Hey Pandas, What Is The Most Sexist, Racist, Or Homophobic Thing You’ve Seen Recently? (Closed)
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I took self defense class with only boys. I was the youngest and shortest One boy said, "why is there a girl here, girls can't hit". After he said that, I smacked him hard, it made a mark on his face
Yes! You go, queen. I too took selfdefense classes, and I do not regret it.
She only gets 8/10 from me, she should’ve performed a fatality.
Load More Replies...He said a bad thing! Girls can hit! But, you should have told him that girls can hit, instead of hitting him. Although honestly, that's pretty funny! (Not trying to be offensive...)
ur right but it was funny
Load More Replies...Now class, let's imagine this the other way around, would you applaud a man for hitting a woman. What a sad world we live in when violence becomes the answer regardless of sex
I agree. He was completely wrong for saying that (obviously). But violence is never the option
Load More Replies...Physical violence as a snarky rebuttal? That's worse behavior than the stupid comment. How is this being promoted on here? Shameful.
I know how you feel... I have fought many male opponents that had underestimated my strength and fighting skills solely based on my gender. Some of those men were twice my size, yet I was able to drive a dagger into their chest with ease... I do not recommend that as a solution to sexism here on earth, however. Apparently, it's "too violent."
thx btw I love ur movie
Load More Replies...My uncle told a black person on Facebook to "go pick [him] some cotton". My dad called him out, and an argument ensued that hasn't been solved yet. It's been over a year and my family is starting to split into two factions. Not fun.
Letting those comments/belief go unquestioned would have been worse
Yeah, I'm glad their Dad stepped up and called the uncle out
Load More Replies...I seriously hope that your dad's side has wayyyy more members than your uncle's.
Sadly, it's about equal, and on my uncle's side is my dad's own parents.
Load More Replies...Good for your dad. Not good that there's a faction that sides with your uncle.
Well, this doesn't seem that complicated. It's not team Edward versus team Jacob. Racist pricks versus non racists.
If a faction is a racist, white supremacist one, the choice is pretty easy.
Woman being able to hit men with no consequences but if a man hits her back, the man is crucified and painted as a horrible person.
Yes, even though women getting sexually abused is a huge thing that needs to be fixed, men getting sexually abused needs attention as well.
There are women who were sentenced because they raped a man (or multiple men), people just don't hear about it often, because it's scarce. And men are especially prone to make fun of it.
Load More Replies...We should be equal, no sex higher than the other. People sometimes think it is just women who are harmed in the gender war but really both are harmed. Thankfully I do not have to worry. I am a parrot who lives equally with my fellow parrots.
I teach my boy not to start fights, but to defend himself if he gets attacked (by whomever).
Does that include any kid below the age of 7?
Load More Replies...I understand that I should agree with this. In MOST cases men are much stronger. Excuse the comparison here: You can let the kitty go at the dog and not worry about the dog getting hurt. If doggo seriously goes after kitty you have to step in. Now if either one picks up a 2X4, that's wrong either way. I am not condoning violence at all. I've seen a woman hit a man and it bounces right off, then a man returns the blow with just as much effort and she falls, bangs her head, and is knocked unconscious! OK Pandas, fell free to eat me alive!
Valley girl, I totally agree with you. It's similar to saying that if a child hits an adult the adult has the right to hit back. Not comparing women to children OF COURSE. Just saying there is a difference in strength that must be taken into consideration. The kitty/dog example is on point.
Load More Replies...My husband and I were talking about this the other day. I told him I hate when I hear a woman hit a man and then played the victim when he hit back. If I hit a man, I would expect to get hit back. I would expect him to defend himself just like I would defend myself against man or woman.
The headline says "What Is The Most Sexist, Racist, Or Homophobic Thing You’ve Seen Recently?", yet this seems more like a general statement.
I taught my boys to never hit a female. But if one gets in their face and proceeds to hit him first, well then, it's their choice to hit or not. Men do get abused, too.
A psycho neighbor one time attacked me in front of a witness, I threw her on the ground, called the police. The police made a report and told me they already knew her and to go right away file for an emergency restraining order that was granted. As she was my neighbor, she had to move! So the system doesn't always side with women
I will go first.I found out that Instagram thinks my mum is a boy BECAUSE SHE FOLLOWS WEIGHT LIFTERS!
In our country people "protest" against LGBTQ because they're "destroying the fabric of our society."
if lgbtq people took over the world it would be pretty fabulous...
No...because LGBTQ people are perfectly valid, but so are Non-LGBTQ.
Load More Replies..."theYre dEstRoYIng tHe fABriC oF oUR 'sOciEty'" wildest bullshït I've ever heard
I'm a female chef. I've been harassed a lot in male-dominated kitchens.
In a place with knives? I applaud the sexist pigs courage, 1/5 stars. 1 star for courage, -4 stars for being a sexist pig
i just want to say it takes a special level of stupidity to harass a chef. In a kitchen. Which is a very dangerous working environment where accidents are very common. Where said chef has access to all sorts of sharp & pointy objects and hot liquids.
and yet most boys are made fun of who like to cook. How messed up is that??
Some people have the guts to say "mEn aRE bETteR ChEfs, aLL tHe BeSt cHEfs aRe MeN". Really, buddy, how many restaurant have you been to? And did you personally check the chef's gender?
What about our mothers? Grandmothers? They’re truly the best chefs
Load More Replies...My sister reunited with 7 girls at her school that have been sexually harassed by a teacher to report him. He got fired, but later one of the girls stepped back and denied everything she told to the staff (probably family influence), my father thought it was my sister’s fault for being too “nosy” and that she should have told only her part, threatened to take her out of school. Principal told to sister that “it was not a big deal”, sure, he didn’t rape one of them...yet. This is the problem, not yet.
