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Woman Born Without Most Of Her Brain Turns 20, Family Speaks Out And It Sparks A Heated Debate
Baby girl sleeping peacefully wrapped in a white blanket, born without most of her brain, inspiring family and public debate.

Woman Born Without Most Of Her Brain Turns 20, Family Speaks Out And It Sparks A Heated Debate

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Nobody expected Alex Simpson to live past her fourth or fifth birthday.

But against all odds, the young Nebraska woman who was born without most of her brain celebrated her 20th birthday in the company of her loved ones.

“Miracles still happen,” her family said, proudly sharing her story with the world.

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    Alex Simpson was born to an Omaha family on November 4, 2005.

    Highlights
    • Nobody expected Alex Simpson to live past her fourth or fifth birthday.
    • But against all odds, the young Nebraska woman celebrated her 20th birthday with her loved ones.
    • She was only a couple of months old when her parents were told that parts of her brain were missing.

    Her parents, Lorena and Shawn Simpson, still remember the day the doctor had a life-changing conversation with them about their little girl.

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    “Doctor Davey came in with his nurses and said, ‘You guys need to sit down. This is pretty serious,’” the parents recalled.

    Young woman born without most of her brain lying in a wheelchair as family members care for her at home.

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    The family was told their daughter was born with hydranencephaly, a rare condition in which the brain’s cerebral hemispheres are missing.

    One in 5,000 to 1 in 10,000 pregnancies are affected by hydranencephaly, and most babies with this condition pass away before their first birthday, according to the Cleveland Clinic.

    Alex Simpson was born with parts of her brain missing and was diagnosed with hydranencephaly  

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    About two months after Alex’s birth, Lorena and Shawn were told by doctors that a good portion of her brain was missing.

    “[Hydranencephaly] means that her brain is not there,” Shawn told KETV this month. “Technically, she has about half the size of my pinky finger of her cerebellum in the back part of her brain, but that’s all that’s there.”

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    After doctors initially predicted that Alex wouldn’t live for more than a few months, Lorena and Shawn spent the first six months thinking she could pass away at any moment.

    “Those six months, every day and night thinking, ‘This is the day, today will be the day,’” Lorena previously told KETV.

    To everyone’s surprise, Alex did make it to her first birthday.

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    Young woman born without most of her brain celebrates birthday with family amid a heartfelt and heated discussion.

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    With time, the couple learned to take things one day at a time, even as doctors said she wouldn’t make it past her fourth or fifth birthday. But Alex did. And then came her sixth, her tenth, her fifteenth, and, most recently, her twentieth birthday, which the family celebrated on November 4 this year.

    Shawn and Lorena both believe it was “love” that helped Alex live way past what doctors expected.

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    Alex’s family believes it was “love” that helped her live way past what doctors expected

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    “Twenty years ago, we were scared, but faith, I think, is really what kept us alive,” the father told the outlet this month.

    “She’s a fighter,” added Lorena.

    Alex’s brain was missing the parts responsible for seeing and hearing, but her family believes she can recognize their presence and pick up on their moods.

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    “You can see that when I went up there and talked to her a little bit ago, she was looking for me,” Shawn told the outlet this month.

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    Alex is an older sister to 14-year-old brother SJ.

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    “When people ask about my family, the first thing I start with is Alex, my disabled sister,” the teen told the outlet.

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    SJ also believes Alex can sense when they are around her and possibly even know how they are feeling.

    “Say somebody’s stressed around her — nothing will even happen — it could be completely silent, but Alex will know. She’ll feel something,” said the younger brother.

    “When people ask about my family, the first thing I start with is Alex, my disabled sister,” said Alex’s younger brother

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    Alex has grown calmer and healthier over the years.

    Back when Alex was 10 years old, the Simpsons couple gave an interview and spoke about how she was able to maintain some awareness about her surroundings and the people around her.

    “She knows her mom and dad, her little brother,” her father said at the time. “She knows when bad things are going on; she will cry or have a sad face.”

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    Her family expressed how much they are in love with the person Alex is.

