“Don’t Berate Others On The Internet”: Plus Size Park Hoppers Go Viral Despite Bullying
Interview With OwnerIn a world where body-shaming is all too common, five best friends are breaking barriers and creating a community where plus-size individuals can feel seen, heard, and empowered to enjoy life to the fullest.
Bored Pandaspoke with Plus Size Park Hoppers (PSPH), an uplifting group of women who are using their social media platforms to show that theme parks are for everyone, no matter their size.
- Five best friends created Plus Size Park Hoppers to empower plus-size people.
- The group offers tips for plus-size individuals to enjoy theme parks.
- PSPH has faced bullying but turns hate into energy for positive change.
- Plans to expand, PSPH aims to represent plus-size people in travel media.
Stephanie, Ashley, Sarah, Deanna, and Katie upload regular videos showing their best tips and tricks for enjoying places such as Disney World as a plus-size individual. Since they began in April 2023, they have grown into a wholesome community full of grateful fans.
It hasn’t been an easy road, however, as along the way, they’ve had to endure relentless bullying and unsolicited advice from some users.
“The happier we are in our videos, the more angry the commenters are,” Stephanie said.
A group of five plus-size women are on a mission to empower others to enjoy theme parks no matter their size
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It all began with their collective love of Disney and their shared experience navigating the world as plus-size people.
The five women have been friends for years, with their connections ranging from childhood to college friendships.
“We’ve been going to Disney World together since 2016,” Stephanie recounted, sharing how the group slowly realized the fun they were having could be spread into the world via social media.
Before they had built the courage to take action, the COVID pandemic disrupted the sale of Disney’s annual passes, but when they reopened in April 2023, the group knew it was time.
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“We’ve always been plus-size, and we’ve always loved how size-inclusive Disney World is,” Stephanie said.
“But we also had anxieties about whether we’d fit on rides or if we would feel out of place. We wanted to create content to help others like us see that they can enjoy these parks too.”
Just like that, Plus Size Park Hoppers was born, with the mission to inspire and empower others to visit theme parks without fear or shame.
However, opening their social media channels also gave way for hate to start flooding in, with an intensity that took them by surprise.
Ever since its inception, PSPH has faced relentless harassment by users, who flood their videos with negative and hurtful comments
@plussizeparkhoppers 🙋♀️ Have you ever been on Snow White’s Enchanted Wish at Disneyland? Let us know in the comments! We range in sizes from 2x-5x. Watch this video to find out if Snow White’s Enchanted Wish is plus size friendly! #Disneyland#PlusSize#Disneyadult#Disneyparks#california♬ Snow White – Opening Theme – Orchestra da Camera Fiorentina & Giuseppe Lanzetta
As their social media following grew, so did the number of negative comments. The group quickly realized that not everyone would be supportive of their mission.
“When we started, I honestly didn’t expect to receive so much hate because of our weight,” Stephanie confessed.
“It was shocking at first. Our first viral video was our Tron ride video, and we quickly realized that many of the comments were negative.”
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The years since their first upload have done little to diminish the number of critical interactions.
For instance, one of their latest videos, where the group is happily boarding a parking lot tram at Disney World, got flooded with unsolicited advice.
“Don’t want to waste your steps in the parking lot! You only get so many a day, after all,” one user sarcastically wrote.
“Here’s a tip for living longer. Workout and eat healthier,” another said.
The group has learned to turn the hate into the energy they need to keep inspiring others
@plussizeparkhoppers 🙋🏼♀️ Have you ever been on Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey at Universal’s Islands of Adventure? Let us know in the comments! #universalstudios#plussize#disneyadult#harrypotter♬ Harry Potter – Movie Magic And His Solid Gold Soundtracks
“We will never forget many of those first hate comments. It did really affect us at first,” Stephanie said, recounting a particularly hurtful experience.
“I remember going into the grocery store alone for the first time after that video went viral, and I had a panic attack because I thought everyone around me was thinking the same things that the commenters were saying.”
In time, the negativity became the fuel that they needed. Realizing that they weren’t alone, the group decided to become a beacon of hope for those experiencing the same level of body shaming.