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Yeah if you say any word on here quora immediately censors it like d**k or f**k or go crap yourself tophat
Principal told their sister that it wasn't such a big deal in regards to how nosy she had been. Not yet "too nosy", at least.
Principal told their sister that the problem was that it wasn't a big deal that one of them was not yet raped.
Principal told their sister that it wasn't a big enough deal to be threatened with removal from school, at least not yet it wasn't.
Enough context here for knowing what happened I very much doubt. it's more like condensing a dictionary into a pamplet, so would that be a perhaps-not-yet for one of the girls but not "NOT not yet" for the other six? Every commenting panda here has their OWN interpretation of whatever did or didn't reportedly get reported... yet. According to unreliable source report. This is the problem, unclear.
The constant "not all men" when misogyny etc is discussed. And using blatant misandry to try to "make right" said misogyny is also just so wrong. These two points end up being all that is discussed, and so we all get nowhere, while the resentment builds
People want to fight a cause to give their lives meaning, and so there's no room for dissenting viewpoints. Internet forums where people only ever hear their own viewpoint make people so polarised.
I say, we should just treat each other equally. Give women the power that men have, and vice versa.
women need to understand that while they are the number one baby killers in the world, they don't have the right to bang on about men. Not all women kill their kids I hear you cry out. Just like not all men rape, but when we point out that we're not like that, we're made out to be even worse? eat a bag
You have the strange aura of someone who didn't get the message, but sometimes you need some will to understand. Saying "not all men" is not wrong per se, except that men who say this are often people who just want to underestimate the problems many women face. Is misandry bad and wrong? Objectively yes. But from a certain perspective, it's more understandable a woman who fears/hate men after being directly hurt or traumatized from them than men who hate women for saying "no" or refusing sex. This was not about "pseudo-pro-life" propaganda where women are considered "baby-killer" and the B in baby stands for "Bro who's not really that alive yet". I am gonna ask something cool now: how about taking care of the living? Like the children you can see running, laughing, crying? You know... Something OUT of a pregnant woman?
Load More Replies...this kid i was friends with found out i was gay and then blocked me... 😀
Stupid friend. I am Christian, my best friend is Bi. When she told me I was shocked but we still get along and are friends to this day :D
I told my best friend that I was by and she helped me figure out how to get my crush to like me no she said that when we both grow up (because both of our parents are homophobic) she would buy a bi flag and tape pictures of us to it give it to me during pride month
Load More Replies...ugh. i'm lucky in that my closest friend at school thinks i'm going to hell for being jewish and gay, but she still thinks i'm a good person. i can tolerate you if you think i'm going to hell, i can't tolerate you if you think i'm going to hell and you constantly tell me.
I don't really know any gay people very well, but if I did, I would love them just as do my straight friends.
It’s their loss, not yours. I’m sure you’re a great person and the bitch doesn’t deserve a friend like you.
My best friend's husband who still says "That's Gay" to anything he deems "not manly". trash.
Driving the pickup truck you made sound like gunfire when it starts, and nuclear explosives when it’s running, 20’ extra suspension, likely more, to Cracker Barrel.
Load More Replies...Hold on a minute...there are things that even gay people call gay or do gay people have the monopoly on what is allowed to be called gay?
I grew up in the 80's and 90s and as a working class kids, we all used this to mean something was lame or boring or whatever, it wasn't a homophobic thing but of course it goes hand in hand with that, I stopped saying it a few years ago, I just say something is s**t or wank now.
I used to call anything I didnt like gay because I grew up in the 90s. I've replaced gay with lame tho. This dude is super lame.
Oof I hate hate HATE this phrase. The only good thing about my family trauma is I have been able to witness people's faces fall and them have no response to justify their use of said phrase when I explain that it IS a big deal and my uncle and his partner were murdered in their sleep just for being gay. I think Gary would be ok with me using him as ammo in said situations.
me and my megaqueer friends often call the known homophobes gay. not to their faces tho, the worst guy in question could beat us up.
Seeing all the racism against Asians has been very disheartening. I am Chinese-American. Supposedly the racism is suddenly fueld by the pandemic, but just because it was discovered in China does not mean you can just point a finger at all of us and release all of your anger on us.
Yeah, that sucks and I'm sorry. I don't understand blaming every Asian person for the virus. They didn't create it and they didn't intentionally spread it... It just happened and it was nobody's fault. It breaks my heart to see people being verbally and physically attacked for something they had nothing to do with. It's not fair and I can't speak for everyone, but I am truly sorry for how y'all are being treated. It's just not right.
You've done well in addressing the issue, mate. Keep up the good work. :-)
Load More Replies...The US has a horrible histsory of racism. During the potato famine it was "Irish Need not Apply" When the railroads were being built Chinese workers who built them were paid a lot less. For hundreds of years Afticans were enslaved here and that bigotry still exists today. Japenese were kept in prison camps during WW II. So this is nothing new.
Racism exists all over the world. America does indeed have a history of Racism. However, today, we're not too much worse than other countries.
Load More Replies...I’m Chinese and I agree! One time at school someone pointed at me and shouted CORONA!
It's so gut wrenching to think about the level of fear, anxiety, and anguish that Asian people (and people of color) are living through right now . I can only assume that it takes a wealth of courage to be summoned from deep within oneself to be able to carry on with their lives while trying to perform their duties at work and home and travel to and from. I wish you strength, courage, patience, and safety.
