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We’ve all had an encounter with someone who seems to lack a basic understanding of etiquette and human decency. They’re the annoying plane passengers who would kick your seat from behind you, or the entitled coffee shop customer who would cut the line and cause a stir during a supposedly peaceful morning. 

These individuals deserve to be shamed for their actions. Thankfully, we have the Mildly Infuriating subreddit to do that, and they, unfortunately, have no shortage of content to post. 

Here are some photos we’ve collected featuring some people at their worst behavior.

#1

People Who Constantly Block The Isles Of Stores To Stand Around And Chat

People with shopping carts blocking the aisle in a supermarket, demonstrating a lack of basic etiquette.

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    People Who Leave Their Lights Off In The Rain

    Cars driving in heavy fog, demonstrating a lack of road etiquette by not using headlights.

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    Blue Bunny of Happiness
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    3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It drives me up the wall that most new cars are such dull colours white, silver or black. The current trend for grey cars is dreadful. Why would you want a car that is the same colour as the road, fog and spray? You’ve far more chance of being seen in a brightly coloured car.

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    A lack of empathy often leads to rude behavior and a seeming lack of basic etiquette knowledge. Experts like etiquette coach Maria Doll are pointing to the rise of digital technology as a catalyst for the decay in these morals. 

    In an interview with HuffPost, Doll attributed this to social scientists' findings that our empathy level decreases the more time we spend on our screens.

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    #4

    People Who Do This With Their Shopping Carts

    Shopping cart left in a parking spot at night, lacking basic etiquette.

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    Rick Murray
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I put them back and keep the little tokens inside. Once or twice I'm lucky and it's a euro coin.

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    #5

    Just Why? The Trash Can Is Right There!

    Empty pizza box and trash left on a subway station bench, illustrating a lack of basic etiquette.

    I don’t even mind when people eat or drink at the subway station, but at least clean up after yourself! How do people just ignore the most basic levels of public etiquette?

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    #6

    Texted The Whole Performance With Brightness On High And Ignored His Wife And Kid At The Puppet Show

    Audience member on phone during a cultural performance, demonstrating a lack of basic etiquette.

    Seriously! Go see the puppets with your family and never took his eyes off the screen. Plus brightness on high so we could all share his love of his device. Felt like lobbing it into the water.

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    Digital technology isn’t the only culprit here. According to recent statistics compiled by Pew Research, 47% of American adults believe that people behave more rudely than they did before the pandemic in 2019. 

    34% of respondents say they “almost always” or “often” see people behaving rudely in public, while only 9% report seeing people behave politely and respectfully towards others.

    #7

    Don't Be That Tourist In Japan

    Passengers on train with luggage blocking seats, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

    Traveling in Japan and a person took up 4 priority seats with their luggage while some of the elderly people on the train had to stand.

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    #8

    That Is A Huge Bluetooth Speaker On His Back

    Man in store with yoga mat, casually dressed, demonstrating lack of basic etiquette by walking without shoes.

    Yes, there is music coming out of it. When I asked him wouldn't using earbuds be easier, he said I should just my own if what he's playing bothers me. Way to miss the point, bud.

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    #9

    This Guy In Front Of Me At The Movie Theater. He Had The Brightness All The Way Up

    Person using phone in a dark movie theater, distracting from the film on screen, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would not hesitate to throw popcorn at him and tell him his screen is bright enough to see into his dim future.

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    Regarding the types of behavior that are classified as acceptable or otherwise, this is where most respondents were divided. According to the survey, only 59% found it unacceptable to play loud music in public, and only 77% didn’t tolerate people who smoked amongst others. 

    Age also played a factor, with older adults being more likely to disapprove of certain behaviors. 89% of people aged 65 and above were against cursing out loud compared to the 38% of people aged 18 to 29.

