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    #18

    How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

    How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

    anonymous , AmySilverberg Report

    K Witmer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom was convinced she was just a miserable person. She eloped w my dad when she was 15 he was 19. She was 25 when she got divorced she then realized she was a very outgoing extrovert that loved to smile and be herself

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    #20

    Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

    Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

    Big-Paleontologist13 Report

    Eppe
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This lizzard lifts us all to a higher level

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    #21

    I Got You, Babe

    I Got You, Babe

    Myplummms , ASAPBEAZ Report

    #22

    Nothing But Truth

    Nothing But Truth

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    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that's based more on perception- a lot of the average everyday men not only shame but will speak heavily against rapists.

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    #24

    Being Decent Isn’t Difficult

    Being Decent Isn’t Difficult

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    #25

    Geee I Wonder Why

    Geee I Wonder Why

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    #26

    This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

    This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

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    #27

    Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

    Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

    _xyoungbellax_ , iamaroadtrip Report

    #28

    Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

    Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

    Lucifers_Treasurer Report

    Ana Ferreira
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, the way they treat women that are not attracted to them.

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    #29

    The Message

    The Message

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    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Choose to empower your kids by considering them now and in the future. Spot on

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    #30

    Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

    Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

    sassyheather Report

    ZooMom
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband stayed with our kids as infants while I worked. Everyone went on and on about how amazing he was (and he was) but then we switched roles this past year and I hear how “lucky I am to GET to stay home” and how bad they feel he works long hours. B****! I pumped breast milk on the floor of a unisex bathroom while still taking phone calls.

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    #31

    Why Are Males?

    Why Are Males?

    MarbleWorld , EazyBreezyJay Report

    Caro Caro
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would call him out, get management and then call the cops! Effing dirty slob.

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    #32

    Leave Him In The Dust

    Leave Him In The Dust

    cinderella_rising , efowlz Report

    El muerto
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    some time it bothers me, some women think they don't have a choice because they are in love.

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    #33

    This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

    This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

    elementalvirago , sarahradz_ Report

    #34

    Keep Your Friends Safe!

    Keep Your Friends Safe!

    reddit.com , AthenaBozios Report

    Marny
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's appalling that this is something they actually need.

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    #35

    Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

    Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

    reddit.com Report

    Legen ( wait for it ) dary
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please tell me he is a virgin too. Ask for what you can also offer.

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    #36

    Thoughts?

    Thoughts?

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    BingeFest1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I ever actually find somebody I'd want to marry I would never propose with anybody around. I would want to eliminate any peer pressure and create an intimate environment

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    #37

    Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

    Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

    reddit.com Report

    Xottel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not about locating the witness. It's about scaring the bad guy by becoming a potential witness. Some women even resort to making fake calls on their way home. I'd say it stops at least some horrible people so that's an improvement.

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    #38

    Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

    Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

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    Ana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still think Anne of Cleves got the best deal. She didn't have to remain married to Henry VIII and even got a sweet castle and money to boot and she never ever had to get married again.

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    #39

    Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

    Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

    therebellioustiger Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like the guy who yells "hey pretty lady" and approaches a woman they don't know, and when she "walks fast" to get away or tells him to stop, she has a "bad attitude"

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    #40

    Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

    Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

    Shefthegooddog , iamsedem_ Report

    #41

    Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

    Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

    Journalist_Full , BridgieCasey Report

    fire bug
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummmm... my wife and I support our family. I work long hours. My wife takes care of 90% of the household stuff. I clean the kitchen every night and get home by dinner time every night to have family time with her and our kids. I don't support her and she doesn't support me. We support each other.

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    #42

    Say It Louder For These Predatory Men!

    Say It Louder For These Predatory Men!

    Booty_Hair , creep4yrbonez Report

    #43

    Tea

    Tea

    Descendant_of_Innana , skatingstoned Report

    QueenMiri
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women who could tell stories about crazy ex boyfriends rarely make it out alive. That's why you only hear about crazy ex girlfriends.