People are just stupid. Spanish flu killed more people a hundred years ago and came from the US...
I work in commission based customer service. One of my coworkers is from the Dominican Republic. She speaks very good English but still has a bit of an accent and not by any means difficult to understand. She started to help a customer and after 15 or so minutes they decided they didn't want to work with her any more because of her accent and just kind of left her hanging and came to talk to me. I don't play that so I kept referring them back to her as friendly as possible but inside I was fuming. Super disrespectful
I am partially deaf, you want to try listening to someone who's English is their 2nd language, but if you say anything you are racist. So it is OK to be ignorant to deaf people but coloured? you die!!
I have a sensory processing disorder which makes even very mild accents difficult, so I understand where you are coming from, but it is very simple to say 'I am deaf/have a sensory processing disorder, is there someone else I can talk to?'
Load More Replies...I appreciate where you're coming from, but alas they were not. Perfectly capable mid-late 40s couple
Load More Replies...What about ableism? My sister said it was stupid to mandate masks because we're "just protecting the weak". She has rheumatoid arthritis. SMH
What a hypocrite. Sniff some anthrax and see how strong you are. Many "weak" people who died worth more and achieved more in their life than you ever will, sister.
Survival of the fittest has its nuances. The fittest applies to various disciplines. For example, in a basketball quintet, you need to have players excelling in different aspects of the game. The biggest guy is not always the most important player.
My nan is 92 years old, yes I want her to be safe you piece of turd.
Idiot. Eat a bag of d***s. Maybe try educating yourself
Load More Replies...It wasn’t a sex, racist, or homophobic thing. But my boss had a fellow Christian friend working for him. I’m an atheist. I presented facts upon facts of dishonesty and poor work performance that was always disregarded. Recently found out the boss believed the Christian by his word, because he is a man of god. The boss didn’t think an atheist has morals, hence, I am the liar, even though I had reports of proof. Now, I am cleaning up months of work that didn’t get done.
I'm truly sorry that happened to you. A person that does wrong is wrong, no matter their religion. Almost all people have morals including other religions. I, a Christian, apologize for your experience. Not all of us are that bad, I promise <3
I respect people's beliefs and have a best friend who is very faithful to Christian religion. I know there are good people, but it is the person. Religion doesn't make a person good or evil. And time and time again, where I live, it is the Christians that do the most damage and are the biggest hypocrites. I raised my boys to be open to religion, told them I would help with whatever road they wanted to follow. I have the most compassionate, open minded, loving boys. And I didn't ever teach them that they will go to hell if they don't accept Jesus as their savior. They are not hateful or judgmental. My father is a devout Christian too, had numerous affairs. My neighbor is one too, a youth pastor, hates me and taught her kids to "shame" me because I am pro-choice. I could go on.
Load More Replies...Does anyone know that the moral of the “Good Samaritan” story is literally “non-Christians can be good honest people too?”
Depending on size of company and the boss wasn’t HR/ owner as well I would take this higher as a case of discrimination.
It is a state agency. Nothing will ever happen.
Load More Replies...Speaking as a Christian, I am so sorry that this happened to you. Not all of us treat non Christians like that. I don't care what you believe as long as you are a good person.
People who identify themselves as Christian often the most bigoted and homophic a*sholes around
Funny, I have that experience of atheists myself. I have met some very hateful, judgemental atheists that always try to convert me to their atheistic religion.
Load More Replies...The Bible is full of unethical and immoral teachings, so anyone who believes it word for word is just as bad. Most of the people that day they are Christian don't really believe in any of it, they just go alone with everyone else.
havent had a contract renewed because I "argued" with jeowas' witnessess (they started first trying to catechize me and I answered showing them the truth...)
Religious people believe that all morals were invented by God, thus, if you aren't a believer, you cannot be a good person. Also, any believer automatically has the authority of God on their side unlike the atheist.
I don't believe in god and I haven't killed everyone in my life, so therefore your argument is invalid
Load More Replies...Do something more about it. Christianism is just as bad as Islamism is. It's ... well ... we all live in the same reality, which allows to prove certain things, and other things, so far, are neither proven nor disproven. Of course this doesn't result in them having the same chance of being true, but no matter that, it remains unresolved and therefore, in our life, using the information we have access to and leaving other things aside is likely to serve any of us pretty well. Also - this is discrimination against you for your beliefs. Try that at work in germany, and you might need a new ... work. I think this isn't that rare anymore, but atheists in some countries have to face severe disadvantage. You're in the US, right...?
Not recent but about 5 years ago. I was working as a department lead at a sports store speaking with my African American female coworker about where to put freight. And older white man walks up to us both. Coworker greets the gentleman and asks how she can help. He proceeds to disregard her and asks me for help with something. Without hesitation I advise him that she will help him and walk away. Knowing my coworker she's a strong-willed woman and can handle herself otherwise I wouldn't have left her like that 😅
2020-2021 have been horrible years. So many hate crimes. So much death. ):
You should have seen the last few thousand years. Hate and violence had a beginning, but no end, not yet. My pessimist side is starting to think that it's embedded in our nature.
It is embedded in our nature, but that doesn't mean we can't fix it.
Load More Replies...really this whole decade has sucked. all the hate crimes, all the xenophobia, all the shootings...
Just a few days ago, I was returning home from a job interview and I saw a bumper sticker on another person’s car that had a photo of a truck running over stick figures and it said “All Lives Splatter. I don’t care about your protest.” To the person whose car that was on... do better.
You can print stickers yourself, no company needed.
