Out of all the voices competing for our attention in the back of our heads, there's a really critical one. It's telling us that we're not good enough, that we'll embarrass ourselves if we try something new, and that we should just close ourselves off from everyone in our own little bubble.
To help silence those doubts, we put together a list of people's most memorable first times. Whether it's going to college, owning a pet, or simply following a new recipe, these moments remind us that every expert was once a beginner and that you can learn a lot about not just yourself but also the world if you put yourself out there.
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1.5 Years, First Time He Ever Jumped On My Lap
That is a moment you will remember for the rest of your life. Treasure it!
My Blind Friend’s First Time Holding A Cat
"When you engage in a new experience, no matter how small, there is an automatic release of dopamine in the brain," says Emma Palmer, a licensed clinical social worker based in Chicago, United States. "It also 'wakes up' the brain."
"Trying new things forces our brain to form new connections, which ultimately allows us to become more flexible in our thinking patterns (which can help later down the road when life throws us curveballs)."
First-Time Cat Owners. We Feel Like We Struck The Lottery With Our Boy, Gus
WDYM owners? But then, it's your first time, so you're yet to feel the true power and might of our feline overlords!
This Felt Like Belonging
Bought these Tru-Colour bandages almost as an afterthought at the online FSA Store months ago, spending down the health care money my employer thankfully provides. Don't know enough about the manufacturer to fully vouch for them, but I truly appreciate how valued their product made me feel.
"But isn't it woke to want a bandaid that cannot be seen on first glance?" I wish I was making this up... 🙄
I Came In 2nd Place In My First-Ever National Art Show Submission! I’m Beyond Stoked
According to Palmer, trying out new things also helps prevent cognitive decline and strengthens the part of the brain responsible for memory.
"Outside of these cognitive benefits, it also may help us discover something new about ourselves!" she adds. "Trying something new forces us to break out of routine, which may lead to a new discovery, promotes creativity, and overall personal fulfillment."
I Tried Bleach Painting On A Shirt For The First Time, And I'm So Proud Of It
For my friend's birthday, we decided to all try bleach painting for the first time, and this was the shirt that I came up with! I'm an oil painter usually, but I found this to be very similar to watercolors! I made a stencil using a big piece of cardstock paper, cut it out, and then went in with a brush for the rest of the details. Hope you guys like it!
My Grandma Got To Vote For The First Time Ever After Becoming An American Citizen Just A Month Ago
My Son’s First Time In The Snow
Depending on what you decide to do, trying something new can also lead to meeting new people, increased confidence, and maybe even moving your body in a different way to strengthen it, too.
"For me, it was a group Pilates class, and let's just say I discovered some muscles I didn’t even know existed afterward!" Palmer says.
My First Pajamas
I bought the fabric and cut the pieces four years ago. I finally got around to finishing it, and my goodness! I made a ton of errors. Half the top is cut upside down. The pants are right way up, but I cut two right legs instead of mirroring the piece. (Ergo, the pink left leg). The pockets are wrong side out. And getting the elastic in was an adventure.
All told, I'm thrilled with my first set of Carolyn Pajamas.
My Boyfriend Never Had A Dog Before I Came Along
Today I Held My Children’s Book With My Right Hand For The First Time
So if there are so many benefits to it, why is trying something new so difficult?
"It is normal to feel like sticking with our 'day-to-day' routine is challenging enough, how can we even comprehend trying something new?" Palmer says. "It could also be fear or anxiety of trying something out of our comfort zone."
It is therefore important to remember that not everything we try will stick. There's nothing wrong with your first time being the only time. "It is completely okay to try something once, maybe realize it isn't for you, and move on to something else," Palmer adds.
Many Years Ago, My Great-Grandmother Made A Promise That If She Made It To Her 100th Birthday, She Would Ride Her First Motorcycle; That Day Has Come
Had Someone Tell Me I Was “Thin” For The First Time In My Life
Weird experience. A casual acquaintance said that she hoped she was “thin” like me someday.
She meant it as a compliment, but it was just weird. Took me by surprise. Said friend is already well beyond what I would consider “thin”, and it was jarring to see the look in her eyes when she explained that she “needed” to lose weight, and compared herself to me.
I was 450lb for a huge chunk of my life, and I’m constantly surprised by how “normal” sized people view themselves.
An Act Of Kindness From A Compassionate Gentleman
First-Ever Tomato Of My Lifetime. She Was Born From A Seed 170 Days Ago
If you want to try something new but don't know what, it's worth spending some time getting clear about what drives you, says clinical psychologist Dr. Juan Pablo Zapata of the Institute for Adolescent Mental Health and Well-Being at Northwestern University, United States.
