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MIL Is Not Having Any Of New DIL’s Jealous Tantrums, Tells Her She Can Spend Thanksgiving All Alone
Bare walls have never felt like home for me. As a teenager, my room was covered with Leo Messi’s posters, but now, it’s adorned with tons of pictures and paintings. I always felt that they add a natural beauty to every ordinary place.
Even this woman was a huge picture person, but her son’s new wife was mad that she had pictures of his ex as well. Her son demanded that she take them down for her to feel more comfortable, but the Reddit user SingerAware2658 refused. Here’s how it sparked unnecessary family drama.
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It’s a free world, and every person can decorate their house how they want, even if it upsets someone else
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The poster had pictures of everyone in her family on the walls of her house, including her son’s ex’s pictures with him and their kid
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Image credits: irisskaya / Freepik (not the actual photo)
However, his new wife was super annoyed by this, and he demanded that the poster take down his ex’s pictures, but she refused
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Image credits: simonapilolla / Freepik (not the actual photo)
The new wife got so mad because of the refusal that she was awful to her stepson, leaving the whole family shocked
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Despite everything, the poster refused to budge and questioned her son if this was the person he really wanted to be with
Today’s original poster (OP) loves to hang pictures of her family and has hundreds of them with her three children and four grandkids. The drama that happened was all thanks to her middle son (Gavin) and his new wife (Cheri). Everyone was surprised that they got married after dating for just a few months, but she made him happy, so they were happy too.
However, when her son demanded that she take down pictures of his ex (Helena) from the wall, they found out her true colors. Cheri was so jealous of Helena that she couldn’t even bear to see her photos. The poster refused to remove them, even after Gavin asked her multiple times. What really shocked OP was that her refusal was impacting the way Cheri treated Gavin and Helena’s son (Tommy).
She was appalled that an adult would involve an innocent kid out of jealousy over a few pictures. In fact, Cheri even refused to come to the poster’s house for Thanksgiving if they weren’t taken down. Well, the whole family heard about it, and they all felt that Cheri was being ridiculous. OP also questioned Gavin whether she was the right person for him, but he disagreed.
He also kept insisting on taking them down, but the poster updated that she was not going to budge, and if Cheri wanted to act like a toddler, she could spend Thanksgiving alone. OP also shared that she and her husband help out their kids financially, so there was no chance that Gavin would cut her off over something so trivial.
Image credits: Eric Harrison / Freepik (not the actual photo)
In the end, we are all humans, so jealousy is natural, but if we let this toxic emotion win, then it can spread like a disease and impact everything. Even experts emphasize that intense jealousy is a straight giveaway of an unhealthy relationship. The poster also claimed that Gavin and Cheri’s marriage was pretty rushed, so they might not have gotten to properly know each other before.
The sad part is that Cheri’s jealousy is not just causing trouble in her relationship, but it’s also affecting her. Research suggests that it can often impact a person’s mental health and cause anxiety, poor self-esteem, or emotional self-sabotage. She is indeed destroying her bond with Gavin’s family and has probably also ruined the connection she had with Tommy.
Studies have shown that jealousy is just a facade for a lot of underlying issues like insecurity, low self-esteem, neuroticism, or fear of abandonment. Many folks suggested that she really needs therapy. Also, with the way she lashed out at Tommy, I would definitely say she needs it. Netizens also questioned Gavin’s part in all of this drama.
They were shocked that he was just letting her have her way, even after how she mistreated Tommy. To be honest, shouldn’t he put his child first here instead of giving in to her whims and fancies? It’s a good thing that the poster didn’t relent to their absurd demand. Don’t you think so, too? We would love to hear your thoughts, so leave them in the comments below!
Netizens applauded her for not giving in to the woman’s toddler-like tantrums, and many claimed that she was a walking red flag
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Paul C 1 week ago
If Cheri is that sensitive about pictures of her husband's ex-wife, she really, really shouldn't have married someone who was married before and especially someone who had a child. What is going to happen when Tommy wants a picture up of him and his mother or even just his mother? Or even if he just wants to talk about her and what he did with her? It feels like Gavin will soon have two failed marriages behind him (if he has the sense to prioritise his son's needs). Sadly, most cases on BP tend to be about a parent who prioritises the person sharing their bed, not their children.
FreeTheUnicorn 1 week ago (edited)
Do not enable a relationship that so unhealthy a photo on MIL's wall can cause home life to implode. Tell them to sort things out and then come see you. It sounds like new partner is trying to claim priority over the kid, and it's only going to be worse for him at home. That's his mother and trying to erase her is a weird power play. Maybe just have the grandson over until the parents can be adults
Janelle Collard 1 week ago
Any bets Cheri will get preg soon and will try to minimalize Tommy further?
KatSaidThat 1 week ago
You're going to have to choose between your son and your wife. Choose carefully.
Paul C 1 week ago
If Cheri is that sensitive about pictures of her husband's ex-wife, she really, really shouldn't have married someone who was married before and especially someone who had a child. What is going to happen when Tommy wants a picture up of him and his mother or even just his mother? Or even if he just wants to talk about her and what he did with her? It feels like Gavin will soon have two failed marriages behind him (if he has the sense to prioritise his son's needs). Sadly, most cases on BP tend to be about a parent who prioritises the person sharing their bed, not their children.
FreeTheUnicorn 1 week ago (edited)
Do not enable a relationship that so unhealthy a photo on MIL's wall can cause home life to implode. Tell them to sort things out and then come see you. It sounds like new partner is trying to claim priority over the kid, and it's only going to be worse for him at home. That's his mother and trying to erase her is a weird power play. Maybe just have the grandson over until the parents can be adults
Janelle Collard 1 week ago
Any bets Cheri will get preg soon and will try to minimalize Tommy further?
KatSaidThat 1 week ago
You're going to have to choose between your son and your wife. Choose carefully.
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