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Dad Calls Out Wife After She Teaches Their Daughter To Treat Her Boyfriend Like A Personal ATM
Middle-aged dad and wife sitting apart on a couch with crossed arms, showing tension after a relationship conflict.

Dad Calls Out Wife After She Teaches Their Daughter To Treat Her Boyfriend Like A Personal ATM

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Parents need to agree on core values so that children get a clear message about what their family stands for and against.

For father and Reddit user lost-my-mind-in-LA and his wife, a big part of that had been gender equality—or at least he thought so.

The man uploaded a candid confession to the platform, explaining that he was shocked to learn that she was teaching their teenage daughter to use her boyfriend as a personal ATM.

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    But his wife saw him as an opportunity to teach the girl how to take advantage of boys financially

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    People who read the father’s story were just as appalled by his wife’s behavior as he was

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

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    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Writer, Senior Writer

    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "girls will be girls" is as harmful as "boys will be boys" to building a good relationship. I'd question my marriage to anyone who was setting my daughter up to have an unhealthy first relationship. If you start out with bad habits, it's all the harder to learn the good ones that are required for a good foundation.

    Sylvain
    Community Member
    19 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a good lesson - for the poor boy, getting exploited this early will let him know how to recognize gold diggers in the future. Your daughter is becoming the example for many guys in the future to learn to avoid.

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    Argle Bargle
    Community Member
    2 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Sorry honey, Daddy has to leave because he's just become aware that you and mommy think I'm nothing more than an ATM. No, you can't come and see me"

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "girls will be girls" is as harmful as "boys will be boys" to building a good relationship. I'd question my marriage to anyone who was setting my daughter up to have an unhealthy first relationship. If you start out with bad habits, it's all the harder to learn the good ones that are required for a good foundation.

    Sylvain
    Community Member
    19 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a good lesson - for the poor boy, getting exploited this early will let him know how to recognize gold diggers in the future. Your daughter is becoming the example for many guys in the future to learn to avoid.

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    Argle Bargle
    Community Member
    2 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Sorry honey, Daddy has to leave because he's just become aware that you and mommy think I'm nothing more than an ATM. No, you can't come and see me"

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