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Woman Runs Off From Wedding After Groom Decides To Spill Milk On Her Expensive Dress
Groom pranking brother-in-lawu2019s girlfriend during wedding celebration, causing tension and refusing to take responsibility.

Woman Runs Off From Wedding After Groom Decides To Spill Milk On Her Expensive Dress

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Weddings are meant to be joyful celebrations. They are filled with laughter, dancing, and happy memories unless some family drama or bad behavior spoils the mood. But no matter how lighthearted the atmosphere, it’s never the right occasion for pranks that can ruin someone’s evening. 

For example, a man shared how his brother-in-law, the groom, pulled not one but two outrageous “pranks” on him and his girlfriend. First, he pressured the author to propose to his girlfriend, laughing it off with, “Relax, just a joke, bro!” Then he went even further, spilling milk all over her expensive dress. Keep reading to see exactly how things spiraled out of control.

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    A man shared how his brother-in-law, the groom, took things too far by throwing milk on his girlfriend’s expensive dress as a prank

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    The man added that he couldn’t understand how his sister found such behavior acceptable at a wedding

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    Pranks can sometimes unintentionally trigger past trauma or cause anxiety in the person on the receiving end

    In recent years, prank videos have exploded online, racking up millions of views and making us laugh at the absurdity of people’s reactions. From perfectly timed jump scares to elaborate setups, these clips are often staged to perfection. But real life isn’t a controlled set, and pranks that might seem funny on a screen can be cruel in person. What’s hilarious to one person can be deeply upsetting to another, turning what’s meant to be a joke into an uncomfortable or even traumatic experience. The intention may be humor, but the impact isn’t always the same.

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    One of the biggest issues with pranks is when people don’t fully understand the harm they can cause. Many pranksters brush off the reaction of their target, expecting them to “take it easy” or “just laugh it off.” They forget that a joke can trigger feelings of embarrassment, fear, or frustration. It’s easy to dismiss someone’s hurt feelings when you’re laughing at the situation yourself, but that doesn’t make the impact any less real.

    Pranks can also unintentionally trigger past trauma or create anxiety. For someone who has experienced bullying, physical scares, or abuse, even a seemingly harmless prank can spark hypervigilance, making them constantly on edge. Imagine a prank involving sudden loud noises or unexpected physical contact. While intended as funny, the victim’s body may respond with real fear, increased heart rate, and stress, like reliving a past experience. This is why it’s important to consider the mental state and history of the person being pranked, even for a joke that seems innocent.

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    In some cases, pranks can even be used as a way to gain power or control over someone. A prankster might intentionally make someone feel small, embarrassed, or humiliated, all under the guise of humor. For instance, someone hiding another person’s important item in front of friends can make the victim feel powerless while the prankster gains attention or amusement. When pranks are used to manipulate or dominate, they cross from being playful into being psychologically harmful. The line between funny and controlling can be surprisingly thin.

    Experts also point out that there is a fine line between pranking and bullying. When jokes are repeated, targeted, or cause distress, what starts as a playful act can quickly become mistreatment. Even a seemingly small prank, like a coworker tricking you repeatedly or an intimate partner repeatedly joking at your expense, can wear on someone over time. It’s the repetition and intent behind the prank that matters. A single harmless joke might be fine, but consistent targeting can harm confidence, trust, and relationships.

    Repeated online pranks aimed at intimate partners or close friends can also negatively affect relationships. Imagine someone constantly being the target of staged “funny” videos at home or on social media; while one prank might elicit a chuckle, consistent pranks can erode trust and increase resentment. Partners may feel belittled or undervalued, questioning whether their feelings are being respected. Over time, what’s meant to be lighthearted humor can become a source of tension, stress, or even conflict in a relationship.

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    When done thoughtfully and harmlessly, pranks can have benefits, like boosting mood, laughter, and even relieving stress

    On the flip side, harmless pranks have their benefits too. According to psychologist Susan Albers, PsyD, writing for the Cleveland Clinic, “A well-executed prank or joke will induce laughter. And research shows that laughing has wonderful benefits for our mental and physical health.” Laughter can reduce stress, improve mood, strengthen social bonds, and even give your immune system a small boost. When a prank is genuinely funny to everyone involved, it creates shared joy and memorable moments—something everyone can enjoy without anyone feeling embarrassed or unsafe.

