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Man Wants To Petsit GF’s Dog, Folks Online Make Her Realize That It’s Just To Get Rid Of It
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Man Wants To Petsit GF’s Dog, Folks Online Make Her Realize That It’s Just To Get Rid Of It

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You can tell a lot about a person by how they treat animals—and this Redditor’s boyfriend failed the test in the worst way.

While away on a short trip, the woman left her beloved dog in her boyfriend’s care, trusting him to look after her. But during her absence, she discovered he had left her dog outside for hours, ultimately leading to her pet going missing. Rushing home in a panic, she soon realized the situation was even more heartbreaking than she had feared.

Read the full story below—be warned, it includes mentions of animal cruelty, but thankfully, there’s a happy ending.

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    The woman left for a short trip, trusting her boyfriend to care for her beloved dog

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    But while she was gone, she learned he had failed her in the worst way

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    Image credits: Blake Cheek / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

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    Image credits: Dina Nasyrova / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    People who hurt animals often hurt others too

    When you hear about someone mistreating an animal, it’s hard not to ask the same questions: Why? How? What kind of person would want to harm a defenseless creature?

    Sadly, animal cruelty happens more often than we’d like, and the reasons behind it can be disturbing. Researchers Kellert and Felthous found that some people use harsh punishment to control animals or retaliate against them. Others harm animals to assert dominance or train them to be aggressive. In the worst cases, cruelty is purely for pleasure or a way to take out personal frustrations—something often seen in abused children.

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    But the harm often doesn’t stop there. Studies have repeatedly shown that people who abuse animals are more likely to be violent towards other humans too. That’s why these cases should never be ignored or brushed aside—they signal a much bigger issue.

    For example:

    • A 1997 study by the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals and Northeastern University found that animal abusers are five times more likely to harm people
    • In a study of school massacres, 43% of perpetrators had a history of cruelty to animals
    • In homes where child abuse was reported, 88% also had cases of animal abuse
    • Another study revealed that up to 89% of women in abusive relationships said their pets were also threatened, harmed, or even got their lives taken by their partner

    Given all this, it’s a relief that things turned out well for the woman in this story. Despite Milo’s injuries, she’s now in safe hands, and the woman is taking legal action to ensure her ex faces the consequences of his actions.

    If you ever witness animal abuse, don’t ignore it. Report it to the authorities, support local shelters, and help protect animals from those who mean them harm. Every voice matters.

    Some useful contacts:

    United States: Call your local animal welfare organization or 911 if you’re unsure who to contact. If your area lacks the proper animal welfare agency and local authorities are not equipped to handle the case, reach out to Humane World for Animals for guidance.

    United Kingdom: Call 999 in emergencies or report concerns to the RSPCA. Visit their website to educate yourself about animal welfare laws and how to take action against cruelty.

    Readers agreed the woman was right to break up with her boyfriend and offered tips to help her find her dog

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    The woman found her dog and, following readers’ advice, made the decision to press charges

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    Image credits: Blakeheek / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

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    She later shared that her dog was on the road to recovery, while her ex-boyfriend was busy incriminating himself

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    Broccoli
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least doggo was alive. If boyfriend can do this to a dog, he might do it to you some day. He is a walking red flag

    Pamela Carter
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never trust a man who doesn’t like dogs, and double that if dogs don’t them.

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    MegDragon
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the comments OP says Milo has three cigarette burns in addition to the broken ribs. EX-bf has been messaging her and his story evolved from ‘I hit by accident’ to ‘I hit her harder than I intended and was scared you’d be mad’ to ‘I wish I would have done worse to the dog.’

    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy fûcking crâp!!! I hope that scumbag gets severly punished. People that hurt innocent animals belongs in jail!

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    kristina law
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he did this with her dog I cannot imagine what he would have done if she had a child and left him with it seeing as how the jealousy would have most likely been even stronger towards her child. So glad milo is safe as well as OP!

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the kind of person who murders his children to get back at his ex. He's a straight up monster.

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    Broccoli
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least doggo was alive. If boyfriend can do this to a dog, he might do it to you some day. He is a walking red flag

    Pamela Carter
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never trust a man who doesn’t like dogs, and double that if dogs don’t them.

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    MegDragon
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the comments OP says Milo has three cigarette burns in addition to the broken ribs. EX-bf has been messaging her and his story evolved from ‘I hit by accident’ to ‘I hit her harder than I intended and was scared you’d be mad’ to ‘I wish I would have done worse to the dog.’

    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy fûcking crâp!!! I hope that scumbag gets severly punished. People that hurt innocent animals belongs in jail!

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    kristina law
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he did this with her dog I cannot imagine what he would have done if she had a child and left him with it seeing as how the jealousy would have most likely been even stronger towards her child. So glad milo is safe as well as OP!

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the kind of person who murders his children to get back at his ex. He's a straight up monster.

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