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“What we do is bigger than us. We’re helping others feel like they belong, and that’s what keeps us going.”
Rather than letting the criticism tear them down, the women decided to take a different approach. “We realized that the comments say more about the people leaving them than it does about us,” the group stated. “Happy, well-adjusted people don’t berate others online.”
The group has overcome bullying and harassment, inspiring people and institutions along the way
@plussizeparkhoppers 🙋♀️ Do you prefer Disneyland or Disney World’s Big Thunder Mountain? Let us know in the comments! We loved riding Big Thunder Mountain in Disneyland. The ride is plus size friendly, but the ride queue is not very accessible. Luckily you can go to exit of the ride and request a return time to bypass the turnstile and stairs if needed. #Disneyland#bigthundermountain#plussize#disneyadult#disney♬ cowboy sunday – Amanda Rosa
Despite the constant trolling and hurtful remarks, the group’s resolve has been bolstered by profound moments that make all their challenges worthwhile.
“We’ve had so many people approach us in the parks, crying and thanking us for showing them that they could go to Disney World,” the group stated.
“One woman even told us she felt less anxious about taking her child on a Make-A-Wish trip after watching our videos.”
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The impact of their work has extended far beyond theme parks, as their videos have helped unrelated institutions realize the importance of accessibility in their facilities, ensuring people of all sizes can enjoy their services.
“A medical institution reached out to us saying that they’d made changes to make their facilities more inclusive, thanks to our videos,” Stephanie shared.
“That kind of feedback—knowing that we’ve helped make real-world changes—is what keeps us motivated.”
PSPH offered their best advice on how plus-size individuals can better enjoy the theme park experience
@plussizeparkhoppers Have you been on Tron yet? Let us know in the comments! Also, let us know if there are any other rides you are curious about! #plussize#plussizedisney#disney#disneyworld#disneyadult#distok#tron♬ Happy Up Beat (Medium) – TimTaj
The group shared their best ‘hacks’ to better enjoy the theme park experience as a plus-size individual with Bored Panda.
“Theme parks typically involve a lot of walking, so comfortable shoes are a must!” they said.
“Another tip for any ride that may have a seatbelt is to pull the seatbelt all the way out before you sit to make it a bit easier to buckle.”
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Their most important piece of advice, however, goes beyond just physical comfort at parks, as the group encourages readers and followers to advocate for themselves every single day of their lives.
“If you’re seated in a restaurant and you’re not comfortable with the seat or booth, don’t be afraid to ask for another accommodation,” Stephanie said. “You deserve to be comfortable in these spaces!”
The Hoppers expressed their desire to expand their content to incorporate a broader range of fun activities
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While Plus Size Park Hoppers has focused primarily on Disney World, their favorite park, the group has big plans for the future, expanding their content to new venues and including other aspects of life as a plus-size individual.
“We definitely want to keep doing videos about Disney and how to experience those parks, but we also want to start traveling to other places!” they said.
“Traveling anywhere can be challenging for plus-size people, and there are so many things that plus-size people need to consider when traveling that straight-sized people have never really had to think about,” Stephanie told Bored Panda.
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With ideas for a podcast on the horizon and new content for their YouTube channel, PSPH is just getting started. “We want to be consistent, and we want to be a voice for people who don’t see themselves represented in mainstream travel media,” they added.
“No one should have to wait until they lose weight to experience the joy of theme parks or travel. You deserve happiness now, no matter your size.”
“Great work ladies!” Netizens congratulated the Hoppers for their positive impact and resilience
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I am fat, 5'3/1m60 for 209pounds/95kg. I know I am fat and I know how I became fat. I could work on myself, get out of my depression, do sports and eat better. But that doesn't mean that I don't deserve to enjoy life until I become thin again. I deserve the rights to dance in public, I deserve the rights to wear short dresses and heels, I deserve the rights to enjoy myself in a theme park. I should be allowed to live my life without the pressure of being fat. So thank you to all these ladies, these people out here that help me allow myself to live, that tells me that I should find happiness even in places not made for my body-type. What those types of influencers are doing is not "promoting obesity", they are simply telling fat people that we are allowed to exist and be happy even if we are not thin.
