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Guy Can’t Believe Girlfriend Takes Care Of Baby And Dogs During A Car Crash And Leaves Him Alone
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Guy Can’t Believe Girlfriend Takes Care Of Baby And Dogs During A Car Crash And Leaves Him Alone

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One of the most dangerous things that can happen to you is getting into a motor vehicle accident. You and your loved ones’ lives are at risk, as are those of the strangers you just collided with. In an emergency situation, you have to prioritize those who are the most at-risk.

That’s what internet user u/aitadogsoverbf did after she and her partner got into a “head-on collision.” After checking to make sure that her boyfriend was fine, she rushed to help her dogs, as well as the stranger’s baby. However, this made her significant other very bitter and resentful. Scroll down for the full scoop.

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    Getting into a traffic collision can leave you in shock. Your main goal should be to make sure that everyone is safe, and contact the authorities

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    A woman who got into a car crash shared how her boyfriend became bitter after she spent more attention on every other victim but him

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    Later, in an update, the woman added a bit more context

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    There are lots of moving parts to keep track of if you want to make sure that everyone involved in a car accident is safe

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    It’s likely that you’ll be in shock if you’re involved in a car crash. So, if you don’t have the right training, it’s natural that you might not make the most rational decisions or get your priorities mixed up. This is why educating yourself about your top priorities in an accident and then practicing over and over again is so important. That way, you’ll tend to do what you need to do automatically, instead of panicking.

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    Generally speaking, if someone is conscious and communicating with you, and they tell you they’re fine, it makes sense to move on to check on everyone else. Though, keep in mind that someone who says they’re okay might not know that they’re hurt.

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    According to St John Ambulance, first make sure that the accident area is safe for both you and others. Park safely, turn on your hazard lights, put up warning triangles, and put on a high-visibility jacket if you have one in the car.

    Then, make sure that you switch off the ignition of all the damaged surrounding cars. Meanwhile, if there are any larger diesel vehicles involved, apply their handbrake, put them in gear, or put a block in front of the wheels.

    In the meantime, constantly observe your surroundings and make sure that you avoid any further oncoming traffic, and that nobody smokes near the car crash site. Then call the emergency services, and mention any damaged power lines, fuel spills, or hazardous cargo.

    When it comes to everyone involved in the automotive accident, assume that they might all have neck of spinal injuries. “Treat the casualties in the position you find them if possible and make sure you support their head and neck at all times,” St John Ambulance warns.

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    Then, you should:

    • Make sure to search the area to find any casualties who might be further away
    • Ask the people nearby to help you
    • See if anyone is trapped inside or under any vehicles. The fire service will need to help them
    • Monitor the casualties, record their breathing, pulse, and level of response

    Traffic collisions have massive negative consequences for individuals and society alike

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    As reported by the World Health Organization, around 1.19 million people lose their lives every single year due to road traffic crashes.

    They are the leading cause of loss of life for children and young adults, aged between 5 to 29 years old.

    The vast majority of the world’s fatalities on roads occur in low and middle-income countries.

    And over half of all lives lost in car accidents involve vulnerable road users, including pedestrians, cyclists, and motorcyclists.

    As per the National Safety Council, in the United States in 2023 alone, motor vehicle incidents resulted in 5.1 million medically consulted injuries and injury costs at around $513.8 billion.

    Automotive accidents have wide-ranging negative effects, from motor vehicle property damage and employer costs to medical expenses, administrative expenses, and wage and productivity losses.

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    Meanwhile, the WHO notes that road traffic crashes cost most countries around 3% of their gross domestic product.

    What do you think, dear readers? Do you think the woman was wrong to check up on her dogs and the stranger’s baby after her boyfriend said he was fine? Have you ever been in a car crash or a tense motor vehicle-related situation before? Share your thoughts below.

    She shared even more background information in the comments of her post, as she responded to her readers

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    Most folks online thought that she did nothing wrong by prioritizing her dogs and the stranger’s baby

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    Others, however, weren’t on the same page. Here are some controversial takes

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    Meanwhile, some internet users thought nobody was in the wrong

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    Jonas Grinevičius

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real.At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design.In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle.I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real.At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design.In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle.I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Viktorija Ošikaitė

    Viktorija Ošikaitė

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    I'm a senior visual editor here at Bored Panda and I enjoy a good laugh. My work ranges from serious topics related to toxic work environments and relationship difficulties to humorous articles about online shopping fails and introvert memes. When I'm not at my work desk, checking if every single pixel is in the right place, I usually spend my free time playing board games, taking pictures, and watching documentaries

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    spacer
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    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    love how all the care ended up on op, as if she isnt allowed to be traumatized and hurt as well, but it doesnt seem the bf even once thought to check if SHE was alright. but sure shes the a-hole pfft.

    Kathy Brooke
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My thought exactly. Why wasn't he up and out helping?

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BF is being an extra big a-hole here - OP actually DID check on HIM first, she prioritized HIM. If she'd actually prioritized "strangers", she'd have leaped out of the ute without even asking him if he was okay. Though with her being a pediatrics nurse, I suppose she's in the best position to provide triage to a whiny baby like him :p

    KatSaidWhat
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    W*F - "chilled at another vehicle" - some of those YTAs might have brain damage themselves. BF is being a whiny needy little b***h. Dump him.

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    spacer
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    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    love how all the care ended up on op, as if she isnt allowed to be traumatized and hurt as well, but it doesnt seem the bf even once thought to check if SHE was alright. but sure shes the a-hole pfft.

    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My thought exactly. Why wasn't he up and out helping?

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BF is being an extra big a-hole here - OP actually DID check on HIM first, she prioritized HIM. If she'd actually prioritized "strangers", she'd have leaped out of the ute without even asking him if he was okay. Though with her being a pediatrics nurse, I suppose she's in the best position to provide triage to a whiny baby like him :p

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    W*F - "chilled at another vehicle" - some of those YTAs might have brain damage themselves. BF is being a whiny needy little b***h. Dump him.

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