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46 Things That Surprised Non-Americans The Most When They Finally Got To See The US With Their Own Eyes
The USA is hardly some mysterious place hidden on the map. Even people who have never been there usually know quite a bit about it, mostly through TV, movies, books, the news, and other media. Still, seeing a country on screen is very different from experiencing it in person, and travelers can end up noticing plenty of things they never expected.
One Redditor asked users to share the biggest culture shocks they experienced during their first trip to the US, and the responses covered all kinds of surprises. We gathered some of the most interesting ones below. Scroll down to read them.
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#1
How kind the American people are.
If you believe a fraction of what you read on places like reddit you'd think they were all evil incarnate.
Doctor Strange 4 hours ago
Just a reminder, less than 1/3 of the population voted for Rump. He only 'won' because of people not voting and the electoral college. There is also enough evidence to warrant investigation that Muskrat rigged voting machines. The vast majority of Americans are NOT magats.
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#2
I assume this question is related to the world cup, but I visited the USA for the first time exactly one year ago today, I'd already traveled to many other countries before that and I never was interested on visiting the USA, because of all the bad things one can read on the net on top of the current political situation, ICE, etc. on top of that I was visiting Texas which leans more to the right and it clashes with my views.
How wrong I was, I was IMMENSELY impressed by the warmth of the people (and the climate too!) and how educated most of them where. There wasn't a single day where I was out on the street and a random person wouldn't strike some conversation, compliment my tshirt, or my hat. Seriously I was incredibly glad to have been wrong on this, I was very surprised and just going around the city was already a lot of fun when considering all these interactions, I'd love to visit again for a longer time.
#3
I came from a small island. The fact that you can drive in a straight line for hours is so weird.
#4
So much visible homelessness and mental health issues
#5
The sheer size of your forests. Flew from North Carolina to Boston and looked down on forests for most of the trip. Appalachians perhaps?!
#6
People talking about Jesus. Not preachers, just people conversing normally. Weird as hell to me.
Michael Largey 12 hours ago (edited)
So often that Jesus's opinion means theirs. And so often that they're shocking wrong.
#7
How difficult it was to exist without a car.
I could see the store from my hotel, but there was no pavement, no safe crossing, and a six-lane road between us.
It was physically close and somehow a 20-minute drive away.
Roman Arendt 11 hours ago
Definitely just a weird coincidence. Certainly no agenda behind it. Honni soit qui mal y pense...
#8
there's so much sky. any time i say this to anybody, they look at me like i'm nuts. i live in a huge british city where there are skyscrapers and huge buildings everywhere all densely packed together and i feel like in a way it "blinds" you to anything else around you. then on top of that, you've the fact it's always so rainy and overcast and grey here and everything feels so lifeless.
when i went to the states and drove around random smaller, residential parts of socal where everything's a lot smaller and way more spread out, i saw so much sky.
it's really hard to explain but it really hit me, especially during the gorgeous sunsets and sunrises and palm trees and greenery... like it snapped me out of everyday autopilot mode and reminded me there's a whole, massive, beautiful world out there and that i exist in it, not just in my own little grey one.
#9
Landed in Atlanta in July - the HEAT. The humidity. How bright it was. The speed of everything, the size of everything. The shock of driving on a freeway and feeling like I would die.
The immense choice of everything. Freedom to speak openly and loudly is shocking. Paying for healthcare is still shocking after 2 decades here.
How kind & friendly most people are here. How truly awful a very few can be.
Biggest shocks overall: how people just accept that outrages like mass school shootings are just a normal part of life and cannot be stopped.
How politicians here are so blatantly corrupt and self-serving, yet are liked, tolerated and voted back in again time after time.
Tabitha 2 hours ago (edited)
No, we do NIT accept such outrages as just a normal and unstoppable part of life. No one anywhere could. We are just hitting so many brick walls trying so hard to stop it. We just have to never stop trying to chip away at those walls until they finally collapse—-and they will collapse, d**n it.
#10
The fact that a 3 lane per way road was not a major highway... Just a street
Bob Brooce 8 hours ago
I wonder if they got around enough to find out that our interstates are mostly 2 lanes each way.
