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“Talk About Overreacting”: Woman Who Slew Boyfriend After Finding A Tampon Gets Sentenced
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“Talk About Overreacting”: Woman Who Slew Boyfriend After Finding A Tampon Gets Sentenced

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A Nevada woman who took her boyfriend’s life after finding another woman’s tampon in his trash has been sentenced to a prison term long enough to reshape the rest of her adult life—but not before delivering a bewildering confession in court:

I love him very much.”

As per court records, 31-year-old Julie Bush had been in an abusive relationship with the deceased, 51-year-old Richard Penardo Jr. When she confronted him about the tampon and accused him of cheating, Penardo flew into a rage, attacking Bush’s car with a steel chain and shattering its windows.

Highlights
  • Nevada woman Julie Bush sentenced for taking boyfriend's life after finding another woman's tampon in his trash.
  • Bush ran into Penardo with her vehicle, slamming him into a brick wall.
  • Both Bush and Penardo were under the influence during the incident, which was captured on doorbell camera footage.
  • Bush pleaded guilty to voluntary manslaughter and DUI.

That would turn out to be a fatal mistake.

Trigger warning: this story contains detailed descriptions of violent crimes. Reader discretion is advised.

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    What happened next was caught on a doorbell camera. Bush drove away, returned to the scene multiple times within minutes, and ultimately accelerated the vehicle right into Penardo’s body, launching him into a brick wall.

    He passed away the next day, in May 2024.

    Image credits: 8 News Now — Las Vegas

    Bush was sentenced last Tuesday (June 17) to a term of 12 to 35 years in prison by Clark County District Court Judge Carli Kierny, after pleading guilty to voluntary manslaughter and DUI. She will be eligible for parole in 2036.

    During the sentencing hearing, a visibly emotional and remorseful Bush addressed the court.

    “I love him very much,” she said. “I’m sorry that he passed away and I wish I could change it, but I can’t, and I know there’s not a sentence in the world that’s going to make anybody satisfied.”

    Image credits: Clark County Detention Center

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    Her statements were followed by those of her public defender, Chief Deputy Special Public Defender Lisa Chamlee-Brainard, who argued that Bush had shown remorse from the moment of the incident. 

    “Video footage clearly shows that Julie was overwrought with emotion and obviously remorseful for her actions,” she said, adding that Bush “has continued to feel remorse while incarcerated” and “takes full accountability.”

    Both Bush and Penardo were under the influence of potent substances when their altercation began

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    Image credits: 8 News Now — Las Vegas

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    Bush reportedly attempted to render aid immediately after striking Penardo. According to investigators, both were under the influence of substances at the time of their fight.

    Ironically, the tampon that triggered the fatal altercation may not have belonged to another romantic interest as Bush suspected. Prosecutors said in court that it likely belonged to Penardo’s female roommate.

    Image credits: 8 News Now — Las Vegas

    Regardless of Bush’s remorse, the victim’s family offered her no forgiveness.

    “Rick wasn’t perfect,” said Grace Fisher, Penardo’s mother. “He made plenty of mistakes and poor choices during his life. His biggest mistake was ever getting involved with Julie Bush. She made his life a living hell.”

    Fisher’s words stand in stark contrast to Penardo’s lengthy criminal history, including serving time for forgery, conspiracy to commit m*rder, and unemployment insurance fraud.

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    While Penardo had a long criminal history, Bush was reportedly addicted to dr*gs from the age of 9

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    Image credits: 8 News Now — Las Vegas

    In 2017, he was sentenced to three to ten years in prison for defrauding Nevada’s unemployment system.

    While locked up at the Clark County Detention Center and later at High Desert State Prison, his co-defendants filed fraudulent claims in his name, allowing him to collect more than $4,700 in benefits.

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    Image credits: 8 News Now — Las Vegas

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    Years earlier, Penardo had taken an Alford plea in connection with the 2008 strangulation of Maria Marino. Though he didn’t admit guilt, he acknowledged that prosecutors had enough evidence to convict him.