Whilst that's true, the problem can arise when plus-size people feel entitled to extra consideration, eg taking up 2 seats for the price of 1. Also, in the same way that there may be a height limit for some rides, there may also be a weight limit - so don't complain if they don't let you on for safety reasons. I'm also reminded of what happened to Lizzo - constantly promoting body positivity until she got a health warning and/or found Ozempic and/or was told she'd sell more if she lost weight, and magically it became less important to be unhealthily oversize. I wonder if that will happen to these ladies once they get the "lose weight or unalive" warning.
Load More Replies...I like that they are showing that insecurities can be set aside to enjoy things, at least for a little while.
I'd worry about imbalance of a roller coaster car. It would be mean even to have to tell someone that they have to wait to be seated in order to balance the weight.
All rides have weight and height restrictions, if a person is within the parameters they will not cause issues and the ride will be safe for them. That said, there are a few people out there who feel that these restrictions are discriminatory which is ridiculous. Dying because you forced yourself onto a ride your body is not designed to fit is something that has happened. I am happy these women are able to enjoy most Disney World attractions and parks are a great place to get some exercise.
Load More Replies...What do you guys care if some strangers are fat ans trying to be happy? Please stop pretending you care about their health and just mind your own business.
“A medical institution reached out to us saying that they’d made changes to make their facilities more inclusive, thanks to our videos,” Stephanie shared. Oh dear. The sad fact is that these ladies will probably need those institutions because of their huge weight. I have a friend who HAD to lose weight before they operated her knees - which had suffered greatly from her remarkable obesity. It is not nice to say things like that but it is the ugly truth: obesity is not healthy in any way. I've seen so many conscripts suffering from weigh related injuries: you could make bets about which one breaks first - their back or knee(s). The body simply doesn't adjust to the army if you have done zero exercise before entering your national service and if you have a huge load of fat to carry around. Your joints and bones simply can't handle that kind of sudden change in your workout routine. Yes, that can happen to normal sized soldiers as well but believe me, obesity makes it much, much worse.
I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say. Do you think obese people don't know that they have a problem? Do you think they don't know that obesity is unhealthy? Do you think obese people should not be allowed to leave their homes or enjoy theme parks because having more inclusive facilities somehow affects non-obese people negatively? I truly do not understand what you are trying to say woth your comment.
Load More Replies...Christ people, calm down. They aren't promoting obesity, just showing how they live with it.
Call it what you will, but fat, obese , etc. is just flat out unhealthy. Wonder which ones have diabetes in this group. Glamorizing this is wrong on a spectacular level.
Noone is glamorizing anything here. Those are just a few women sharing experiences. They don't promote obesity, they don't want to make others obese, they don't shame thin people. They just have fun and share their experiences so that others can have fun too. It's always baffling to me, the mere fact that an overweight person dares to be out in public seems to be such an insult for thin people. Like fat people are supposed to exercise, lose weight and not just sit around at home. But when they are not just sitting around at home they get publicly shamed. Make it make sense.
Load More Replies...It never ceases to amaze and disgust me how freely some people can be expressing their hatred online. On the one hand, people feel free to express every single spiteful thing they think as they hide behind the anonymity of an avatar and a picture, without regard for social decorum or how they may affect real people. On the other hand, it allows people to say what they really think, and in doing so, allows others to see them for who they really are. Someone is going to know them and know what they think. We live in an era where cruelty and malice have become so normal that the most outspoken now get elected into the US government rather than being kicked back to the sewers. But I refuse to be like this, and I resist those who are. These people aren't hurting anyone, and they're doing good for those around them, and that is commendable. They should never worry about the least common denominators of internet society.
