Mom Fakes Son’s Food Allergies For 19 Years, He’s Furious When He Finally Finds Out

Parents have control over their children’s food habits when they are young, which is why they can direct their little ones to eat healthier meals. The only time this becomes a problem is if the adults influence their child’s relationship with food by lying and fearmongering.

This is what happened to one teen whose health-obsessed mom convinced him he was allergic to many things just to get him to follow a paleolithic diet. When he chanced upon the truth 19 years later, he was furious and ready to cut her off completely.

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Allergies can take over a person’s entire life because they have to be careful around food all the time to prevent any contamination with allergens

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The poster explained that ever since he was young, his mom had kept him away from most food, stating that he was allergic to dairy, gluten, and legumes

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Despite always staying away from potential allergens, the poster accidentally ate a normal brownie that his aunt had made for his birthday party

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The poster felt that his mom had been too calm about his potential allergic attack, so he decided to get a proper test done

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When the teen found out he wasn’t allergic to any of the things his mom had told him about, and confronted her, she admitted that she had lied 

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The mom justified her behavior by stating that she had wanted him to follow a paleolithic diet and avoid temptation, which is why she made up the allergy story

The poster explained that ever since he was a young kid, he had been struggling with allergies to multiple items and ingredients. His parents had therefore avoided all of those things and cooked him healthier options regardless of whether he was at home or even a birthday party. 

According to experts, dealing with such severe allergies can have a negative social and emotional impact over time. This is because children might have to struggle with bullying or peer isolation due to not being able to eat the same kinds of foods. They might also feel stressed over always having to dodge potential allergens.

For the OP, his allergies had pretty much taken over his whole life because he had to watch what he ate and carry an EpiPen on his person at all times. He almost had to use it when he accidentally ate a regular brownie that his aunt had made, instead of the almond flour ones she had kept aside for him.

Everyone began panicking about the situation, except the poster’s mom, who casually explained that she had switched the brownies beforehand. Even though her explanation seemed feasible, the OP felt suspicious and decided to take a proper allergy test just to find out the truth for himself.

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When the test came back, the poster got to know that he wasn’t allergic to any of the things that his mom had warned him about. That’s why he angrily confronted her about the situation and was even more shocked and hurt to learn that she had purposely been lying to him for years so that he could follow a paleolithic diet.

Even though the mom’s idea behind such a huge fabrication was to get her son to eat healthier, what she didn’t realize was how restricted she had set his life up to be. Parenting experts state that adults should model good food behavior instead of using fear or negative associations, as this can be stressful for kids and affect their relationship with it.

Even though the mom’s obsession to keep her son away from carbs and to avoid temptations had cost him a lot, she didn’t seem to be apologetic about it at all. That’s why the teen decided to ignore her texts and eventually go no-contact with his parents.

The decision to cut communication with one’s family members can be tough, but therapists state that it’s an important step to protect one’s mental health. Going no-contact is not something that people do lightly and is often a consequence of boundary-stomping or a breach of trust, which is what happened in this case.

Do you think there’s any way for the teen to get past his mom’s lies? Do share your honest thoughts about this situation and how you would have handled it.

People were shocked by the mom’s behavior and sided with the poster’s decision to cut both her and his dad off

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