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“My Job Became Defunct”: 54 People Share How Fast Their Careers Changed Around Them
It’s the trenches. It’s the nine circles of hell. It’s a rollercoaster and a vicious circle all at once. You name it, and chances are it describes what the job market feels like right now.
One Reddit user asked unemployed people to share just how tough things are out there, and they definitely didn’t hold back. Between AI, ghost listings, endless interview rounds, and fierce competition, judging by their replies, trying to land a job these days may as well be a lottery. Read their experiences below.
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#1
I lost my job Oct 31st. I just got a job last week for thousands less than I was making previously.
The job market is horrendous.
I experienced deep depression, breakdowns… And then, unemployment ceased. No extension. No food stamps. No rental assistance. I was a student, and I thought that could make me eligible for emergency extensions, not anymore…
I signed up for my county’s career center classes, learned a trade, no extension, no job (and it was practically promised to us.), I am in debt, my bank balance is literally at 0.04 I can’t afford to do laundry (my place doesn’t have a unit so I hand wash each outfit) my parents pay my rent, my girlfriend has helped me out with food but that isn’t too much since I’m so depressed and I felt so worthless that I just don’t eat.
This entire process was one big reality check, I am so loved. The times when I wasn’t annoying and overly proud to ask for help (except for the laundry stuff idk why…but that being said, my best friend one time took my entire wardrobe and did it for me once.) I was able to see people really care for me. Ensure I had meals, ensure I had entertainment, ensured I laughed…and it if they didn’t make sure my dog had her prescription food and her insulin. I felt like trash these few months, but wow, I am loved.
So, if that doesn’t answer your question:
TL;DR
I am a tradesman, who entered the corporate world after obtaining a degree, who was laid off who then learned a second trade, while obtaining a second degree, and it took me nearly a year to find employment. Any jerk who says “better find a trade” needs to hop off the sack and open their eyes.
And these companies out here ghosting? Or relying on AI to make DECISIONS?! Shame on all of you, karma is real. May not be “mythic” but it’s real, and you’ll know it.
Ophelia Poe 1 month ago
I've said it before and will say it again: if someone fills out an application, writes a cover letter, submits a resume, and clearly indicates that they have the skills requested by a job posting they should be legally required to at least interview you. People will spend all this time and meet all the requirements and potential employers just ignore them. I know there is some benefit to listing jobs they don't intend to hire anyone for but it's unethical and I don't think it should be allowed.
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#2
It's made me seriously consider:
1) Living in the woods.
2) Crime to go jail to survive.
3) Leaving the country and trying somewhere else.
4) Simply passing away.
Chich the witch 1 month ago (edited)
Have read that a lot of academics, engineers, medical professionals are leaving for Europe, Canada etc.
#3
I used someone else's phone to call my own phone to make sure it is actually working, that is how my job search is going.
StrangeOne 1 month ago (edited)
Best thing I did was go to an employment centre that helps you with your resume and cover letters, helps you find jobs that are suited to you. One place found a program for my friend that paid for a college course in drafting design. It was just a one or 2 year course and she quickly found a job afterwards. She got flukey though.
#4
I built a career freelancing in my industry for 10 years. I worked for some of the biggest companies in the sector, but since AI blew up, my job became defunct.
I can't even get an interview for any position related to that work anymore, at any level. I'm at the point of applying to Trader Joe's and fast food places, where I also can't get an interview.
I'm confused how most people have jobs—I can't get seen for any kind of job in any kind of field, and I'm kind of at a loss.
Laserleader 1 month ago
I admit I felt the same way about "how most people have jobs", and finally realized if I can't find a job that I wanted as an employee, then I should become a contractor. I found that by specializing in something everyone needed but couldn't afford to hire an employee to do, and then offering that service...the small ones snapped it up. Never gonna be a millionaire, but the service is invaluable, and I'm the worst boss I have ever had, but it is all on MY TERMS.
#5
240 applications send, 210 replies, 15 interviews, 10 gave a reason for rejection, reason being lack of experience and no notes on what I could do better.
So yeah, it's starting to be an active effort to not be bitter.
Chich the witch 1 month ago
Similar back in the 80s recession. Had a friend who sent out 200 applications. Nothing.
