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For all the importance people assign to introversion and extroversion, they aren’t problems or conditions that you can be diagnosed with, just ways to describe your personality types. The only rule for what makes someone one or the other is that those with an introvert personality recharges from spending time alone and gets burned out by social interaction, while an extrovert gets down in the dumps from being alone for too long and considers getting together with people a pick-me-up.

Still, people who are strongly one or the other have a tendency to misunderstand each other, which is why people with an introvert personality type on Twitter are currently sharing their frustrations with the other side with the trending tag #StupidQuestionsForIntroverts. And although introverts aren’t, by definition, shy or anxious, you certainly can be both, and if you are, there’s some representation in here for you too.

Here are some of the most annoying things you’ve probably heard when you would rather be home in your pajamas with a book.

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Daria B
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again, depends. But if you're not my family or close friends, if you want a video conversation with me, we'll have to schedule it in advance, thanks.

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    Daria Z
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's unfair that we have to fake it at all. Our society is too extrovert-centric! ^__^

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's how I am when my batteries are charged. You'll ask me what's wrong when you see me tomorrow.

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    A lot of memes and thinkpieces would have you believe that introverted personality individuals and extroverts are at war with each other, but despite the annoyingly silly questions we actually have a lot more in common than we think.

    A study from the University of Illinois determined that people who considered themselves introverts and extroverts actually spent about the same amount of time socializing and got about as much enjoyment out of spending time with people, suggesting that the difference may be in the type of social stimulation that people who describe their personality one way or the other prefer, or how they bounced back afterward.

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    Paul K. Johnson
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The phone is right next to me and I almost never answer it. If they start talking to the answering machine and it's spam then I pick up, terminate the call and delete the partial message they just left. If it's someone I know then I let them finish leaving a message and I might call them back in the next month or so.

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    Kaisu
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always feel some sense of relief when plans are cancelled, unless it's something I spent a lot of money on

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    Paul K. Johnson
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I were independently wealthy I would almost never leave the house and wouldn't miss a soul. I take a month vacation every year and pretty much stay home. I don't call people, I don't visit people and I'm perfectly happy by myself and have plenty to do.

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    Others feel that we put way too much stock in whether we’re introverts or extroverts in the first place, treating them as fixed, mutually exclusive decrees, when many of us fall somewhere in the middle and would say that we behave more like an introvert or extrovert depending on the situation.

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    It's not an anomaly to have some friends who you don’t mind sitting next to in the same room reading separate books, and others who make you feel like you need a nap after meeting them for coffee. And even the biggest party animal has some hobbies that they have to go home and get back to at some point, right? It shouldn’t be so hard for them to understand and respect that some people have different social batteries, so next time you get one of these stupid questions, you can tell them that.

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    IzzieM
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. Some alone time to recharge is all I need to maintain a reasonable level of sanity.

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    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm mad that you invited someone and your making me leave the house. That means I got to put my pants back on.

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    If you’re not feeling that eloquent, though, if somebody asks you why you’re so quiet, you’re perfectly within your right to just pterodactyl screech in their face and see if that’s good enough for them.

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    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One birthday, as a kid, I asked to be alone in the house. I wasn't up to anything, I just wanted peace and quiet

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    Giette Hulsbosch
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, I'm one of those people who let the phone ring, and text later 'did you call me?'

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    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because at work I know what I'm talking about and my coworkers share a common knowledge about our jobs. Outside, I know nothing about you other than your physically present and wearing clothes.

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    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun is watching cartoons with my wife and daughter and laughing while eating dinner and playing with the dog.

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    Francis
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thanks god i can order online.. but still have to talk with the delivery guy D:

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    I’m Foxxy and I know it 😉
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to be approached first, I can’t just go up to someone and start chatting randomly.

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, now, imagine being an introvert and single and there's someone who offers to "combine you" with "someone they know". Story of my adolescence.

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    Francis
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Tell your name and blablabla.." and i instant forget who i am or what i am ...

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    rhyan lumilay
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not shy, I just don't want to talk and be the center of attention.

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    Hendra Lim
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yep, sometimes it makes me too bored. but, i still prefer the silence than a crowd to fill my boredness

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    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My SIL once said my husband was anti-social because he never came to holiday or birthday gatherings at her home. Usually these gatherings involved her whole family who we only interacted with at..you guessed it..holidays and birthday gatherings. And there were so many members to her side of the family, us going to the gatherings usually meant us sitting in a corner being ignored because we never had any non-controversial topics of conversation we could engage in. I finally told her.."why would he drive 116 miles to bored because he's ignored all day due to the huge crowd when he can stay at home and have fun watching movies and chatting online with friends he knows. It's too overwhelming." She finally started having smaller gatherings with just my brother's side of the family. After a while, we stopped going entirely because we realized that seeing them meant we had to travel all the time, they never came to see us. The effort to stay connected has to be equally shared.

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    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And do what? Sit there while no one talks to me and spend money? I rather watch TV at home for free.

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    Hendra Lim
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did someone seriously ask that? that's insulting 😠

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    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm great at customer service jobs. Because that's work me. Home me can have great small talk, then hide at the second or any other ensuing social occasion. Idk y

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    Francis
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's why i love my best friend. she would never ever want to hang out two days in a row :D

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    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Odd thing, I'm actually a good public speaker. That's because I can plan what I'm going to say.

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    Francis
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at a party or gathering or whatever where i don't know anybody, i love finding another introvert.. so we can sit quietly next to each other

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    Hermione Granger
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gosh, ok but, are people like going up to random people and saying, Im an introvert, then proceeding to talk? I would think they would only know if you are an introvert, if you tell them.

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    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm this way every time the new semester starts at college. I love online classes for this very reason....

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks tech for the ordering apps! ♡

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    Sea Urchin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't you ever stop talking

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    Fulsome Kitten
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because people are a******s, or toxic, or boring, or gossips!...except for Pandas of course!;)

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    Francis
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh gosh! turn your phone in silent mode! :D

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    Francis
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i always tried to be the first one to present. so i can enjoy the rest without being nervous

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    Sea Urchin
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to take a public speaking class and it did absolutely nothing for me except how to procrastinate even more

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    Sea Urchin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can pick it up and throw it out the window

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    Sea Urchin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only feel awkward because people stare at me because I'm alone and it's annoying

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    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friends means I have to deal with your problems and drama.

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    Bob Beltcher
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. And that's the end of that conversation. Now what.

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    Lauren Caswell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me and my inner dialogue are talking, do you mind?

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    🐼NaeNae🐼
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Correction: We are monsters forcing you to talk with somebody you don't know and dance to the music you don't like

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    Sea Urchin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would I ever want to do that, I ask you

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    Lily Mac Dennard
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once went to a concert with my friends and while they were all screaming at the top of their lungs i just enjoyed the music and for some reason got shamed for it.

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    Francis
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    let me take your photo instead, so you don't have to do a goddamn selfie :)

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    Sea Urchin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's wrong with you? Why do you talk so much?

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    Sea Urchin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just stop talking to me; that's also pretty easy, eh?

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