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Dad Figures Out How To Make Woman On Plane Uncomfortable After She Refuses To Move Her Hair Away
Dad Figures Out How To Make Woman On Plane Uncomfortable After She Refuses To Move Her Hair Away
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Dad Figures Out How To Make Woman On Plane Uncomfortable After She Refuses To Move Her Hair Away

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Hair is, for the most part, considered a pretty personal thing. It’s not like we let just anyone touch it, and if we ever feel tense, it’s one of the first things we touch (and then fondle) in order to comfort ourselves and to alleviate all that stress.

However, there’s a contingent of people who like to live dangerously and throw their beautiful luscious hair over their airplane seat-rest only to be creeped out by the dad of the kid whose in-flight movie was blocked as a result.

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    It always seems more deliberate than anything whenever passengers throw their hair over the seat-rest on a plane

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    One thing they don’t expect, though, is a dad, whose kid couldn’t watch a movie because of said hair, putting an end to the obnoxiousness

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    No, he didn’t cut the hair—rather, he swapped seats with the kid and creeped out and shamed the passenger with sarcasm

    A Redditor was recently flying with his wife and kid to Mexico when the lady sitting in front of his daughter threw her goldie locks over her seat rest, thus blocking the Trolls movie the kid was enjoying.

    Talking didn’t help, so he instead swapped seats with his daughter. When she asked why, he explained he just wanted to take a closer look at the woman’s hair because he thought it was pretty.

    No more of the woman’s hair was seen throughout the rest of the flight.

    The reason why this ended up on r/AITAH was that his wife thought it was rude. Not Redditors, though—they thought the dad was the hero here. Folks thought the resolution was quick and smooth, all while keeping it civil.

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    If anything, they paid for a hairless seat. They deserved one.

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    When it comes to plane etiquette, there are no specifics in terms of hair, but it is generally expected that folks keep to their own space

    Everyone who flew at least once understands how cramped airplanes can be and there is little room for personal space. But that doesn’t mean someone else has to suffer while you overcompensate for it. Yes, that includes hair.

    Instead, the most sensible solution to keeping everyone else out of your hair is to tie it up. There is no point in trying to look beautiful on a plane because it’ll still look like you’ve just gotten out of bed.

    But if you insist on looking the part of a dashing swordsman, take a small dry shampoo bottle on board and go wild on your hair before you land.

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    However, if you see someone who flat out refuses to keep their hair in line, do not meddle with it: don’t tie knots, don’t cut it, don’t tangle, nothing. Instead simply ask the flight attendants to help (if talking doesn’t work), or do what the dad did—if it’s an issue of not being able to see the screen, and there is an opportunity to swap seats, go for it. It doesn’t hurt anyone.

    So, what are your thoughts on any of this? Are you team dad or team Goldie Locks? Share your takes and stories in the comment section below!

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    Folks online were all confident that the dad was not the jerk

    Some folks shared similar stories of hair-filled flights

    There were a couple of people who played devil’s advocate and sided with the missus

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    Robertas Lisickis

    Robertas Lisickis

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    Robertas Lisickis

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    Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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    Dominyka Proškėnaitė

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    Dominyka Proškėnaitė

    Dominyka Proškėnaitė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, crafting captivating visual content to enhance every reader's experience. Sometimes my mornings are spent diving into juicy dramas, while afternoons are all about adding extra laughs to the world by editing the funniest memes around. My favorite part of the job? Choosing the perfect images to illustrate articles. It's like imagining a story as a movie in my mind and selecting the key shots to tell the story visually.

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    BarkingSpider
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People calling OP the AH are so dumb. She was asked to move her hair and decided it was easier to try bullying a child. Hopefully she'll think harder about it next time.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah exactly. Makes me think the YTA people are the sort who'd drape their hair over the seat behind them and annoy other people.

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    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA people, once again, being ridiculous. He shouldn't have had to ask, let alone ask more than once. Is he supposed to summon a FA for help every 15 minutes for the entire flight? Also, "fear for her safety"? While I agree with that sentiment in general for women, it's pretty over the top for this case. The YTAs and OP's wife is why people like that rude a*s lady continue to do rude a*s things. They shouldn't have to be asked and if they continue to be a******s then any REASONABLE action taken is their own fault.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I often have very long hair. I've heard some pretty obscene comments from dudes, and been subject to a great deal of unwanted touching and sniffing. (I grow my hair long to donate; it grows fast, so it's something I can do for others). Saying "I like it and I want to look" when she's deliberately hanging it in front of them to inconvenience them is nothing. If he'd touched or sniffed, that's gross. But when she was using it as a weapon to harass his kid... sorry, honey, you're going to hear something."

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    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would someone drape their long hair over the back of a seat? Are they not concerned that it might get caught when someone lowers and then raises the tray?

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who frequently has long hair... yeah, that's just stupid. It's an invitation to unwanted touching and getting it tangled in something. She was making a power play there, showing those people that she thought she was more important than them.