#6
My spouse (PhD in a STEM field, 10 years work experience post-PhD) got laid off in October 2024. In October 2025 they finally got a part-time job as a security guard for $18.50/hr. They just got an offer for a full-time position relevant to their degree and experience in May 2026, for $35K/year less than they were making before they were laid off.
Edit: Also to add, they only got the security guard position because I personally knew the hiring manager and basically begged him to hire my spouse.
#7
Went from 65k plus a year to hoping to hear back on a retail cashier job just to pay the bills as unemployment isn't cutting it.
BarkingSquirell 1 month ago
Too much or not enough experience: it's like an oxymoron covered in failure.
#8
I spent eleven months bouncing between homeless shelters and looking for jobs. Literally any job. I got a few calls and finally landed a brutally hard job carrying around frozen goats and massive boxes of meat in a giant freezer for not remotely enough money to live on. I spend an absurd amount of time just on the bus and walking there. I need it and I'm thankful to have it. Good luck. Don't stop trying.
BarkingSquirell 1 month ago
Easier to find a job when having a job. Don't despair and best of luck to you.
#9
Out a job for a month. Finally got an offer. Butter Production machine operator at Land O’Lakes for $29.50/hour.
#10
Last year I was making 6 figures as a software engineer with decades of experience.
I'm a bartender now.
Bewitched One 1 month ago
Ugh. I’m 60k in debt for a bachelors in software development. I have been dreading trying to find work since I’m done with school. I should’ve just stuck with nursing school. I’d have been done way quicker too
#11
My brother in IT , spent the last 20 years bing in high demand, had companys fighting over him all the time. Did everything right has the degree and all the extra training and certs for his specialty. Dude been out of work for 2 years now.
#12
USA, Software engineer with degree and big tech on my resume
6 months and 1500 applications to land a role I had to move cross country for though it's back to where my family is from
Grateful to have work even if it is a slight paycut.
BarkingSquirell 1 month ago
Hopefully where you moved to the cost of living is a bit lower to cushion the blow.
#13
It's been a year. Lost track of number of applications. Almost never hear back. At this point I'm increasingly falling into learned helplessness because nothing seems to work. I have over a decade of experience, degrees, decently impressive volunteering work, and none of it matters.
Close friend with 25 years of experience took 4 months and dozens of interviews to land a position. Market is horrible, frick the oligarchs.
BarkingSquirell 1 month ago
It'd be worth consulting a professional resume write to "underplay" all of your skills and experience. Being over-qualified is a curse.
#14
You legit have to know people. Networking is real and important. Never burn bridges, you never know who you will need in the future.
StrangeOne 1 month ago
This is a huge problem for me. I have one ex-coworker friend. Like, we used to work at the same company until we both left and now work in separate fields. It took a decade to work up to that level of friendship. I've tried making more friends at jobs, or at least acquaintances, but then I get to see how fake people are. I just can't stoop to that level of fakery, nor do I want those rotten candy coated apples in my life.
#15
I worked for 10 years as a proofreader before getting laid off back in November. Companies won't even touch me now that I'm past 6 months of unemployment.
I'm still getting freelance projects from time to time, but it feels like there are a ton of good candidates in the pool and companies are getting to be super picky about who they'll even talk to, especially for the kind of niche work I do that people think can be solved with AI.
Vexed Panda 1 month ago
The only proof reader, editor, or writer jobs that have popped up in my feeds this year have been to train AI to do these jobs. I've sent some pretty sharp notes to recruiters.
#16
It’s like running through a corn field backwards with a broke flip flop.
#17
I just got the offer email 5 mins ago. I was unemployed a little over 2 months.
Edit; I ended up accepting another offer from a different place. 2 minute drive from my house instead of 25, and pays 15k better than the other offer. (30% pay increase from the job I was laid off from).
QuincyForrest 1 month ago
Money saving tip: if the new job is only a two-minute drive from your house, WALK!
#18
The worst it’s ever been in my lifetime. I’m 38. I graduated in 2009, after the financial crisis and I had an easier time getting work then than now with 15+ years of experience in my field.
#19
I have a BS in Biology, an MS in secondary science education, three internships, professional science research work...
And I can't find a job. Not teaching. Not subbing. Not science. Not office work. Not even entry-level retail or restaurant work. Can't even get a phone screening.
