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“Maybe You Should Not Be So Toxic Then”: Woman’s Success On TikTok Costs Her A Relationship With Sister
Bickering with a sibling is basically a childhood sport. It starts with stolen hoodies, “borrowed” makeup that never makes its way back, and tiny disagreements that somehow turn into Oscar-worthy shouting matches. Doors get slammed, eyes get rolled, and dramatic vows of “I’m done” are made with full conviction. Then, an hour later, you’re sharing snacks or laughing at the same joke like nothing ever happened. That’s just how sibling life works. But things get a lot messier when those private family moments stop staying private and get shared with the world.
In this case, one woman shared how her younger sister took their everyday disagreements and turned them into viral content. Her sister, a TikTok creator, allegedly exaggerated their arguments and framed her as the villain for thousands of strangers online. What started as sibling tension quickly became public humiliation, with real-life consequences. Keep reading to see how it all unfolded.
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A woman shared how her sister twisted personal stories on TikTok, portraying her as the villainous older sister—so convincingly that even their family began to believe it
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Countries around the world are taking steps to limit harmful content on social media and make platforms safer for users
These days, the internet is basically everywhere. Billions of people scroll, post, like, and share every single day, making social media feel less like a platform and more like a daily habit. From morning alarms to late-night doomscrolling, being online has become second nature. It’s how we connect with friends, follow trends, and stay updated on the world. For many, social media is entertainment, community, and validation rolled into one. We truly live in an age where being offline feels unusual. And with so many voices online, content never really sleeps.
With so many people plugged in, it’s no surprise that teens and young adults are spending a huge chunk of their time online too. The internet offers creativity, connection, and opportunities that didn’t exist before. At the same time, it’s not all harmless fun and viral dances. Long screen time, constant comparison, and pressure to perform can take a toll. The online world moves fast, and not everyone is equipped to handle it. Like most things, the internet has both perks and pitfalls. Balance is easier said than done.
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For younger users especially, the internet can be a tricky place to navigate. Exposure to cyberbullying, harmful comments, predators, or unrealistic body standards can seriously affect mental health. Kids and teens are still figuring out who they are, and online negativity can hit harder than we realize. Constant comparison can damage self-esteem and create anxiety. Even content that seems harmless can send the wrong message. Without guidance, it’s easy for young minds to absorb more than they should. That’s why digital safety matters so much.
To address these risks, governments have started stepping in. In the UK, the Online Safety Act was introduced to make the internet safer for everyone, especially children. It places responsibility on social media platforms to protect users instead of looking the other way. Companies are now expected to reduce harmful content and act quickly when illegal material appears. The law also makes it easier for users to report problems.
Australia has taken things a step further with new rules around age limits. Under a recent law, kids under 16 are no longer allowed to have accounts on certain social media platforms. The idea is simple: young teens shouldn’t be exposed to adult-level content before they’re ready. Existing accounts are being shut down, and new ones can’t be created. It’s one of the strictest approaches so far. Other countries are watching closely to see how it plays out. Online safety is becoming a global conversation.
On an individual level, it’s just as important to be mindful and responsible about what we post online
At the heart of all these regulations is protection. Governments want to reduce harm, limit exploitation, and make digital spaces less overwhelming. Social media isn’t going anywhere, but how it’s managed can change. The goal isn’t to ban the internet, but to make it healthier. Safer platforms mean fewer risks and more positive experiences. When rules exist, companies are forced to prioritize users over profits. It’s about creating boundaries in a space that once had none.
On a personal level, everyone can take steps to stay safer online. Posting responsibly is more important than ever. Sharing personal details like your home address, real-time location, or phone number can put you at risk. Hackers, scammers, and strangers can misuse that information. Once something is online, it’s hard to take back. Thinking twice before posting can prevent a lot of trouble. Privacy should never be taken lightly.
