Angry Karen Demands A Manager At A Coffee Shop, Walks Out Satisfied, Not Realizing She’s Been Played
Don’t you hate it when some entitled prick comes in and demands to bend rules according to them? Well, we certainly do. And even after a good deal of similar stories, we can’t get enough of justice biting them back for being douchey.
As u/javiba64 recently shared on the Malicious Compliance community, his daughter, who was getting her first taste of work behind the counter, experienced her first entitled customer. A ‘wild Karen’ who was outraged that she was not allowed to pay using her card. As any manager worth his salt would do, he stepped in and showed the young apprentice how rude customers are dealt with.
Seeing how a rude customer berated their teen employee for following the company’s policies, this manager defused the situation in the best way possible
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The popular slogan in the retail industry is “The customer is always right.” But what happens when you get a row of rude customers who make your life a living hell? According to a survey conducted in 2021 among restaurant workers, approximately 80% reported encountering problematic customers who were unwilling to adhere to COVID-19 safety measures. Nearly 50% expressed thinking about quitting their jobs, and among those individuals, 2-in-5 attributed their decision to customers’ Karen-like behavior.
“It’s crucial to realize that a sense of entitlement is best understood as a psychological defense mechanism,” Leon F. Seltzer, a life consultant with PhDs in both Psychology and English, told Bored Panda in an email. “It’s unconsciously designed to disguise – not just to others but to one’s self -the person’s deep, underlying feelings of insecurity and inferiority.”
Entitlement, however, doesn’t just ruin the mood of those who run into or willingly interact with entitled individuals – it also takes a toll on the entitled ones themselves. Being entitled means having lofty expectations that are often unfulfilled, resulting in feelings of disappointment and psychological strain. “It’s possible to feel some compassion for them… but only at a distance. Because, up close, their behavior is so selfish, so exploitive, so duplicitous, that they’re truly repulsive in regards to their overall double-dealing character,” Seltzer said.
If you care for an entitled narcissist, don’t throw up your hands just yet
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Meanwhile, anyone who has worked in the hospitality industry will know that dealing with entitled folks comes with the territory. As explained earlier, it might even lead to walking out on a job. Is there, perhaps, another way to deal with such people without overcharging them or going as low as they are? Dr. Seltzer says each case is different and it depends on how far into the entitlement rabbit hole they’ve been swallowed.
“If they’re way out on the pole, they’re simply unreachable. They’re nothing more than the sum of their defenses, so any attempt to get them to see themselves and others will be opposed vehemently, stubbornly, and, well, everlastingly. Like an immovable object,” Seltzer argued. However, if it’s not just a rude rando who’s quick to berate you for not accepting below minimum card payment – someone who you care about – there might be a way to help without letting them drain you day to day.
“If they just barely make the cut then over time, a qualified therapist could convince them that they can feel totally okay about themselves in being as good or competent as others, that they don’t have to place themselves on a pedestal to feel they’re good enough.”
While most people applauded the way this manager handled the situation, some thought minimum card payments is a problem in itself
I get why the manager is doing it but it's generally not a good idea to let anyone even think they've won by being an a*****e.
I agree. That just enables a*****e behaviour and entitlement
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What is with the people here who comment that they have upvoted to cancel a downvote?
They have to let others know what great people they are! Btw, I upvoted you :D lol
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At the end of the day you really can’t even call this woman a Karen. She’s been ordering the same coffee from the same place for the same price with the same method hundreds of times with no issue. For all we know she had no idea what the policy really was. Honestly I’d be mad too if someone one day just pulled that kind of 180 on me.
It's the attitude that marks a Karen, not the behavior. She could have politely asked for a manager rather than demanding one. Very few people will take issue if you ask "Could I speak to the manager please?".
Load More Replies... I get why the manager is doing it but it's generally not a good idea to let anyone even think they've won by being an a*****e.
I agree. That just enables a*****e behaviour and entitlement
Load More Replies... What is with the people here who comment that they have upvoted to cancel a downvote?
They have to let others know what great people they are! Btw, I upvoted you :D lol
Load More Replies... At the end of the day you really can’t even call this woman a Karen. She’s been ordering the same coffee from the same place for the same price with the same method hundreds of times with no issue. For all we know she had no idea what the policy really was. Honestly I’d be mad too if someone one day just pulled that kind of 180 on me.
It's the attitude that marks a Karen, not the behavior. She could have politely asked for a manager rather than demanding one. Very few people will take issue if you ask "Could I speak to the manager please?".
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