Basically I've been told that any chances of me having a career (or even making $40K) may be over.
#20
My husband found a job in his field after 11 months of looking.... and it is part time. He had many interviews. (Edited to add, he started last week)
I am currently employed but have been looking to leave, I have been applying for work for over a year and haven't even gotten one interview. Even for ads that I fit 90-100%. Its crazy.
Kelly Scott 1 month ago
You guys should have tried being out of work in 2008. I spent years looking for a job and really didn't ever get another one.
#21
I got rejected from a job yesterday because I express interest in growth within their company.
StrangeOne 1 month ago
Yeah, I was told by a few people to wait until 3 - 6 months before saying you want to advance in the company. The employers tend to feel strangely threatened of their position. I've gotten rejected saying the same thing.
#22
Not unemployed but currently hiring. We've experienced about twice the volume of applications we normally get. We don't get a huge volume so I don't use any AI sorting like some larger companies might, so I can't offer any tricks for getting past those. But just know not everyone is using them.
Those who do apply, about 60% of them are switching industries right now. Really skilled people have been obviously struggling this year and have been pushed into jobs that don't match their experience/skills, and people entering the job market are struggling to push into career industries. The market is trash. It's definitely competitive but showcasing your soft skills and your conversational skills is still working. If you're getting a phone interview, you've already beat out a lot of people.
If you're not getting phone calls, apply for smaller businesses. If small businesses aren't calling, it's not a AI-sorting issue like a lot of people immediately chalk it up to. There could be a red flag on your resume that you aren't seeing. I'm seeing a lot of decently formatted resumes that still do not have core information or have not even been updated recently. The bar isn't as high as some people want you to think.
None of what I said applies to the tech industry.... good luck out there if you're in anything tech related right now. It's a rollercoaster and it's changing every week. Startups get one deal, think they can hire 100 people, and go bankrupt next month.
Laserleader 1 month ago
I hate resumes so much... As a small business I put out exactly what I want them to be able to do (which filters out those who arent suited). If they contact me they get an instant interview, and if they pass that and come in for training, and still contact me I move forward to signing their contract. No hiring games or gimmick, tests, rounds if interviews or time wasted
#23
My wife has an MBA, and 20 years of experience. Marketing is a ghastly graveyard, and until AI tools are charged at their actual cost to the businesses, everybody thinks they can do all of the marketing for basically free.
Laserleader 1 month ago
Sorry, but small businesses like mine, with only two employees, has to make my own marketing advertisements. A little AI to get the job done should NOT be stigmatized. Even that big Cola commercial admitted it took millions of prompts, and that means some person spent the time to out all those prompts in. It still takes work, but we don't have to make our own ink and paper.
#24
Been 2 months for me. I did 2 interviews with the same company - from what I understand, it’s down to me and someone else. Waiting to hear if I get an offer. Fingers crossed!
I’m already going crazy after 2 months, not sure how others are handling even longer unemployment.
#25
It took me 2.5 years to get this job I recently-ish started and I only got it because I ran into my now coworker at a wedding. It's not great.
#26
Canada, was unemployed for 6 months. Finally got a job that I am extremely overqualified for. Plus side is that everybody here seems super impressed by my basic level of competency.
#27
In 2023 I left my job with no prospects. Within a month a company found me despite me only applying to a couple places per day
In September of 2025 the hospital I was working for closed and I started looking for something new.
I'm still looking.
BarkingSquirell 1 month ago
Really? Because all of my Indeed "matches" are in health care even though I've never worked in the industry.
#28
It's terrible that I wake up every morning feeling like a failure.
BarkingSquirell 1 month ago
Easy for a stranger to say, but there's a lot to be said for showering, dressing, having breakfast as though you are going to work. "Looking for work is a full time job." Anyway, I hope things improve soon.
#29
14+ years of experience, 2 degrees, and a cert.
Laid off 10 months ago, nearly 2,000 applications, and barely any reponse.
Last interview saw me pushed through to final round with CEO, rescheduled, canceled while some things got updated, then rejected.
I get a lot of stuff like, "I know you did this as part of your last job, but we want someone who did only this for at least 5 years."
And
"Im sure you could do this, but we need someone who has already done this.".
