Woman Invades Personal Space On A Plane, Flier Comes Up With A Genius Plan To Get Back At Her
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It’s common knowledge that personal space should be respected, especially on a plane where room for maneuver seems to get smaller and smaller every time you travel. If you ask any flyer, they would probably agree that there should be a booklet in the compartment of every seat listing the dos and don’ts of neighboring with others on an aircraft.
One of them would definitely be this person, who recently sat next to a woman who felt entitled to control window shade all the way from her aisle seat. However, they weren’t going to let such behavior slide and came up with a three-act plan on how to get back at her.
Scroll down to find the full story and a conversation with etiquette educator and founding manager of Etiquette for the Business of Life, Candace Smith, who kindly agreed to give us some pointers on how to share space on a plane politely.
In places lacking personal space, like an airplane, it’s important to respect it
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However, this woman didn’t get the memo and felt entitled to control the window shade all the way from her aisle seat
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Lack of space often causes discomfort to passengers
It appears that the tight personal space on airplanes isn’t imaginary. Contrary to many beliefs, it’s not the cause of shrinking seat width but rather the tightening of passenger legroom. The technical term for this is seat pitch, which is the distance between rows, which often varies from airline to airline.
It’s estimated that the biggest US domestic carriers, like American, Delta, Southwest, and United, have lost around 2 to 5 inches in legroom since 2011. On cheaper carriers such as Spirit Airlines, it has decreased even more, dropping to 28 inches. Meanwhile, the average distance today is about 31 inches.
By doing this, it allows the companies to accommodate more passengers in airplane cabins and offer an overall cheaper airfare. However, it has resulted in frustration from flyers who endure discomfort from the lack of space. Some have even started questioning safety, as none of the US airlines’ economy seats meet the standards required for safety positions in case of an emergency.
In addition, federal regulations require that all people be safely evacuated in 90 seconds, and cramped seating significantly interferes with this timing. Under pressure from frustrated passengers, Congress instructed the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) to consider adapting seat standards. In response to these directions, the FAA conducted a series of evacuation tests using 755 volunteers in Oklahoma.
Some of the trials used seats with a 28-inch pitch, one of the narrowest in the industry. The results reveal that “evacuations at a narrow seat pitch are safe for virtually all (99%) of the able-bodied population.” The FAA added, “The study results do not consider passenger comfort (or the lack thereof), which impacts a passenger’s sense of well-being during a flight.”
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Passengers should know a few etiquette suggestions to ensure a more pleasant journey
Since the lack of personal space in airplanes doesn’t seem to be solved any time soon, passengers should know a few etiquette suggestions to ensure a more pleasant journey and not end up a victim of a petty revenge plan.
Therefore, Bored Panda reached out to etiquette educator Candace Smith, who agreed to share a few pointers on how to behave with neighboring people on a flight. She says that the infamous window shade should be controlled by the person sitting next to it. “Should there be a need or special request, the flight attendant makes the call,” she adds.
Meanwhile, the armrests belong to the person who is sitting in the middle seat. Smith tells us, “My own rule is that middle-seat folks have first rights to armrests. Flight attendants are there to assist if there is a problem.”
The space in front of your seat is also mostly yours. It becomes shared when the person in front of you decides to recline their seat. Typically, how far back they can go should be negotiated with a quick question asking for permission. Meanwhile, the area under your seat belongs to you as long as your things or carry-on bags don’t push into another person’s space.
When an issue of personal space does occur, Smith notes, “Being respectful and courteous to others is always a number one consideration. Asking yourself, “What’s it like to be on the other side of mom?” can serve you well.”
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I dunno, seems like a lot of passive aggression. Flipping someone off, shining a light in their eyes, stopping dead in front of them isn't 'voicing' anger, it's acting out. The OP did manage to be direct once, but they should have done it earlier rather than completing to break the window shade.
Exactly. Someone reaches over like that, I will immediately (and politely) ask them to stop. If they don't I can still escalate and not even be passive-aggressive about it. But all that silence and glaring and plotting petty s**t feels cowardly.
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Yeah this was an amazing nonstory, "two mildly jerky people sat on a plane, not much happened". Amazing how OP has just been occupied with the Defence Of the Blind for multiple hours.
Load More Replies... I dunno, seems like a lot of passive aggression. Flipping someone off, shining a light in their eyes, stopping dead in front of them isn't 'voicing' anger, it's acting out. The OP did manage to be direct once, but they should have done it earlier rather than completing to break the window shade.
Exactly. Someone reaches over like that, I will immediately (and politely) ask them to stop. If they don't I can still escalate and not even be passive-aggressive about it. But all that silence and glaring and plotting petty s**t feels cowardly.
Load More Replies... Yeah this was an amazing nonstory, "two mildly jerky people sat on a plane, not much happened". Amazing how OP has just been occupied with the Defence Of the Blind for multiple hours.
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