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“This Is No Joke”: Private School Students Expelled Over Vile Spreadsheet Ranking Female Classmates
“This Is No Joke”: Private School Students Expelled Over Vile Spreadsheet Ranking Female Classmates
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“This Is No Joke”: Private School Students Expelled Over Vile Spreadsheet Ranking Female Classmates

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Two students at an Australian private school have been expelled over a list in which they ranked their female classmates using categories described as “disgraceful” by the institution.

The list created by the Year 11 boys—aged between sixteen and seventeen—from Yarra Valley Grammar School in Melbourne, was posted on Discord and discovered by the school on May 1.

Highlights
  • Two Australian private school boys were expelled over a list ranking female classmates.
  • The spreadsheet used derogatory terms like "object" and "unr**able" to describe the girls.
  • Victoria Police is now assessing if the list's reference to sexual violence constitutes criminality.

The post featured photos of the female students and ranked them from top to bottom as “wifeys,” “cuties,” “mid,” “object,” “get out,” and, most shockingly, “unr**able.”

The teenagers were initially suspended on Friday (May 3). Yarra Valley Grammar Principal Dr. Mark Merry has since confirmed his decision to expel the boys in a letter sent to parents on Tuesday (May 7) morning.

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    Image credits: Yarra Valley Grammar School

    “A number of our students had been targeted in a cruel and highly offensive online post which caused great hurt to them and their families and distress to their friends,” Merry said in the letter.

    “I am saddened that the actions of a few individuals can cause so much harm as social media has the power to amplify the damage that can be done and the anguish inflicted.”

    The principal emphasized that the problem extended beyond the school walls and was a reflection of broader societal issues.

    Sexism and misogyny are ever-present in our society, and it is the responsibility of all of us; families, teachers, the media, workmates, and friends to stand up and make it clear that this is not acceptable anywhere.”

    Other students involved in the incident are also facing disciplinary action over the document, which contained references to sexual violence.

    The spreadsheet ranked the women from top to bottom as “wifeys,” “cuties,” “mid,” “object,” “get out,” and, most shockingly, “unr**able

    Image credits: Yarra Valley Grammar School

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    “As a father, I find it absolutely outrageous, disgraceful, and offensive. As a principal, I need to make some decisions [as to] what we [should] do about all of this,” the Yarra Valley Grammar principal told 9News.

    “My first impulse and concern is about the wellbeing of the girls concerned. I want to make sure they feel assured and supported by the school.”

    The girls listed on the sickening spreadsheet were “too upset” to attend school the day after learning about their classmate’s actions.

    Yarra Valley Grammar contacted the police after finding the list. In a statement, Victoria Police said it was “assessing the information to determine if it’s a matter for police” and whether the reference to r*pe constitutes criminality.

    “It really strikes me to the core that any of our young people here, who we really do hold dearly, can be treated in such a way,” Merry added. 

    “I think the shock has been that this could happen here. If it can happen here, it can happen anywhere.

    “We as a community need to own the fact that these vicious attitudes are out there. It’s up to all of us to tackle this head-on.”

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    Yarra Valley Grammar announced that it will review its programs aimed at promoting respectful relationships.

    Sexism and misogyny are ever-present in our society, and it is the responsibility of all of us, families, teachers, the media, workmates, and friends, to stand up,” said Principal Mark Merry

    Image credits: Pexels/ RDNE Stock project

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    Federal Education Minister Jason Clare, who referred to the list as “appalling,” said the incident “demonstrates that there is still a lot more work to do.”

    “It’s a job not just for schools, but for parents and political leaders like me as well.

    “Part of that is providing funding to schools right across the country for respectful relationship courses and consent courses.

    “I’m signing agreements with all states and territories at the moment to do that, and that’s about $77 million [50.6 million US dollars] that will roll out across the country.”

    Furthermore, Victorian Premier Jacinta Allan said she was “utterly devastated” by the “disgraceful” list.

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    “To think that you’re sitting in a classroom with classmates who not just hold these views, but write them down and share them,” Allan told reporters.

    “This is no joke. Respect for women has to be at the forefront of every classroom, of every household, of every part of our community, because too many women [are] subjected to violence, too many women [are] losing their lives.”

    On Monday (May 6),  an assembly was reportedly held at the school with the entire year level, including the parents of the women named in the document.

