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#1
Learn how to be happy, not overthink & find something I love doing
Final score:
20points
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#2
I would like to be more confident.
Final score:
15points
Kar Red Roses 2 years ago
Good job :-) with practice I’m sure you will find that success suits you and you wear it well
#3
Not to bring everybody down but I would quite like to learn how to be happy. Not only that, but also how to resist self harming and suicidal thoughts. Its gotten way outta hand lately and I don't actually know how much longer I can hold on. Sorry again to bring everybody down.
Final score:
14points
Biana Weatherford 2 years ago
You are not a burden! I know your mental health tells you otherwise, but there are plenty of people who are willing to lift and support. Happy is a temporary feeling, like hunger or sleepy. You cannot maintain happy. What you might be able to do is find something that makes you happy, do that and then think about it when you can't do it. There are loads of tools out there, we just need to find what works each of us. You can do this!
Laura Brown 2 years ago
It was quite brave of you to post this...keep holding on!! Don't be so hard on yourself...You're stronger than you realize and you can get through this...🤗🤗
What_the_actual_sloth? (Submission author) 2 years ago
im trying my hardest
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Nonesuch 2 years ago
Hang in there honey. Hope you don't mind me calling you honey. My heart goes out to you.
What_the_actual_sloth? (Submission author) 2 years ago
I dont mind at all
Load More Replies... the shrimp whisperer 2 years ago (edited)
you can do this :) you're not alone and there's a lot to look forward to. you are not your thoughts
Danish Susanne 2 years ago (edited)
Dont't feel that you are bringing anyone down. We are all in charge of our own happiness even you. You have just not found out how yet. Best of luck on that project.
Kar Red Roses 2 years ago
1 This time of year in the northern hemisphere is tough on everybody because we’ve had such little sunlight for so long. The seasonal affective disorder thing is for real. 2. Keep people around you who lift you up; upwards, only higher. I’m not talking about ppl kissing your bottom, I mean people that allow you to love yourself and be yourself. 3. Depression is a heartless liar who wants to hurt you. It lies to you and tells you that you’re worthless and that the world is better off without you and that everything you do is pointless and that your friends don’t love you and that your family doesn’t love you and that everything you do is already being done by somebody else and done better… And it’s all Bull s**t Depression is a liar. Repeat after me… Depression is a liar. Depression lies. This is the most important lesson of all.
What_the_actual_sloth? (Submission author) 2 years ago
Depression is a liar.
Load More Replies... #4
Foraging/wildcrafting. Free diving. Brush up on scuba skills. Better ways to meditate. Kayaking, paddling upright.
Final score:
12points
#5
Something I've been carrying over from late 2022, Karate. Got my yellow belt in December of last year, and if things keep progressing how they've been, I'm expected to get my orange belt in April.
Final score:
12points
#6
I want to learn/start learning how play the guitar.
Final score:
12points
Ur Cupid Grookey 2 years ago (edited)
I have a small guitar. It's purple. And a ukelele. I have no idea how to play them OR tune them but hery I tried ^^
Aidan Campbell 2 years ago
I played guitar for many years but it hurts my hands now. I play piano instead.
Kar Red Roses 2 years ago
Hope you can do it, good luck! I tried couple of times but the strings hurt my fingers. I decided I didn’t want calluses lol and switched to singing instead.
Adam Hollingsworth 2 years ago
Be prepared for the fingertips on your fret hand to hurt so bad you sweat at the thought of touching something with it. Start with finger drills, they're everywhere online. Don't worry about whether or not it's the best one, it doesn't make a bit of difference as long as you find one that works for you and, most importantly, won't drive you insane after doing for the 37,985th time. Because that is the only way to build hand strength AND muscle memory at the same time. Once you've done finger drills for a while (I recommend at least a cumulative 45 minutes to an hour in any 24 hour period, two to five times a week), find the tab for some songs by an artist you really like, and that you don't mind listening to repeatedly, and learn how to play those songs. The more you practice, the more intuitive your playing will become, until something clicks on it's own. It's a rush.
