Man Wants To Petsit GF’s Dog, Folks Online Make Her Realize That It’s Just To Get Rid Of It

You can tell a lot about a person by how they treat animals—and this Redditor’s boyfriend failed the test in the worst way.

While away on a short trip, the woman left her beloved dog in her boyfriend’s care, trusting him to look after her. But during her absence, she discovered he had left her dog outside for hours, ultimately leading to her pet going missing. Rushing home in a panic, she soon realized the situation was even more heartbreaking than she had feared.

Read the full story below—be warned, it includes mentions of animal cruelty, but thankfully, there’s a happy ending.

The woman left for a short trip, trusting her boyfriend to care for her beloved dog

A small brown dog lying on a bed, looking playful and curious.

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But while she was gone, she learned he had failed her in the worst way

Text screenshot discussing a woman's relationship issue after her boyfriend lost her dog.

Woman shares emotional story about her anxious dog, Milo, highlighting trust and companionship.

Woman shares story of boyfriend ignoring her dog, raising concerns about his love for dogs.

Couple holding hands and walking with a dog in a green field, man holding the leash.

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Text describing a dog's interactions with a woman and her boyfriend over three years.

Text detailing a woman's nightmare trip after her dog Milo got sick with a tooth infection.

Text about a woman noting red flags in her boyfriend's behavior while caring for her sick dog.

Text excerpt about a woman's dog getting lost and a boyfriend's excuse, focusing on present events.

Text discussing a woman's trip, her boyfriend's offer to look after her dog Milo, and the unexpected situation.

Crying woman on the phone, distressed after dog's disappearance during trip.

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Text screenshot about a woman's dog getting lost, with boyfriend's careless excuse.

Text recounting a woman's efforts to find her lost dog after an incident with her boyfriend.

Text about a woman prioritizing her lost dog over her boyfriend in a heated relationship discussion.

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People who hurt animals often hurt others too

When you hear about someone mistreating an animal, it’s hard not to ask the same questions: Why? How? What kind of person would want to harm a defenseless creature?

Sadly, animal cruelty happens more often than we’d like, and the reasons behind it can be disturbing. Researchers Kellert and Felthous found that some people use harsh punishment to control animals or retaliate against them. Others harm animals to assert dominance or train them to be aggressive. In the worst cases, cruelty is purely for pleasure or a way to take out personal frustrations—something often seen in abused children.

But the harm often doesn’t stop there. Studies have repeatedly shown that people who abuse animals are more likely to be violent towards other humans too. That’s why these cases should never be ignored or brushed aside—they signal a much bigger issue.

For example:

• A 1997 study by the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals and Northeastern University found that animal abusers are five times more likely to harm people
• In a study of school massacres, 43% of perpetrators had a history of cruelty to animals
• In homes where child abuse was reported, 88% also had cases of animal abuse
• Another study revealed that up to 89% of women in abusive relationships said their pets were also threatened, harmed, or even got their lives taken by their partner

Given all this, it’s a relief that things turned out well for the woman in this story. Despite Milo’s injuries, she’s now in safe hands, and the woman is taking legal action to ensure her ex faces the consequences of his actions.

If you ever witness animal abuse, don’t ignore it. Report it to the authorities, support local shelters, and help protect animals from those who mean them harm. Every voice matters.

Some useful contacts:

United States: Call your local animal welfare organization or 911 if you’re unsure who to contact. If your area lacks the proper animal welfare agency and local authorities are not equipped to handle the case, reach out to Humane World for Animals for guidance.

United Kingdom: Call 999 in emergencies or report concerns to the RSPCA. Visit their website to educate yourself about animal welfare laws and how to take action against cruelty.

Readers agreed the woman was right to break up with her boyfriend and offered tips to help her find her dog

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Reddit comment discussing negligence regarding a lost dog during a woman's trip, expressing fear of intentional actions.

Reddit comments discussing a woman's lost dog and her efforts to find it at local shelters.

A Reddit discussion about a lost dog and relationship concerns.

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Comments discussing woman's nightmare trip and lost dog incident.

Comments discussing woman's nightmare trip and lost dog search tips.

Comments discussing a lost dog experience and hope for better luck.

Reddit comment about woman's lost dog incident, criticizing her boyfriend for neglect and reassuring the woman.

Reddit comments discussing a woman's lost dog and her boyfriend's excuse.

Reddit comments discussing a woman's nightmare trip after her dog gets lost by her boyfriend.

Reddit comments discussing a lost dog incident and issues with a boyfriend's behavior.

Reddit thread discussing a woman's lost dog after a trip nightmare, featuring advice and support comments.

Comments discussing a woman’s lost dog and her boyfriend's suspicious actions.

Reddit comments discussing a woman's lost dog, criticizing a boyfriend's lack of remorse and responsibility.

The woman found her dog and, following readers’ advice, made the decision to press charges

Text about a woman's trip, her ex collecting things, and tensions arising related to a lost dog.

Woman upset on couch talking to man about lost dog experience.

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Text conversation about a woman's nightmare trip after her boyfriend lost her dog, revealing a shocking excuse.

Text describing a woman's feelings of hopelessness and anger after her dog gets lost during a trip.

Text about a woman's nightmare trip after her dog, Milo, gets lost, with details of him being found in pain by a lady.

Image of text describing a woman's emotional story about her lost dog with injuries and pressing charges.

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Reddit comments discussing a woman's dog getting lost during her trip, highlighting safety concerns and relationship advice.

Comment responding to a woman's post about her trip turning into a nightmare after her dog got lost.

Reddit comment discussing recording a conversation related to a woman’s nightmare trip and her lost dog.

Reddit comments discussing a nightmare trip where a woman's dog got lost and police involvement.

Comments discussing woman's lost dog and advice about her ex-boyfriend.

She later shared that her dog was on the road to recovery, while her ex-boyfriend was busy incriminating himself

Text detailing a woman's legal action after her dog was lost during a trip.

Text message about a dog named Milo returning home and recovering, with plans to change locks, related to a woman’s trip.

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