    So, while sneaky, harmless pranks can be a source of fun and laughter, it’s important to know the boundaries. If a prank crosses the line into cruelty, triggers anxiety, or targets someone repeatedly, it stops being funny and starts being harmful. The best pranks are those where everyone can laugh together, not at someone else’s expense. Humor should uplift, not hurt. So, next time you plan a prank, think about the person on the receiving end; it can mean the difference between a story everyone tells with laughter and one no one wants to remember.

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    In this particular case, it seems the groom clearly went too far. Ruining someone’s dress and then refusing to pay for it crosses the line from playful prank to outright disrespect. The author also shared how his girlfriend felt embarrassed and humiliated in front of everyone, turning what should have been a joyful wedding moment into a stressful one. Pranks are meant to be fun, but actions like this show how easily they can hurt. What are your thoughts on this situation? And more broadly, how do you feel about pranks: fun, harmless jokes, or something that can easily go too far?

    Online commenters agreed that the groom’s prank crossed the line and was far from funny

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    Paul C
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please don't call people who do things like this pranksters. The correct term is bully.

    Jenna Kay
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP is a far more restrained person than I am. I am horrified that the bride was okay with the groom's behaviour, I would have been mortified and furious if my husband did something like this in our wedding day. The only way forward is NC with his sister.

    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was willing to marry him even though she knows his personality. Sister is clearly an idiot. Pranksters are awful

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    Sylvain
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A prank is defined by 3 things: no long term harm or damage, reversible quickly at no cost, and the target can laugh at it. So many 'pranks' in the world are actually vandalism, destruction of property, and a*****t. This is one of those. Too many people let those idiots get away with it. Don't let him.

    Vix Spiderthrust
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed but I would argue a prank has another factor: effort on the part of the prankster. Gluing all someone's furniture to the ceiling: prank. Chucking milk over someone: starting a fight.

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    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The title is “Groom pranks BIL’s girlfriend.” That’s not a prank. It’s a*****t.

    Starbug
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not just the dress, even if it was water, it's the humiliation of the poor young lady in the middle of a wedding which is irreparable. BIL is a bully and so is OP's sister if she finds it funny

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who do cruel pranks like this are actually likely sociopaths and aren't safe to be around humans. I would stay the hell away from them entirely.

    Apatheist
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm normally a very calm person, but if someone did that to me or my partner, they'd be getting the baseball bat.

    Michael Fernandez
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A humorous prank video I’ve seen bouncing around: an elderly waitress carrying a beer on a platter suddenly dumps it on customers, but it’s a trick glass and the beer doesn’t spill, and it’s tied to a string so the glass doesn’t even fall on anything. Multiple customers on multiple tables react with laughter. Note the differences between that and ruining someone’s dress at a wedding.

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is, indeed, a prank. Pranks are no harm no foul.

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    The_Nicest_Misanthrope
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Prank? What part of that was supposed to be clever, or funny?

    Heffalump
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what small claims court is for. Also, depending where this happened bil's actions may constitute some sort of a*****t. And if it was me I'd go for both full-throttle, and anything else i could think of.

    Judes
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I very much doubt they'd get the $300 for the dress. Maybe they'd get a tenth of that for the dry cleaning.

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    Ivona
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    think this could be classified as an a*****t, and they should've called the police.

    Bartlet for world domination
    Community Member
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Hahaha" - takes the glass from him - throws the rest of the milk on the wedding tux

    JellyBean
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A grown a*s man acting like an utter dìckhead is not cool. And these are not pranks

    Robyn Hill
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why was the guy allowed to walk away with the wedding vegetables intact and functional?!

    V
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Phonecall on speaker with the sister and her husband "sister, your husband is an AH, I do not want to be around either of you while you are with him. One day he is going to turn that on you, and when that day comes call me and I will help you get away from him, but until then I don't want to hear from you. I love you but I can't watch you be with someone like that."

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not a prank. Your BIL is just an åsshole.

    Sian E
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One day he's going to target someone and regret it. Especially if he lives somewhere where people regularly carry firearms. Or one of his 'pranks' will cause a serious injury (or fatality) to the victim and he'll be looking at a prison sentence. And he'll soon learn that prison is not somewhere you can continue that behaviour...