Very well said. I wish I could give you more than one upvote
Load More Replies...I am fat, 5'3/1m60 for 209pounds/95kg. I know I am fat and I know how I became fat. I could work on myself, get out of my depression, do sports and eat better. But that doesn't mean that I don't deserve to enjoy life until I become thin again. I deserve the rights to dance in public, I deserve the rights to wear short dresses and heels, I deserve the rights to enjoy myself in a theme park. I should be allowed to live my life without the pressure of being fat. So thank you to all these ladies, these people out here that help me allow myself to live, that tells me that I should find happiness even in places not made for my body-type. What those types of influencers are doing is not "promoting obesity", they are simply telling fat people that we are allowed to exist and be happy even if we are not thin.
Whilst that's true, the problem can arise when plus-size people feel entitled to extra consideration, eg taking up 2 seats for the price of 1. Also, in the same way that there may be a height limit for some rides, there may also be a weight limit - so don't complain if they don't let you on for safety reasons. I'm also reminded of what happened to Lizzo - constantly promoting body positivity until she got a health warning and/or found Ozempic and/or was told she'd sell more if she lost weight, and magically it became less important to be unhealthily oversize. I wonder if that will happen to these ladies once they get the "lose weight or unalive" warning.
Load More Replies...I like that they are showing that insecurities can be set aside to enjoy things, at least for a little while.
I'd worry about imbalance of a roller coaster car. It would be mean even to have to tell someone that they have to wait to be seated in order to balance the weight.
All rides have weight and height restrictions, if a person is within the parameters they will not cause issues and the ride will be safe for them. That said, there are a few people out there who feel that these restrictions are discriminatory which is ridiculous. Dying because you forced yourself onto a ride your body is not designed to fit is something that has happened. I am happy these women are able to enjoy most Disney World attractions and parks are a great place to get some exercise.
Load More Replies...What do you guys care if some strangers are fat ans trying to be happy? Please stop pretending you care about their health and just mind your own business.
“A medical institution reached out to us saying that they’d made changes to make their facilities more inclusive, thanks to our videos,” Stephanie shared. Oh dear. The sad fact is that these ladies will probably need those institutions because of their huge weight. I have a friend who HAD to lose weight before they operated her knees - which had suffered greatly from her remarkable obesity. It is not nice to say things like that but it is the ugly truth: obesity is not healthy in any way. I've seen so many conscripts suffering from weigh related injuries: you could make bets about which one breaks first - their back or knee(s). The body simply doesn't adjust to the army if you have done zero exercise before entering your national service and if you have a huge load of fat to carry around. Your joints and bones simply can't handle that kind of sudden change in your workout routine. Yes, that can happen to normal sized soldiers as well but believe me, obesity makes it much, much worse.
I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say. Do you think obese people don't know that they have a problem? Do you think they don't know that obesity is unhealthy? Do you think obese people should not be allowed to leave their homes or enjoy theme parks because having more inclusive facilities somehow affects non-obese people negatively? I truly do not understand what you are trying to say woth your comment.
Load More Replies...Christ people, calm down. They aren't promoting obesity, just showing how they live with it.
Call it what you will, but fat, obese , etc. is just flat out unhealthy. Wonder which ones have diabetes in this group. Glamorizing this is wrong on a spectacular level.
Noone is glamorizing anything here. Those are just a few women sharing experiences. They don't promote obesity, they don't want to make others obese, they don't shame thin people. They just have fun and share their experiences so that others can have fun too. It's always baffling to me, the mere fact that an overweight person dares to be out in public seems to be such an insult for thin people. Like fat people are supposed to exercise, lose weight and not just sit around at home. But when they are not just sitting around at home they get publicly shamed. Make it make sense.
Load More Replies...It never ceases to amaze and disgust me how freely some people can be expressing their hatred online. On the one hand, people feel free to express every single spiteful thing they think as they hide behind the anonymity of an avatar and a picture, without regard for social decorum or how they may affect real people. On the other hand, it allows people to say what they really think, and in doing so, allows others to see them for who they really are. Someone is going to know them and know what they think. We live in an era where cruelty and malice have become so normal that the most outspoken now get elected into the US government rather than being kicked back to the sewers. But I refuse to be like this, and I resist those who are. These people aren't hurting anyone, and they're doing good for those around them, and that is commendable. They should never worry about the least common denominators of internet society.
Very well said. I wish I could give you more than one upvote
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