Man “Snoops” On His Wife’s Convo With Her Sister, Devastated After Learning About Her Infidelity

It’s strange how some people don’t understand the concept of commitment, because we hear so many stories of secret affairs. Personally, I know a few relationships that have been affected by infidelity, and many times I feel glad to be single at the moment.

Speaking of cheating, this man overheard his wife’s confession to her sister, and he was devastated. Although it had happened just at the beginning of their relationship, the wound was fresh, so he wondered what to do about it. Scroll down to find out how he handled the traumatic situation!

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It’s funny how the truth has a way of always showing up, no matter how much a person tries to hide it

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The poster and his wife had been together for 15 years when he overheard her confession that she had cheated at the beginning of their relationship

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Apparently, she wasn’t sure about him at that point, but he was utterly devastated as it was just after they were “exclusive”

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He was wondering whether to confront her or not, but after listening to netizens’ suggestions and speaking to his therapist, he decided to do it

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When he finally asked her about it, she broke down in tears and claimed that she had exaggerated in front of her sister, but it was “just a kiss”

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She also said that she had regretted it immediately after it happened, and that things didn’t get “intimate” beyond the “make out”

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The poster believed that she was telling the truth and that there was no chance of her ever “cheating” after that, so he forgave her

In today’s story, the original poster (OP) tells us that he had been together with his wife for 15 years when he found out something horrifying. He overheard her talking to her sister, confessing that right at the start of their relationship, she had cheated on OP as she couldn’t see a future with him. The poor poster was struck with sorrow and wondered what to do.

He confessed online that they had a very loving relationship before he found out, and they respected each other a lot. Well, many netizens advised him to confront her, and along with encouragement from his therapist, he agreed to do it. When he sat her down and asked her about it, his wife broke down in tears and confessed everything.

She had just gotten out of a bad relationship when she started dating OP, but her friends felt that she needed to have more “fun” as she was getting serious with him. That’s when the “slip” happened, which she regretted immediately. However, she told the poster that she had exaggerated in front of her sister, as she had only made out with the guy, nothing more than that.

OP was more hurt about the fact that she hid it from him for so many years, but she claimed that she didn’t want to lose him over a stupid mistake. Well, the poster believed her, and although things were tough, he decided to forgive her and work through things. However, netizens were pretty surprised by this as they felt that she had twisted the story that she had told her sister.

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To be honest, I get their suspicions as they felt that her argument wasn’t convincing enough. Also, they were skeptical whether she had cheated again. The thing is, even research suggests that someone is three times more likely to cheat if they have cheated in the past. Moreover, a person is two to four times more likely to be cheated on if they have been cheated on previously.

Obviously, doubt can be rooted deep within anyone upon finding out a partner’s infidelity. Experts also agree that “Unquestionably, intimate betrayal is a trust-buster that can lead otherwise emotionally stable individuals into self-doubt, darkness, and confusion. In today’s mental health world, this type of betrayal is commonly viewed as an attachment wound.”

That’s probably why netizens were so surprised that he instantly forgave her, and they also felt that she had just pinned the whole thing on “bad friends.” Well, we can sit here and judge him all we want, but it definitely must have been a tough thing to do, right? Even experts stress that it can be one of the most challenging decisions that a person can make. 

They further explain that it doesn’t erase the hurt or undo the betrayal. Instead, forgiveness is an internal process, a gradual transformation of emotions from anger, bitterness, and resentment toward empathy and compassion for oneself. Well, whatever decision OP made, I hope he’s in a better place with his wife now. What would you do in his shoes? Let us know in the comments!

Netizens felt that the woman had twisted the story she had told her sister, and many suspected that she had lied to the poster

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