Jeff Brock 1 month ago
"you are very close to our ideal candidate, but the last guy was left handed and we really don't want to have to re-accomodate"
#30
I was unemployed for a year. Absolute hell. Hundreds and hundreds of well-written cover letters, solid references, and relevant examples of work. Applied directly on company websites. Literally ZERO contact for an interview.
I just accepted an amazing offer from a company where—you guessed it—a friend recommended me for the position. I would literally be homeless without him.
BK BigFish 4 weeks ago
Back in the 2000s, when I got my MBA (outside the US), it was pointed out that 80% of jobs are filled internally, through networking, exactly as in this post. I know that's not always helpful in every situation, but I imagine in the age of AI, human contact matters more than before.
#31
The job market is so bad I pivoted to starting my own business. Still been looking for work in my field and definitely not my field for years now while I run my own LLC.
Laserleader 1 month ago
I did the same thing and started my own business. It's not the industry I wanted or got a Bachelor's for, but it was something needed and I enjoyed doing it. Five years later I'm still working it. No regrets because I can now work towards getting my dream in a way I didnt expect.
#32
I consider myself super lucky that I shifted out of my old career (graphic design) more than 10 years ago into a much more secure job in healthcare. Soooo many of my old college friends (tech school. So design/marketing, computer engineering/IT) are out of work and I'm really concerned for a few of them.
Incidentally, there's still so many positions in healthcare! If you have the wherewithal (and interest) to make that change.
#33
It’s been 4 months for me and feels very demoralizing. I am able to secure interviews and make it through multiple rounds, but I keep getting passed up on for the role in the end. Rejection emails are just as generic no matter how far I get in the interview process and feedback is hard to come by.
Jeff Brock 1 month ago
When the job market is tight, hiring managers quickly decide to spare themselves any unpleasantness....like telling you "no", much less telling you why it is no
#34
Honestly, it feels like getting an interview is a job by itself these days.
#35
I reached out to people and applied for positions I told myself I won’t ever consider doing.
Hosteshumanigeneris 4 weeks ago
Same here.. spent years working in the social work, non profit sector and moved to California in 2024. Ended up cleaning houses just to make ends meet for awhile. All that experience... Didn't move the needle there...
#36
In my country this problems has been going on for 40 years, and is getting worse year by years since the country is stagnating in every way possible you can imagine. You are dependent on your parents or partner in your older age, and you know your parents will be unable to live on their pension and you will have to support them when you finally get a job. Unfortunately many young people (79%) still live with their parent employer or unemployed...life is not fair!
#37
I've applied to probably 150 openings.
I have gotten 3 emails back, two telling me the position had already been filled and one saying they weren't moving forward with my application. Not a single interview.
I recently graduated from law school and have years of prior work experience, I got okay grades from an okay school.
Legal research, law clerk, tech writer, paralegal, secretarial work, hotel front desk, seasonal retail, driving a van full of inflatables around. Nothing. Not a single reply.
It's rough.
#38
I'm honestly completely screwed. Worked as a freelance animator for the last 10 years, was able to consistently get work, made pretty good money to where we were comfortable getting a home with a mortgage.
Now I can't even get a fast food gig or a dishwashing gig at whole foods. Gonna lose our home probably, gonna get divorced and my wife and daughter will end up living with her parents while I just end up breaking my sobriety and staying in a friend's couch.
#39
I’ll give the other side of this. I’m a senior/principal level engineer with the kind of skills that could be used to make the next robot that takes all the jobs, and my wife has even better credentials to develop the next big LLM to take all the jobs.
The assorted evil empires of the world are all relentlessly cold-calling with disgusting sums of money for us (especially her) to sell our souls. But the companies that actually care about social good, the environment, and generally avoiding a technofascist dystopia are so badly outfunded that they’re not even posting senior-level job openings.
Finding a job is easy. Finding a job that lets you sleep well at night is equally bleak. (Obviously this is an incredibly privileged problem to have, but I wanted to share the perspective.)
#40
I went back to school during Covid to transition out of education and into research. Got my masters last May.
I haven’t been able to find anything. I even slunk back to education, and I can’t get anything full time. I settled for a job as a para because I can’t find anything else.
