“I Took Him Back To His House”: Uber Client Allegedly Picks Up Mistress Right After Wife And Kids Sent Him Off, Gets Karma Served Right Back
“Not all superheroes wear capes,” wrote one TikToker under Dallas-based Uber driver Roni’s video that has recently ignited a debate on the platform. In the now-viral clip, which has attracted more than 1.7 million likes and 8.8 million views, the woman shared a story of how she exposed a man for allegedly cheating on his wife.
Roni, who goes by the handle @perfectly_unbroken, claimed a customer she picked up said goodbye and sent his love to his wife and children outside his house before entering her vehicle. But shortly after they started driving, Roni discovered the husband was having an affair. See, he added a stop during his ride, and once they pulled up to the new location, a woman with a “little bit of luggage” approached the car.
As soon as the woman got in, she allegedly said, “I’m so glad you finally got away from your damn wife.” However, the man and his mistress could not have been more wrong. Below, you’ll find Roni’s full explanation of how the situation unfolded and some of the reactions from viewers. Be sure to decide where you land on the matter, and share your thoughts with us in the comments down below.
A Dallas-based Uber driver named Roni recently went viral for sharing a video about a client she was appalled by
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When she discovered he was allegedly having an affair, the woman handled the situation as she saw fit
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You can hear Roni tell the full story right here
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It’s hardly surprising that Roni’s video caused a stir on the platform. After all, we all know that infidelity is one of the biggest offenses in a relationship that inevitably results in a whirlwind of emotions and a broken heart. While there’s no good way to learn your spouse has been disloyal, many viewers applauded how Roni handled the situation. However, some people also questioned her decision and told her to mind her own business.
In general, being cheated on is one of the top fears people have in relationships. As Gary W. Lewandowski Jr., Ph.D., a professor in the Department of Psychology at Monmouth University and the author of Stronger Than You Think: The 10 Blind Spots That Undermine Your Relationship…and How to See Past Them explained to Bored Panda in a previous interview, it represents a clear violation of trust, and it’s often worse than a partner just wanting to split up.
Lewandowski explained that cheating occurs for a variety of reasons, “but one of the most prominent is not feeling like your current relationship meets your needs. Those needs could be sexual, intellectual, emotional, or a need for personal growth.”
“Cheating is also a crime of opportunity in which it’s more likely when people believe they won’t get caught,” he added. Well, as we saw in Roni’s video, that’s not always the case. In fact, the digital world we have at our fingertips may expand opportunities for different types of unfaithfulness, but it makes it easier for offenders to get exposed.
Unfortunately, this does not contradict the fact that being cheated on is extremely heartbreaking. “Experiencing infidelity certainly has a negative impact on our well-being,” Lewandowski noted. “Having a partner cheat on you represents one of the most profound violations of trust in relationships. It’s an experience that can alter how a person navigates their future relationships by making them more jealous, more concerned about being hurt and about their partner abandoning them,” he said and added that the effects of infidelity tend to linger a long time.
“Going forward, it’s important to continue to trust future partners and be willing to make yourself vulnerable because those are key elements to healthy relationships. Granted, you may need to keep reminding yourself that the vast majority of partners are trustworthy and are unlikely to cheat, but you don’t want to allow one bad experience to undermine your future happiness as well,” the relationship expert advised.
Later on, the driver posted a follow-up video where she clarified some details about the situation
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But when we understand the toll cheating takes on a person, how do we know if we should expose the affair unfolding in front of our eyes or should we mind our own business? Especially when we’re talking about total strangers? Well, some experts say that while it may be tempting to expose infidelity, it’s best to keep that information to ourselves for the safety of all involved parties.
“It’s inadvisable because you don’t know enough about the individuals involved to understand the circumstances behind it and you may not be able to identify the risks to either you or the person being exposed,” psychiatrist Scott Haltzman told The Huffington Post. “For instance, if the spouse of the person having an affair engages in domestic violence, you could be setting up that other person to be at risk. Alternatively, if the spouse has an angry streak and can track you down, you could be setting yourself up for being at risk.”