#7
I'd like to play the guitar. I love them, they sound so warm, dark and cozy. Also, maybe learning some new swimming techniques. I love swimming but I'm not very good at it. Things like butterfly technique looks so strong and powerful.
Final score:
11points
Angie Chiyoko ( She/they) 2 years ago
I'd say to learn how to play easy songs. The first song I learned how to play was Hey There Delilah and it was pretty simple cus it's just the same few chords over and over
the shrimp whisperer 2 years ago
my biggest flex as a beginner guitarist is that the day i learned how to play i figured out the intro to toxicity by system of a down. i suck at everything else but that's my flex
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#8
How to talk to people. Also how to cope with anxiety and depression
Final score:
11points
Paul Scheermeijer 2 years ago
This is a start. Via text then just say hi or goodmorning. Small steps. Don't get discouraged if you do not get any response. That's them. Not you! You get there!
Danish Susanne 2 years ago (edited)
Good advoce from Paul Scheemeijer. Remember the person who don't give response may be deep in his own thoughts or hard of hearing.
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Kar Red Roses 2 years ago
Good job just stating what you want. Being in the moment is a great first step. People that dwell on the past lot have a lot of depression. And people that fix a heavily on what if in the future this happens or that happens are paralyzed with anxiety. But if you focus on what’s happening right now and enjoying yourself right now you can enjoy life in the present. Hello! I’m waving to you right now
sneksneksnek (Submission author) 2 years ago
Thank you so much, all this help is amazing! Hi👋
Load More Replies... #9
I myself would love to learn to make good cocktails, how to make a swing out of macramé and what i really want to do with my life
Final score:
10points
#10
I was going to do it last year, but it just wasn’t to be… I really want to learn to do lead lighting. I have a cabinet that is missing a glass panel and I want to do something personal for it.
Final score:
10points
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
If you succeed I foresee a great demand for your knowledge, so go for it
#11
I want to learn how to throw knives. I've been begging my parents for a couple years now and I think they've finally caved.
Final score:
9points
Black Pearl (Submission author) 2 years ago
Don't worry, I'm not quite that desperate...yet. Jkjk
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try to get a job.
Final score:
9points
PiscesInTheWild 2 years ago
Be helpful, committed and friendly and it shouldn't take too long! I hope you find a job that you love :)
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
And id you don't like it, make your next wish be a better job. As Heinlein wrote: "No amount of money is worth 8 hours of work a day."
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#14
Basic DIY, like how to make some fitted shelves
Final score:
7points
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
Find a course on it, if possible. The money spent on it will be worth it, when you can actually make shelves yourself.
GEPowers 2 years ago
Get a large comprehensive book you can read and go back to over and over again (cause you know where things are). Search the internet for supplemental information & Videos with stuff is amazing. Then . . . Just do it - don't be afraid of screwing it up, you will and it will be ugly just like everyone has done.
#15
I want to learn to dance, particularly to slow jazz. I have a medical condition that unfortunately causes me to need to practice even longer to gain muscle memory, so, I also need to learn how to find a patient dance partner *sigh*
Final score:
7points
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
If you dont' insist on jazz dance try Linedance. It doesn't require a partner and if you stay in the back you can use the time you need. Later it will make it easier to start another kind of dance, if you don't want to stay with linedancing.
️Crystal️ (Submission author) 2 years ago
Thanks for the tip! I absolutely despise country music but I know there are a lot of opportunities for line dancing here in Texas, so it might be a good, and more accessible, start for me to warm up my nervous system ☺️
Load More Replies... #16
Something I want to learn this year is how to make a good loaf of gluten free bread. I have been buying my bread but it is getting to expensive to buy so I want to learn how to make my own.
Final score:
6points
Huddo's sister 2 years ago
Me too. I have found a good box mix but want to try from scratch again.