Consider when you were happiest in the past few months and ask yourself:
I’m A First-Time College Student At 50 Years Old
I decided to skip college after high school as I was more interested in illegal substances, art, travel, and music. 30 plus years, 3 ex-wives, and raising 26-year-old twins, I’ve decided to start a whole new chapter and get out of retail grocery as a career! Seemed like the perfect time in my life, and now that community college is free for most folks in MA, I’d be silly not to give it a shot! Computer systems engineering technology associates is the goal! Picked up my ID today and signed up for a summer STEM boot camp ( all sorts of cool support stuff, as well as my first math and English classes). I’ve been smiling all day!
I Ran My First Race Today! It Was A 6.5 Km, And I Did It In 44:27! I Trained For Two Months (And Lost Nearly Three Clothing Sizes), Having Never Been A Runner Before
I’m so proud of myself!
Proud Of My 72-Year-Old Father! After 215 Hours, He Finally Beat His First Console Game Ever, The Legend Of Zelda: Breath Of The Wild
He loved it. He likes games where he can relax and explore. He was never forced to battle unless he absolutely had to, and when he did, he was able to come up with crafty ways of beating enemies without having to fight them one-on-one. As you can see from the video, he isn’t great with the controller. He could spend hours just exploring and hunting and be perfectly ok. A good starting game for anyone at any age.
It's also often best to take it slow.
"With any new activity, it is important to keep it simple, break it into smaller pieces, do one thing at a time, use visual reminders or alarms, have an accountability partner, schedule activities at times when you are most likely to succeed, use self-compassion, anticipate setbacks, and reinforce and reward new and healthy behavior choices," Zapata explains.
In other words, make it manageable and set yourself up for success!
My Dad Decided To Build A Brick Walkway For The First Time Ever At His Home. He Turns 70 This Month
He used to work on airplane engines behind a computer screen. He’s just one of those guys who can do/build/fix anything. Without a doubt, he has those super dad powers.
Tried Painting For The First Time In My Life At A Local Brewery Event. Was Told It Was Awesome. Felt Great
My First Ever Professional Cake
Everything is homemade; it was my first time doing all of this! I’ve never iced a cake before, done a crumb coat, made a homemade cake, all of it! I took my time and really tried to educate myself before executing this, and it worked out wonderfully!
The only thing I didn’t like was the colors, but now I know it’s something I have to improve on.
It’s a chocolate cake with crumbled Oreos between the layers and vanilla/chocolate buttercream!
"We spend on average of around 3 hours and 15 minutes a day on our phones," says Zapata.
And if that screen time consists of doomscrolling and excessively marinating in upsetting news articles, it can make it harder for us to face our fears. So we need to make having fun a priority.
"If we are not intentional about how we spend our time, it easily evaporates."
I Sold Out My First Market, And The Entire Building Cheered For Me
Great Job To You And The Entire Team On The Great And Informative Commentary
First Time In My Life Not Living Paycheck To Paycheck. Got My Parents An Early Christmas Present. They Deserve Much More, But It's A Start
My First Attempt At Snow Carving
First Time Visiting Family In Vietnam. Look At All The Food They Prepped For My Arrival
I'm in a rural town off of Hanoi called Duy Tien!
You can't tell from the picture, but there were currently 10 people sitting around at the time of the pic, and that's not to mention the 4 kids that ran off to go play after they finished eating. Perhaps the angle was a bit off, but I would say even for American standards, it was a massive amount of food.
Yeah, I was blown away by the cultural difference between the US and Vietnam. You literally have tons of relatives and in-laws just casually walking up to your house just to sit down and chat over a meal or tea.
Just Tasted Monster Energy For The First Time
I Took My Daughter Sledding For The First Time. This Is Her Trying To Avoid The Ramp
At The Age Of 33, I Bought My First Ever Plant
Never really bothered with getting plants before, but my desk was looking barren compared to everyone else, so I went and bought this.
Quite like the little guy, might give him some water or something.
Good choice of a plant. Decorative and relatively easy to maintain. Well done.
My 83-Year-Old Grandma's First Attempt At A Selfie
Her first attempt definitely went better than mine. And I was maybe 30...
After 2 Years Of IVF. First Attempt And First Time With A Positive Result
Tony Hawk Meeting His Grandson For The First Time
The baby's other grandfather is Kurt Cobain. That's going to be one cool kid.