Load More Replies...Well maybe those stickers wouldn't exist if they kept their protest peaceful and didnt try attacking innocent people trying to get to work. If you act like a fool, expect to be treated like one. And that's for everyone, not just BLM protesters or protesters in general. Just don't be a d**k, it's that simple. You gotta look at both sides. That's where most ppl fail. They see their side and dont care about anything else.
I once saw this stupid truck which had stickers that said “White Trucks Matter”. Like wtf. I really hate that one of the neighborhoods that I live is verrrry pro Trump and anti Lgbtq and stuff.
Just look at the new laws they're passing in states like Florida that to my understanding are that it's no longer illegal to hit protesters with your vehicles. I don't know all the fine print but it's been in the news a lot.
The best is a monster truck and the caption "run you stick bastards!"
This one isn't necessarily recent but a while back there was this kid in my class named cole, who stared forward into space a lot during class. Because a male kid sat in front of him, of course he was labeled as gay. I don't know if he was or not, the larger issue is that it meant no one would sit by him, everyone made fun of him, and they would freak out whenever he was remotely near. The thing that INFURIATES ME is that one of the kids who was bullying him HAD TWO MOMS and all of her friends were too. I have two moms as well, and ended up being LITERALLY THE ONLY KID WHO STOOD UP FOR COLE.
You being your awesome self is making a difference. Thank you for being kind.
thanks! it didn't seem like a big thing to me. I didn't really expect compliments on my end just disses on the jerks so wow thanks
Load More Replies...no all her friends were bullying him too, sorry for the bad writing
Load More Replies...Some kids at my school were so bored and stupid they held a “Anti gay protest” at the gate
I’m not lgbtq but I would f*****g smack them into next week. People are people. Love is love. I honestly don’t get what there is to protest. Smh.
It's the fact that they are protesting against LGBTQ+ people. Protesting isn't stupid, but protesting about that is. Sure, they can protest if they want, but when it's about that and when it's really upsetting people (like me and my friends) that's when it's stupid and not ok.
Load More Replies...I'm a girl, and some people think that it is weird that I like the color red. I know that people think that girls should like pink, but pink is a lighter shade of red, so they don't know what they are talking about.
The reason why I like the color is because my family said that I looked good in it, and it's just a darker shade of pink (my previous favorite color) so there is not much of a difference.
Colours are colours; they don’t have genders. Everyone should be able to like and dislike any colours they please. (On a side note pink is a tint of red. When white or another light colour is added to a hue to lighten it, it’s called a tint. When black or another dark colour is added to a hue to darken it, that’s a shade.)
Ancient greeks apparently had no word for blue. They called it a kind of green I think... anyway, because they did not have a word for it, they did not see it as different. This was the same with pink and red in modern society. Before we called it pink, it was just a light red and people saw it as just red. But after there was a word for it, no one sees it as a kind of red anymore.
I'm a guy and my favourite colours are purple and neon pink. People think it's weird for a guy to like them. Screw them, I say. I like what I like.
Actually, some (hundred probably) years ago pink was the male’s color and blue was the female’s color, pink because “it represented strength”
Load More Replies...Whoever thinks that girls can't love any other color but pink are stupid. My sister's favorite color is red, my mom's is purple, and mine is blue.
My favorite color is purple. You should be able to like what you like. Btw, over a hundred yrs ago, pink was the boys color and blue was for girls.
i think ive shared this story before but last summer i was camping with my family and i walked past this family of 4 (mom, dad, 2 kids) having a fire and BURNING the pride flag with the oldest kid crying
That's horrible. I'm steaming right now. I just- I have no words for this.
I know right? i think the oldest came out as to her parents as LGBTQ+. im not sure tbh
Load More Replies...IK. i think the oldest kid came out to her parents as LGBTQ+
Load More Replies...Those parents won't seeing anymore of their children as soon as they move out, what pieces of absolute s**t.
These parents are awful people and are setting themselves up to lose their daughter.
... hopefully, the oldest kid isn't too far from being able to leave those toxic assholes. Damned, what even is it any of their business? What impression will it leave on the kid? The lesson to learn here is that parental love is not unconditioned. I'd be ashamed to treat a stranger like that ... but that's their kid, their flesh'n'blood and all ... why are people ... so?
Some time ago I got a job. The fist day a man told me: "Do your husband allows you to work?" I said I am not marry. I didn't got offended, but is curious some people still think woman have to get permission from a man to do do this kind of things.
This should be higher up. I rarely hear someone being this anachronistic. I would've said that "Actually, my husband beat me every day until I agreed to work and earn the money for my upkeep."
Not quite as dramatic, but my husband and I rented a truck once to move. We grabbed some drive thru for lunch and by the time we'd gotten to the truck rental place, I was done eating but the hubs wasn't so I went inside to sign for a pick up the truck. Dude looked at me, looked out the window at my husband, and was like, "He made you come in here to do this?" Uh... no. It's something literally any competent adult can do. Why on earth would I need a d*ck to rent a truck??
Women don't need a man's permission to do anything and they can do anything as good as a man. Except pee standing up.
Before my business took off I worked other jobs too bc it wasn't making enough money yet. The ceo of the place I worked literally told me I should give up my job for someone that wasn't married. I was the frigging breadwinner not my husband but I didn't engage bc people like that have one mindset I just quit before they fired me.
One of my fellow biker chicks broke down while on her bike. The recovery driver comes to pick up the bike and asks "so what does your husband think about you riding bikes?" she looks him dead in the eye and says "well my wife thinks it's wonderful". He didn't speak again for the rest of the journey
Please, please, please check your grammar! That was painful to read!!!
