Woman Calls Out MIL For Pretending To Be Ill, Major Drama Sparks: “I Could Just Hear MIL Shrieking”

Every family has its own way of balancing personalities, but sometimes people’s differences are just too great for compromise.

One American woman on Reddit claims her Cuban mother-in-law turned hostile because she set clear rules around her children, going from eager involvement to cold distance.

After years of ignored birthdays and skipped dinners, the woman says she finally got a chance to confront her about dishonesty, but things didn’t go as planned, and now the tension between them has reached a boiling point.

Mothers- and daughters-in-law can have complicated relationships

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But these two haven’t even been talking

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People who read the woman’s story believe she may have omitted certain important details

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And many feel that everyone in the family could do a better job of communicating

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Some, however, say the woman is the one stirring up the drama

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And a few place the blame on the mother-in-law

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