Today I Got My First Car Ever. I'm 32 Years Old. I'm Over The Moon. Called My Family And Friends, And Everyone Is Very Happy For Me
My Wife Left Me Alone With The Kids For The First Time, And After Asking For An Update, I Sent Her This
I will say I should have picked a different game because it turns out RISK takes forever, even if you aren't playing.
I'm getting a lot of questions:
1. "Are they triplets?" Yes, identical boys. Pretty rare, happens about 5 times a year in the USA.
2. "Are you tired?" Yes.
3. "How are they propped up?" Bumbos! About 5 seconds after this picture was taken, they were NOT happy.
4. "Who won?" I did, they are terrible at Risk
5. "CHOKING HAZARD MUCH" I know, I literally risked their life playing this game, but they couldn't even raise their arms, much less pick up a little piece. It was worth it; get ready for the risk.
6. This isn't answering a question; I just wanted to shout out my wife, she's amazing.
7. "Are you tired?" Yes, I'll answer this again.
The Most Nervous I Have Ever Been Was Leaving The Hospital For The First Time With Our Baby
96-Year-Old Grandma Playing VR
This Is So Adorable
My First Suit Ever Made
Hello! I just wanted to share the first fursuit I've ever made. I just finished making this fursuit. It took me about two months to make. I'm really proud of it! I'm really scared of showing this here, but I really wanted to show it off somewhere. I'll be taking this suit to my first-ever furry convention in February. I'm considering getting into fursuit making as a side hobby. So I am interested in some feedback regarding my suit. Please be gentle! This is my first fursuit ever, both in regards to being handmade and just simply owning one. Yes, I am aware of the holes in the flippers. They are there so I can slip my hands in and out. I'm going to add snaps so they aren't constantly open.
It Was My Son’s First Time At A Theme Park. He Was Pretty Stoked And Wouldn’t Stop Talking To The Staff
Reminds me of my toddler, literally high on life when we went to an amusement park for the first time
Proud Of Myself. Did My First Vinyl Wrap Today, Only Had One Bubble
Harvested My First Carrots. The Good News Is They Tasted Great! Banana For Scale
My mom tried to tell me that fancy restaurants would want them for overpriced micro-food.
I live in Las Vegas, and we had a heat wave that fried everything. I assumed that with everything dead above ground, I needed to pull the dead greens out, and these all came out with them. It’s very hard to grow things here.
Dad Here, First Time Stylist, Be Honest, Please
I have zero experience, but I think it looks good. Trying to get into helping my daughters with their hair. It's literally the first time, but I really want to get some skills down to help before school starts. Nothing crazy, but learning so cool braids would be awesome. Advice appreciated, and thank you for the help!
I suck at doing my daughter's hair. Just completely frustrates me. I'm too used to my guy hair that I just run my fingers through with some water and cheap gel in 5 seconds. Maybe I can talk her into the Sinead O'Connor look.
First-Time Flyer
I turned my friend in for being a first-time flyer, and look what the Delta crew put together for him! So cool, I was only hoping for wings, but this is so special.
I Had My Photo Taken Professionally For The First Time Ever
I did my arangetram (huge Indian dance performance, like a graduation in dance) at the age of 15 and that was the first time I had my photos taken professionally. We had a photoshoot where we took photos that went in the invitations, and then I got loads more photos from my actual performance. That was a nice time in my life.
My First Attempt At “Shaving” My Head. Been At Work For Two Days Like This And Didn’t Even Realize Until A Coworker Asked, “Are You Okay?”
First Time Making Quiche Lorraine. What Do You Think?
First Bubble Bath In Nearly 35 Years. I Think I Did Something Wrong?
I Took A Selfie On My First-Ever Vacation As An Adult. Probably The First Ever Selfie
In San Francisco, the public transportation was great! And the wine. And the sushi! And the views! It's a nice city!
I Needed A Stocking This Year. First Time Sewing Something, And I Love Dinosaurs
It’s Not Much, But I Caught My First-Ever Fish Today
We Were Really Excited To Use A Lime From Our Lime Tree For The First Time
There Are Two Types Of Kids On The First Day Of School
Tried A Banana For The First Time
First Attempt At Muffins. I Might’ve Overfilled Them A Little. At Least They Tasted Good With Some Raspberries On Them
I don't think the issues is that the cups were overfilled, I think the issue is that paper muffin cups don't have the structural integrity to hold the batter as it puffs up while cooking. You need to use a muffin pan; paper muffin cups are supposed to be *liners* for the pan, which provides the structure. Now, it *is* possible to bake muffins on a cookie sheet, but you need to use silicone muffin cups, which are sturdier.
