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Many have noticed that tipping culture in the US is spiraling out of control. Businesses that were previously free of gratuity, like fast food restaurants and even funeral homes, are now asking for one. What was once a practice of thanking servers for exceptional service has now turned into a peculiar cash grab.Outraged by the tipping culture, many people shared their unpleasant experiences with it. To find the situations in which customers felt stunned and ripped off by requests for gratuity, all you have to do is scroll down.

#1

What Is Going On

Reddit post showing frustration over tipping culture at a funeral home, highlighting the ridiculousness of tipping expectations.

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Borg
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1 year ago

This is a disgrace. The audacity and lack of self respect is mindblowing.

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    #2

    Jeans Company Is Asking For A Tip For The Person Who Made The Jeans

    Clothing price tag with QR code encouraging tipping the maker, illustrating ridiculous tipping culture in photos.

    I get the idea behind it, but wouldn't it make more sense to just pay the workers a fair wage instead of asking customers for a tip?

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    Jerry Jacques
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    And take the corporations profits? Stop paying these "tips" and stop buying there products. The only way to send the message.

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    #3

    This Restaurant Covered Up The "No Tip" Option With A Sticker To Force Tipping

    Payment terminal keypad with small receipts labeled tip and thank you highlighting ridiculous tipping culture issues.

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    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    0%

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    #4

    It Finally Happened. I Was Prompted To Tip At The Airport Self-Checkout Station

    Self-checkout screen showing tipping options with a bottle and wrap, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture trends.

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    Trillian
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    These tipping screens need a comment function

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    #5

    The Waiter Charging Me $87 For What Should Have Been A $7 Tip Despite Me Writing The Total At The Bottom ($45.23)

    Screenshot showing a 227% tip on a restaurant bill, illustrating how ridiculous tipping culture has gotten.

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    K. LNU
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This is a Capital One credit card notice. Someone possibly added an "8" in front of the $7. Could have been a mistake (I've been known to have "fat finger days" and the numbers are close...) or not.

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    #6

    As A Driver Who Very Likely Gets Paid Less Than The Employees At This Restaurant I'm A Bit Confused Why They Think This Is Alright

    Uber Eats delivery pickup sign asking drivers to tip instore coworkers, highlighting the ridiculous tipping culture issue.

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    Matt Blakeley
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Yeah, that's not going to happen. Nor are they in any way coworkers.

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    #7

    30% Is So So?

    Digital tipping screen showing outrageous 100% tip request, highlighting how ridiculous tipping culture has gotten.

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    Nagisa11
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Since when is a 30% tip soso?

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    #8

    No, I Will Not Be Adding A Tip. I’m Buying Something Online

    Tip screen showing preset and custom options highlighting how ridiculous tipping culture has gotten in modern transactions

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    Adam Chang
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    "Show your support for the team" selling merchandise?

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    #9

    When "Optional" Tips Become Mandatory. Imagine Needing To Pay Extra To Receive Bad Service

    Sign at a restaurant demanding a minimum 25% tip, highlighting the ridiculous tipping culture in today’s service industry.

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    No Man
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Don't run a restaurant if you can't afford to pay your employees without extorting your customers

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    #10

    Olive Garden’s Table Kiosk Blatantly Shows The Wrong Tip Amount So You Tip Twice As Much

    Digital payment screen showing a confusing tipping interface with multiple percentage options highlighting tipping culture issues.

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    Matt Blakeley
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    That is fraud. People need to start giving these pictures to the authorities, not to Reddit.

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    #11

    Had To Ask For A Second Bill Because The Restaurant Added A Tip To The First Without Asking Me… In The UK Too

    Two restaurant receipts showing an added optional service charge, illustrating ridiculous tipping culture issues.

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    Boo
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited)

    Yeah. I've encountered that in one of our local restaurants. They have stated (in small print, mind) they are adding 18% to every bill. My hubs didn't notice and threw down a tenner as a tip....I picked the note back up and said the tip is already added and he was ticked off. The menu states that if you want to leave your own tip, to talk to your server and they will take the tip off the bill. So they are using sociatal pressure to get their way. I mean, if you want to take the tip off....you look like a plōnker. We dont go there any more.