#11
Shocked that there's people working 12 hours or more, 5/6 days a week to survive
Geoffrey Scott 4 hours ago
Did it for 18 years( auto supplier), and frequently 7 day weeks. Overtime raised our one outside worker family.
#12
All the streets looked like movie sets: very nice houses, no garbage and lots of trees.
#13
The quantity of food. I’m English, and if there’s a large option I’ll buy it because I love to eat. On our first morning in the US we went to get breakfast and I ordered the large breakfast, without looking at what it contained. The first things they bought me were 8 slices of toast and a literal dinner plate full of bacon. I could not comprehend that.
#14
Size of cars, pickup trucks specifically and freedom to fill up your own fountain drink.
Bob Brooce 8 hours ago
I've lived here all my life and I still can't believe the size of modern pickups and large SUVs. The part that's really crazy is most of the people buying pickups almost never actually need one.
#15
People are a lot more friendly if you are black with a forign accent than if you are black with an American accent
#16
How much everyone smiles and starts conversations with complete strangers
#17
Homeless veterans with oxygen tanks.
Tabitha 1 hour ago
That is a scandal we want to work on improving, along with many others, only we right now have an administration full of cruel crooks who only want to line their own pockets. So we need to work on getting rid of them (arresting, convicting, and imprisoning them) before we can make any inroads toward that goal.
#18
Not me but I had this question with a friend. They said the weirdest thing was the medicine commercials and that there was so many of them.
Michael Largey 12 hours ago
All due to a pro-profit health care system instead of a pro-person one.
#19
I'm from arctic Canada. I knew 1 black person.
In grade 9 I went to Baltimore for my aunts wedding and seeing so many black people in real life was mind blowing, because even the limited TV I was watching back then was pretty white washed. Mom had to tell me not to stare many times
T'Mar of Vulcan 4 hours ago
Whenever I go somewhere with only/mostly white people it seems very weird. I'm from Johannesburg, South Africa.
#20
Seeing squirrel and deer roam freely
Elladine DesIsles 11 hours ago
Are there places that manage to prevent squirrels roaming freely? (And if so, why?) Or just places with no squirrels?
#22
When I just moved to the US I was flabbergasted by the vending machines. My first ever American drink in America was a grape Fanta can from a vending machine in New York. It was the best drink I’ve ever had.
That’s all I yam 8 hours ago
My daughter and her husband just moved to Japan. She says they have vending machines for everything.
#23
The size of Lake Michigan. I asked other passengers what ocean we were flying over.
#24
(Brit here) The service. I had been travelling with work and my last destination was Washington DC. We were staying in Georgetown. I needed food but I wasnt particularly hungry. I just wanted something to get me by after a few days of flights and poor diet. I ended up getting a pulled pork sandwich with fries. I thought this would be... well a sandwich with some chips. It was massive. I barely made a dent in it. Delicious as it was.the girl serving me looked utterly distraught that I didnt each much and didnt want to take it with me. (Im in a hotel). I felt so bad for her for not eating all my massive dinner.
FranSinclair 13 hours ago
As servers we're just worried you dont like it and dont want to tell us. Or even worse not tell us, then leave a review 🙊
#25
My son drove some company associates from the Netherlands and Great Britain from Cleveland to Indy on business.
One of them fell asleep as soon as they left the airport and woke up 2 hrs later and asked if they'd left yet.
Everything looked the same, just flat, lol.
#26
That NYC was pretty much exactly like on TV and in movies. This was in 1976.
#27
Being asked how well done I want my hamburger cooked at a restaurant
#28
The border control questions. Having to officially declare on a form that I wasn’t traveling with a medieval catapult.
#29
The portion sizes. I ordered a small drink and accidentally hydrated a family of four.
#30
People actually say “Have a nice day!”… and somehow they mean it.
That’s all I yam 8 hours ago
Yep and Yep! For most of us, we'd rather see people get along well in their lives and not feel the vibes when they're not.
#31
My middle eastern friend:
Restaurant portions, as well as being served extras that you didn’t order (like ordering ham & eggs snd getting ham & eggs and a biscuit and potatoes)
Using distance measurements like a block or a football field
The 13th floor being awol from all tall buildings
Countdown timer for pedestrians crossing the street
The bs we call couscous
#32
17,398 sizes shapes and brands of every common household item on sale in a store, and plastic-wrapped individual produce.