    #10

    People Who Block The Sidewalk With Plenty Of Driveway Remaining

    Two vehicles parked awkwardly across a driveway, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

    Walking around my neighborhood, so many people have large vehicles that block the sidewalk, but this was overly egregious.

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    #12

    This Lady, Who Insisted On Being The Only Person Standing At The Concert

    Theater audience hindered by person standing, lacking basic etiquette.

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    Unfortunately, it appears that people have forgotten the importance of proper manners and basic human decency. So, here’s Maria Doll reminding everyone about the basics. 

    "Don't eat on the phone. Always smile and be pleasant, no matter how bad your day is. Always shake hands at the beginning and end of each meeting. Look interested; don't roll your eyes and look bored. Be respectful.”

    #13

    Why Are Loud Video/Speaker Phone Calls Now A Spectator Sport In Public?

    Person using phone on bus, ignoring basic etiquette.

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    #14

    People Who Don’t Return Shopping Carts Are The Worst

    Shopping cart left in parking space, lacking basic etiquette.

    Got psyched to see a spot close to the door only to find this. Right next to the cart return thing?! Really???? If you are a person who doesn’t return your cart, do better.

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    Hippopotamuses
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm beginning to see why some European supermarkets require a deposit to use a trolley.

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    #15

    On My Flight To Reykjavik Just Now

    Feet on a plane seat, displaying poor etiquette in a crowded cabin setting.

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    Hippopotamuses
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of the airlines which I've used; Qantas, Air NZ, American Airlines, would not allow passengers to do this. As much for safety, as inconvenience to others.

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    Your opinions matter to us, dear readers, and we’d like to hear from you. Which of these behaviors irks you the most? How do you handle individuals who lack basic etiquette? Share your insights in the comments below!

    #16

    This Family Taking Up An Entire Sightseeing Platform So Nobody Else Can Take Photos

    Group blocking scenic path with chairs, showing lack of etiquette in nature setting.

    It's a long weekend so Wilson's Promontory was very busy, a lot of people missed out on great photos and views because these people wanted it for themselves.

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    Stephanie Did It
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd just walk up and start snapping pics, maybe ask for a soda since I'm joining the party. No one owns a view.

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    #17

    People Sweat, That's Fine, But Who Leaves Their Puddles Behind Like This Without Wiping Down?

    Gym equipment seat left sweaty, lacking basic etiquette.

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    #18

    These Girls Taking Up 2 Seats Each While Other People Have To Stand

    People on public transport sitting improperly, showing lack of basic etiquette.

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    Grape Walls of Ire
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder what she'd do if a big creepy guy like me just sat down on her feet. And then farted.

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    #19

    My Neighbors Throwing Trash Off Their Balcony Instead Of Just Walking To The Dumpster. They Do This Regularly

    Litter scattered on a grassy area beside a fence, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

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    #20

    People Stopping Under A Bridge To Avoid Hail Damage To Their Cars

    Traffic jam in rainy weather on a city highway, highlighting a moment of lacking basic etiquette on the road.

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    #21

    It Should Be Common Courtesy To Turn Your Headlights Off In A Drive-Through If You’re In A Taller Truck

    Car mirror reflecting bright light, highlighting lack of basic etiquette in driving.

    I love being blinded apparently - flipped my read view mirror after the pic but it doesn’t help too well when they’re two feet behind you.

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    detective miller's hat
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Move your rearview mirror so you're pointing the blinding light right back into their face.

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    #22

    Motorcycle Always Parks On Sidewalk

    Woman with stroller faces blocked sidewalk by parked cars, illustrating lack of basic etiquette.

    Every morning the sidewalk is blocked by a motorcycle. The SUV on the left has lots of passive aggressive stickers, this family has made motorcycling their identity and can’t be bothered to park their bike on the street or in their driveway. We then walk baby and stroller into the street to get around. Yes we take a different route to avoid this now. No I haven’t knocked on the door to ask the adult to practice basic motorcycle etiquette.