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    #44

    Seriously

    Seriously

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    Guido Pisano
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    helping your wife means that most of the job is on her shoulder. I prefer say that I do my part...

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    #45

    Reminder

    Reminder

    tahliaw , brownandbella Report

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a misanthrope- I actually enjoy to not have to deal with somebody on a daily basis. I must be a quite rare man according to this article

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    #46

    We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

    We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

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    Zephyr Anthem
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True if you date a self centered douche who doesn't care about your pleasure...

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    #47

    Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

    Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

    Twohagsover30 Report

    Valisbourne Spiritforge
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know about any 'bro code'. But any friend of mine cheating on his SO (also probably a friend of mine by association) and expecting me to keep it a secret isn't really my friend.

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    #48

    Never Settle For Less Than You Deserve

    Never Settle For Less Than You Deserve

    PrettyMochaDoll , DManuel70 Report

    #49

    It Never Ends

    It Never Ends

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    #50

    *internal Screaming, Forever*

    *internal Screaming, Forever*

    anonymous , NikkiCallowayy Report

    BingeFest1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She caught a whiff of the open-ass hot raw tuna special

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    #51

    Be That Kind Of Direct, Lol!

    Be That Kind Of Direct, Lol!

    o-no9 Report

    Kari Panda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, careful with that. There are enough wannabe sugar daddies out there who‘d gladly take you up on that.

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    #52

    Wow

    Wow

    PBJellyNutella , tall-tiny-and-broody Report

    alwaysMispelled
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do I have trust issues? Being cheated on repeatedly, repeated gaslighting, and emotional manipulation. Oh, and the flat out lying.

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    #54

    Imagine: It’s Your Life

    Imagine: It’s Your Life

    mycatpukesglitter Report

    Ellie J
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eslamala every time I see a comment from you my eyes already roll before I read whatever idiot comment you write :)

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    #55

    100% Accurate. Never Let It Slide

    100% Accurate. Never Let It Slide

    Balkanka Report

    #56

    Women Are 6x More Likely To End Up Divorced If They Are Diagnosed With Cancer Or Ms, Than If Their Male Partners Were Facing The Same Illness

    Women Are 6x More Likely To End Up Divorced If They Are Diagnosed With Cancer Or Ms, Than If Their Male Partners Were Facing The Same Illness

    khaleesiqwn Report

    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this in the US? I work in oncology, and we don't have this phenomenon here in Denmark. That's so depressing.

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    #57

    Please Share Stories Of Some Weirdly Specific Rules You Set After *that* One Guy

    Please Share Stories Of Some Weirdly Specific Rules You Set After *that* One Guy

    PallaviGunalan , PallaviGunalan Report

    #58

    Never Let Them Get Comfortable!

    Never Let Them Get Comfortable!

    aclick1999 , Spericaa Report

    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can opener in our house. And since I cook from scratch, I don't need it, but he would!

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    #59

    We All Know Why

    We All Know Why

    What_u_callme Report

    NsG
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Phoning their parents - I'm 40. Why has a bunch of teenagers decided to crash my dinner party?

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    #60

    Ladies, Let’s All Do Our Best To Teach The Next Generation Of Women This. While Sexual Adultification Affects Young Black Women The Most, It Definitely Occurs To Young Women Of All Backgrounds

    Ladies, Let’s All Do Our Best To Teach The Next Generation Of Women This. While Sexual Adultification Affects Young Black Women The Most, It Definitely Occurs To Young Women Of All Backgrounds

    lovexani , lovexani Report

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are not "mature for your age", he is immature for his.

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    #61

    'compromise!!'

    'compromise!!'

    cutsforluck Report

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    #62

    Love A Good Roast

    Love A Good Roast

    howdoilogoutt Report

    Viviane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm straight and female and I'd marry the mom before I even think of dating her son. I just wouldn't have kids with her.