#41
Accepted a job offer yesterday after a year of looking. 9.5 years in my industry and could barely even get a call back. Took reaching out to the hiring manager directly with my resume and the job posting to get an interview.
#42
My employer of over three years abruptly went under. That was back in early May.
I have 18 years of experience in the industry across multiple channels and I have numerous certifications.
I’ve had a total of three interviews. And have not yet had a follow up interview. I’ve been passed over for roles that should have been layups.
Four years ago, I had companies asking me to come work for them. I had people offer me more money to work for them.
This job market is insanely hard right now.
#45
I work in Human Resources in the US. The job market is really bad. I am feeling for anyone that is job searching right now.
#46
I’m not unemployed any longer, hallelujah. But as of a couple months ago, it was rough. Jobs aren’t paying squat, and the ones that do are snatched up by someone else. The real annoying thing is all the corporate jobs do 2+ interviews nowadays, so you might spend a lot of time and effort just to get a rejection and do it all over again
I found my job through a lead from a current employee, that’s the only way I would have heard about it. I think networking is the most powerful tool you can have in the market lately, that’s really where you’ll get the best opportunity.
#47
Graphic designer. Unemployed for over a year. Have to compete with over 70 people per application. Only landed one interview where it came down to me and two others. Never heard back from them.
Can’t even get a job at a restaurant because I have no experience there either. My money has been draining so hard.
#48
I just graduated in May but I’m having a hard time finding a job in my field.. 100 applications, 4 interviews, but nothing so far.
Jonathan Setter 2 weeks ago
One of the biggest businesses is the education sector. Heavily subsidized by governments but still ultra expensive for the student. And it is a business where the student is the product, and they are over producing. What good is a degree when there is probably only enough new jobs a year for 1 in a hundred students? (i am being conservative in my estimate, it could be closer to 1 in a thousand in many industries). Governments need to put their money into giving people actual jobs, not throwing grants at universities.
#49
It took me 7 months to find a job and that was in 2023 after my husband got fired and I was a stay at home mom. In 2025 I knew my a coworker at a former employer was retiring from my former job title.
One day I got so overwhelmed with the micromanaging of the current job and being belittled by my boss that I quit with no notice. Only hopes and dreams of getting my old job back lol. That’s about when I started paying attention to “it’s rough out here!” And I got a little nervous. I did get the job though but I also realize what I moron I was to quit with nothing lined up. Just super glad it worked out.
#50
Our mat leave filler position had PhDs and Masters educated people with solid work histories applying.
In the end my boss gave up filtering through overqualified people, fakes, AI, and picked the nephew of a retired old employee. Their nepoti. Literal nepotism at work but honestly the more sensible choice these days after getting swamped by 600 AI resumes and people who don’t even live in the country. At least the kid is real and local.
#51
Tech sales here, 10 years experience. 7 months, 62 interviews across 30 companies, made it to the final round 9 times (currently waiting to hear back from one), 0 offers.
Currently in process at a company where I have a direct referral in with the hiring manager. I have more than enough experience, and felt my panel interview went well. But somehow even that does not feel like enough anymore. Its like the planets need to align and it's all fully outside of your control.
#52
Very dependent on field and location.
I was working R&D in Boston, laid off, hard to find funding. Moved south, found tons of jobs in manufacturing ops.
If you’re flexible and coachable with a good attitude you can find a job. It’s not my dream job but it pays well and I go home at 4:30 every afternoon. Remote work is not a thing in my line- aside from the occasional sick day or bad weather day.
#53
I look to see new jobs and none in my field. I get rejection letters more than interviews. And everyday you hear about more layoffs. More people who will now join us in refreshing the minimal jobs out there.
#54
Took me 6 months to find a job, and it doesn’t even require a degree. I can’t imagine how hard it is past entry level.
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Mike F 1 month ago
I don't know what 28yrarmyvet used as search terms but mine ABSOLUTELY come back with the opposite outlook. I'm wondering if perhaps their political bent may have some bearing on the search terms and therefore the return comes from.
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I don't know what 28yrarmyvet used as search terms but mine ABSOLUTELY come back with the opposite outlook. I'm wondering if perhaps their political bent may have some bearing on the search terms and therefore the return comes from.
Multa Nocte (she/her 8647) 1 month ago
I want to know what he's smoking. ;-)
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