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    #12

    “Creating Happy People Fee”

    Menu note explaining an 18% service fee added to support staff, highlighting the ridiculous tipping culture.

    Just had an infuriating experience at a new place my husband and I tried. Ordered our meals, and as we were about to order dessert, we noticed this “Creating Happy People” fee. 18 freaking per cent? Are you serious? Granted, we should’ve read the menu thoroughly before ordering, but still. And to have the audacity to still encourage additional tips? Ridiculous! Left without ordering dessert and, of course, NO additional tip. Never again.

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    Bored Sailor
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Wish they posted the name as well. Let us know so we don't go.

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    #13

    What Happened To Honesty And Transparency?

    Restaurant receipt showing a 5% living wage fee and 20% gratuity, highlighting how ridiculous tipping culture has gotten.

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    JuJu
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    I don't get it. The food is far from cheap, so why not pay fair wages? We don't pay more for food here and still employees get at least minimum wage (more than 12€)

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    #14

    This Sign At The Register Made Me Double Take (And Side Eye The Owners)

    Handwritten sign on white paper stating cashiers are paid with the tips, highlighting tipping culture issues.

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    Armac
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago

    Cashiers should be paid proper wages

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    #15

    I Turned Around And Left

    Whiteboard sign humorously explaining tipping culture by clarifying tipping is for good service, not a city in China.

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    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    No, it's what you do if you're GIVEN good service.

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    #16

    Why Tho

    Tablet screen displaying tipping options with mandatory tip percentages, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture pressures.

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    Nagisa11
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Cancel your order and walk away

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    #17

    Payment Machine Wanted To Argue With Me After Selecting $0.00 For A Tip At A Cafe Counter

    Payment terminal screen showing message asking to confirm no tip selected, highlighting tipping culture issues.

    This happened today (November 8, 2024) at a cafe in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.
    Is this the point that things have gotten to?!

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    Funhog
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    That's not an argument. If you want to go on arguing, you'll have to pay for another five minutes.

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    #18

    Tipping Culture Is Getting Out Of Hand

    Empty Chipotle bowl with a handwritten note demanding a tip to avoid getting fired, highlighting tipping culture issues.

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    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago

    So let me get this straight, food delivery services are expecting you to add a tip before you've even received your order? And letting the driver see that you have not added one? That is just insane.

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    #19

    The No To Tips Button Has Been Aggressively Worn Down On This Pub’s Card Machine

    Payment terminal screen asking to add gratuity on a bill, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture issues.

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    dev mehta
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Et tu, UK?

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    #20

    Just In Case You Were Thinking Of Tipping Less... Think Again

    Sign displaying tipping culture with automatic 18% gratuity for large groups and late-night checks.

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    Adam Chang
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    I'll walk out

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    #21

    Required Tipping

    Receipt showing an 18% gratuity plus suggested additional tips, highlighting the extremes of tipping culture today.

    Why in the world do we allow places to dictate that we tip? I might understand gratuity for a large group, but 18% gratuity automatically for a table of 2 who order 2 drinks and a pre-made cinnamon roll... makes me want to shout throw my hands up and shout. Requiring a tip is one thing, but I have seen an increasing number of places require 20+% tip... that's not a tip anymore. Maybe I'm missing something and can deny paying the pre added gratuity? I think the tea party started our country over this very thing no?

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    Patrick H
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Is there a sign posted somewhere that indicates this, or do they tell you before they serve you? If not, I would complain to someone if they charge me without telling me.

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    #22

    The Suggested 20% Tip Is Actually 72.6%

    Interactive tipping screen showing a $19 check with tipping options up to 25 percent, highlighting tipping culture issues.

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    Denise Aitchison
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    You should never tip on the tax. This gets me so angry when they use it to help determine tips.