    Despite his past, his family made clear that none of that justified his passing.

    Bush, on the other hand, had an upbringing full of personal struggles. According to her defense, Bush began abusing alcohol at the age of nine, ecstasy pills at eleven, and prescription drugs by thirteen. She was described as battling mental health problems her entire life.

    At the time of her sentencing, Bush was also the mother of a 5-year-old daughter.

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    “Psychopath.” Bush’s tears did little to sway the public opinion in her favor

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    Abel Musa Miño

    Abel Musa Miño

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    Abel Musa Miño

    Abel Musa Miño

    Writer, Entertainment News Writer

    Born in Santiago, Chile, with a background in communication and international relations, I bring a global perspective to entertainment reporting at Bored Panda. I cover celebrity news, Hollywood events, true crime, and viral stories that resonate across cultures. My reporting has been featured on Google News, connecting international audiences to the latest in entertainment. For me, journalism is about bridging local stories with global conversations, arming readers with the knowledge necessary to make up their own minds. Research is at the core of my work. I believe that well-sourced, factual storytelling is essential to building trust and driving meaningful engagement.

    What do you think ?
    Mike F
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This entire situation and everyone involved in it is a mess.

    Joshua David
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm actually more surprised that BP didn't censor the word "ta***n" 😳

    Nina
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she hadn't gotten in her car in time, she'd probably be severely wounded or dead. Not saying she was right to drive into him, she better could've kept driving. Sentencing her for DUI seems a bit excessive to me though, how on earth are you going to get to safety if a stronger person is attacking you with a metal chain?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    Premium
    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He wasn't attacking her. He was hitting a vehicle with the chain. That's property damage, not ássáult/battery. While yes, he may have moved on to attacking her with the chain, it's conjecture at this point. She left the scene and then returned to the scene to strike him with the vehicle, clearly with the intent to harm or k!ll him. At that point, it's premeditated murder. She could have simply left and gone to the police or another safe location.

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    Jared C
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes slew. That would be the exactly correct English word for the past tense verb. Present tense would be slay.

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    Sara Shamsabadi
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just hope the daughter wasn't in the car nor anywhere close by. She's the real victim.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    Premium
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I doubt mom had custody of the child at the time. It sounds like she has a history of struggling with add!ction :(

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    Westerly
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you follow up about his Alfred plea for murdering his sister in law over money, kinda a bit of karma there

    toxxic
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only photo they had of him was his mug shot?

    Mike F
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This entire situation and everyone involved in it is a mess.

    Joshua David
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm actually more surprised that BP didn't censor the word "ta***n" 😳

    Nina
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she hadn't gotten in her car in time, she'd probably be severely wounded or dead. Not saying she was right to drive into him, she better could've kept driving. Sentencing her for DUI seems a bit excessive to me though, how on earth are you going to get to safety if a stronger person is attacking you with a metal chain?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    Premium
    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He wasn't attacking her. He was hitting a vehicle with the chain. That's property damage, not ássáult/battery. While yes, he may have moved on to attacking her with the chain, it's conjecture at this point. She left the scene and then returned to the scene to strike him with the vehicle, clearly with the intent to harm or k!ll him. At that point, it's premeditated murder. She could have simply left and gone to the police or another safe location.

    Load More Replies...
    Jared C
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes slew. That would be the exactly correct English word for the past tense verb. Present tense would be slay.

    Load More Replies...
    Sara Shamsabadi
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just hope the daughter wasn't in the car nor anywhere close by. She's the real victim.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    Premium
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I doubt mom had custody of the child at the time. It sounds like she has a history of struggling with add!ction :(

    Load More Replies...
    Westerly
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you follow up about his Alfred plea for murdering his sister in law over money, kinda a bit of karma there

    toxxic
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only photo they had of him was his mug shot?

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