Hey, this isn't right! I am a stickler for grammar but this comment was rude and your reply was ruder.
Load More Replies...All lives matter. All lives don't matter until black ons do
people don't seem to get that black lives matter doesn't mean that only black lives matter, it means "WE CAN"T BELIEVE THAT WE STILL HAVE TO SAY THIS, BUT BLACK LIVES MATTER TOO. SOME PEOPLE SEEM TO FORGET."
ALM has a bit of an Animal Farm-esque "all creatures are created equal, but some are more equal than others" vibe to it...
They know and understand what it is because they R not dumb, deaf nor blind...they see it happening in front of them everyday...they just don't want to admit that it's a problem...if they admit it then their privileges will be taken away...they don't want equality
That understand and know what Black Lives Matter mean... acknowledging it means that they acknowledge and accept that there is a problem
What??? That is the most racist thing ever! Stop bringing race into everything!!!
One of my friends who goes to a different school was telling me about how at their school, a group if LGBTQ+ students had mud thrown at them by cis-het students. I'd like to say this wouldn't be tolerated at my school, but a student recently got away with making some homophobic, biphobic and Islamophobic comments.
at my school, the administration is great, but they can't really stop all the kids. Most people are just casually offensive, saying rascist things and calling things gay in ordinary conversation. it happens so much you can't stop it. Of course, the truly awful people are the ones best at hiding their terribleness from the teachers.
As a bi guy, i understand completely why people are biphobic. It’s simple. They’re jealous that I have a bigger chance of finding a date. But I suppose that’s not a high bar, because I can’t imagine anyone dating a biphobe.
Yesterday my 'aunt in law' came to our home (unanounced and bringing her aggressive dog but thats a different issue). she was talking to my partner about housing and said 'there, you know, where the black people live'. WTF?
As someone that is British that doesn't sound inherently racists, but here you wouldn't really say something like that, and if you did it wouldn't be a slur.
Context, please? "Where the black people live" can be a nice location, and one may think she likes them, so full context, please. Unless she said N-word +ghetto, of course.
Given the context of the topic, I think the context of the post is self-explanatory.
Load More Replies...Boris Johnson.
let's not forget Hannity and Carlson. Every night on their show is a case in point of all this
Being British I do object to this. Johnson has shown no racism that I have heard of
I was on a queer community website just minding my business. Some kid claims their bi and that means they love all genders. Me, a pansexual, tried to explain that bi is attraction to men and women, and that there are more than two genders, but they refused to listen and said I was making stuff up. I am SICK of people telling me that I am not valid, when it’s clear they know nothing about it.
you are definitely valid, a thousand times yes comrade, but I'm sorry, you don't get to choose people's labels for them.
You’re right. I should be sorry.
Load More Replies...As a fellow pansexual and a nonbinary person, I can say that you are very valid and that there really are more than two genders.
And the education system and parents before that have got some serious work to do
Hey, before you comment, I just want to say that I didn’t know I got bisexuality wrong. I am very sorry.
So at my school the boy’s dress code is very far different from the girl’s dress code, I understand that most every school has that but our school tends to sexualize shoulders and be like well shoulders can turn someone on. Like what?
Yeah I get it. At my school we can't wear things shorter than three inches above the knee. I don't think knees turn people on or anything. "Wow, look at those gorgeous knees."
I'm a child advocate for sexual abuse and harassment in high schools. Dress codes that aren't equal or sexualize children are illegal but you wouldn't know it. I work w so many children that are sexually harassed by their teachers and other students that idk if I'm strong enough to continue. It's gotten way worse after trump was in office and even w zoom classes I'm still fielding these calls. It's really getting to me but I feel so guilty when I think about quitting.
You would not BELIEVE the amount of jokes in theatre about "shoulder porn" (to make fun of the rule), it happens just as much as jokes about ankles
aren't these the same schools in America that said they can't dictate what children wear to school when parents asked why masks aren't mandatory at schools to prevent Covid?
If a boy can't handle himself around girls in certain clothing, it's not the clothing that's the problem. Also, I haven't ever met a guy who even notices these kinds of things, no one cares about girls' shoulders!
My school does not allow ripped jeans or anything like that. A lot of my friends have been sent home because they were showing the strap of their bra or tank top accidently
Same here we get dress coded if our shorts are an inch below the knee
Load More Replies...I've never attended a school that would have a dress code and I can't even imagine someone dictating me what I can or can't wear
In my HaSS class, there are a group of boys who sit at the table next to me and my friends, I have heard them multiple times make trans- or homophobic jokes. This really sucks because there are multiple posters about trans- and homophobia around the classroom, pride memorabilia, and a literal gay person sitting next to them, but they just don't care, and continue to be rude and disrespectful. :(
One of the best responses to such jokes is to act genuine and interested, but like you just don't get it and ask the person to explain it to you. Repeat. Act like you just don't see the punchline. They get frustrated, then embarrassed. Could take a while, and over different times, but I'd bet it will start to get them to chill on the jokes just to skip the process after. Makes them really think about it, too.
Overall media - Sexism and racism everywhere. Aimed towards all directions, being it white against black or vice versa or "fighting" against misogyny with misandry. Crazy stuff from and towards all sides on social media, books, games and movies.
The media is pushing racism. I see reversed racism all the time, yet that is NEVER called out. Totally over it! We're all the same on the inside, stop seeing people for the color of their skin and start seeing them for WHO they are!
Well said. But reverse racism doesn’t exist. Racism is racism.
Load More Replies...I heard someone refer to xhosa people as 'oxygen stealers'.
