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MIL Uses Son’s Credit Card For Disney And Shopping, Gets Reality Check When He Demands Payment
Elderly woman with blonde hair, gray cardigan, white shirt, holding a green smartphone and a yellow credit card. She has to pay off a $10K debt.

MIL Uses Son’s Credit Card For Disney And Shopping, Gets Reality Check When He Demands Payment

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Few things are more terrifying and violating than finding out that someone has been secretly stealing from you. One way to do this is through credit card fraud, and that might be more common than we think. In fact, there were around 450,000 cases of credit card fraud in the U.S. in 2024.

This woman’s fiancé experienced it too, but it came from the unlikeliest of sources. He found out that his mother had taken out a credit card in his name and used it for shopping and entertainment in Disney World. When confronted, she tried to justify it by saying that children should take care of their parents, but the son refused to listen.

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    An MIL stole her son’s credit card and racked up a $10k debt

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    When he confronted her, she said the card was a birthday gift and it was his job to take care of her financially anyway

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    This wasn’t the only time the MIL tried to take advantage of her son’s family

    Having an entitled parent like the MIL in this story is hard, and this family has had to deal with this lady for a long time. In other posts, author u/LupusWarriorRN details more instances where her MIL showed a complete disregard for her son’s family and showcased her narcissistic tendencies.

    One time, after a family camping trip, the MIL supposedly wanted everyone to pay back their “share” to her. As this was right after the family found out about the credit card fiasco, they refused and didn’t talk to her for some time. “Seriously?!” the OP wrote. “She thinks she is getting money! We will subtract it from your bill!”

    The MIL also liked giving her grandchildren gifts, but not out of love. In one instance, she gifted them a moped that didn’t work. “I suppose they could walk next to it?” the OP wrote sarcastically. Luckily, the author’s parents decided to help the boys out and paid for the repairs.

    Perhaps unsurprisingly, that’s when the MIL came back. When she heard that the moped was running and, of course, worth some money, she demanded to have it back. “I need it to get around,” the MIL argued. “I’m on disability and limited income and can’t afford a vehicle!”

    But the boys’ mom didn’t buy it: she knew the MIL only wanted that moped so she could sell it. So, she refused to give it back and had her parents take it back to their place so that the MIL couldn’t get her hands on it.

    After the MIL threatened to report it as stolen, the mom called her bluff: “Go for it and I have these messages and others to show it was a gift to your grandchildren. It won’t be here, so don’t show up here,” she snapped.

    The MIL also embarrassed her son and his wife on their wedding day

    In another post, the Redditor shared a story about her wedding day from almost 20 years ago. It seems that the family never had any rest from the MIL’s narcissistic tendencies and crazy antics.

    She didn’t ruin their wedding (thank God), but showed some kleptomaniac tendencies during the ceremony. A day after their wedding, the couple got a call from the wedding venue about missing ribbons and bows. According to the hotel, the couple had to pay them back $1,500.

    Without much thought, the son and his new wife almost immediately knew that the MIL was behind it. The son called his mother; she tried denying it, but later admitted to the theft. Just like with the credit card fraud, she didn’t seem to feel any remorse. “They belonged to you anyway!” she told them on the phone. “They are trying to cheat you!”

    Well, they weren’t, and the couple really needed to pay the wedding venue back. Luckily, the mother returned the ribbons and bows, albeit in three large garbage bags. The couple had to endure a lecture from the hotel management and let them keep the flowers and garlands in exchange.

    “We still hear about how mean we were… 18 years later,” the Redditor wrote. “We are pretty much NC now, except for large family events.”

    In the comments, the wife revealed how they paid off the $10k debt: “Took us almost 8 years with interest”

    Many commenters urged the couple to press charges the next time the mother pulls something similar

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why OP's husband wouldn't report this as fraud/theft/etc. and pursue legal action against his mother. I get that she's his mother, but it's not like there's going to be a future positive relationship with her now that this has occurred. It's not like she's going to be World's Best Grandma babysitting OP's children, or coming over to help clean their house while both parents work, etc. I can't imagine either OP or her husband wanting ANY contact with this woman in the future after this, so it's not like pressing charges would "ruin" any sort of "potential future relationship" between mother and son. She's already ruined it herself. Again, I understand that people are hesitant to pursue legal action against family members, especially their parents, but this one is just egregious.

    The Starsong Princess
    Community Member
    21 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s incredibly hard to break free of a lifetime of conditioning. My stepnephew’s mother stole his life savings, hundreds of thousands of dollars, while he was working abroad. The only way to get it back was to pursue criminal charges but that meant she’d likely go to prison as she had priors. He couldn’t bring himself to do it so he settled for a fraction of the money. He now hasn’t spoken to her in ten years and bitterly regrets it as he’d be a home owner now. But at the time, he hadn’t broken free of her control.

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    patricia patricia
    Community Member
    23 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the account would have been mine, *I* would have press charges. I don't care if she's my partners mom. No way would I pay money spent by an entitled puede of s**t.

    Dax
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't feel bad for people like this. You gave her the money when you decided not to report fraud and theft. You have only yourself to blame.

    jeremiahmorgan
    Community Member
    18 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am making a real GOOD MONEY (300$ to 400$ / hr )online from my laptop. Last month I GOT check of nearly 18,000$, this online work is simple and straightforward, don’t have to go OFFICE, Its home online job. At that point this work opportunity is for you.if you interested.simply give it a shot on the accompanying site….Simply go to the BELOW SITE and start your work… 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗝𝗼𝗯𝟭.𝗰𝗼𝗺

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why OP's husband wouldn't report this as fraud/theft/etc. and pursue legal action against his mother. I get that she's his mother, but it's not like there's going to be a future positive relationship with her now that this has occurred. It's not like she's going to be World's Best Grandma babysitting OP's children, or coming over to help clean their house while both parents work, etc. I can't imagine either OP or her husband wanting ANY contact with this woman in the future after this, so it's not like pressing charges would "ruin" any sort of "potential future relationship" between mother and son. She's already ruined it herself. Again, I understand that people are hesitant to pursue legal action against family members, especially their parents, but this one is just egregious.

    The Starsong Princess
    Community Member
    21 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s incredibly hard to break free of a lifetime of conditioning. My stepnephew’s mother stole his life savings, hundreds of thousands of dollars, while he was working abroad. The only way to get it back was to pursue criminal charges but that meant she’d likely go to prison as she had priors. He couldn’t bring himself to do it so he settled for a fraction of the money. He now hasn’t spoken to her in ten years and bitterly regrets it as he’d be a home owner now. But at the time, he hadn’t broken free of her control.

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    patricia patricia
    Community Member
    23 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the account would have been mine, *I* would have press charges. I don't care if she's my partners mom. No way would I pay money spent by an entitled puede of s**t.

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    Dax
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't feel bad for people like this. You gave her the money when you decided not to report fraud and theft. You have only yourself to blame.

    jeremiahmorgan
    Community Member
    18 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am making a real GOOD MONEY (300$ to 400$ / hr )online from my laptop. Last month I GOT check of nearly 18,000$, this online work is simple and straightforward, don’t have to go OFFICE, Its home online job. At that point this work opportunity is for you.if you interested.simply give it a shot on the accompanying site….Simply go to the BELOW SITE and start your work… 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗝𝗼𝗯𝟭.𝗰𝗼𝗺

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