    Expelling for this type of behavior needs to happen more often,” a social media user said

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    Writer, Entertainment News Writer

    With a degree in social science and a love for culture, I approach entertainment journalism at Bored Panda with a research-driven mindset. I write about celebrity news, Hollywood highlights, and viral stories that spark curiosity worldwide. My work has reached millions of readers and is recognized for balancing accuracy with an engaging voice. I believe that pop culture isn’t just entertainment, it reflects the social conversations shaping our time.

    What do you think ?
    Tamra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's appalling to me that women and girls are still dealing with this s**t in the year 2024. Unbelievable.

    Hannah Taylor
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate to say this but as long as there are pènises and vaginas, there WILL be rápes and sèxual assaults. Some creatures are of the mindset of "this is my world and everyone else is under my domain." All the rest of us can do is educate girls about body autonomy, boys about showing respect, and tightening the penalties for those who refuse to acknowledge either.

    Load More Replies...
    Missy Moo Moo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in Australia and the men here are violent sexual predators. The amount of women murdered and raped is off the chart. This is why, they start young. A 10yo boy was just arrested for attacking and raping a woman… 10 YEARS OLD!!!

    K- THULU
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, just saw that on the news, tonight..... I just fücking despair sometimes.... it's like every other day, another shocking DV incident... Another harassment story.... And this..... the future leaders of our nation? Bunch of privileged little pricks!!

    Load More Replies...
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    Anonymous Fox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who in their right mind would call someone 'unr*pable'? Is this implying that other girls on the list would be r*ped by those boys?

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, it's been referred to the police to be assessed.

    Load More Replies...
    Arnold Barr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS IS LITERALLY HOW FACE BOOK - get it FACE BOOK got started 🙄

    Lame Llama
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm amazed how many pandas are not aware of this. I mean, we have been hanging out on the site of random, useless information. :P

    Load More Replies...
    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This, rating college women, is how Faecesbook was started by Mark Zuckerberg. "Social" media haven't improved since then.

    Scarlett
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something similar happened at my school but it was all by word of mouth. I was called and treated like an “it” and a “that”. They also threatened multiple girls, including me, with rape (although with me, they added that I should be grateful if they did because I was so ugly that was the only way I’d lose my V-card). Unfortunately, nothing was done because the sports hero’s of our school would never say such things 🙄

    DotC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And people wonder why I hate organized team sports. Sure they give younger kids a place but older kids and young adults learn that they are untouchable if they bring money in.

    Load More Replies...
    Nina
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, this has happened at Dutch universities as well. There have been teo cases now where fratboys made a list about alleged sexual skills women in their study year would have, ranking their attractiveness, if they were "easy" etc. It is so disheartening to read (young) men having so little respect for woman, not seeing them as human beings...

    Pam
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They had this when my father went to an all boys catholic high school in the late ‘30s, my mom dealt with it in the ‘50s, my school had it in the ‘80s. I honestly do not believe humanity will ever get past the “disgusting little s**t” phase a majority of males go through, especially if they are good looking and athletic. Punish the hell out of them and try to teach the rest of them a lesson.

    MaxMi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's literally how social media started, with facebook. Created exactly for this very same reason.

    Jeevesssssss
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Horrendous. Fair play though for the (male) head for instantly kicking them out, instead of trying to pass it off as 'boys will be boys' and that it shouldn't be taken seriously as it was obviously just a written joke and no indication of actual intent, etc. But yes - disgusting.

    KillerKiwi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn’t anything new. Unfortunately.

    Sunny Johnson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't that how Facebook got started? Suckerberg and friends started an 'I'd do her' list to rate their fellow students?

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds a lot like how Facebook got started.

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't this how Facebook started?

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cisgender heterosexual males are at it again. "What do the father's think?" They encouraged it and were proud, likely now threatening violence for throwing out their rapey sprog.

    Tamara Kroonen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Notice only women react to the post and only 1 guy who doubts if it should be aN expellable offence?

    DotC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw that. P**q that guy and guys like him. There was a story of a bunch of 13 year old Catholic school girls chasing down a flasher and beating the pudding out of him. But if they did it to other kids being worse, they get in trouble.

    Load More Replies...
    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For those who wondered what their fathers would think, the fathers are who taught them it was acceptable to do things like this.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brenton Sinclair, you are a jerk

    ADZ
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should see the protection racket by principals, police and judges for private school boys that rape girls.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe they're already doing this at age 11! When I was 11 the boys still thought girls had cooties.