    “I would not take Alex any other way,” Shawn told KETV in 2016. “We have learned to love her the way she is. She has blessed our family so much.”

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    Nota Robot
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those poll options are even more ridiculous than some of the comments on the YT vid. There are worse things than dying - and living like that is my worst nightmare.

    Rika
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with that last comment. She's alive but she's not living. She's a human doll for her parents to dress up and show off on TV saying they "believe" she has some sort of awareness. Believing in something doesn't make it real, except for crazy religious people who breathe hypocrisy: their almighty God created this poor girl in a way that she wouldn't live longer than a few months, but since they disagreed, they decided to go against their God's will and use medicine to keep her alive.

    Bailey
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is though that hydranencephaly doesn't automatically mean they will die in the first year, and does not mean they need to be on life support. Usually the baby won't survive, but they can go ok to live for years. So once the baby is born, while their quality of life and awareness can be debatable, they are actively living. Without being on life support that the parents could "pull the plug" on, they would either have to actively do something to k**l her, or neglect her to the point that infection etc takes hold.

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    Hahato
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel a "my parents expect me to delicate my life to my disabled sister so I laughed them out the door" post coming in a few years from little bro.

    Touhou Youyoumu
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not quality of life sadly.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ligit isn’t , it’s not even A LIFE is it ,breaks my heart this one , to think if we kept a dog like this boy would we be in bother !! Mind u think of the money that poor lass is brining in for her parents !which lets get real ,is the only reason they keep her erm id say alive but ,she’s not really is she 💔

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    J R
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel so terrible for that whole family. Mostly for Alex, but also for the rest of them. It must be hard, and to get through it, they need to take joy from little things. People getting angry at them are callous and ignorant. Alex isn't the same as someone who is brain dead. Then, a person is technically already dead, so stopping medical care is easy. Alex is a live. She may have decreased ability to feel, think, and act, but she is alive. So legally, stopping care would be considered m****r and/or neglect. In whatever awareness she is capable of, she would suffer in a way brain dead people would not. It's a thorny issue. It goes beyond even debates about doctor-assisted s*****e because Alex can't chose. Through history, people have m******d those with disabilities. Some as extreme as this, and some not. Where do you draw the line? Who gets to decide who is "too disabled"? I would never want to live like this or watch a loved one live like this, but I also couldn't decide for the law

    Isabella K
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for writing this out! I srarted to get angry with all this comments... they don't understand the situation but are quick to decide how it should be handled

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    Binny Tutera
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To those who think her family is cruel: When she was born her family thought she would die soon. That is what the doctors told them. But she didn’t. What would you have them do? K**l her??? Not everything is black and white.

    J R
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! She's not brain dead. It's not as simple as turning off the machine. It would be illegal to do anything that would cause her to die. And the headlines would basically be, "Parents k**l disabled child." Because even if she has very little awareness or independent agency, she is alive. Ceasing care would be consideres m****r, and she would suffer as she was dying.

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    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Medical intervention should NOT be used to keep a baby alive at any cost... I also don't believe in unnecessarily keeping someone at their end of life alive at any cost, especially if the person is ready/wanting to slip this mortal coil. Quality of life should be THE determining factor imho.

    Midoribird Aoi
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one person should determine that. That led to massive executions of the disabled. More than once. They called it eugenics.

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    GREYNOOK
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my cousin brother has a daughter with something similar actions to her. doctors said that she swallowed uterus water whilst being born, thus it has affected her. she cant sit up, everything has to be done for her, i wish some magic thing happens to her so as she can be normal, even to a certain percent.😥😪😪😥

    Tyranamar Seuss
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know what your cousin's brother has. But I do know it has nothing to do with "swallowing uterus water." Fetuses swallow amniotic fluid all the time and it is not harmful to them.

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People with this degree of impairment should not be forced to live just to appease religious fanatics.

    Isabella K
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is she forced to live? She is obviously breathing on her own. The only way to end her life would be to actively k*ll her or to withhold nutrition and care wich is illegal in most parts of the world and very inhuman. They had no choice and maybe try to cope with this sh*tty situation with religion....

