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Anti-Psychiatry Guest Shames Woman For Taking Meds At Holiday Dinner, Host Kicks Her Out
If there’s one thing the holidays are famous for besides all the food, leftovers, and sweaters, it’s family drama that no one ordered but everyone gets anyway. And sometimes, it doesn’t necessarily come from family, but friends instead.
The story shared by today’s Original Poster (OP) particularly struck a nerve because it blends three explosive ingredients including mental health, politics, and family loyalty. After having to sit through comments from a guest at their Christmas dinner, she lost it, still her mother blamed her in the end for causing drama.
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The author shared her sister who has bipolar disorder takes her medication seriously and often avoids alcohol as it could interfere with it
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Their mom invited her friend and her adult daughter who repeatedly pushed wine on the sister and began criticizing psychiatry and medication after she declined to drink
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Despite being asked to stop, she continued making judgmental and ableist remarks, leaving the sister overwhelmed and in tears
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The author eventually asked her mother’s friend and daughter to leave to protect her sister, later facing backlash from her mother for causing a scene
The OP shared that she lives with their sister, who has bipolar disorder and takes her treatment seriously, emphasizing that she is careful with medication and also avoids alcohol. Christmas was already stressful for her, so their goal was to keep things calm. To celebrate, their mom invited her best friend and the friend’s adult daughter over for Christmas dinner.
While the daughter was already known for being politically intense and openly anti-psychiatry, the OP assumed basic civility would prevail for one evening, at least. However, things took a turn when the daughter brought wine and repeatedly pushed everyone to drink.
When the OP’s sister politely declined and explained that alcohol interferes with her medication, the daughter began making loud, repeated remarks about psychiatry, medication, and capitalism, framing mental illness as something imposed by society rather than a legitimate medical condition. She also implied that taking psychiatric medication meant being weak or brainwashed.
She suggested that rejecting diagnoses altogether was the only real path to recovery, and when the OP’s sister politely asked her to stop, the daughter doubled down, eventually leaving the sister in tears. Seeing her sister distressed, the OP asked the guests to leave, making it clear that their home was meant to be a safe space but her mom was upset, feeling embarrassed about the OP being “politically intolerant”.
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The conflict at the heart of this story reflects a much wider debate around mental health treatment. According to OpenStax, anti-psychiatry is a movement that fundamentally rejects mainstream psychiatric care, arguing that diagnoses and medications do more harm than good and function as tools of social control rather than medical support.
Those who hold this view often dismiss biological explanations for mental illness, instead focusing on trauma, relationships, and social or economic systems as the primary causes of emotional distress. However, this stance directly conflicts with guidance from global health authorities.
The World Health Organization (WHO) clearly recognizes mental illnesses as real, medically significant conditions that affect millions of people worldwide. The WHO emphasizes that mental health disorders are not personal or moral failures and supports the use of psychiatric medication as an evidence-based treatment when clinically appropriate, often alongside therapy and social support.
Mental health advocacy organizations such as Mental Health further stress that the most important principle in mental health care is respect for the individual’s choice. They also emphasize listening to people with lived experience of mental illness as opposed to judging or downplaying it.
Netizens insisted that the OP did absolutely nothing wrong and was right to protect her sister at all costs, and rather criticized her mother’s reaction. They also emphasized that being a guest comes with basic expectations of respect, and that pushing personal beliefs, especially about mental health, crossed a serious line.
What would you have done if you were in the OP’s shoes? Would you have asked the guests to leave sooner, or tried to keep the peace for the sake of the holiday? We would love to know your thoughts!
Netizens applauded the author standing up for her sister, but criticized her mother for prioritizing her appearance over the sister’s health
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Rick Murray 6 hours ago
She's not a "politically intolerant daughter", she's a "piece of s**t daughter". When you're in somebody's house, treat them with respect. If you don't agree with the politics or outlook on life or whatever, just don't go. That this stupid b*tch (and her equally stupid mother for not shutting her up) couldn't figure out that much says a lot about her (them). I trust the invite won't be offered in the future.
Michael MacKinnon 12 minutes ago
Frankly, I think the comeback would be, "I didn't do that. She did that by herself."
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Apatheist 6 hours ago
People still have mental health problems under socialist regimes. They're just not allowed to tell anyone, or they get locked up - you know, like we did 100 years ago.
Suzie 5 hours ago (edited)
It wasn't that long ago. Psychiatric facilities, even in the US, would d**g their patients not to treat them but to keep them compliant up until about 50 years ago. This was happening to some of our Viet Nam vets. I'm sure there are still some unscrupulous providers out there that would still do that. Obviously that's not what is going on with OP's sister.
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Mel in Georgia 5 hours ago
That woman sounds absolutely exhausting. When as a guest you find yourself disagreeing with the host, you just say nothing - especially when nobody asked your opinion. We have family that has differing political opinions and we just never bring it up. It allows us to enjoy each other's company and keep the peace.
Rick Murray 6 hours ago
She's not a "politically intolerant daughter", she's a "piece of s**t daughter". When you're in somebody's house, treat them with respect. If you don't agree with the politics or outlook on life or whatever, just don't go. That this stupid b*tch (and her equally stupid mother for not shutting her up) couldn't figure out that much says a lot about her (them). I trust the invite won't be offered in the future.
Michael MacKinnon 12 minutes ago
Frankly, I think the comeback would be, "I didn't do that. She did that by herself."
Load More Replies... Apatheist 6 hours ago
People still have mental health problems under socialist regimes. They're just not allowed to tell anyone, or they get locked up - you know, like we did 100 years ago.
Suzie 5 hours ago (edited)
It wasn't that long ago. Psychiatric facilities, even in the US, would d**g their patients not to treat them but to keep them compliant up until about 50 years ago. This was happening to some of our Viet Nam vets. I'm sure there are still some unscrupulous providers out there that would still do that. Obviously that's not what is going on with OP's sister.
Load More Replies... Mel in Georgia 5 hours ago
That woman sounds absolutely exhausting. When as a guest you find yourself disagreeing with the host, you just say nothing - especially when nobody asked your opinion. We have family that has differing political opinions and we just never bring it up. It allows us to enjoy each other's company and keep the peace.
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