Bored Panda works better on our iPhone app
Continue in app Continue in browser

The Bored Panda iOS app is live! Fight boredom with iPhones and iPads here.

Husband Shuts Down $56K Lexus Purchase, Walks Wife Out Of Dealership
Wife sitting in car smiling as husband reaches in to take car key from her at the dealership.
User submission

Husband Shuts Down $56K Lexus Purchase, Walks Wife Out Of Dealership

43

ADVERTISEMENT

Shopping for a new car is an undeniably exciting experience. However, this thrill can sometimes cloud judgment, which leads to impulsive decisions and unnecessary overspending. Salespeople take advantage of this, too, making it harder not to fall for their tricks and later regret the decision reached on the spur of the moment.

This woman was also on the brink of taking the salesperson’s bait and buying a car that was way out of the family’s budget. Luckily, her husband swooped in and saved her from making the mistake. However, later, he started wondering if he had messed up, as his wife said he was quite impolite during it.

RELATED:

    Excitement that often comes with purchasing a car can lead to mistakes and impulse buys

    Woman sitting in a car smiling while handing car keys to a man outside at a dealership, showing a car purchase moment.

    Image credits: unsplash (not the actual photo)

    This woman almost made a hefty mistake too, but luckily her husband was there to save her from it

    Husband drags wife out of dealership before she can show him the car she wants during their car purchase visit.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Text about husband setting a car budget and not giving wife a chance to choose the car she wants at dealership.

    Text about husband not giving wife a chance to show the car she wants at the dealership before dragging her away.

    Text describing a Lexus dealership conversation about a friend working there who helped arrange a car deal.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Text showing a husband describing a car dealership visit where the wife discusses car options with a salesman.

    Husband and wife at car dealership, husband pulling wife away before she can show him the car she wants

    Image credits: unsplash (not the actual photo)

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Couple at car dealership, husband dragging wife away before she can show him the car she wants to buy.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Husband drags wife out of dealership, not giving her a chance to show the car she wants to buy.

    Husband drags wife out of dealership before she can show him the car she wants, causing tension during car shopping.

    Husband drags wife out of dealership before she can show him the car she wants, causing tension over car choice.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Husband drags wife out of dealership before she can show him the car she wants, causing tension at the car dealership.

    Image credits:

    There’s always a possibility that buyers will overpay for a car if they aren’t careful enough

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants in modern showroom.

    Image credits: pexels (not the actual photo) 

    The family was right to look into buying a used car, as it usually saves people a lot of money.

    “Buying a used car is a great way to save money,” agreed car coach Lauren Fix in a previous interview with Bored Panda. “Purchasing a CPO (certified pre-owned) is the wisest choice, depending on your budget. You get the warranty and leave the depreciation to the first owner.”

    “Buying used can save you thousands—cars lose value fast in the first few years, so someone else takes that hit for you,” seconded car flipper and content creator Lucky McNamara. “If you know what to look for, a used car can be just as reliable as new. Plus, your money goes further—you can often get a higher-end model for the price of a basic new one.”

    That said, even when purchasing a used car, there’s a possibility that buyers will overpay if they aren’t careful enough. It’s a mistake that the woman in the story almost made, too. Many people aren’t aware, but car salespeople use various tactics to sell better, which comes at the expense of the customer.

    Car salespeople have many tricks up their sleeves that influence buyers’ decisions

    Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

    One of them (also used by the salesperson in this story) is talking about the type of payment the buyers are looking for before even talking about the price of the car. “If you’re focused on payment, they will stretch the term as far as possible to get you a ‘payment’ you’re happy with, even though you’ve overpaid on the car,” said Simon Lawrence, a used car d****r in Nashville.

    “They also make money when you finance, as much as $3,000 in some cases. A great salesman should never begin with payment. Instead, they should be polite in addressing your budgeting concerns.”

    Some other strategies that salespeople use to influence buying decisions are not leaving customers alone, giving deals on trading in the vehicle, answering questions with misleading information, avoiding talking about hidden costs, and playing the waiting game that drains patience and energy, and leads to worse decisions.

    It’s crucial to do homework before buying a car and not make decisions on impulse

    Woman sitting at a table using a laptop, frustrated as husband drags her out of car dealership before she shows the car

    Image credits: pexels (not the actual photo)

    That’s why it’s necessary to be prepared before buying a car and never buy on impulse, Fix advised. “You can do more homework on the internet and find out more information than a salesman knows about a car,” Lawrence added.

    When buying a car, you can never be too sure, so it’s important to ask all the questions. “If they give you a hard time, walk away. You’re the one with the money and the power,” automotive expert Amelia Dalgaard suggested.

    Other things that Dalgaard recommended looking out for when buying a used car include:

    • Ensure the vehicle has been well maintained (CarFax and maintenance reports are good, but if you can bring it to a mechanic, even better).
    • Ensure it hasn’t been damaged in a fire, flood, or accident.
    • Ensure the car you’re buying is indeed that vehicle—check the VIN.

    Many commenters supported the husband for saving on the car

    Husband drags wife out of dealership before she can show him the car she wants during a tense car buying moment

    Screenshot of a conversation about Mustang Mach E price, highlighting husbands not giving wife a chance at car dealership.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership, not letting her show the car she wants during their visit.

    Screenshot of a forum comment mentioning ex car sales experience agreeing with described sales tactics.

    Comment about husband not giving wife a chance to show car choice as he drags her out of dealership.

    Comment on a forum about a husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she shows him the car she wants.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants during a disagreement.

    Couple at car dealership with husband dragging wife outside, not giving her a chance to show the car she wants.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants inside the showroom.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership, not letting her show him the car she wants to buy.

    Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing a husband not giving wife a chance to show him the car she wants at dealership.

    Comment on a forum post discussing a husband dragging his wife out of a car dealership before she can show him the car she wants.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants in frustration.

    Husband drags wife out of car dealership, not giving her a chance to show the car she wants during purchase discussions.

    Text comment about husband dragging wife out of car dealership, highlighting conflict over car choice.

    Man drags wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants during tense car buying moment.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership as she tries to show him the car she wants to buy.

    Husband drags wife out of car dealership, not allowing her to show the car she wants during purchase decision.

    Husband drags wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants, causing a tense moment.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants, in a tense moment.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership as she tries to show him the car she wants to buy.

    Husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants, causing tension between them.

    Comment discussing disagreement about a wife not getting a chance to show the car she wants at dealership.

    Comment discussing a husband not giving wife a chance to show car choice, dragging her out of dealership.

    Comment discussing a husband dragging wife out of car dealership before she shows him the car she wants.

    Comment stating a woman seemed cold and unreceptive to a budget previously agreed on by the couple at the car dealership.

    Reddit user sharing frustrations about struggling with a car choice made by partner, affecting family and budget decisions.

    Reddit comment discussing price disagreement when wife tries to show car at dealership but husband drags her out.

    Husband drags wife out of dealership, not giving her a chance to show the car she wants during the sale process.

    Couple at car dealership with husband dragging wife out before she can show him the car she wants to buy

    Husband drags wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants, causing tension.

    Husband pulls wife out of car dealership before she can show him the car she wants during a tense visit.

    Comment discussing the importance of budget and finances before car dealership visits, related to husband dragging wife out.

    While some thought he could have handled things better

    Comment discussing lack of communication as husband drags wife out of car dealership before she shows him car she wants.

    Husband drags wife out of car dealership, not giving her a chance to show him the car she wants.

    Comment criticizing husband for domineering behavior and not allowing wife to choose car at dealership.

    Text conversation criticizing a husband for not letting wife show car choice and dragging her out of dealership.

    Husband drags wife out of car dealership before she shows him the car she wants to buy.

    Poll Question

    Total votes ·

    Thanks! Check out the results:

    Total votes ·

    36Kviews

    Share on Facebook
    Austeja Zokaitė

    Austeja Zokaitė

    Author, Community member

    Read more »

    Hi, glad you swung by! My name is Austėja, and in the past, I was a writer at Bored Panda. In my time here, I’ve covered some fun topics such as scrungy cats and pareidolia, as well as more serious ones about mental health and relationship hiccups. You can check them out below! I hope you enjoy reading them as much as I enjoyed writing them:)

    Read less »
    Austeja Zokaitė

    Austeja Zokaitė

    Author, Community member

    Hi, glad you swung by! My name is Austėja, and in the past, I was a writer at Bored Panda. In my time here, I’ve covered some fun topics such as scrungy cats and pareidolia, as well as more serious ones about mental health and relationship hiccups. You can check them out below! I hope you enjoy reading them as much as I enjoyed writing them:)

    Rugilė Baltrunaitė

    Rugilė Baltrunaitė

    Author, Community member

    Read more »

    This lazy panda forgot to write something about itself.

    Read less »

    Rugilė Baltrunaitė

    Rugilė Baltrunaitė

    Author, Community member

    This lazy panda forgot to write something about itself.

    Rugilė Žemaitytė

    Rugilė Žemaitytė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Read more »

    As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, my favorite part of the job involves browsing the web for the cutest cat pics, the funniest memes and eye-catching illustrations to brighten up your day!

    Read less »

    Rugilė Žemaitytė

    Rugilė Žemaitytė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, my favorite part of the job involves browsing the web for the cutest cat pics, the funniest memes and eye-catching illustrations to brighten up your day!

    What do you think ?
    J Adams
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    56,000 for a car that will be approaching or just past the manufacturers warranty and likely to start developing faults is ridiculous. Just had a quick look and she could have got a brand new 2025 Lexus suv for 38,000

    michael Chock
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can afford $800 car payments, then buy a clunker and put away $800 a month until you can buy a car outright. Never buy new. Even a car with 5,000 miles will be much cheaper and good cars don't get real issues until around 50,000 -100,000 miles

    Ace
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with buying new, if you can afford it. Doing so on finance tells me that you cannot afford it.

    Load More Replies...
    Babs McGurk
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People need to live within their means. Lots of people want to drive an expensive car, but their income and budget won't allow it. SAHM needs to realize that being a single income family won't allow her to drive a Lexus right now. Maybe someday down the road, when the children are older, she will get a job and contribute to the family income. Until then, don't do into huge debt for a fancy car.

    Load More Comments
    J Adams
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    56,000 for a car that will be approaching or just past the manufacturers warranty and likely to start developing faults is ridiculous. Just had a quick look and she could have got a brand new 2025 Lexus suv for 38,000

    michael Chock
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can afford $800 car payments, then buy a clunker and put away $800 a month until you can buy a car outright. Never buy new. Even a car with 5,000 miles will be much cheaper and good cars don't get real issues until around 50,000 -100,000 miles

    Ace
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with buying new, if you can afford it. Doing so on finance tells me that you cannot afford it.

    Load More Replies...
    Babs McGurk
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People need to live within their means. Lots of people want to drive an expensive car, but their income and budget won't allow it. SAHM needs to realize that being a single income family won't allow her to drive a Lexus right now. Maybe someday down the road, when the children are older, she will get a job and contribute to the family income. Until then, don't do into huge debt for a fancy car.

    Load More Comments
    You May Like
    Related on Bored Panda
    Popular on Bored Panda
    Trending on Bored Panda
    Also on Bored Panda
    ADVERTISEMENT