    NJP
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dress is not necessarily ruined. Get it dry cleaned and BIL should definitely pay for it since he intentionally dirtied it. If it is stained, then it is ruined and he should pay for it. Intentional pranks still have consequences, so take to small claims court. Maybe this will change his attitude. Sister is complicit.

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is throwing a glass of milk on someone funny?

    geezeronthehill
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fool should have had a broken nose for the wedding night.

    Tyranamar Suess
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's with all the people saying milk can't ruin a dress? If it was silk water could ruin it.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I was the g/f I would have slapped the hell out of him right then in front of the whole place to see and given him a tongue lashing he would never forget. One way or another he would be paying for that dress!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kin hell fire I’d have dropped the t w a t , there n then ! That was not funny at all, its only funny if the person you do it to is laughing when they don’t it’s BULLYING plain n simple ,as for throwing liquids in people NEVER DO THIS ,to many women , and men in some cases get acid thrown at them it’s evil ,he’s only one step away from that, he needs a wake up call asap, report him to the police for as s a u l t !, n as a prank towards him get him up in front of judge Judy !! She will wipe the floor with him ,”just a prank mate lighten up “ n I like the idea of starting to play him at his own game ,with those words ever time, think back to all the so called jokes etc he’s done, n one up them , or copy them ,see how he f kin likes it ! OP NTA bil needs locking up for everyone’s safety !

    Eri J
    Community Member
    12 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people need a simple punch in the face.

    Christina Dutta
    Community Member
    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate pranks. They are just an opportunity for someone to do something cruel.

    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next time they prank you, file an a*****t charge.

    Lupita Nyong'heaux
    Community Member
    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh, i absolutely woulda ruined their wedding day, because i woulda beat the s**t outta the groom on the spot. that's a part of the problem with "pranksters," people don't beat their asses soon enough and often enough. if you knew that you were gonna get ya a*s beat every time you pulled a "prank," you'd prolly stop. ijs...

    Anne Edwards
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The question if the apology was enough is absurd, there was no apology. People like this never change, they just get worse.

    Laura Gillette
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't people ever "prank" people like this back in a way they wouldn't think was funny, so they can see how it feels?

    Nikki Arnold
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These aren't pranks; they're basic cruelty in fancy dress. BIL just wants to be cruel to people, and him calling them pranks is just a way of throwing people off the scent (it doesn't mean those people won't still despise him, though)

    Btsquestrian
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd take him to small claims court just out of pure spite, even though I'd probably lose money with court fees. My late, unlamented father used to play "jokes" on me for which I'm still in therapy, 45 years later.

    Little Bit
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. Your brother in law and sister are two toxic people I would cut out of my life if I were you.

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Throwing a drink on someone at a formal occasion is not a prank, it's deliberate destruction of their outfit, and often counts as a*****t. It's done to force them to leave the event. This is not pranking it's just bullying and harassment. It's obnoxious, and he is legally liable to have the dress professionally cleaned or replaced.

    Vix Spiderthrust
    Community Member
    6 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A late outing there for an older meaning of "hysterical" - "prone to bouts of hysteria", which you can see in a lot of turn-of-the-1900s fiction. These days when we say someone is "hysterical" we tend to mean they are a cause of hysteria in others. See also "hilarious", which likewise used to mean "suffering a bout od hilarity" rather than causing one.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "proud to be the cool guy" - When someone is clings to their self-image, it's can be very hard to reason with them. "That's just how I am" is another way to dismiss other people's concerns. My saying is "Never get too attached to a self-image, you might have to modify it."

    sweet emotion
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be informing my sister, our parents, and all other shared relatives that I will not be in the same room as that jacka$$ again. If that means no contact with the sister, that is her burden to bear.....and since she thinks her husband is so funny, the NC would include no support or assistance when she either gets hurt or wises up and files for divorce.

    Suzie
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How has no one taught this putz a lesson? I'd send him a bill and go no contact right after spilling a beer on his gaming console.

    Otto Katz
    Community Member
    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is 4 years old, i wonder if there was an update. EDIT: found the update " This account has been banned Explore Reddit Communities"

    Orysha
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have punched that as.shole to death!

    Space Invader
    Community Member
    1 week ago

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    (Actually I'd issue a soft YTA for writing "my girlfriend was being too uptight and couldn't take a joke") If I had to attend an event with a prankster I'd wear a Batman T-shirt to remind him that if he tries any Joker shenanigans he's going straight to the infirmary in the Arkham Asylum for the Criminally Unfunny...