    Gen X Feral
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say hang them up like a piñata and give every one of those girls a stick. Televise it nationwide as an example to all the pigs like them that us girls aren't gonna take this misogynistic bulllsht anymore! Towanda!!!

    Tamra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's appalling to me that women and girls are still dealing with this s**t in the year 2024. Unbelievable.

    Hannah Taylor
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate to say this but as long as there are pènises and vaginas, there WILL be rápes and sèxual assaults. Some creatures are of the mindset of "this is my world and everyone else is under my domain." All the rest of us can do is educate girls about body autonomy, boys about showing respect, and tightening the penalties for those who refuse to acknowledge either.

    Load More Replies...
    Missy Moo Moo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in Australia and the men here are violent sexual predators. The amount of women murdered and raped is off the chart. This is why, they start young. A 10yo boy was just arrested for attacking and raping a woman… 10 YEARS OLD!!!

    K- THULU
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, just saw that on the news, tonight..... I just fücking despair sometimes.... it's like every other day, another shocking DV incident... Another harassment story.... And this..... the future leaders of our nation? Bunch of privileged little pricks!!

    Load More Replies...
    ADVERTISEMENT
    Anonymous Fox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who in their right mind would call someone 'unr*pable'? Is this implying that other girls on the list would be r*ped by those boys?

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, it's been referred to the police to be assessed.

    Load More Replies...
    Arnold Barr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS IS LITERALLY HOW FACE BOOK - get it FACE BOOK got started 🙄

    Lame Llama
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm amazed how many pandas are not aware of this. I mean, we have been hanging out on the site of random, useless information. :P

    Load More Replies...
    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This, rating college women, is how Faecesbook was started by Mark Zuckerberg. "Social" media haven't improved since then.

    Scarlett
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something similar happened at my school but it was all by word of mouth. I was called and treated like an “it” and a “that”. They also threatened multiple girls, including me, with rape (although with me, they added that I should be grateful if they did because I was so ugly that was the only way I’d lose my V-card). Unfortunately, nothing was done because the sports hero’s of our school would never say such things 🙄

    DotC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And people wonder why I hate organized team sports. Sure they give younger kids a place but older kids and young adults learn that they are untouchable if they bring money in.

    Load More Replies...
    Nina
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, this has happened at Dutch universities as well. There have been teo cases now where fratboys made a list about alleged sexual skills women in their study year would have, ranking their attractiveness, if they were "easy" etc. It is so disheartening to read (young) men having so little respect for woman, not seeing them as human beings...

    Pam
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They had this when my father went to an all boys catholic high school in the late ‘30s, my mom dealt with it in the ‘50s, my school had it in the ‘80s. I honestly do not believe humanity will ever get past the “disgusting little s**t” phase a majority of males go through, especially if they are good looking and athletic. Punish the hell out of them and try to teach the rest of them a lesson.

    MaxMi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's literally how social media started, with facebook. Created exactly for this very same reason.

    Jeevesssssss
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Horrendous. Fair play though for the (male) head for instantly kicking them out, instead of trying to pass it off as 'boys will be boys' and that it shouldn't be taken seriously as it was obviously just a written joke and no indication of actual intent, etc. But yes - disgusting.

    KillerKiwi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn’t anything new. Unfortunately.

    Sunny Johnson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't that how Facebook got started? Suckerberg and friends started an 'I'd do her' list to rate their fellow students?

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds a lot like how Facebook got started.

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't this how Facebook started?

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cisgender heterosexual males are at it again. "What do the father's think?" They encouraged it and were proud, likely now threatening violence for throwing out their rapey sprog.

    Tamara Kroonen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Notice only women react to the post and only 1 guy who doubts if it should be aN expellable offence?

    DotC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw that. P**q that guy and guys like him. There was a story of a bunch of 13 year old Catholic school girls chasing down a flasher and beating the pudding out of him. But if they did it to other kids being worse, they get in trouble.

    Load More Replies...
    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For those who wondered what their fathers would think, the fathers are who taught them it was acceptable to do things like this.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brenton Sinclair, you are a jerk

    ADZ
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should see the protection racket by principals, police and judges for private school boys that rape girls.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe they're already doing this at age 11! When I was 11 the boys still thought girls had cooties.

    Gen X Feral
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say hang them up like a piñata and give every one of those girls a stick. Televise it nationwide as an example to all the pigs like them that us girls aren't gonna take this misogynistic bulllsht anymore! Towanda!!!

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