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    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally on board with those suggesting fake sniffing it 🤣🤣🤣. And the YTA bunch who say he made her feel unsafe...get a grip. She was asked politely by a little girl. If she had shown a little respect (and sorority), none of it would have happened.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was using her hair to harass a child. She was using it as a weapon. The father was fighting back, in the least invasive way he could. I've had my long hair sniffed, and I hate it. But I also don't use it to cover a child's tv screen.

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    Alexandra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh come off it, all you YTA people! It wasn't as if she didn't know what she was doing: she was intentionally rude and that means just asking her nicely to keep her hair to herself will have no impact which means sterner measures are needed.She had it coming.

    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Open notice to the YTA zoomers... women can be just as creepy as men! Check your bias at the door!

    Sonja
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's disgusting how some people think being polite means letting rufe people get away with their bs as soon as the only way to make them stop might make them feel uncomfortable. Wake up! Selfish people don't give a hoot for other's needs. They'd step over you and let you die if helping you would stop them getting coffee. If they're never stop and everyone caters to them... Well, you just have to look around and you'll see what that does. Nasty people deserve to feel the consequences of their callousness. They'll never stop being AHs if everyone caters to them.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the little girl deserves to know that nobody has the right to bully her. She will see this as her dad defending her.

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    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm a weirdo, not a creep." Bwaahahahaahaa!!!

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's funny, but it also shows his restraint and wisdom. He knows not to harass women. He chose the mildest comment possible to get his point across because he doesn't like being pervy and disrespectful.

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    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would justike to point out "he should have involved the flight attendants" HE DID.

    Zach Bigalke
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, don't understand why that was a poll option when it obviously didn't achieve anything in his particular case...

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    DarkViolet
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. That obnoxious passenger sounds like the type of moviegoer that puts their feet up on the occupied seat in front of them. No class at all. OP handled the situation like a duck--quack quack, put your hair back. I'd be proud to sit in his row if I should fly again.

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    BarkingSpider
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People calling OP the AH are so dumb. She was asked to move her hair and decided it was easier to try bullying a child. Hopefully she'll think harder about it next time.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah exactly. Makes me think the YTA people are the sort who'd drape their hair over the seat behind them and annoy other people.

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    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA people, once again, being ridiculous. He shouldn't have had to ask, let alone ask more than once. Is he supposed to summon a FA for help every 15 minutes for the entire flight? Also, "fear for her safety"? While I agree with that sentiment in general for women, it's pretty over the top for this case. The YTAs and OP's wife is why people like that rude a*s lady continue to do rude a*s things. They shouldn't have to be asked and if they continue to be a******s then any REASONABLE action taken is their own fault.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I often have very long hair. I've heard some pretty obscene comments from dudes, and been subject to a great deal of unwanted touching and sniffing. (I grow my hair long to donate; it grows fast, so it's something I can do for others). Saying "I like it and I want to look" when she's deliberately hanging it in front of them to inconvenience them is nothing. If he'd touched or sniffed, that's gross. But when she was using it as a weapon to harass his kid... sorry, honey, you're going to hear something."

    Load More Replies...
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    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would someone drape their long hair over the back of a seat? Are they not concerned that it might get caught when someone lowers and then raises the tray?

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who frequently has long hair... yeah, that's just stupid. It's an invitation to unwanted touching and getting it tangled in something. She was making a power play there, showing those people that she thought she was more important than them.

    Load More Replies...
    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally on board with those suggesting fake sniffing it 🤣🤣🤣. And the YTA bunch who say he made her feel unsafe...get a grip. She was asked politely by a little girl. If she had shown a little respect (and sorority), none of it would have happened.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was using her hair to harass a child. She was using it as a weapon. The father was fighting back, in the least invasive way he could. I've had my long hair sniffed, and I hate it. But I also don't use it to cover a child's tv screen.

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    Alexandra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh come off it, all you YTA people! It wasn't as if she didn't know what she was doing: she was intentionally rude and that means just asking her nicely to keep her hair to herself will have no impact which means sterner measures are needed.She had it coming.

    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Open notice to the YTA zoomers... women can be just as creepy as men! Check your bias at the door!

    Sonja
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's disgusting how some people think being polite means letting rufe people get away with their bs as soon as the only way to make them stop might make them feel uncomfortable. Wake up! Selfish people don't give a hoot for other's needs. They'd step over you and let you die if helping you would stop them getting coffee. If they're never stop and everyone caters to them... Well, you just have to look around and you'll see what that does. Nasty people deserve to feel the consequences of their callousness. They'll never stop being AHs if everyone caters to them.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the little girl deserves to know that nobody has the right to bully her. She will see this as her dad defending her.

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    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm a weirdo, not a creep." Bwaahahahaahaa!!!

    CatLady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's funny, but it also shows his restraint and wisdom. He knows not to harass women. He chose the mildest comment possible to get his point across because he doesn't like being pervy and disrespectful.

    Load More Replies...
    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would justike to point out "he should have involved the flight attendants" HE DID.

    Zach Bigalke
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, don't understand why that was a poll option when it obviously didn't achieve anything in his particular case...

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    DarkViolet
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. That obnoxious passenger sounds like the type of moviegoer that puts their feet up on the occupied seat in front of them. No class at all. OP handled the situation like a duck--quack quack, put your hair back. I'd be proud to sit in his row if I should fly again.

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