    Bewitched One
    Community Member
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was saying that the groom said that

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    Nicely
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    1 week ago

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    Dudebro is clearly into the girlfriend, that's why he's pulling her pigtails on the playground

    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    1 week ago

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    Another 4 year old story...

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Welcome to BP, where some stories are 13y old 🖖

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    Paul C
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please don't call people who do things like this pranksters. The correct term is bully.

    Jenna Kay
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP is a far more restrained person than I am. I am horrified that the bride was okay with the groom's behaviour, I would have been mortified and furious if my husband did something like this in our wedding day. The only way forward is NC with his sister.

    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was willing to marry him even though she knows his personality. Sister is clearly an idiot. Pranksters are awful

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    Sylvain
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A prank is defined by 3 things: no long term harm or damage, reversible quickly at no cost, and the target can laugh at it. So many 'pranks' in the world are actually vandalism, destruction of property, and a*****t. This is one of those. Too many people let those idiots get away with it. Don't let him.

    Vix Spiderthrust
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed but I would argue a prank has another factor: effort on the part of the prankster. Gluing all someone's furniture to the ceiling: prank. Chucking milk over someone: starting a fight.

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    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The title is “Groom pranks BIL’s girlfriend.” That’s not a prank. It’s a*****t.

    Starbug
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not just the dress, even if it was water, it's the humiliation of the poor young lady in the middle of a wedding which is irreparable. BIL is a bully and so is OP's sister if she finds it funny

    Kate Johnson
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who do cruel pranks like this are actually likely sociopaths and aren't safe to be around humans. I would stay the hell away from them entirely.

    Apatheist
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm normally a very calm person, but if someone did that to me or my partner, they'd be getting the baseball bat.

    Michael Fernandez
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A humorous prank video I’ve seen bouncing around: an elderly waitress carrying a beer on a platter suddenly dumps it on customers, but it’s a trick glass and the beer doesn’t spill, and it’s tied to a string so the glass doesn’t even fall on anything. Multiple customers on multiple tables react with laughter. Note the differences between that and ruining someone’s dress at a wedding.

    Lee Gilliland
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is, indeed, a prank. Pranks are no harm no foul.

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    The_Nicest_Misanthrope
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Prank? What part of that was supposed to be clever, or funny?

    Heffalump
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what small claims court is for. Also, depending where this happened bil's actions may constitute some sort of a*****t. And if it was me I'd go for both full-throttle, and anything else i could think of.

    Judes
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I very much doubt they'd get the $300 for the dress. Maybe they'd get a tenth of that for the dry cleaning.

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    Ivona
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    think this could be classified as an a*****t, and they should've called the police.

    Bartlet for world domination
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Hahaha" - takes the glass from him - throws the rest of the milk on the wedding tux

    JellyBean
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A grown a*s man acting like an utter dìckhead is not cool. And these are not pranks

    Robyn Hill
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why was the guy allowed to walk away with the wedding vegetables intact and functional?!

    V
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Phonecall on speaker with the sister and her husband "sister, your husband is an AH, I do not want to be around either of you while you are with him. One day he is going to turn that on you, and when that day comes call me and I will help you get away from him, but until then I don't want to hear from you. I love you but I can't watch you be with someone like that."

    Nikki Sevven
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not a prank. Your BIL is just an åsshole.

    Sian E
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One day he's going to target someone and regret it. Especially if he lives somewhere where people regularly carry firearms. Or one of his 'pranks' will cause a serious injury (or fatality) to the victim and he'll be looking at a prison sentence. And he'll soon learn that prison is not somewhere you can continue that behaviour...

    NJP
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dress is not necessarily ruined. Get it dry cleaned and BIL should definitely pay for it since he intentionally dirtied it. If it is stained, then it is ruined and he should pay for it. Intentional pranks still have consequences, so take to small claims court. Maybe this will change his attitude. Sister is complicit.

    Lee Gilliland
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is throwing a glass of milk on someone funny?

    geezeronthehill
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fool should have had a broken nose for the wedding night.

    Tyranamar Suess
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's with all the people saying milk can't ruin a dress? If it was silk water could ruin it.