When it comes to telling close friends and family about the heartbreaking evidence, it’s best to frame the issues as concerns rather than accusations. “If this is coming as a complete surprise, your friend may go into denial, become defensive, be embarrassed or feel devastated and angry, sometimes at you for bursting the bubble,” marriage and family therapist Sheri Meyers added. “Whatever the reaction, be compassionate.”
Cheating is never the answer, and everyone deserves to have kind, loving, and honest relationships worth having and worth keeping. We’d love to hear your thoughts on the matter. Feel free to share your opinions about the way Roni handled the situation and what you’d have done differently in her position in the comment section below.
Many people applauded Roni for doing the right thing
And others expressed concerns about her actions, saying she had no right to do it
Here’s another video where Ronni addressed people saying it’s none of her business
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You know, I almost believed this may have happened, until she said the wife called her up to thank her. Yeah, no.
Yeah, I try to give these things some benefit of the doubt.. but this is kind of cringe.
Load More Replies...If I were an Uber driver, I would mind my business all the time. Exception: life threatening situations and thefts.
That is your choice. It wasn't hers. And that is fine also.
Load More Replies...Beside the fact that I do not believe her story, the dialogue described sounds like being made up by a kid or from a bad book, it is not her business what her customers are doing, with the exceptions described by other fellow pandas.
In addition to your comment, I feel as though it isn't her business to involve herself into someone else's affairs (no pun intended.) It seems a little bit that she stepped out of line and got herself involved with something that could have entirely been a different situation. I might get downvoted for this, but it's a risk I'm willing to take.
Load More Replies...Okay, so at first I thought, it’s HER car, and she has every right to do this, especially since they actually aired all of their nasty business right there, and I exclaimed: “you go!!! Yeah! You did the right thing!!! Nice move!”, BUT now however, I’ve thought about it for a minute, and I’ve decided that, no, this was wrong and definitely none of her business. If she really disapproved of her passengers, she could have easily left them at her house, or really, anywhere else, and then she would have said her piece and moved on. That’s plenty enough to show how you feel about it. Bottom line: they’re strangers to you-it’s absolutely not your place to enforce your moral agenda. (P.S. I have an inkling that maybe, this might be a little bit made up, the details are too….cliché)
A spouse cheating, is absolutely horrible. That can really destroy the partner. Imagine the wife being completely unaware of him cheating for years, while other people in town know about it and no-one can be bothered to tell her... Yes, it's none of her business, but what happened to helping other people out? She helped the wife who may be unaware of this, she really did her a favour. If my partner was cheating on me, I really hope a cab driver would do this for me.
Its great to offer help to people who need it, like doing the grocery shopping for an old neighbour, but this here is different, and I would not want to live in a society where people punish each other when they disapprove a behavior.
Load More Replies...When you’re at work, anything you hear about another person’s personal life is NOT for sharing. The only, only exception is if it’s seriously illegal and/or a threat to life. (Like you overheard them sharing CP or such) and even then you report to the authorities. I know, I know, it feels horrible to know something you shouldn’t and that you believe others need to know. It really does. But I’ve worked in information security long enough to know where the boundaries are. And what kind of fallout can occur when those are breached.
Cheating can destroy someones esteem, trust in other people, and mental state. She did the right thing.
Load More Replies...F**k cheaters. This is great. Don't f**k around you miserable lying scumfucks.
Yep, Brad, cheating is risky. No, feeling safe when discussing your douchebaggery, pardon, "personal matters" when you can be overheard by someone who is not legally bound to be discreet, is not your God-given right. Enjoy the divorce. If the driver tells the truth about full legality of her actions, I have no problem with her.
I hope those criticizing her actions and your child(ren) never have to go through being in a deceitful relationship to begin with ... having an affair drains the family from time, money and effort towards a better life ... the mother and child deserved better and will, hopefully, now have a chance to get what they deserve ...