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It also helps to pause before hitting “share.” Ask yourself simple questions like, “Is this true?” and “Is this kind?” Verifying information from reliable sources helps stop misinformation from spreading. Posting out of anger or for attention can have lasting consequences. Words online don’t disappear, even if posts do. Being mindful protects not just you, but others too. A little responsibility goes a long way. The internet remembers everything.
Using privacy settings wisely is another powerful tool. Limiting who can see your content, message you, or tag you adds an extra layer of protection. Not everyone online needs access to your personal life. These settings exist for a reason, yet many people ignore them. Taking a few minutes to adjust them can make a big difference. It’s about controlling your digital space. You deserve that control.
Finally, sharing personal stories online requires care, especially when other people are involved. Even if names are changed, those close to you often recognize the situation. Stories can be exaggerated, intentionally or not, and one-sided narratives can cause real harm. Posting about family or friends without consent crosses a line. In this case, it seems the sister only shared her version of events. Do you think that was fair? What are your thoughts on airing private conflicts online?
Many readers felt the author was not at fault at all and suggested she consider taking legal action against her sister
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Nils Skirnir 3 weeks ago
Get an attorney. Cease and desist order AND lawsuit for a percentage of profits. Now that TikTok is owned by Oracle, get lawyer to ask that all content be removed.
Lee Gilliland 3 weeks ago
How in the world it it unreasonable for awoman to go after aher sister for exploiting her? This DEFINITELY does not come under "it's family"!
BK BigFish 3 weeks ago
Ban Tik Tok. Then ban all social media for under-16s. Then ban all social media for over-16s.
Kate Johnson 3 weeks ago
I'd start looking for a job out of state from my family and move as far away from them as I could. I would not share my forwarding address. Life is far too short to waste your time with toxic people like the because of an accident of DNA.
Billy Gene 2 weeks ago (edited)
There's a woman who's a friend of my adult daughter, living in my house, we let her stay for six months to save for school but it's now been five years. She doesn't post to tiktok, but to discord. I'm familiar with this kind of drama. Interactions I've had with her, conflicts, disagreements etc are reframed to my daughter and her friends as me being totally unhinged, screaming and throwing things at her, telling her to k ill herself. None of it is true and my daughter knows this, she's been in earshot for many of these moments, but it gets the woman sympathy and attention with her online friends, which encourages her. I finally had enough when after I asked her to look for a job instead of sleeping 20 hours a day she threatened v iolence against me to my wife and daughter, and she's now leaving on February 1st. After almost 6 years. I don't know what the moral of this story is, except to reaffirm the greater internet f-wad theory: normal person + audience + relative anonymity= f-wad
Janelle Collard 3 weeks ago (edited)
"Anything to be famous," right? Poor OP. Hope she gets a lawyer. Sis sounds like the golden child. If OP has to talk to sis, I hope she records everything so she has proof how sis twists things to suit her own narrative.
Marno C. 3 weeks ago
She is harming OPs reputation and relationships with falsehoods. OP has to 1. Insist that all interactions be recorded in some way due to the misrepresentation. This will be very embarrassing for sister and annoying to family who will finally start to realize that this isn't 'harmless' storytelling. and 2. Contact a lawyer for a cease and desist letter. Not only is OP's reasonable expectation of privacy being violated, but she is also being defamed with harmful consequences.
Randomosity 3 weeks ago
Uploading videos on TikTok isn't a career. Get her accounted suspended and tell her to focus on her actual job.