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    #63

    A Trend I've Noticed Among Lvm

    A Trend I've Noticed Among Lvm

    cherrycIouds Report

    kathryn stretton
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Said by men who are no oil painting themselves lol.

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    #64

    If You Catch Feelings Easily, This Might Help! Stay Strong!

    If You Catch Feelings Easily, This Might Help! Stay Strong!

    totally-not-lame Report

    QueenMiri
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That crush disappears very fast after that

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    #65

    Psa: As Soon As Man Says That, Run The Opposite Direction Sis. This Is Red Flag. Manipulation

    Psa: As Soon As Man Says That, Run The Opposite Direction Sis. This Is Red Flag. Manipulation

    wordy_fries , _lifeofjada Report

    Sky Render
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "That would probably be for the best, yes."

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    #66

    It Do Be Like That

    It Do Be Like That

    anonymous , classicalfk Report

    Kari Panda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time I met my now husband, I was wearing socks with holes (grew up poor and had been wearing socks with holes my whole life). He teased me about it and then brought me a pair of his own socks to wear :)

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    #67

    Potent

    Potent

    theterminatress Report

    Anna Banana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Women feel like they don't need men anymore" is precisely what went right with this generation!

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    #68

    Facts

    Facts

    HoneyBouquet Report

    Pheebs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have so much respect for the middle school I attended. All genders took tech class (basically wood shop, with a bit of electronics mixed in) for 9 weeks every school year, and all took home ec where they learned to cook, sew by hand, and eventually use a sewing machine. Skill was not based on gender - it was based on the effort you put in.

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    #69

    Reason #6567 Why Being Single Is Better Than Settling

    Reason #6567 Why Being Single Is Better Than Settling

    hikurangi2019 Report

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got relationship advice the other day from someone who was on their 4th marriage. They were appalled over the fact that my boyfriend and I aren’t married and don’t plan to.

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    #70

    Exactly

    Exactly

    Brown_chick45 , tamsalexa Report

    Bobby
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sure hope it auto deletes the profile. I haven't had any notices or alerts from tinder in about 6 years, but I never thought to delete the profile when I deleted the app. And I'm not going to download it again to check, that's just a misunderstanding waiting to happen

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    #72

    So Glad He Is Her Ex

    So Glad He Is Her Ex

    divination__ , Flanjam Report

    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He really thought he did a thing..

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    #73

    Made Me Chuckle. Accurate!

    Made Me Chuckle. Accurate!

    m4dam3x , lesbtsn Report

    #74

    Girlfriends/Wives Are Not On The List Of In-Network Therapists

    Girlfriends/Wives Are Not On The List Of In-Network Therapists

    honeybeeroll Report

    MAL
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, hun. You can support him, but not as a therapist.

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    #75

    Mic Drop

    Mic Drop

    JacquelynGill , JacquelynGil Report

    Thorfin Wolfsbane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    all things aside, i love to see you're and your used appropriately

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    #76

    This Is Nice But If You’re On A Date At Hooters It’s Already Not Going Well

    This Is Nice But If You’re On A Date At Hooters It’s Already Not Going Well

    elementalvirago Report

    Legen ( wait for it ) dary
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's already good enough they have this. Hope in a women's toilet.

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    #77

    My Wish For 2021 And Beyond Is That More Women Realise That They Don’t Have To Put Up With Callous, Selfish Behaviour In Their Relationships

    My Wish For 2021 And Beyond Is That More Women Realise That They Don’t Have To Put Up With Callous, Selfish Behaviour In Their Relationships

    BasieSkanks Report

    Ellie J
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eslamala why don't you pipe down 🙄

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    #78

    For Real Though

    For Real Though

    Softrito Report

    Anna McHugh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's when you say, in a very deep voice, 'Yes, Brian?'

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    #79

    That’s Gonna Be A No From Me

    That’s Gonna Be A No From Me

    Flums666 , kiwikeeks Report

    Rebekah Krause
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Literally “rock bottom” at a mall 45 minutes out of the city.

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