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    #23

    My FedEx Driver Asking For Tips. I’ve Never Seen This Before

    QR codes for tipping delivery driver via Venmo, PayPal, and Cash App, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture today.

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    Patrick H
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Not gonna happen, especially since drivers are paid fair wages AND have union protection.

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    #24

    This Is Getting Ridiculous, I Have Been Noticing This Trend Too

    Tip screen showing 20% as the lowest option, highlighting the ridiculous tipping culture and rising tipping expectations.

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    C L
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Snymore they are trying to make 30% the lowest option!

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    #25

    Probably The Worst Tipping Place I’ve Come Across

    Tip jars showing mandatory 18% and 20% tipping for faster checkout, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture expectations.

    There is a pizza and taphouse type place near work. You order the pizza at the counter, they call your number and you come pick it up. When you use your card to pay, it defaults to a 25% tip, and to change it or get rid of it, I literally had to ask for help navigating the menu. Then if you want beer, they hand you one glass, and a card that card is used to keep track of your tab, and they link the card to your credit card. When you want a beer, you walk up to the wall of taps, you put your card near the reader and then pour your own beer.

    These drop boxes say “for faster checkout” but if you try and check out at the counter, they tell you no and that you have to choose one of those boxes.

    So to recap, a place you go to the counter, order your food, they then call your number and you grab your own food and sides. You pour your own beer, and you’re expected to clean up your table at the end.

    The food is good, but the expectation of tipping here is horrendous especially when you do it all yourself, even cleaning up after yourself.

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    Kenneth Mancinelli
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Stop complaining and do something: walk out, walk away, keep tip money in your pocket. Tell them you won't be back.

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    #26

    Chipotle App Asking Me To Tip Workers For A Pickup Order. How About You Pay Your Employees More Money Instead Of Trying To Get Your Customers To Do It For You

    Mobile app screen showing tipping options for pickup order totaling $21.65, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

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    Jerry Jacques
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Show some love to the costumer and pay "the team" a pay that that are willing to really work for.

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    #27

    These Tip Options

    Tipping culture shown with custom tip percentages and playful labels highlighting how ridiculous it has become.

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    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Custom of zero. “Girrrrl, please.”

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    #28

    Booking Site Wants A Tip

    Screenshot of hotel booking prompt asking to leave a $1 tip for saving $10.65, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

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    Patrick H
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Does the tip go to the computer running the app?

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    #29

    So Sick Of This

    Screen showing $11.50 tip added to motivate delivery Dasher, highlighting the impact of tipping culture.

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    Reset Game
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    That's why I don't use those services

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    #30

    Went Waaaay Over Budget For About 10 Hours Of Power Washing Only To Find A Tip Was Mandatory

    Tipping culture shown with enforced minimum tip amounts and high percentage tip options on an $1800 invoice.

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    Bret Sander
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Cancel then demand a written bill for the exact amount of labor.

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    #31

    Receptionist At My Doctor's Office Has QR Codes For Venmo And Cashapp Tips

    QR code tip payment sign showing Venmo and Cash App options highlighting ridiculous tipping culture trends

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    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago

    WTF? No, my mind has rejected this one, it simply refuses to accept that this is real.

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    #32

    Why Is Tipping Frowned Upon But Charging Extra On Weekends Isn’t?

    Handwritten note on wooden table explaining weekend surcharge for staff wages, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

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    Patrick H
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    I've never seen that one. Ugh.

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    #33

    Why Is Tipping Out Of Control In The US?

    Online payment screen showing tipping options with a $12,000 tip amount highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

    We are having the siding of our house replaced. Total bill is about $40k, and it is paid in installments. Today, I paid one and noticed a new tipping "feature" on the payment site. What is this? ETA: For those suggesting to click "none": Obviously I know that is an option but the mildly infuriating aspect is the idea that it is even present for this type of service. Another ETA: Thanks to everybody commenting. My personal favorite is when the comment disregards the ETA. (/s for those folks).

