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Karen Mom Gets Mad As A Famous Person Doesn’t Pay Attention To Her Daughter In A Store, Bashes Her On Social Media In Return
Karen Mom Gets Mad As A Famous Person Doesn’t Pay Attention To Her Daughter In A Store, Bashes Her On Social Media In Return

Karen Mom Gets Mad As A Famous Person Doesn’t Pay Attention To Her Daughter In A Store, Bashes Her On Social Media In Return

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How hard is it to be a celebrity? Anyone will tell you that it’s not easy at all, because you actually lose any opportunity to live a normal life, just go shopping, walk the dog, or fill up the car without being recognized and having to sign autographs, take selfies together with fans and more.

There is a famous story about how, before the premiere of Friends’ pilot episode, the showrunners invited the six starring actors to Las Vegas so that they could enjoy anonymity one last time. A quarter of a century has passed since then, social networks and TikTok have appeared, and now everything has become even more complicated.

Just look at this story by user u/aitarudecelebrity in the AITA Reddit community, which has already gained 17.3K upvotes and nearly 5K different comments in less than a day. No, the author of the original post is not a celebrity tired of fan attention. The author is a fan herself, or, to be absolutely precise, a devoted fan’s mother.

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    The author of the post once met a celebrity of whom her daughter was a devoted fan

    Image credits: Surprising_Shots (not the actual image)

    So, the Original Poster and her daughter were on vacation one day in an area where many rich and famous people show up frequently, and in the late afternoon, entering one store, they ran into a celebrity who, by coincidence, was the OP’s daughter’s real idol.

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    Image credits: u/aitarudecelebrity

    The daughter tried to take a joint picture, but was turned away by security as the celeb was busy with her own daughter’s birthday

    Of course, it would have been a sin not to take advantage of this unique opportunity, and the daughter ran to the store to take a picture with the star. However, it wasn’t meant to be – the celeb’s security didn’t let anyone through, explaining that the star’s daughter had a birthday and mom just wanted to focus on it without being distracted by fans.

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    Image credits: u/aitarudecelebrity

    Of course, the OP’s daughter was upset, because she has long been a devoted fan of this star. She tried again to get through to her idol, but was turned away again. As a result, mother and daughter had to just leave, completely upset. We can all agree, such a chance comes up almost once in a lifetime – and it’s a shame to miss it through no fault of your own!

    Image credits: Surprising_Shots (not the actual image)

    The mom was indignant with the celeb’s “entitledness” so she bashed her on social media the same evening

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    However, the story does not end there – you could even say it begins. And all because the OP, outraged that her daughter did not manage to break through to a celeb, could not find anything better than to write an angry post on social networks that very evening, criticizing her daughter’s idol herself for not wanting to stop even for a couple of seconds for a joint photo, and her security, who was allegedly “too rude”.

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    Image credits: u/aitarudecelebrity

    According to the mother, of course, the daughter’s birthday is very important, but a 1-minute interaction with a fan, as the OP believes, isn’t going to ruin her day and if it does, “that girl needs to learn that the world doesn’t revolve around her”. In any case, according to the author of the post, the celebrity was simply obliged to take a picture with her devoted fan, because she wouldn’t be where she is without her fans.

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    Image credits: u/aitarudecelebrity

    Be that as it may, the commenters criticized the mom herself heavily and even her own husband told her she crossed the line

    However, the reaction to the post was not at all what the OP expected. Instead of showing sympathy and criticizing the “callous” celebrity, commenters started roasting the woman herself, calling her entitled for expecting the celeb to interrupt her daughter’s birthday for everyone that wants a picture. Moreover, even the OP’s husband told her that she was completely wrong to take it online and bash a celeb for just trying to behave like a good mom.

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    Image credits: RyanMcGuire (not the actual image)

    People in the comments roasted the mom as well, calling her entitled

    If the author of the post expected any sympathy in the comments from the AITA community, then she did not receive it there either. People replied that they certainly understand her daughter’s disappointment, but famous people are still people. And if you give a minute to each fan who wants to take a picture or get an autograph, then you end up with another autograph session instead of time spent with your own child.

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    Moreover, the commenters were also outraged by the choice of phrases in which the OP expressed her indignation. If a celeb, as the author of the post writes, “needs to learn the whole world doesn’t revolve around her”, yet the OP expects her to stop celebrating her daughter’s birthday just so the author’s kid can get a photo – it might be the OP herself who needs to learn the same simple thing.

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    We suppose that you have already formed your own opinion about this particular story, so please feel free to leave your comments below this post. And if you too have ever interacted with celebrities, please let us know how it all actually was.