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    Nota Robot
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those poll options are even more ridiculous than some of the comments on the YT vid. There are worse things than dying - and living like that is my worst nightmare.

    Rika
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with that last comment. She's alive but she's not living. She's a human doll for her parents to dress up and show off on TV saying they "believe" she has some sort of awareness. Believing in something doesn't make it real, except for crazy religious people who breathe hypocrisy: their almighty God created this poor girl in a way that she wouldn't live longer than a few months, but since they disagreed, they decided to go against their God's will and use medicine to keep her alive.

    Bailey
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is though that hydranencephaly doesn't automatically mean they will die in the first year, and does not mean they need to be on life support. Usually the baby won't survive, but they can go ok to live for years. So once the baby is born, while their quality of life and awareness can be debatable, they are actively living. Without being on life support that the parents could "pull the plug" on, they would either have to actively do something to k**l her, or neglect her to the point that infection etc takes hold.

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    Hahato
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel a "my parents expect me to delicate my life to my disabled sister so I laughed them out the door" post coming in a few years from little bro.

    Touhou Youyoumu
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not quality of life sadly.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ligit isn’t , it’s not even A LIFE is it ,breaks my heart this one , to think if we kept a dog like this boy would we be in bother !! Mind u think of the money that poor lass is brining in for her parents !which lets get real ,is the only reason they keep her erm id say alive but ,she’s not really is she 💔

    Load More Replies...
    J R
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel so terrible for that whole family. Mostly for Alex, but also for the rest of them. It must be hard, and to get through it, they need to take joy from little things. People getting angry at them are callous and ignorant. Alex isn't the same as someone who is brain dead. Then, a person is technically already dead, so stopping medical care is easy. Alex is a live. She may have decreased ability to feel, think, and act, but she is alive. So legally, stopping care would be considered m****r and/or neglect. In whatever awareness she is capable of, she would suffer in a way brain dead people would not. It's a thorny issue. It goes beyond even debates about doctor-assisted s*****e because Alex can't chose. Through history, people have m******d those with disabilities. Some as extreme as this, and some not. Where do you draw the line? Who gets to decide who is "too disabled"? I would never want to live like this or watch a loved one live like this, but I also couldn't decide for the law

    Isabella K
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for writing this out! I srarted to get angry with all this comments... they don't understand the situation but are quick to decide how it should be handled

    Load More Replies...
    Binny Tutera
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To those who think her family is cruel: When she was born her family thought she would die soon. That is what the doctors told them. But she didn’t. What would you have them do? K**l her??? Not everything is black and white.

    J R
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! She's not brain dead. It's not as simple as turning off the machine. It would be illegal to do anything that would cause her to die. And the headlines would basically be, "Parents k**l disabled child." Because even if she has very little awareness or independent agency, she is alive. Ceasing care would be consideres m****r, and she would suffer as she was dying.

    Load More Replies...
    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Medical intervention should NOT be used to keep a baby alive at any cost... I also don't believe in unnecessarily keeping someone at their end of life alive at any cost, especially if the person is ready/wanting to slip this mortal coil. Quality of life should be THE determining factor imho.

    Midoribird Aoi
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one person should determine that. That led to massive executions of the disabled. More than once. They called it eugenics.

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    GREYNOOK
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my cousin brother has a daughter with something similar actions to her. doctors said that she swallowed uterus water whilst being born, thus it has affected her. she cant sit up, everything has to be done for her, i wish some magic thing happens to her so as she can be normal, even to a certain percent.😥😪😪😥

    Tyranamar Seuss
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know what your cousin's brother has. But I do know it has nothing to do with "swallowing uterus water." Fetuses swallow amniotic fluid all the time and it is not harmful to them.

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People with this degree of impairment should not be forced to live just to appease religious fanatics.

    Isabella K
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is she forced to live? She is obviously breathing on her own. The only way to end her life would be to actively k*ll her or to withhold nutrition and care wich is illegal in most parts of the world and very inhuman. They had no choice and maybe try to cope with this sh*tty situation with religion....

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