“It Was Disturbing”: Woman Refuses To Accept Old-Building Living, Goes Berserk Over Every Step

Living the tenant life comes with its own share of struggles. Some days, it’s about chasing repairs, and other days, it’s navigating building rules. But nothing quite compares to the stress of dealing with a difficult neighbor.

Take, for instance, one tenant’s experience with a downstairs neighbor who constantly complains about noise. From literally tiptoeing around their home to dealing with relentless broom-banging protests, their story highlights the trials of apartment living with overly sensitive neighbors. Keep reading to find out how they’re handling the situation—and their plans to finally move on!

Dealing with a sensitive neighbor can be quite challenging, especially if you have pets or kids

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A tenant shared their experience of being yelled at by their neighbor for not “walking normally” around the house

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People across the globe are increasingly facing noise issues from neighbors and busy streets

Having neighbors can be a mix of positives and challenges. They can lend you sugar when you run out or share a laugh over a cup of coffee. But on the flip side, they can also turn your home into a stress zone. Out of all the things neighbors might do, excessive noise often tops the list. 

According to a dataset released by Eurostat, 17.3% of the EU’s population reported dealing with excessive noise from neighbors or the street in 2019. That’s nearly one in five people! This shows just how widespread the issue is, and it’s not just limited to party-loving neighbors—it could be construction noise, or loud conversations.

Unsurprisingly, city dwellers face this issue much more than those in rural areas. Eurostat found that 24.1% of people in urban areas reported noise issues, compared to just 10.4% in rural settings. It makes sense when you think about how densely packed cities are—apartment living means shared walls, ceilings, and unfortunately, sound.  

For those curious about the loudest places in Europe, Malta takes the crown with 28% of its residents reporting noise disturbances. The Netherlands and Germany aren’t far behind, with over a quarter of their populations dealing with noisy neighbors or street sounds. 

Across the pond in Northern Ireland, the noise problem is also growing. In 2021/22, a whopping 13,261 noise complaints were filed—a 26.4% increase from the previous year’s 10,494 complaints. It’s clear that peace and quiet are becoming harder to find in many communities.  

It’s essential to have an open conversation with your neighbor and try reasoning with them before resorting to filing a complaint

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Clearly, noisy neighbors are a global issue. Some crank up their music, while others seem to have an industrial machine running day and night. Then there are the gamers who shout into their headsets at all hours. The reasons may differ, but the annoyance level remains the same for anyone trying to enjoy their downtime.  

Of course, it’s not always about noisy neighbors. Proximity to busy streets, rail lines, or airports can also wreak havoc on your ability to get a good night’s sleep. Even those who live in seemingly quiet areas aren’t entirely safe from the occasional car alarm or late-night honking spree.  

If you’re stuck dealing with a noisy neighbor, the first step is to try having a conversation. Most people aren’t intentionally disruptive and might be willing to make changes if approached politely. But if that doesn’t work, and the noise continues to escalate, reaching out to your housing society or committee is a logical next step.  

In worst-case scenarios where nothing else works, you might need to file a formal complaint. While it may seem extreme, your peace of mind and mental health are worth standing up for. Sometimes, legal action is the only way to get chronic noise offenders to take you seriously.  

In this particular case, the author’s neighbor seems to be exceptionally inconsiderate. Living with creaky floors can’t be helped, and the constant banging from below only makes it worse. Have you ever dealt with a noisy neighbor? How did you handle the situation? Share your tips and stories! 

Many people shared their own strange experiences with thin walls and floors

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Others chimed in with their thoughts and perspectives on the entire situation

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