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    Oleg Tarasenko

    Oleg Tarasenko

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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    Got Myself 4 Pandas
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I see a famous person I'll go "oh look, it's so and so" and that's it - I haven't and wouldn't ever approach someone going about their daily life without a good reason, famous or not. I don't understand why anyone feels the need to demand things from complete strangers

    K W
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bigger problem here is this mom thinks people with boundaries are acting selfish or entitled. I feel sorry for that kiddo. She's either gonna learn to bulldoze over other people's boundaries or struggle to form healthy boundaries.

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    S Mi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, A and her daughter deserve time without interruption. Doesn't even owe anyone an explanation. I think having security explain its her daughter's birthday is extremely kind and by no means required.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor celebrities daughter is not even allowed to be the number one person in their parents life on their birthday according to this woman. How would anyone feel on their birthday if the attention kept being diverted from them because their parent had people interrupting and fawning over them at the child's expense throughout the day?

    Desert Mama
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Several years ago, my children spent a few hours playing with Mayim Bialik's children in a park. We politely said "hello," as moms do, and quietly watched our children. No photos, no autographs ... just two moms enjoying a beautiful day and happy children. That evening I thanked her on her Facebook and she replied in kind. Love her brain and talent.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe people like this exist.

    Dusky87
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because someone has a career that happens to put them in the public eye doesn't mean that everyone is entitled to their time and attention outside of official engagements

    Yeah, okay.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because you like their movies/ Instagram/ songs etc. doesn't mean they owe you their life. You are getting pleasure from what they produce? Great. That doesn't mean they have to allow you to bulldoze yourself into their private any more than they could do to you. This kind of thinking is over-the-top ridiculous.

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always gone with the approach that if they are being paid - such as at a sports event, theatre or film premiere - then they should stop and spend their time, and will always praise Tom Cruise for going round the whole crowd who are waiting to see him: he's been known to spend 2 hours with them. However, when they're not working - just out shopping, walking the dog or on holiday - leave them alone. That's why it annoys me when the tabloids talk about someone having a "secret" baby or relationship - it's no-one's business but theirs.

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it really that difficult for these types of people to understand that it may be a 1 minute interaction for them but that the celeb probably has a day full of 1 minute interactions every time they go out? I dont really care about celebs but it's to see how you'd never be able to get anything done if you accomodated everyone. EDIT: just read the responses and glad to see multiple made the same point.

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    Got Myself 4 Pandas
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I see a famous person I'll go "oh look, it's so and so" and that's it - I haven't and wouldn't ever approach someone going about their daily life without a good reason, famous or not. I don't understand why anyone feels the need to demand things from complete strangers

    K W
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bigger problem here is this mom thinks people with boundaries are acting selfish or entitled. I feel sorry for that kiddo. She's either gonna learn to bulldoze over other people's boundaries or struggle to form healthy boundaries.

    ADVERTISEMENT
    S Mi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, A and her daughter deserve time without interruption. Doesn't even owe anyone an explanation. I think having security explain its her daughter's birthday is extremely kind and by no means required.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor celebrities daughter is not even allowed to be the number one person in their parents life on their birthday according to this woman. How would anyone feel on their birthday if the attention kept being diverted from them because their parent had people interrupting and fawning over them at the child's expense throughout the day?

    Desert Mama
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Several years ago, my children spent a few hours playing with Mayim Bialik's children in a park. We politely said "hello," as moms do, and quietly watched our children. No photos, no autographs ... just two moms enjoying a beautiful day and happy children. That evening I thanked her on her Facebook and she replied in kind. Love her brain and talent.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe people like this exist.

    Dusky87
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because someone has a career that happens to put them in the public eye doesn't mean that everyone is entitled to their time and attention outside of official engagements

    Yeah, okay.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because you like their movies/ Instagram/ songs etc. doesn't mean they owe you their life. You are getting pleasure from what they produce? Great. That doesn't mean they have to allow you to bulldoze yourself into their private any more than they could do to you. This kind of thinking is over-the-top ridiculous.

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always gone with the approach that if they are being paid - such as at a sports event, theatre or film premiere - then they should stop and spend their time, and will always praise Tom Cruise for going round the whole crowd who are waiting to see him: he's been known to spend 2 hours with them. However, when they're not working - just out shopping, walking the dog or on holiday - leave them alone. That's why it annoys me when the tabloids talk about someone having a "secret" baby or relationship - it's no-one's business but theirs.

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it really that difficult for these types of people to understand that it may be a 1 minute interaction for them but that the celeb probably has a day full of 1 minute interactions every time they go out? I dont really care about celebs but it's to see how you'd never be able to get anything done if you accomodated everyone. EDIT: just read the responses and glad to see multiple made the same point.

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