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Ginger Woman Stunned After BF’s Sis Wants Her To Dye Her Hair Black For The Wedding, Says No Way
Weddings are supposed to be a joyous occasion for people to come together to celebrate the bridal couple. Unfortunately, they can also be full of drama, sometimes caused by the guests, and other times by the bride and groom themselves.
This is exactly what happened when a woman was invited to her boyfriend’s sister’s wedding and was told point-blank by the bride to change almost everything about herself to fit in. Luckily, she shared an update about the situation a year later to tell folks what went down after that.
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Wedding guests should follow the general rules set by the bride and groom, but don’t have to go overboard trying to fulfill their every whim
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The poster explained that she was on good terms with her boyfriend’s family, but noticed some issues when his sister got engaged
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The bride-to-be demanded that her brother be one of the groomsmen and began taking out her annoyance on the poster when he denied the request
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The woman was met with absurd demands about dying her hair black, following a specific dress code, and was told she wouldn’t even be given a dinner plate
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Folks were shocked by the bride’s behavior and were glad when the poster shared an update in the comments about how she had made her boundaries clear
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Since many people wanted to know what happened later on, the poster shared an update after a year, stating that she had, in fact, attended the wedding
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The woman mentioned that both the rehearsal dinner and the wedding were a mess, and that the bride tried to undermine her several times during the main events
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The woman was glad that she showed up in a dress of her choice, with her piercings, and regular hair, and she noticed that many others had done the same
The poster explained that her boyfriend’s traditional family had been polite and kind to her despite her having an “alternative” style. It was only when his sister got engaged that the problems started, mainly because he refused to be a groomsman for her wedding and didn’t want to buy the expensive tux she wanted.
It’s normal for brides and grooms to want their wedding to be perfect, but experts state that the stress of such expectations might put a strain on themselves and their relationships. In an effort to have everything go smoothly, the bridal couple might make crazy demands on their loved ones, and this can end up causing conflict.
That’s exactly what happened in this situation when the man told his sister that he didn’t want to be one of the groomsmen. Instead of accepting his wishes, she began taking out her annoyance on the poster by ordering her to dye her hair black, conform to a dress code, and even take out her piercings.
It’s definitely important for people to give their wedding guests certain rules to follow so that the ceremony and reception can go smoothly. According to etiquette professionals, it only becomes a problem when one expects guests to conform to rigid orders and go overboard just to fit your vision.
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After having to deal with the pushiness of the bride-to-be, the poster laid down her boundaries and said that she wouldn’t be following all of the woman’s extreme rules. She also mentioned that she wouldn’t attend the wedding if it meant she’d have to dye her hair or remove her piercings.
In the end, despite the entire conflict, the OP attended the rehearsal and the wedding and was shocked by how disorganized it all was. It also seemed like the bridal couple hadn’t planned their events properly, and there ended up being a lot of confusion. Luckily, though, the poster went to the events as herself and enjoyed the party regardless of how messy it all was.
In situations like this, it’s easy for guests to get angry about the demands of the bride and groom, but it’s also important to understand that they have a lot to plan and manage themselves. Professionals state that a good thing you can do is to try your best to help them and not feel guilty if you can’t meet every expectation.
The best part is that through all of the drama leading up to the wedding, the poster’s boyfriend had supported her and taken her side. Even when his sister was bullying her, he had her back and made sure that his girlfriend didn’t have to change herself just to fit in.
What do you think about this story, and have you ever had to deal with a demanding bridal couple? We’d love to hear any unhinged wedding stories you might have.
People were shocked by the woman’s update and were glad that she and her boyfriend stood their ground
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Jumping Jellyfishes 1 hour ago
Been to a wedding with a grown guy (one of the groomsmen) as “the flower guy”. He danced down the aisle, tossing petals from a waist pouch. He’d been nervous how this was going to be received, but all of us guests loved it!
Paul C 6 minutes ago
I always support a bride and groom's right to have any wedding they want (so long as they are paying for it). But I also support anyone who does not want to comply with any rules for it and therefore declines the invitation. My sister wanted a child free wedding, with the only under 18 who would possibly attend was my 18 month old. I replied saying no problem, if all my family aren't welcome, we're happy to miss the event. My parents tried to get me to attend without my wife and son, but I held firm. As the only sibling of the bride, she decided the optics were too bad if I was missing, so an exemption was granted for her nephew, who was a delight all day, totally fascinated with so much new to see. Her in-laws were very big on family unity, and had met me, which I think persuaded her I had to be there no matter what.
Jumping Jellyfishes 1 hour ago
Been to a wedding with a grown guy (one of the groomsmen) as “the flower guy”. He danced down the aisle, tossing petals from a waist pouch. He’d been nervous how this was going to be received, but all of us guests loved it!
Paul C 6 minutes ago
I always support a bride and groom's right to have any wedding they want (so long as they are paying for it). But I also support anyone who does not want to comply with any rules for it and therefore declines the invitation. My sister wanted a child free wedding, with the only under 18 who would possibly attend was my 18 month old. I replied saying no problem, if all my family aren't welcome, we're happy to miss the event. My parents tried to get me to attend without my wife and son, but I held firm. As the only sibling of the bride, she decided the optics were too bad if I was missing, so an exemption was granted for her nephew, who was a delight all day, totally fascinated with so much new to see. Her in-laws were very big on family unity, and had met me, which I think persuaded her I had to be there no matter what.
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