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Son Demands Parents Include His “Entitled” GF On Bahamas Trip, Gets Christmas Canceled Instead
A mother often goes above and beyond for her kids. And usually, that love extends to their kids’ partners, as they become a part of the family. But sometimes, things take a different turn—especially if the partner comes across as rude or entitled.
Take this story, for instance: A mother shared how she decided to cancel a family trip to the Bahamas after ongoing drama with her son’s demanding and entitled girlfriend. Instead of dealing with the chaos, she upgraded her own plans to first class and a luxurious suite. Unsurprisingly, her son and his girlfriend were furious with her decision. Keep reading to see how this family drama played out and what people online had to say about it!
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A woman shared how a disagreement with her son arose after she refused to pay for his girlfriend’s vacation, citing her entitled behavior
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The author provided additional insights into the details of the previous two vacations
If you’re serious about your relationship, putting effort into building a good rapport with their family is crucial for fostering long-term harmony
When a relationship gets serious, it’s natural to want to make a good impression on your partner’s family. Whether you’re baking cookies for the future in-laws or playing games with the nephew, it’s all about showing you care and respect their family dynamics.
But not everyone gets it right. Sometimes, partners completely miss the mark with their etiquette, leaving a bad impression on the family. Take, for example, interrupting conversations or constantly talking about themselves. It’s a sure way to seem dismissive or disinterested in building a connection with your partner’s family.
Then there are those who refuse to lend a hand. Whether it’s setting the table, helping clean up after dinner, or pitching in with a family activity, pitching in shows you value being part of the family. Ignoring opportunities to help can easily come across as entitled or ungrateful.
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Respecting family traditions is essential, as it shows consideration for your partner’s background and values
One of the biggest no-nos? Complaining openly or being overly critical. Sure, no family is perfect, but nitpicking their traditions, food, or lifestyle—especially during the first few meetings—will likely offend. Politeness goes a long way in building a bridge of mutual respect.
Sometimes, the issue isn’t what’s said but what’s not. Barely acknowledging family members, refusing to engage in small talk, or scrolling on your phone the entire time can send the message that you’re uninterested in being there. A little effort to show genuine interest goes a long way in winning the family over.
And let’s not forget the entitlement factor, like assuming you’ll always be included in family vacations or demanding special treatment. No one likes a sense of entitlement—it often breeds resentment and creates unnecessary drama within the family dynamic.
Ultimately, how you behave with your partner’s family is your choice, but unnecessary drama never helps anyone. As in this particular case, the son’s girlfriend behaved in an entitled manner, leading to strained relationships and a canceled vacation.
Maybe the key takeaway here is simple: a little kindness and respect can go a long way when trying to become a part of someone’s family. What do you think—what’s the worst partner etiquette you’ve witnessed? Share your thoughts in the comments!
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People online voiced their support for the woman, agreeing that her son’s girlfriend was acting overly entitled
A few others believed the author was being unfair by paying for one son’s girlfriend and not the other
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Deborah B 10 months ago
The son is upset about the inequality he sees between how his fiancee is treated, and how his brother's fiancee is treated. Mum needs to be upfront about it - "I love you, but I don't love your choice of partner. I don't like how she behaves towards us, and I don't like how she treats you. I see a lot of red flags (specific examples). Brother's GF is someone we love and enjoy, and we invite her in order to spend time with her. Your GF is someone we don't want to be around. I can see how that is unequal, and I can see you think it's unfair, but it's a direct result of the sort of person she is. We all get to choose who we associate with. You are my son, and you will always be welcome, but your fiance is not invited."
MegDragon 10 months ago (edited)
There’s important information missing. Why do they find her behavior “scary?” Does the girlfriend live with Tyler? I hear what people are saying about favoritism, and if this is labeled a Family Trip excluding her is going to be contentious. At the same time I won’t travel with someone regardless of how poorly they act. And I’ll be darned if I’ll pay for someone to come on a trip and mistreat everyone. For me it hinges on whether gf’s bad behavior justifies the exclusion.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 10 months ago
From OP on Reddit: "Examples - Admitted to lying about being raped by an x for attention, Cheating on my son, Isolating my son from all friends and family, Irate- tears and foot stomping. Yelling it’s unfair, she deserves to go to the lake, it’s her week before school, Insisted my son change religions to be with her" --- IMO, the fact that this girl lied about being raped and ALSO cheated on OP's son are both deal-breakers alone, let alone taken together.
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Deborah B 10 months ago
The son is upset about the inequality he sees between how his fiancee is treated, and how his brother's fiancee is treated. Mum needs to be upfront about it - "I love you, but I don't love your choice of partner. I don't like how she behaves towards us, and I don't like how she treats you. I see a lot of red flags (specific examples). Brother's GF is someone we love and enjoy, and we invite her in order to spend time with her. Your GF is someone we don't want to be around. I can see how that is unequal, and I can see you think it's unfair, but it's a direct result of the sort of person she is. We all get to choose who we associate with. You are my son, and you will always be welcome, but your fiance is not invited."
MegDragon 10 months ago (edited)
There’s important information missing. Why do they find her behavior “scary?” Does the girlfriend live with Tyler? I hear what people are saying about favoritism, and if this is labeled a Family Trip excluding her is going to be contentious. At the same time I won’t travel with someone regardless of how poorly they act. And I’ll be darned if I’ll pay for someone to come on a trip and mistreat everyone. For me it hinges on whether gf’s bad behavior justifies the exclusion.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 10 months ago
From OP on Reddit: "Examples - Admitted to lying about being raped by an x for attention, Cheating on my son, Isolating my son from all friends and family, Irate- tears and foot stomping. Yelling it’s unfair, she deserves to go to the lake, it’s her week before school, Insisted my son change religions to be with her" --- IMO, the fact that this girl lied about being raped and ALSO cheated on OP's son are both deal-breakers alone, let alone taken together.
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