    Beth Wheeler
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I was the g/f I would have slapped the hell out of him right then in front of the whole place to see and given him a tongue lashing he would never forget. One way or another he would be paying for that dress!

    Crystalwitch60
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kin hell fire I’d have dropped the t w a t , there n then ! That was not funny at all, its only funny if the person you do it to is laughing when they don’t it’s BULLYING plain n simple ,as for throwing liquids in people NEVER DO THIS ,to many women , and men in some cases get acid thrown at them it’s evil ,he’s only one step away from that, he needs a wake up call asap, report him to the police for as s a u l t !, n as a prank towards him get him up in front of judge Judy !! She will wipe the floor with him ,”just a prank mate lighten up “ n I like the idea of starting to play him at his own game ,with those words ever time, think back to all the so called jokes etc he’s done, n one up them , or copy them ,see how he f kin likes it ! OP NTA bil needs locking up for everyone’s safety !

    Eri J
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    12 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people need a simple punch in the face.

    Christina Dutta
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    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate pranks. They are just an opportunity for someone to do something cruel.

    KatSaidThat
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    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next time they prank you, file an a*****t charge.

    Lupita Nyong'heaux
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    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh, i absolutely woulda ruined their wedding day, because i woulda beat the s**t outta the groom on the spot. that's a part of the problem with "pranksters," people don't beat their asses soon enough and often enough. if you knew that you were gonna get ya a*s beat every time you pulled a "prank," you'd prolly stop. ijs...

    Anne Edwards
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The question if the apology was enough is absurd, there was no apology. People like this never change, they just get worse.

    Laura Gillette
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't people ever "prank" people like this back in a way they wouldn't think was funny, so they can see how it feels?

    Nikki Arnold
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These aren't pranks; they're basic cruelty in fancy dress. BIL just wants to be cruel to people, and him calling them pranks is just a way of throwing people off the scent (it doesn't mean those people won't still despise him, though)

    Btsquestrian
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd take him to small claims court just out of pure spite, even though I'd probably lose money with court fees. My late, unlamented father used to play "jokes" on me for which I'm still in therapy, 45 years later.

    Little Bit
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. Your brother in law and sister are two toxic people I would cut out of my life if I were you.

    Deborah B
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Throwing a drink on someone at a formal occasion is not a prank, it's deliberate destruction of their outfit, and often counts as a*****t. It's done to force them to leave the event. This is not pranking it's just bullying and harassment. It's obnoxious, and he is legally liable to have the dress professionally cleaned or replaced.

    Vix Spiderthrust
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    6 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A late outing there for an older meaning of "hysterical" - "prone to bouts of hysteria", which you can see in a lot of turn-of-the-1900s fiction. These days when we say someone is "hysterical" we tend to mean they are a cause of hysteria in others. See also "hilarious", which likewise used to mean "suffering a bout od hilarity" rather than causing one.

    Vinnie
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "proud to be the cool guy" - When someone is clings to their self-image, it's can be very hard to reason with them. "That's just how I am" is another way to dismiss other people's concerns. My saying is "Never get too attached to a self-image, you might have to modify it."

    sweet emotion
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be informing my sister, our parents, and all other shared relatives that I will not be in the same room as that jacka$$ again. If that means no contact with the sister, that is her burden to bear.....and since she thinks her husband is so funny, the NC would include no support or assistance when she either gets hurt or wises up and files for divorce.

    Suzie
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How has no one taught this putz a lesson? I'd send him a bill and go no contact right after spilling a beer on his gaming console.

    Otto Katz
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is 4 years old, i wonder if there was an update. EDIT: found the update " This account has been banned Explore Reddit Communities"

    Orysha
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have punched that as.shole to death!

    Space Invader
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    (Actually I'd issue a soft YTA for writing "my girlfriend was being too uptight and couldn't take a joke") If I had to attend an event with a prankster I'd wear a Batman T-shirt to remind him that if he tries any Joker shenanigans he's going straight to the infirmary in the Arkham Asylum for the Criminally Unfunny...

    Bewitched One
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was saying that the groom said that

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    Nicely
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    Dudebro is clearly into the girlfriend, that's why he's pulling her pigtails on the playground

    Roberta Surprenant
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    1 week ago

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    Another 4 year old story...

    WindySwede
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Welcome to BP, where some stories are 13y old 🖖

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