I'm glad that, if everything happened as presented, the "husband" didn't take out his anger and embarrassment on his wife. I'd like to hope that if the driver saw signs he had a temper or expressed ideas to harm her, she would have tried a different approach. But not everyone gives that stuff away, sometimes it's hidden terribly well, and no one has a clue that the infidelity is just the beginning of the abuse. Thankfully, that doesn't seem to be the case here, and the kids weren't home to witness it.
So obvious who all the potential cheaters are: All the "mind your business" people who just wouldn't want to be found out. I'll always tell, if I know, too. Liars/cheaters deserve to be caught.
I can only assume all the protestors of her actions are the cheating ones in their marriage. LOL! And some didn't even read the story before they commented. They were commenting on the kids being there, when the kids weren't there at all. Why post a response if you haven't read the story?
I used to live with a married couple, nothing weird, we were just friends trying to save money on rent. I found out he was cheating on her and didn't say anything because he was my friend. I do regret that decision very much, she was also my friend and I didn't do what it was right. When she found out she hated me for not saying anything. I stopped being friends with him because we weren't that close anyway.
Brillaint. Everyone should do this if they come across cheaters. F**k that agony aunt response of 'not your business' - those poor spouses deserve more than the s**t they're being handed. The woman's a hero.
If that story is true which I douted very much, she's didnt know the whole story between husband and wife. Shouldnt juge people lives
What might the whole story be? That the wife was a frigid shrew and he needed, nay, DESERVED some "understanding "? Pffft. That's what divorces are for.
Load More Replies...I might have gone back to the man’s house and told his wife but I would not have taken the riders back. I’m sure this will effect her standing with Uber and she took a big risk in getting so involved.
"...affect her standing with Uber..." Meh. Switch to Lyft.
Load More Replies...Morality and voracity aside, the "I can drop him anywhere" for contact is not meant for righteous indignity. You kidnapped two people, pure and simple. "I disliked her, the b***h, so I drove to Mexico and dropped her off with sex workers." Exaggerated, OK. How about rough area late at night? ted
That's a fair point, but a reasonable interpretation is that you can drop them between their point A and B, not take them anywhere. So point A works.
Load More Replies...I mean.... Props to her for standing up for this, but at the same time..... I wanna say mind your own business. You are a hired driver, not the morale police
Probably the fact that they decided to bring their s**t into her car. And were stupid enough to talk about it like the driver couldn't hear.
Load More Replies...If you were sooooo uncomfortable with the cheaters in your car, you should've ended the ride when the other woman got in. Not your circus, not your clowns And who appointed you to the role of Morality and Ethics Chief anyway? .ind your own biscuits
I don't believe this at all. Nobody would have called her an angel for dropping the guy and his side chick back on the sidewalk. And I'm uncomfortable with the idea of it. Just, "Stranger, I don't approve of what you're doing so here, I'm going to force a confrontation." It doesn't seem right.
This didn't happen so much it in unhappened other s**t. Do you really need attention that badly? Plus, I'm kind of convinced if you're over a certain age TikTok isn't for you. And, she and I are both of that age. I will stick to my boomer generation's platform: FB.
She should have pulled into a parking lot and told them to find another ride, under the excuse that they were arguing. But if she had, we wouldn't be talking about it. If she knew the address of his house, which out of all the rides she gave that day she supposedly remembered, she could have told his wife anonymously about the affair. I wouldn't be surprised if he sues her.
Completely absurd and made up story. If this is true this woman needs to learn to respect people's privacy. And whether or not this was her intention she drove him to the mistress' arms orrr gave wife proof that she is in going to stay married to a cheater. She was not waiting for proof
She didn't. If anything, they were imposing their beliefs on her. They entered a contract with her which involved her facilitating an immoral act; but they didn't make her aware of that beforehand.
Load More Replies...so, next time I see a person smoking on the street, I punch the cigarette out of his hand and film myself? Or I am a cashier and see a fat person buying ice cream I refuse to sell it? Or I see a pregnant teenager and I am a doctor and I refuse abortion? This lady is out of line, this is totally unprofessional.
No, but if they light up IN YOUR CAR, you can throw them out. In their Momma's driveway (making sure she sees their cigarettes) if you want.