FranSinclair 12 hours ago
I didnt think individually wrapped produce was much of a thing around here? Ive never seen it except online, in other countries?
#33
When I first arrived in the US I used to go to the supermarket for entertainment. The abundance was overwhelming. A whole wall of milk products in every conceivable variety. Gallon jugs of chocolate milk fer crissakes! Who drinks a gallon of chocolate milk? That's a special treat you order in a restaurant occaisonally. Where I had come from there was just one kind of milk, sold in leaky 1 liter bags and if you didn't get there before 11 am you were SOL.
#34
Most Americans are not their politics. Don't let our media convince you that we're all rabid, slavering loons.
Most people, yes, even ones who skew MAGA are decent and polite.
#35
How BIG everything is. Roads, buildings, food portions, people, attitudes, tourism, tips, voices, drama .... everything.
#36
It's a land of good and bad.
Good: The people are amazing. I drove from north to south and everyone I met from Minnesota to Pensacola was extremely friendly and welcoming. The food was great and portions were huge. Walmart and target are fun to explore. The nature parks are amazing!
Bad: Advertising EVERYWHERE. You can't drive down the highway withoit a billboard every half mile. Can't enjoy the scenery because of the billboards in the way. The price on the price tag is not the price you pay. Have to add tax. Tipping is crazy. I don't understand why it's simply not added to the price. You're guilted into tipping for buying a bottle of water.
#37
Visiting Niagara Falls NY... 2 minutes from the falls and I had never seen poverty like that in my life
keyboardtek 3 hours ago (edited)
Tip to anyone planning a trip to Niagara Falls: after seeing the falls, be sure to go further down the river to the trails where one can hike down to the Niagara Gorge and hang out next to the ten foot high rapids whizzing by at 30mph. The Canadian side access is at Whirlpool Park. The Americans side trail head is poorly marked and one has to park off the highway to get to it.
#39
Seeing elderly people working. Places like Walmart etc. I was in tears seeing that
#40
We went to Michigan for my son's soccer tournament. Visited Michigan State university.
Then we decided to go to Detroit and see Eminem's house. We saw the ghetto and was surprised how deep the ghetto was. It was almost 40 mins drive though the ghetto.
Im from Asia and seen many Asian countries. But I have never seen so much poverty with abandoned houses. This is not the stuff they show you on TV.
It was a good eye opener for my kids as well. And yes, we were too afraid to get out of our cars.
#41
How loud people are, I genuinely thought it was just a stereotype it's like some of you are hard of hearing.
Skara Brae 8 hours ago
You only hear the loud ones. And it depends on where you go. Some places, like bars and restaurants, deliberately avoid installing sound-deadening ceiling tiles or wall panels because they think loud establishments are more "exiting" to customers. Therefore, they attract mostly loud people who think loud places are exiting, and they probably drink more beer than quiet people.
#42
How dated so much of the infrastructure was. I've been to a lot of the big cities and it honestly felt like nothing had moved on from the 90s at best.
Skara Brae 8 hours ago
That's a symptom of decades of "tax cuts" that reduced the funding for government projects, primarily benefiting the 1%.
#44
How unbelievably humid it was in New Jersey and then, after a 30 minute drive over the state border heading towards upstate New York, how clear the air had become and how radically different the landscape was.
Additionally, when we traveled back to New York City and tried to take a famous yellow cab from outside Penn St Station, the cabbie could barely speak passable English, and didn’t really know how to drive his cab to our hotel in Brooklyn.
I don’t know how the cab licensing works in Manhattan but I had assumed that he would have known how to at least get to the Brooklyn Bridge. I had to guide him using my phone’s GPS because his had run out of battery.
That’s all I yam 8 hours ago
I grew up in western Massachusetts, and it's beautiful. I spent a couple of weeks in upper state New York and I still remember it as the most beautiful area I've ever seen. Every place has it's own beauty, but for what ever reason, upper state New York is special to me.
#45
How good the food was and how much you get for so little.
#46
Open carry, scared the living crap outta me just seeing some random old guy walking around strapped in a Walmart.
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