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“I’ve Completely Ruined My Life”: Man’s Emotional Post On Tattoo Regret And Depression Goes Mega Viral
Tattoo regret isn’t rare, but for one man, it’s become a heavy emotional burden. In a raw and honest Reddit post, the man confessed that the massive torso tattoo he once loved now feels like a lifelong mistake.
“I’ve completely ruined my life,” he wrote, explaining that his regret has spiraled into severe depression and anxiety. His story has received thousands of responses, including from people who know too well how self-expression can turn into self-judgment.
Highlights
- A Redditor’s regret over a large torso tattoo has left him battling severe depression and anxiety.
- Reddit users empathized, with some suggesting therapy and others opening up about their own tattoo struggles.
- Experts stated that tattoo regret is actually pretty common.
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The Redditor’s tattoos once brought pride, but now they feel like a trap
Image credits: SlavKing11/Reddit
Two years ago, the Redditor, who goes by the username SlavKing11, said he completed a large torso piece that initially filled him with confidence. Over time, however, that feeling changed.
“For a while I really liked it,” he explained, “but over the past few months I’ve really started to hate it and feel like I’ve completely ruined my life to the point where I’m constantly anxious and my skin feeling dirty because I know the tattoos are under my clothes.”
“It’s really spiraling me into a depression, and I really don’t know what to do,” he added.
Image credits: SlavKing11/Reddit
The Redditor explained that he still admires individual elements of his extensive tattoos, but some other parts of his body ink now cause him emotional trouble.
“Overall, I think the individual tattoos are well done, so they aren’t what’s causing it, but I feel the placement is too symmetrical and I regret the dots and stars filler as well,” he wrote.
Unfortunately, the man stated that he is currently not at a place where he can remove his tattoos.
Image credits: SlavKing11/Reddit
“Laser removal would be impossible and I don’t think I would like a blackout either,” he added, “so I feel my only option is to try and live with it, but I really don’t know how I can do it.”
The online tattoo community offered compassion to the man’s plight
Image credits: steven lozano/Unsplash (Not the actual photo)
Instead of mockery, users in the r/tattooadvice subreddit responded with empathy and support.
Many praised his honesty, saying they could relate to that sense of unease about their own tattoos.
Others also noted that the man’s tattoos were actually really well done.
Image credits: R.D. Smith/Unsplash (Not the actual photo)
One commenter wrote, “The tattoo is rad af, sorry to hear you’re feeling down on yourself. I would honestly seek therapy.
“I don’t think ‘feeling dirty’ is normal, and I think this has less to do with the tattoo and more to do with your mental health.”
Another shared, “A lot of us discover we’ve leaned into getting tattooed as a way to cope with stuff in our lives.”
Image credits: Allef Vinicius/Unsplash (Not the actual photo)
“I’ll never stop getting tattoos, but my life was made infinitely better with the right medication and counseling.”
Others suggested that his reaction might be linked to deeper struggles.
“It sounds like body dysmorphia is what’s at work here, since OP would probably think this piece is awesome if seen on somebody else,” one user commented.
Experts have explained that tattoo regret is often tied to identity, not aesthetics
Image credits: Jake Heidecker/Unsplash (Not the actual photo)
Tattoo artist and consultant Dominique Holmes noted that coming to terms with unwanted tattoos can actually be transformative, according to Your Tango.
“Learning to love, or at the very least make peace with, a tattoo you no longer enjoy may not change the world,” she explained, “but it can certainly spark a change in the way we see, accept, and ultimately appreciate ourselves and the complexity of our life stories.”
Interestingly enough, the Redditor’s experience is not really that unique. A 2023 survey by Advanced Dermatology found that 1 in 4 Americans regret at least one of their tattoos.
Image credits: farshid moghadam/Unsplash (Not the actual photo)
The most common reasons cited were that they stopped liking how their tattoos looked, changed their minds about their ink over time, or felt their tattoo artist didn’t deliver what they envisioned.
Interestingly, more than half of those surveyed said their regret didn’t surface until two or more years after getting their tattoo. Only 18% said they felt regret within days.
While tattoo removal is an option, it can be both painful and expensive. Multiple laser sessions can cost hundreds of dollars each, a steep price for a decision made in a moment of inspiration.
Netizens shared their thoughts on the Redditor’s tattoo regret story on social media
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Motivated sloth 1 month ago
I’m sorry and understand he has regrets but, how did he ruin his entire life? He’s obviously not going to be a swimsuit model. He can wear clothing over them. If it were his face or neck or hands, even his lower legs it might be understandable. But these are all on a very easily covered torso.
WindySwede 1 month ago
the severe depression might make him feel that way, regardless of how other sees it?