Load More Replies...Or the guy gets home, beats up and kills his wife and kids and takes off with the mistress anyway. That driver is lucky it worked out well.
She had the intention to complete until they brought s**t into her car. She had every legal right to do what she did, and she did the right thing.
Load More Replies...I'm atheist and still against cheating. You don't have to be religious to avoid being a s**t person.
Load More Replies...You know, I almost believed this may have happened, until she said the wife called her up to thank her. Yeah, no.
Yeah, I try to give these things some benefit of the doubt.. but this is kind of cringe.
Load More Replies...If I were an Uber driver, I would mind my business all the time. Exception: life threatening situations and thefts.
That is your choice. It wasn't hers. And that is fine also.
Load More Replies...Beside the fact that I do not believe her story, the dialogue described sounds like being made up by a kid or from a bad book, it is not her business what her customers are doing, with the exceptions described by other fellow pandas.
In addition to your comment, I feel as though it isn't her business to involve herself into someone else's affairs (no pun intended.) It seems a little bit that she stepped out of line and got herself involved with something that could have entirely been a different situation. I might get downvoted for this, but it's a risk I'm willing to take.
Load More Replies...Okay, so at first I thought, it’s HER car, and she has every right to do this, especially since they actually aired all of their nasty business right there, and I exclaimed: “you go!!! Yeah! You did the right thing!!! Nice move!”, BUT now however, I’ve thought about it for a minute, and I’ve decided that, no, this was wrong and definitely none of her business. If she really disapproved of her passengers, she could have easily left them at her house, or really, anywhere else, and then she would have said her piece and moved on. That’s plenty enough to show how you feel about it. Bottom line: they’re strangers to you-it’s absolutely not your place to enforce your moral agenda. (P.S. I have an inkling that maybe, this might be a little bit made up, the details are too….cliché)
A spouse cheating, is absolutely horrible. That can really destroy the partner. Imagine the wife being completely unaware of him cheating for years, while other people in town know about it and no-one can be bothered to tell her... Yes, it's none of her business, but what happened to helping other people out? She helped the wife who may be unaware of this, she really did her a favour. If my partner was cheating on me, I really hope a cab driver would do this for me.
Its great to offer help to people who need it, like doing the grocery shopping for an old neighbour, but this here is different, and I would not want to live in a society where people punish each other when they disapprove a behavior.
Load More Replies...When you’re at work, anything you hear about another person’s personal life is NOT for sharing. The only, only exception is if it’s seriously illegal and/or a threat to life. (Like you overheard them sharing CP or such) and even then you report to the authorities. I know, I know, it feels horrible to know something you shouldn’t and that you believe others need to know. It really does. But I’ve worked in information security long enough to know where the boundaries are. And what kind of fallout can occur when those are breached.
Cheating can destroy someones esteem, trust in other people, and mental state. She did the right thing.
Load More Replies...F**k cheaters. This is great. Don't f**k around you miserable lying scumfucks.
Yep, Brad, cheating is risky. No, feeling safe when discussing your douchebaggery, pardon, "personal matters" when you can be overheard by someone who is not legally bound to be discreet, is not your God-given right. Enjoy the divorce. If the driver tells the truth about full legality of her actions, I have no problem with her.
I hope those criticizing her actions and your child(ren) never have to go through being in a deceitful relationship to begin with ... having an affair drains the family from time, money and effort towards a better life ... the mother and child deserved better and will, hopefully, now have a chance to get what they deserve ...
I'm glad that, if everything happened as presented, the "husband" didn't take out his anger and embarrassment on his wife. I'd like to hope that if the driver saw signs he had a temper or expressed ideas to harm her, she would have tried a different approach. But not everyone gives that stuff away, sometimes it's hidden terribly well, and no one has a clue that the infidelity is just the beginning of the abuse. Thankfully, that doesn't seem to be the case here, and the kids weren't home to witness it.
So obvious who all the potential cheaters are: All the "mind your business" people who just wouldn't want to be found out. I'll always tell, if I know, too. Liars/cheaters deserve to be caught.