I have no idea what a xhosa people is but they deserve oxygen just like anyone else.
Oh yeah, after a girl at my school found out I’m transgender (I identify as a boy) she started calling me she-girl. How fun.
I feel bad for you. Like really bad. To make you feel better, Look at this photogenic sloth :) Screenshot...62548b.png
Thank you for the photogenic baby sloth.
Load More Replies...That suggests that girl had some serious insecurities about gender. Makes you wonder, doesn't it?
In management at a ‘man’s’ store. Had a guy come up to me in appliances wanting to purchase a dryer or something from the scratch and dent section. First he called me ‘girl’...I’m a 46 year old woman thank you! Then he tells me he wants to ‘Jew down the price’. Ummmm, excuse me, what did you say? ‘I want to Jew down this price’. So I responded that our company does not combine religion and business with my sweetest smile. He’s getting irritated now because he thinks I’m daft, wants to talk to the guy that’s usually here. Okie dokie. I go off to retrieve Tim. Told him what was going on and we return together. Guy turns to Tim repeats himself. What proceeds to happen is that every-time he asked about an appliance we state the sticker price. Every time he said something racist (Tim in no nonsense Africa American dude by the way) we up the price. He gets so mad he demanded to speak to a manager. “Sure! I’ll be right back.” I then walk around the aisle and return to a introduce myself and ask how I can help him. He’s so flustered looking back and forth between us. Throws up his arms with a string of profanity and left. Don’t be disrespectful to sales associates. We have more power than you realize and we’ve already dealt with far too many jerks.
As a former manager in the retail world, I found a small slice of enjoyment when I got to shut down a rude customer for being blatantly rude to a member of my staff.
newsbreak articles. they are very racist. disgusting. I deleted the app.
Lol Robert shut up have u ever had a comment that wasn’t heavily downvoted
So? Are we only supposed to see what we agree with?
Load More Replies...One of my classmates came out as trans... nobody was bothered by it, but after school, one of the students told her "You're not a girl because you were born as a guy" and she couldn't get in trouble with the school because she wasn't on school property.
kid should have broken her jaw. Can't get in trouble, not on school property after all
I’m AFAB and fluid, but people only call me “her” it fricking sucks.
It's interesting that you say it sucks being only referred to as her. Would you prefer to be referred using neutral pronouns, or also male ones? I knew someone at a gym I used to go to that was fluid and naturally had different pronouns depending situation. In with the guys in the gym they used male pronouns, otherwise female.
Load More Replies...That sounds like a the observation of a child, and a good start to a conversation on gender identity.
I'm glad I'm at the point in my life where I laugh at a statement like that when it comes my way, but I know that many of us aren't there yet. To anyone else who gets such ignorance hurled your way, don't forget that they're speaking as a child would, with no understanding of how things actually work.
Boris Johnson and Donald Trump
As a 13yr old wolf (from drinking water that Elmo gave me), I don't know who Boris Johnson is. Who is that person?
2 totally different people, hated because they both have some similarities. It is NOT Johnsons fault that we have the pandemic or Trumps
Some guys at my school recently made a tictok saying what girls look good in: dress-no, athletic clothes-no, bathing suit- no... etc and then it said the kitchen and that of course was the answer. I mean it’s just boys being boys and really not a massive deal, it’s just that we go to a Christian school and that is still very rude. :(
I agree. I'm sorry I should not have justified their actions like that. And of course meant no offense to the well mannered boys.
Load More Replies...I just want to apologize for saying "it's just boys being boys". I guess I was trying to come off as chill and stuff, to look good, but I now realize that was very uncalled for me to say. Boys being boys is of course not an excuse or justification for their behavior (thank you so much to those of you who pointed that out to me). And also sorry to any boy who is well mannered or respectful. Thank you for reading this, have a good day.
Well, lots of girls look good in Bathing Suits and Athetic Clothing... And not all girls look good in dresses...
I agree. That isn't an excuse. I'm sorry I should not have justified their actions like that. And of course meant no offense to the well mannered boys.
Load More Replies...40 year old guy named Charles to my 14 year old daughter “you have a nice body.” Umm, gross.
My father was pride because my sister broke up with her mouslim boyfriend. He said she was waisting her life with him. She's only 22 and just wants to enjoy life and be happy, so she hooked back up with her boyfriend and they are still happy.
*mouslim=muslim (sorry, I hate to be that spell checker, I'm sure it was just a typo :) I just think it is important to clarify the spelling because there are people out there that are already pretty uneducated about Islam and being Muslim, and that's just sad :( ) x
Load More Replies...*wasting. Also, isn't forbidden for muslims to have relations outside marriage?
Nope. Only super religious muslims. Many muslims date plenty, and don't have arranged marriages - it depends on the person :)
Load More Replies...So I'm doing my GCSE and my mom had guests around so while I was revising my mom made me go and clean the kitchen, the conservatory, and garden. I had two exams the next day. My brother was upstairs on the bed playing on his phone, he has no exams this week.
Yeah, this sounds familiar. It won't stop here, he is obviously her favorite...sorry
My wife's mother tells her that my income is to support the family, but my wife's is to "play with" and that if we use any of the money she earns to pay household expenses that I am not living up to my obligation as a husband. Thankfully, my wife considers this BS.
In the 21st century, cost of living so high, it just is not possible or maybe people have too high costly living requirements these days.
In my baseball league, there's one girl. I feel bad because the rest of the teams pick on her for, well, being a girl in an all boy league. I hope she line drives it into one of their faces next time she's at bat.