My Daughter Bought Her First Pizza With Her Own Money Yesterday. Woke Up To This This Morning. The Note Says Don’t Eat. The Knife Says It’s Not A Suggestion
Tried CrossFit For The First Time, Literally The First Day I Went, & Ended Up With Rhabdomyolysis
I thought I would be fine doing CrossFit (even though I was reluctant to try it in the first place, I got convinced by my boyfriend) because I was already in shape & worked out regularly. I just really pushed myself way harder than I should’ve because I assumed I could handle it, but I was definitely wrong!
For The First Time In My Life, Someone Told Me I Smelled Amazing And Asked Me What I Was Wearing
Thought I’d Try A Tanning Booth For The First Time. Did Not Notice The Cardboard That I Laid On
I Moved To Tokyo Earlier This Year At The Ripe Age Of 21. This Is My First Time Living Alone, So I Get To Do This
A Few Days Ago, I Mistook The Wrong Train & Got Out Of My Hometown For The First Time In My Life
In my entire life of 19 years, I've never really gone out of my state, as I said in the post's title. In fact, there are not more than 5 cities that I have travelled. And honestly, I wanted to keep it like that till late 2027, when I'll graduate. I planned to go on a full tour of my country all by my own right after my graduation, solo. That day, although it was just for 30 or so minutes, I, by mistake, went out of state. Not much of a big deal, but it's just that I wanted to do it after my grad. Anyways. Doesn't bother me, but yeah.
Immediately got off at the next station and took another train to get back home. clicked this pic while returning when the train stopped at a random place, and I found this beautiful scenery in front of my eyes.
Back in the 90s before rail travel was so expensive, sometimes if I was bored on a day off I'd get on a train and when I got to a major station I'd pick a different train. I once did Guildford to nearly Cambridge, and back, using obscure routes. It was fun. Once went up to Reading to go shopping, decided not to, and eventually found a lovely little bookstore in *Cardiff*!
My Wife Asked Me To “Take It Easy” On My 12-Year-Old For His First Time At The Gym. So I Sent Her This Pic
My Niece Just Got Her First Car And Was Excited To Decorate The Interior. My Niece Is Mimi Bobeck
Oh the traffic infractions. Hope she never gets pulled over or needs to make a quick swerve to avoid something.
My First Time Eating Eggs From The Amish
Probably the best-tasting eggs I've ever had. Is it the type of hen or what they feed them, or both, that the eggs are this color?
I have raised some chickens (for eggs and pets not to eat!) and yes, fresh egg yolks are definitely more orange than factory farmed! Probably were free range hens so they got lots of natural food (grass, worms, etc) along with the chicken feed. Fresh eggs are the best...well, except to peel boiled!! :)
My First (And Probably Last) Cake Ever
Didn’t get the opportunity to do more than a crumb coat. I am devastated. I think it was the bottom layer - I may have undercooked it, and it disintegrated.
I can confirm, it tastes delicious. Everything was made from scratch, including the strawberry jam.
My First Attempt At Making Sushi
Tried A Century Egg For The First Time
I decided that I'd take a chance and try these century eggs that I've seen and heard of. Sometimes I take a trip to my local Asian market to see if there are any interesting foods to try. I finally got a small pack of century eggs. I was definitely afraid to try them, but I knew that their appearance shouldn't be what deters me. The yolks were actually surprisingly delicious. I scooped them out and enjoyed them very much. I was not a fan of the gel-like outside. But it definitely did not disappoint me, and I'm glad that I gave it a try.
I'm a huge fan of thousand-year/century eggs! They are especially good with fresh, cold tofu, a little soy sauce, and chopped green onion :)
My First Attempt At Making Lemon Tea
First Attempt At Spoon Failed Miserably
I Think My First Attempt At Sourdough Belongs Here
The process behind this was: I used my starter that I had started roughly 10 days ago (14 now), - add the flour and water (4 cups flour, 1 cup water, and slowly added teaspoons of more water as I needed), but I also added the starter and salt at the same time. I had no idea salt could deactivate it and that I needed to wait - proof for 5 hours with stretch and folds every 30 minutes - preheat at 450 - bake for 20 minutes, check, turn oven to 375, bake for an additional 20 minutes. Let’s not do what I did.
I Snuck Out For The First Time
I snuck out because I wanted to get out of the house (reasons). I walked to the gas station and got a Monster; it was two for 5.50. I went home and didn't get caught; it was quite fun to just walk around.
Got Funky While Building My First Staircase
Absolutely not. Why do some people feel the need to reinvent stairs?