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Michael Danhauer 1 month ago (edited)
I am tattoo-less and would never get one. However, I think those are excellent and artistic. I'm actually inclined to agree with denizens of internet for once. Something else going on here and therapy is most definitely at least part of the answer. The problem is that good therapists don't grow on trees and neither does the money to pay for them. Simple cognitive meditation and self affirming mantras could help a ton. Telling yourself positive phrases over and over along with focusing your thoughts might be an effective way to self treat. It takes awhile (sometimes weeks or months) before it sinks in, but the trick is to fake it until you make it. Rewiring our brains is difficult yet still possible. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, not based on a societal standard. I truly hope OP finds his way back to loving the work of art his body is.
Binky Melnik 1 month ago
All my life, I wanted a tiny lady slipper (it’s a type of orchid which grows wild, and looks EXACTLY like a pink scr0tum on a stem) that would be hidden by my watch, and a royal flush on the underside of one of my (・人・). Once I hit forty, I was grateful that I never found either someone familiar with lady slippers (or a terrific picture I wanted copied), or the exact artwork for a royal flush that I loved. My intention was that both would be hidden by my clothes and watch, but my wrists are absurdly smsll (just 4.5”; the average female wrist is 7”) and I’d need to get custom watchbands made and because I like nice [read “expensive”] watches, that wasn’t feasible. In the end, I was really grateful I never got them. While I’m able to enjoy them in others, I ultimately wasnt keen on having something permanent. Right now, my doctor wants me to get a yearly infusion for my weak bones, but I wonder what the hell happens if I have bad reactions or side effects.
Binky Melnik 1 month ago
It’s PART OF MY BODY at that point! There’s no way to get it out of my system. I gather I have some kinda fear about putting things on and in my body that I can’t get rid of. (I’Ve read of people being allergic to some tattoo inks, and especially red ink. What the hell do you do if that’s the case?!) I think I like and wanna keep the body that slid out of my ma’s hooha. If I goof with it, I may hafta spend the rest of my life suffering with it, and old age is more than enough suffering as it is! I’m thinking better to leave things as they are than to go mucking about with ‘em in case i end up regretting the mucking about something awful. I’ve had a stupid number of piercings in my life, but when I didn’t want ‘em anymore, I left the jewelry out of ‘em and they went away. Whew!
Load More Replies... Motivated sloth 1 month ago
I’m sorry and understand he has regrets but, how did he ruin his entire life? He’s obviously not going to be a swimsuit model. He can wear clothing over them. If it were his face or neck or hands, even his lower legs it might be understandable. But these are all on a very easily covered torso.
WindySwede 1 month ago
the severe depression might make him feel that way, regardless of how other sees it?
Load More Replies... Michael Danhauer 1 month ago (edited)
I am tattoo-less and would never get one. However, I think those are excellent and artistic. I'm actually inclined to agree with denizens of internet for once. Something else going on here and therapy is most definitely at least part of the answer. The problem is that good therapists don't grow on trees and neither does the money to pay for them. Simple cognitive meditation and self affirming mantras could help a ton. Telling yourself positive phrases over and over along with focusing your thoughts might be an effective way to self treat. It takes awhile (sometimes weeks or months) before it sinks in, but the trick is to fake it until you make it. Rewiring our brains is difficult yet still possible. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, not based on a societal standard. I truly hope OP finds his way back to loving the work of art his body is.
Binky Melnik 1 month ago
All my life, I wanted a tiny lady slipper (it’s a type of orchid which grows wild, and looks EXACTLY like a pink scr0tum on a stem) that would be hidden by my watch, and a royal flush on the underside of one of my (・人・). Once I hit forty, I was grateful that I never found either someone familiar with lady slippers (or a terrific picture I wanted copied), or the exact artwork for a royal flush that I loved. My intention was that both would be hidden by my clothes and watch, but my wrists are absurdly smsll (just 4.5”; the average female wrist is 7”) and I’d need to get custom watchbands made and because I like nice [read “expensive”] watches, that wasn’t feasible. In the end, I was really grateful I never got them. While I’m able to enjoy them in others, I ultimately wasnt keen on having something permanent. Right now, my doctor wants me to get a yearly infusion for my weak bones, but I wonder what the hell happens if I have bad reactions or side effects.
Binky Melnik 1 month ago
It’s PART OF MY BODY at that point! There’s no way to get it out of my system. I gather I have some kinda fear about putting things on and in my body that I can’t get rid of. (I’Ve read of people being allergic to some tattoo inks, and especially red ink. What the hell do you do if that’s the case?!) I think I like and wanna keep the body that slid out of my ma’s hooha. If I goof with it, I may hafta spend the rest of my life suffering with it, and old age is more than enough suffering as it is! I’m thinking better to leave things as they are than to go mucking about with ‘em in case i end up regretting the mucking about something awful. I’ve had a stupid number of piercings in my life, but when I didn’t want ‘em anymore, I left the jewelry out of ‘em and they went away. Whew!
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