How about you stand up for her and be her friend??? Show the boys they can be friends with girls too!
today i came out to the class as pansexual and my teachers & freinds supported me but we got new students and one girl said "ew,nasty" annd other things about how i shouldnt be "gay' and other stuff and i have glossophobia and anxiety so this made it worse she got expelled and my principal is lesbian dating the vice principal some of my teachers are apart of lbgtq+ and she got what she deserved!
She shouldn't of gotten expelled for this. Sounds like your school had issues. The principal and vice principal should not be dating, this should be brought up with the superintendent.
ok 1 my school is just fine 2 let them be 3 wtf is that and 4 she got what she deserved
Load More Replies...My high school history teacher chose to refer to slaves as n***ers. I went to the principal about it and he said “he was just letting you know what they were called”. To make it better, I’m a woman of mixed decent, he’s met my very black dad at parent teacher conferences. He is still employed at my old high school.
He was still doing it 4 years later when my brother had his class.
Load More Replies...Sexist: A boy in my class was talking about how the men burning women for being smart and stealing there ideas were smart, and said it proved men were smarter. Racist: The same boy as above (who is white) was defending the fact slave owners got reparation and not slaves and said it made sense. Homophobic: I am a closeted lesbian, and I am trying to get my parents opinions on gays to see if it's safe to come out. I managed to bring it up by talking to my dad about his sister (who is also a lesbian). We are Christian, so I asked him why God would make being gay a sin (I don't think it is but they do) if being gay wasn't a choice. He said maybe it is a choice and they want us to think it isn't, which is probably the stupidest thing he's ever said, and he's said some stupid stuff.
Hey, parents should love and care for you no matter what. If they don't, well, MOTHER FRIDGE-ING HUBBARD.
You deserve to be loved fully as you are. It will get better as you become more able to surround yourself with people who recognize that.
my relative gave us a bag of clothes her granddaughter grew out of. and EVERYTHING is pink
So what? My son wore pink until he was 4. He liked it and I did not have to buy any new stuff. Get over yourself. (But I am fed up about all girl things being pink, so if you meant that, I'm sorry. Still, you got the stuff for free. Maybe color it purple or something)
We got girl clothes. I have nothing against pink clothes, but just hot pink that will murder your eyes looks bad.
Load More Replies...I hate pink. So much. Which is ironic because my most comfortable outfit is like 80% pink
They buy only pink and princess clothes for their seven year old girl. That's kinda sexist imo
Load More Replies...I hated pink for years up till a few months ago. I only like the soft and pastel shades tho
i'm a girl and for my entire childhood up to until i was 11 i HATED pink, mostly because pink was associated with girls and i wanted to help break gender roles, now i actually like pink but only pastel shades of it.
I let my cousin borrow one of my favorite books. He comes back later and says "I really like (character's name). It's too bad they're a trash f*g." still mad.
Fox News.
Heaven help you if you actually listen to other perspectives.... The lies and distortioins of CNN are mind blowing!
Caitlin Jenner's ignorance about the trans community at large, and her tendency to side with the GOP rather than defend the community.
Caitlin Jenner is horrendous, she was woman of the year on some magazine cover, ridiculous.
Maybe Caitlin puts knowledge above group-think? She was an outstanding, olympic level, athlete. It is safe to say that she most likely knows a whole lot more about the topic than most! She actually has earned a great deal of respect from people who truly want fairness for everone...
I’m what most would consider a boyish lesbian. I don’t consider myself trans. I’m just a masculine female. I was in a local chain store and three men pass by me. One suddenly bumps me hard with his shoulder and I heard him say “she wants to be a man so I’ll treat her like one” which couldn’t be further from the truth. I love being a woman. Some people judge based on appearance. There’s so much more to me than just my sexuality. Just be kind folks.
When I was younger, my dad said if I ever dated a N-word, S-word or a C-word he would disown me
Again, these things cut off my answers! So we were white, Upper Middle class, and lived in a town of about 7,000 ppl. Two of my friends started dating really nice, hardworking, super smart guys-it just so happened to be that the girls were white cheerleaders, the guys were black football players. Both guys got full rides to colleges (one to Stanford for academics, the other to the freaking Air Force Academy-a school with one of the hardest admission requirements in the USA), yet my father could only focus on the fact that they were dating white girls. He tried to force me not to be friends with them anymore because they were "N-word Lovers", called it disgusting etc. We had an argument to end all arguments and I moved out 2 weeks later. Haven't seen or heard from him in years now.... except to hear that my mom FINALLY divorced his psycho ass. We're so much happier without him in our lives, but it's a bittersweet, hollow feeling, seeing good dads and knowing I never had that nor will I ever have it...🥺🤬🖕😣😥
My Italian grandad used to say stuff like that when I was young but as he got older he realised it was a horrible and hateful way to be and just because "you're from a different time, it was different back then" you can't change and he died a much less hateful person, which I played a part in, I was his first grandson and the first one to sit down and really call him out on it and ask him why, people of any age can change, if they refuse, simply don't talk to them anymore, cut them out.
Worked a shift with 2 male collegues at an investor fair, think shares and stock markets. Almost everybody approached them first an the grey-haired colleague was their favourite. Even if both of them were busy talking people waited for them instead of talking to me. Mind you, I am 40+ and look nothing like a hostess - but still everyone seems to have thought I was there to smile and wave. Unfortunately, my 2 colleagues weren‘t able to answer most of the questions as I am the expert (hence the reason I was there) and had to refer almost everyone to me. Then the queued up to talk to me.
