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Man Locks Pregnant Wife Outside In Winter Because Of Her Disagreeing With Him, She’s Freaked Out
Snowy days can feel magical especially for young children experiencing winter for the first time. For parents, they can also be a source of tension, as decisions about safety, play, and supervision collide with personal boundaries and differing comfort levels.
Today’s Original Poster (OP) wanted her kids to properly enjoy the snow since it was the first time they’d grown to appreciate it. When she assured her husband it wasn’t dangerously cold to be outside, her used her own words against her in the end and left her feeling upset.
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The author, six months pregnant, decided to take her three-year-old twin daughters outside to play in the snow on a day off, despite her husband saying it was too cold
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The girls enjoyed a few minutes of snow play, but the husband called them inside and then locked the front door, leaving her outside
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She spent 25 minutes on the porch, cold, frustrated, and needing to use the bathroom, while one of the daughters cried inside
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When the husband finally unlocked the door, he acted like it was funny, leaving her feeling hurt, shocked, and questioning the boundaries and dynamics in their relationship
The OP and her husband were parents to three-year-old twin girls and were expecting a third baby. She shared that they finally had a day together after a week of snow, and it was the first winter the girls were really excited about the snow, so she suggested they play outside for a bit.
Her husband refused to go because he thought it was too cold and also worried the kids would get sick. The OP argued that the temperature wasn’t dangerous and took the girls out anyway. After only about ten minutes of fun in the snow, her husband called the girls in and left the OP standing in annoyance.
However, when she decided to go in, she realized her husband had locked the front door. Desperate to also use the bathroom, she began knocking and calling for him, but he ignored her. She also sent him texts, but he ignored those too. What upset her more was when she heard one of the twins crying for her while her husband still chose to do nothing.
When her husband finally relented after about 25 minutes, he smiled and used her earlier words against her as he said he “thought it wasn’t cold”. This left her feeling upset, although she acknowledged that he was usually very kind and not vindictive. She also mentioned that they hadn’t spoken much after the incident.
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Winter play can be a magical experience for young children, offering more than just fun in the snow. According to Bright Years, when managed safely, outdoor winter activities support physical development, cognitive growth, and emotional well-being in young kids.
Dressing children in proper layers and taking breaks indoors helps prevent risks like frostbite or hypothermia, allowing families to safely enjoy the season. Yet, even a day of playful fun can turn tense when family conflicts escalate. Greater Good adds that small conflicts, if left unresolved, can snowball, disrupting family trust and modeling poor coping skills for children.
Addressing tensions calmly helps create a secure environment where kids can see healthy ways to handle disagreements. Tandem Psychology emphasizes that isolating a partner during a disagreement is not a healthy conflict-resolution strategy. Open communication and compromise maintain trust and prevent resentment, while punitive actions, like locking someone out, can harm emotional safety.
Netizens expressed shock and anger at the husband’s actions, emphasizing that locking a partner out of the home is unacceptable behavior, especially in front of their children. What do you think about this situation? Do you think locking someone out of the house is ever justified, even in a heated moment? We would love to know your thoughts!
Netizens highlighted the potential long-term impact on both the author and the children, calling her husband’s behavior mean and vindictive
What do you think ?
JayWantsACat 7 hours ago
This isn't the most violent a***e or anything but it's still a***e. What was even the point of it other than to be controlling and vindictive?
Chrissie Anit 8 hours ago
That is insane and controlling behaviour. I wouldn't know if I was able to trust my partner after such a stunt. Maybe not a reason to divorce right away, but reason for a SERIOUS talk and couple's therapy.
JayWantsACat 7 hours ago
This isn't the most violent a***e or anything but it's still a***e. What was even the point of it other than to be controlling and vindictive?
Chrissie Anit 8 hours ago
That is insane and controlling behaviour. I wouldn't know if I was able to trust my partner after such a stunt. Maybe not a reason to divorce right away, but reason for a SERIOUS talk and couple's therapy.
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