Gramma Carol (Submission author) 2 years ago
Baking from scratch is always better as you are avoiding the chemicals used in box mixes.
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I would like to learn how to use oil pastels in my art. Also how to get my books published.
Final score:
6points
#18
The mandolin! I put one on my Amazon wishlist on impulse because I think they're cool, but I'd never actually spend the money on one, and surprisingly someone actually bought it for me. So...now I have one! Guess it's time to learn. I'm thinking 90s/00s alt rock renditions.
Final score:
6points
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
I think that rock is a bit difficult for a beginner. Don't you like folkmusic? That is often rather simple, because it was meant to be played by just about anyone.
#19
I'd love to learn Spanish. And re-learn how to focus and stay focused. Fast scrolling and multitasking has taken that ability away from me
Final score:
6points
DP(Alt. Rorschach) 2 years ago
Hola, Como estas tu?(im in Spanish rn. Well not rn I’m in art rn..)
the shrimp whisperer 2 years ago
spanish is great especially if you live in america i think we should all learn it
#20
coding. soon or later i'll learn this. but just wish i'll find enough free time in 23 to start up
Final score:
5points
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
try python, it's pretty easy. or livecode community edition. it lets you more or less write in english.
#21
How the hekk to draw a realistic ear. I can do EVERYTHING else pretty decent but the ears.... AH!
Final score:
5points
DP 2(DP The Magical Unicorn) 2 years ago
It’s hard. Very very hard. I swear if someone makes a that’s what she said joke lol
#22
How to better sell my art work
Final score:
5points
Kar Red Roses 2 years ago
Artist collectives exist for this very reason. It is most difficult to gain an audience or promote yourself as a single voice but when you’ve been together as a unit and promote collectively with a chorus of voices you’re easier heard. Share the work, share space, share love!
Monica Michelle (Submission author) 2 years ago
Wonderful suggestion. I will look and see if there is one that can accommodate my disability
Load More Replies... Monica Michelle (Submission author) 2 years ago
I did thank you! Owl and twine right now I sell me woodworking there and my illustrations on red bubble
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not being impulsive
Final score:
5points
#24
The drums!
Final score:
5points
#25
I want to learn a hobby that I enjoy. I've tried a lot of things but nothing really clicks. I mostly just play video games, but I want to try something different. I'f you have any idea's please comment them!
Final score:
5points
Allison S (Submission author) 2 years ago
To Danish and censor: Those are great ideas! I am currently working on a game called Friend. I have also been trying to improve my art skills too! Great suggestions!
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
If you like videogames try to make some yourself. If you get good at it, it might even turn into a lucrative hobby.
the shrimp whisperer 2 years ago (edited)
make beats. i know a great app, it's called auxy pro it's for iphone and ipad and i used to use it a lot, it's so cool
Dolevaal 2 years ago
Try learning an instrument if you're interested in this. Maybe something where you can see success soon. Sure, the beginning can be hard but being able to create something beautiful with your hands, your breath, your feets or your voice is absolutely dope. Maybe also trying out some new sports, maybe something with a team. Could be great to get to know new people and find new friends :)
Allison S (Submission author) 2 years ago
Good idea, but I'm not very passionate about baking sorry.
Load More Replies... Fishbone (Submission author) 2 years ago
I kinda want something that can entertain other people like making video games, but isn't too hard like learning an instrument.
#26
Another language (human and computer). How to maintain a relationship without getting frustrated by peoples' insecurities.
Final score:
5points
#27
Music theory
Final score:
5points
the shrimp whisperer 2 years ago
music theory is weird and confusing but if you want to learn go ahead
#29
I would like to learn how to fly a helicopter. It's way out of my comfort zone.
Final score:
4points
#30
My target for this year is to get a full HAM radio licence.... just cause it interests me and I remember the days of CB radio when it was all cool but neever got into it through lack of funds/opportunity..... but as it was then ,it's still a bit of counter-culture I'd like to explore a bit more.