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    For All Pedernity
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    40k to replace (I assume) plastic siding!?

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    #34

    Restaurant Starts Their Suggested Tip Amounts At 30%

    Receipt showing tipping options with 30%, 40%, and 50% amounts highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    And I take it as a “suggestion,” not an order. And I don’t do what they suggest.

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    #35

    Stop Trying To Make Tipping A Thing

    Notification from a delivery app showing a prompt about tipping riders, illustrating ridiculous tipping culture trends.

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    Deep One
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    DON"T let tipping start in your country!! The employers will use it as an excuse not to pay your workers fair wages and it will get out of hand fast!! Look at what is happening in America where 30% tips are becoming mandatory and if you don't tip delivery drivers enough they will eat/spit in your food or vandalize your other deliveries!

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    #36

    “Pay With Kidney”

    Tipping options for American healthcare showing exaggerated tip percentages highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

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    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This can’t be real

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    #37

    Fully Self Service Bar Has A Automatic Tip At Checkout

    Sign at express checkout box showing automatic 18% gratuity added, illustrating how ridiculous tipping culture has gotten.

    The only interaction I had with a worker was at the start, where I got an in store card linked to my credit card which kept track of my tab. When I was leaving there was no worker and the only the option was to drop the card off which has a tip included. This place also does not serve food and no one comes to check on you. I even joked to my friend earlier that the best part about this place was not having to tip… before I had to return the card.

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    Bryn
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    what would happen if you didn't return it

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    #38

    This Tip Prompt At A Taco Bell

    Sign at counter with QR codes for tipping via Cashapp and Venmo, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture in restaurants.

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    Patrick H
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    I already know how it feels. It feels wrong.

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    #39

    Tipping Culture Is Getting Out Of Hand

    Digital tipping screen showing high voluntary tip options highlighting how ridiculous tipping culture has gotten

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    If you can’t afford the company’s expenses, you can’t afford to have a company. Sell up and get a job working for somebody else.

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    #40

    Am I Supposed To Feel Like A Cheap Human Being For "Only" Tipping 25% Now?

    Receipt showing tipping options with 25%, 30%, and 35% tips, illustrating the ridiculous tipping culture trend.

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    Snazzy Smurf
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Tip in cash when possible!

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    #41

    Just Moved To The UK. Do You Usually Tip National Express Drivers?

    A sign on a vehicle window encouraging passengers to tip their driver, highlighting tipping culture frustrations.

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    James016
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    No, but equally they make it clear it’s totally optional.

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    #42

    Translation: Pay Our Employees For Us

    Pizza box with a delivery reminder urging customers to tip drivers, highlighting the ridiculous tipping culture trends.

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    Patrick H
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    I HATE this. Pizza places started adding delivery charges decades ago, and they always say it doesn't go to the driver. The only thing different between pickup and delivery is the driver, so where does it go? The only thing I can think of is that they do technically have to give the driver a mileage based supplement for use of their car, but I think that amount is far less than what they're talking as a delivery fee.

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    #43

    Just Booked A Flight Using The Hopper App. Who Am I Tipping?

    App screen with tipping options showing $1, $5, and $9 to power predictions, highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

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    Rika
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    It's a free app that offers great services and isn't plagued with ads, they're just asking for a donation to help with the costs of keeping the app running. They're probably using the word "tip" for psychological reasons: in general, people have a different reasoning when asked for a tip ("It's true this app helped me, I should give a little thanks.") than a donation ("It's free, why should I give them money ?!")

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    #44

    I Was Buying My Homecoming Tickets And The Website Asked For A Tip

    Homecoming dance ticket selection screen showing tipping option and highlighting ridiculous tipping culture.

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    ben Greest
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Umm totally valid if you read the prompt

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    #45

    Did You Buy Out The Entire Menu 70 Different Times? How Did You Even Do This

    Payment screen showing an outrageously high tipping amount highlighting the ridiculous tipping culture today.

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    Earonn -
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    Company event?

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