Crystalwitch60 3 weeks ago (edited)
Isn’t called THIC TOC for nothing .that ops sister is doing is HIGHLY ILLEGAL , as loads also said for one it’s defamation of character ! Plus posting photos of of people without their permission,is 100% against the law !, privacy n all that , also what the sister is doing is slander ie the spoken word , if she also carries that on in the comments it becomes LIABLE the spoken word ! which can be proven , as can the videos , 100% get a lawyer LIKE LAST WEEK , start with a cease and desist letter , if it doesn’t stop then criminal charges need to be filed . This in all honestly is a form of blatant harassment ! It’s cruel it’s destroying ops life . As for your bloody mother , send her to me for a min plz ffs she’s vile ! Enabling criminal behaviour , n like loads said report her to thic tok for all of the above . Threaten criminal charges , social media platforms dont like that ! But op you need to cut your toxic lying family off for good , please , for your own safety and mental health lovely xxx update please all this is a major reason I won’t haven nor ever will use social media !!!
Nils Skirnir 3 weeks ago
Get an attorney. Cease and desist order AND lawsuit for a percentage of profits. Now that TikTok is owned by Oracle, get lawyer to ask that all content be removed.
Lee Gilliland 3 weeks ago
How in the world it it unreasonable for awoman to go after aher sister for exploiting her? This DEFINITELY does not come under "it's family"!
BK BigFish 3 weeks ago
Ban Tik Tok. Then ban all social media for under-16s. Then ban all social media for over-16s.
Kate Johnson 3 weeks ago
I'd start looking for a job out of state from my family and move as far away from them as I could. I would not share my forwarding address. Life is far too short to waste your time with toxic people like the because of an accident of DNA.
Billy Gene 2 weeks ago (edited)
There's a woman who's a friend of my adult daughter, living in my house, we let her stay for six months to save for school but it's now been five years. She doesn't post to tiktok, but to discord. I'm familiar with this kind of drama. Interactions I've had with her, conflicts, disagreements etc are reframed to my daughter and her friends as me being totally unhinged, screaming and throwing things at her, telling her to k ill herself. None of it is true and my daughter knows this, she's been in earshot for many of these moments, but it gets the woman sympathy and attention with her online friends, which encourages her. I finally had enough when after I asked her to look for a job instead of sleeping 20 hours a day she threatened v iolence against me to my wife and daughter, and she's now leaving on February 1st. After almost 6 years. I don't know what the moral of this story is, except to reaffirm the greater internet f-wad theory: normal person + audience + relative anonymity= f-wad
Janelle Collard 3 weeks ago (edited)
"Anything to be famous," right? Poor OP. Hope she gets a lawyer. Sis sounds like the golden child. If OP has to talk to sis, I hope she records everything so she has proof how sis twists things to suit her own narrative.
Marno C. 3 weeks ago
She is harming OPs reputation and relationships with falsehoods. OP has to 1. Insist that all interactions be recorded in some way due to the misrepresentation. This will be very embarrassing for sister and annoying to family who will finally start to realize that this isn't 'harmless' storytelling. and 2. Contact a lawyer for a cease and desist letter. Not only is OP's reasonable expectation of privacy being violated, but she is also being defamed with harmful consequences.
Randomosity 3 weeks ago
Uploading videos on TikTok isn't a career. Get her accounted suspended and tell her to focus on her actual job.
Crystalwitch60 3 weeks ago (edited)
Isn’t called THIC TOC for nothing .that ops sister is doing is HIGHLY ILLEGAL , as loads also said for one it’s defamation of character ! Plus posting photos of of people without their permission,is 100% against the law !, privacy n all that , also what the sister is doing is slander ie the spoken word , if she also carries that on in the comments it becomes LIABLE the spoken word ! which can be proven , as can the videos , 100% get a lawyer LIKE LAST WEEK , start with a cease and desist letter , if it doesn’t stop then criminal charges need to be filed . This in all honestly is a form of blatant harassment ! It’s cruel it’s destroying ops life . As for your bloody mother , send her to me for a min plz ffs she’s vile ! Enabling criminal behaviour , n like loads said report her to thic tok for all of the above . Threaten criminal charges , social media platforms dont like that ! But op you need to cut your toxic lying family off for good , please , for your own safety and mental health lovely xxx update please all this is a major reason I won’t haven nor ever will use social media !!!
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