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    #23

    Putting Gum In The Charging Slots On Public Transport

    USB port with missing etiquette, poorly maintained and dirty.

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    #24

    How Someone Parked Next To Me While I Was In An Appointment

    Tesla parked poorly, taking two spaces, illustrating lack of basic etiquette in a crowded parking lot.

    I (gold car) had to get into my car via the passenger side and climb over, and put my rear view mirror in to get out. The empty spot next to them makes it even worse.

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    Earthquake903
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a Tesla. Only inconsiderate jerks drive Teslas

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    #25

    Woman Having Work Zoom Call In The Train With No Headphones. She Was Using The Speakers Loud On The Phone And Has The Audacity To Ask Others To Please Be Quiet

    Person watching video on phone loudly in public, showing lack of basic etiquette.

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    Vinny DaPooh
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lean over her shoulder and say sorry I'm late everyone can someone bring me up to speed.

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    #26

    If Gas Cars Can't Park At Charging Stations Tesla's Shouldn't Be Allowed To Park At Gas Pumps. All The Parking Spots Were Open

    Tesla at gas station, highlighting lack of basic etiquette in online shaming context.

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    #27

    People Who Just Leave Their Stuff On A Workout Machine And Disappear For 15min! I Only Needed 10min I Could Have Been Done Already

    Gym weights left on equipment, lacking basic etiquette, with a towel on the bench.

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    #28

    A Guest Left Their Room Like This After One Month Of Staying At My Friends Hotel

    Room filled with trash, showcasing lack of basic etiquette in housekeeping.

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    #29

    Woman Uses Feet To Play Slot Machine In Casino

    Person lounging with legs up on a casino slot machine, illustrating a lack of basic etiquette in public spaces.

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    #30

    She Also Attended A Half Hour Work Meeting Without Earphones :)

    Overcrowded bus seat with passengers and laptop, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

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    #31

    Guy Trying On Clothes In Dressing Room Next To Me Left It Like This

    Messy fitting room with clothes scattered on the floor and chair, reflecting a lack of basic etiquette.

    I was in a dressing room yesterday trying on 10 or so shirts, and next to me was a guy doing the same and his wife was standing at the door saying which ones she liked and didn't.

    I liked a couple of the ones I had, so I went back out and hung the dislikes on the rack and got a few more to try. I passed the couple on their way to the register to check out and went back to my same dressing room to see that this is how they left theirs.

    I don't work here or at any clothing store, so maybe this is normal, but I just feel it's kinda bad to make someone clean up after you like you're a 2 year old.

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    Sophia Pandia de Delphia
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does OP know what the dressing room looked like before this couple started using it? Just because it's a mess when I leave it does NOT mean I created the mess. I will leave everything as it was when I step in and step out.

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    #32

    Man On Valencia Metro Taking Up A Whole Row Of Seats With His Bags As Other People Stand

    People standing and sitting in a crowded subway, some not following basic etiquette.

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    #33

    Why Do People Think This Is Ok?

    Messy shoe aisle in store showing lack of basic etiquette, with scattered shoes and boxes on the floor.

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    Hippopotamuses
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's sadder when the shoes left behind are old. NZ'ers who shop at The Warehouse will be familiar with this. It's almost a sport!

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    #34

    This Dude And His Girlfriend Blasting Tiktoks At Full Blast On A 3 Hour Train Ride

    A person on a train occupying extra seats with a phone, demonstrating a lack of basic etiquette.

    My wife and I are on our honeymoon in Italy and the jet lag has basically ruined our sleep schedule. No worries, we’ll just sleep on the train, right? Nope! Instead, we get to listen to hours of TikTok audio courtesy of two apparently socially challenged, self-centered teens. When did it become okay to blast your phone while the people around you are clearly trying to sleep? Ugh.

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    #35

    Neighbors Put Cones On Parking Space So They Can Park There Exclusively

    Poor parking etiquette with a car blocking road cones on a rainy street.