I can only assume all the protestors of her actions are the cheating ones in their marriage. LOL! And some didn't even read the story before they commented. They were commenting on the kids being there, when the kids weren't there at all. Why post a response if you haven't read the story?
I used to live with a married couple, nothing weird, we were just friends trying to save money on rent. I found out he was cheating on her and didn't say anything because he was my friend. I do regret that decision very much, she was also my friend and I didn't do what it was right. When she found out she hated me for not saying anything. I stopped being friends with him because we weren't that close anyway.
Brillaint. Everyone should do this if they come across cheaters. F**k that agony aunt response of 'not your business' - those poor spouses deserve more than the s**t they're being handed. The woman's a hero.
If that story is true which I douted very much, she's didnt know the whole story between husband and wife. Shouldnt juge people lives
What might the whole story be? That the wife was a frigid shrew and he needed, nay, DESERVED some "understanding "? Pffft. That's what divorces are for.
Load More Replies...I might have gone back to the man’s house and told his wife but I would not have taken the riders back. I’m sure this will effect her standing with Uber and she took a big risk in getting so involved.
"...affect her standing with Uber..." Meh. Switch to Lyft.
Load More Replies...Morality and voracity aside, the "I can drop him anywhere" for contact is not meant for righteous indignity. You kidnapped two people, pure and simple. "I disliked her, the b***h, so I drove to Mexico and dropped her off with sex workers." Exaggerated, OK. How about rough area late at night? ted
That's a fair point, but a reasonable interpretation is that you can drop them between their point A and B, not take them anywhere. So point A works.
Load More Replies...I mean.... Props to her for standing up for this, but at the same time..... I wanna say mind your own business. You are a hired driver, not the morale police
Probably the fact that they decided to bring their s**t into her car. And were stupid enough to talk about it like the driver couldn't hear.
Load More Replies...If you were sooooo uncomfortable with the cheaters in your car, you should've ended the ride when the other woman got in. Not your circus, not your clowns And who appointed you to the role of Morality and Ethics Chief anyway? .ind your own biscuits
I don't believe this at all. Nobody would have called her an angel for dropping the guy and his side chick back on the sidewalk. And I'm uncomfortable with the idea of it. Just, "Stranger, I don't approve of what you're doing so here, I'm going to force a confrontation." It doesn't seem right.
This didn't happen so much it in unhappened other s**t. Do you really need attention that badly? Plus, I'm kind of convinced if you're over a certain age TikTok isn't for you. And, she and I are both of that age. I will stick to my boomer generation's platform: FB.
She should have pulled into a parking lot and told them to find another ride, under the excuse that they were arguing. But if she had, we wouldn't be talking about it. If she knew the address of his house, which out of all the rides she gave that day she supposedly remembered, she could have told his wife anonymously about the affair. I wouldn't be surprised if he sues her.
Completely absurd and made up story. If this is true this woman needs to learn to respect people's privacy. And whether or not this was her intention she drove him to the mistress' arms orrr gave wife proof that she is in going to stay married to a cheater. She was not waiting for proof
She didn't. If anything, they were imposing their beliefs on her. They entered a contract with her which involved her facilitating an immoral act; but they didn't make her aware of that beforehand.
Load More Replies...so, next time I see a person smoking on the street, I punch the cigarette out of his hand and film myself? Or I am a cashier and see a fat person buying ice cream I refuse to sell it? Or I see a pregnant teenager and I am a doctor and I refuse abortion? This lady is out of line, this is totally unprofessional.
No, but if they light up IN YOUR CAR, you can throw them out. In their Momma's driveway (making sure she sees their cigarettes) if you want.
Load More Replies...Or the guy gets home, beats up and kills his wife and kids and takes off with the mistress anyway. That driver is lucky it worked out well.
She had the intention to complete until they brought s**t into her car. She had every legal right to do what she did, and she did the right thing.
Load More Replies...I'm atheist and still against cheating. You don't have to be religious to avoid being a s**t person.
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