Final score:
4points
#31
1. Learn more about my family history. Fun fact: I'm related to David Boone. In all the history books and even on Google, his wife's name is always written wrong. It is written Rebecca Bryan (her thought-to-be maiden name) Boone, but it is actually Rebecca Bryant Boone, with a T. I am directly related to Bryants, therefore I am related to David Boone. My family has passed this down for years, and literally no book or website or show has ever gotten it right. 2. Learn how to maintain a relationship. I just recently got into one with an amazing guy, and I need to learn how to really maintain a good one, which I think I am doing fairly good at so far. 3. Learn how to overcome my anxiety. It controls my life and I want it to stop. I work on it everyday, and I'm getting better slowly. Baby steps still move us forward!
Final score:
4points
#33
ASL it would be a really good thing to know
Final score:
4points
DP(Alt. Rorschach) 2 years ago
I want to learn that too but they didn’t have a teacher so I’m taking Spanish..
#34
the meaning of life....
Final score:
3points
Booker 2 years ago
As a science teacher, I used to tell my students that perhaps the single greatest strength of the human species is the evolutionary imperative we call diversity. In a group of 75 - 150, we have enough differences to strive in just about any situation. If your not good at math or science, don't worry about it. Your evolutionary imperative dictates something else that will benefit a group. The meaning of life? Be yourself and enjoy it!
#35
I would love to learn so many things. The most important one tho is how to stand up for myself without feeling bad and apologising for being mean to the person who was originally mean to me. It's not really a bad habit but I want to learn how to grow out of it. On a side note, I also want to learn how to do more tricks in Colour Guard cus it's so much fun.
Final score:
3points
Allison S 2 years ago
So cool that you're in color guard. I've seen them before and it looks cool! (Btw I'm referring to the people who put up flags. If I'm wrong and the Color Guard you're talking about is something else please correct me)
Angie Chiyoko ( She/they) (Submission author) 2 years ago
Color Guard for what I'm in is flag waving and doing tricks with it. But it's kinda similar to flag raising.
Load More Replies... #36
I would like to learn how to use Scrivener to write my novels. The tutorials don't seem to be helping any.
Final score:
2points
#37
This isn’t my real answer but I guess it’s to stop being an @$$hole on here. Cuz I have been dubbed a jerk, an @$$hole, and a bunch of other things by certain people on here, even tho I haven’t said anything to offend someone in a long time. So idk at this point. People get offended by the stupidest things. Honestly what the fck. K rant over, if u have a problem with me at this point. Go fck urself. Cuz I haven’t said anything offensive.
Final score:
2points
Auntriarch 2 years ago (edited)
I haven't noticed you being particularly offensive. However, you can always ignore people if they are getting on your nerves. That's what I generally do, and it produces a better result than telling people to f**k themselves
DP 2(DP The Magical Unicorn) (Submission author) 2 years ago
Ok thanks for the advice
Load More Replies... Danish Susanne 2 years ago
I cannot give you an upvote because all your swearing (as I suppose it is) makes it hard for me to understand what you are actually saying.
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
Hmm DP2 you really just need to chill, you are way too aggressive, that's why you get so much flak.
DP 2(DP The Magical Unicorn) (Submission author) 2 years ago
Alright thanks
Load More Replies... Angie Chiyoko ( She/they) 2 years ago
Honestly, I'm used to being insulted by my friends in like, a funny manner so nothing really phases me anymore. I think ur pretty cool to be honest. So have my upvote! You need it more than I do
the shrimp whisperer 2 years ago
DP ur a pretty cool dude and i love that you say "no downvotes, let's talk it out" so i guess i hope other people learn downvotes are not the way
What do you think ?
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
I started on this post because I always loved learning new things, and thought I would get ideas.
Danish Susanne 2 years ago
I started on this post because I always loved learning new things, and thought I would get ideas.
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