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    Hippopotamuses
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends on where you live. But I suspect that you can call your council have the cones removed.

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    #36

    Someone Blocking The Aisle So They Can Have Their Own Section

    Pink crate blocking train door, showing lack of basic etiquette.

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    #37

    I Work Closing At Target, Every Single Night I Have To Push 3-5 Carts Of Full Shopping Trips Abandoned By Customers

    Shopping carts overloaded with various items in a store, lacking basic etiquette in aisle organization.

    All of these needs to be sorted and processed and put back onto the floor.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are many reasons for this. Another daily life of retail Hell, though. I witnessed a family abandoning their cart, taking their screaming, crying kid in the classic football hold and quickly walked out. I couldn't be mad at parents actually parenting. I've also learned to not think of the additional tasks as something personally against me, nor as a personal task. It's just me, working at the store until my agreed time of shift is over. Tomorrow will be more work, as will the next day. Just get what I can done.

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    #39

    This Is How My Daughter Left The Car For Me Today

    Car dashboard warning of low fuel, miles away from empty, highlighting a lapse in basic etiquette.

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    Bear Hall
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Lizzy, come back. You have a car to push to the filling station."

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    #40

    At The Gym During The Busiest Time Of Day

    Gym sign about powerlifting rest times, highlighting lack of etiquette and patience.

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    SouthernGal
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of these examples are making me so angry. Some people are such horrible jerks!

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    #41

    The Garbage Can Is Right There

    Fast food table with leftover trash and packaging, demonstrating lack of basic etiquette.

    I even saw them leaving and couldn’t believe my eyes. By the time I realized what they did they were gone.

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    #42

    How People At My College Park

    Two trucks parked improperly with rear bumpers touching, showcasing a lack of basic etiquette.

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    People That Can Lift This Much Weight, But Are Too Lazy To Re-Rack The Weights

    Gym weight machine overloaded with plates, illustrating lack of basic etiquette.

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    Stephanie Did It
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't gyms add a re-racking fee to their monthly membership? I guess that would justify doing it for some, though

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    #44

    Someone Let Their Kid Bedazzle A Floor Tile In This Mall, Then Just Left It And The Packaging

    Litter on tiled floor near a curved bench, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

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    #45

    This Kid Was Running Up And Down The Aisle And Using The Seats As His Own Personal Jungle Gym

    Passenger in red shirt lying across airplane seats, shoes on headrest, displaying poor etiquette.

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    #46

    Bad Toothpaste Etiquette

    Toothpaste tube improperly squeezed on a sink, highlighting poor etiquette.

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    This Guy Used A Laptop Throughout A Movie Last Night

    Person using a laptop in a movie theater, ignoring basic etiquette.

    I was on the other side of the theater but noticed he was on one when I came in. It was a pretty big theater and I could see a faint light once the movie started but I kind of thought it was just an aisle light. When I went to leave I noticed he was still on it. Took this as the credits rolled. Note: he also had earbuds in but took them out right before the picture.

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    Miki
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why ppl don't just walk to this animals and talk, worst case ask cinema service

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    #48

    People Who Park Like This

    Car parked poorly across two parking spaces, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

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    Hobby Hopper
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    3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends. There are plenty of open spots, so if they are actually in the car just quickly pulled over checking a text or something, then fine. If they left the car unattended, not so much.

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    #49

    You Get A Free, Clean Towel Every Time You Visit This Gym. All You Need To Do Is Thrown It In A Basket When You Leave And They Will Look After It

    Messy gym locker room with shoes and towels strewn on the floor, highlighting lack of basic etiquette.

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    #50

    This Girl At The Airport Waits Until The Queue Moves All The Way Forward To Move. People Confronted Her And She Said “It’s The Same If I Move Now Or Later”

    Airport queue showing people with luggage, illustrating a lack of basic etiquette.

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