Well I on more than one occasion told someone when I found out they were gay that I didn't care that they were gay I just didn't want them hitting on me. Did I think that getting hit on by a gay guy would turn me gay or something? I didn't realize I was being homophobic. This was in-between the time I was very anti gay because that's the way I was taught and now. I don't care what you are. If a gay man hit on me now I would be a little flattered but I would respectfully decline which is exactly what I would do if an attractive woman hit on me.
I'm a straight man, who doesn't really like gays, but also doesn't dislike them. They're people. Do I like it when they hit on me (not in the past 10 years tho), no. Do I make an issue? no. I just said "thanks, but I'm strictly chickly, not into the dickly" and kept on doing whatever it was I was doing
MIL said she wouldn’t order furniture from China because there would have been little yellow hands all over it.
I’m a brown girl. Someone, IN MY CLASS spat, on me in an effort to,” Wash away the brown-ness.”
The teacher saw it and just looked at us strangely and then went back to teaching.
What the- just why? That is so unnecessarily rude and not okay at all
I was at a supermarket and heard a mom tell her son “it’s Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve” 🤦🏼♀️
Oh my god I saw someone say this in a comment on a highly controversial post on Pinterest (it was three celebrity’s with I think a trans flag, a pride flag, and a bi flag saying someone about a holy trinity) and it was so obnoxious. However, someone said “don’t read so and so’s comments because you’d lose brain cells” and it made me laugh😂
hate to break it to you mama, but you need to read another book. Adam and Eve are a fairy tale
I know it is. (Hate to break it to you mama) but "Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve is usually said when someone is arguing against gay marriage. It's just referring to that.
Load More Replies...I don't believe in Adam & Eve, just as I don't believe in Father Christmas, The Easter Bunny or The Tooth Fairy.
If they were correcting the kid quoting "holy scripture" - sure (at least in the more recent English versions, nailed down in writing after centuries of chinese whispers and translations). Generally, though, the comment is used as an argument against gay marriage. Basically they attempt to validate a Christian version of sharia law.
Load More Replies...This is not recent, but when we were younger my sister got called a "greasy haired N- word. The person who called her this was supposed to be her friend.
My grandma is one of those fake Christians. She is - Racist - Sexist - Homophobic - Genderphobic - Transphobic A couple things she's done: - Refused to read a book about a transgender girl with me - Refused to have her nails done by a man - Said that my dog's collar is blue because he's a boy - Told my mom (for the 100th time) that Star Wars is for boys - Veered away from a house with a pride flag Most recently? Told me that she had tried to get a t-shirt for me but there weren't any left in pink.
Wow. I just can’t believe that people would be that racist or homophobic. It’s stupid. Btw, what was that book called? Also Star Wars is for everyone. The Mandalorian is like one of my favorite shows
I live in South Africa. It is against the law (written in our constitution) to discriminate against anyone based on their race, sexual preference or gender. You can get into serious trouble if you cross this line!
I ordered some nails that were supposed to have rose decals and little pearl necklaces on them they were so bomb and almost vantablack BUT instead I got what I can only describe as African printed nails with CHAINS ON THEM. look I might have been jumping the gun but I was pissed and popped off on those people. If it feels racist then it is right?
Ex co worker I had was super racist. He is half PR. Acted like he was colored:gangster. Looked like a white kid. Blonde and blue eyes. Spoke mangled Spanish to the other PRs there (cousins) and used the N word almost every other word in a sentence. One day I mentioned it was cold near my area an he said to me “N::::: ya don’t know how cold it gets” now I’m a white woman but I had had it with his crap using that word an I snapped. I never use it but I looked him in the eyes and said sternly “I wasn’t speaking to you and I’m not your N:::.” He just looked at me like wtf because he was never called out on using that word. He even called the boss that once. He was told to stop doing it but never did. Just hate how some people let stuff go instead of calling them out in it. The music the artists make, the people who feed into it buying it, the people listening to it an singing along and the little ones not being taught it’s a bad word stumps me. Equality mean equality. Not one side gets more or less. Treat everyone the way you want to be treated. No hate. NO RACE BUT THE HUMAN RACE. STOP HATE!!
Yes. Everyone should love and accept everyone and not be racist and homophobic
Recently on the Wattpad community, someone came on saying “No gays or trans allowed here: Straight couples only! Follow if you agree.” Needless to say, BASHED with the entire LGBTQ+ community and supporters.
Nice! Would you mind telling me where on Wattpad that is so I can go angrily comment at them?
They’ve already been kicked off the app by a huge group of my friends, don’t worry.
Load More Replies...So, the right wing stuff...I expect them to be insanely racist and they are. But the racism I see so rampant is from "woke" culture that is furthering the divide between ethnicities, cultures, classes, races, and genders. Instead of bringing us closer together, they are in fact, going the same exact thing the right does, just with a different tone. It's disheartening.
yes. pointing out how American policies are skewed against brown people in America is exactly the same as congratulating racists on storming the Captiol Building. Marching to protest a policeman mudering a man in his home is exactly the same as an off duty police officer bragging that they're gonna "shoot a n&^ger sometime soon" before they go to the wrong apartment and kill a man while he watches TV. Yeah, you're so right, these people demanding social change are just as bad as the right wingers in their Klan hoods
I think that you, and others, grouping all right-wing people into one package is "disheartening"... I am white, right-wing and have been standing up for equality all my life and long before it was a trend.... now, even when right-wing people of color disagree with various views, the left has the audacity to call them names and belittle them . The hypocrisy is glaring!!!
The conception of one ideology, one party breaks down once you get before the great depression. The southern democrats that started the KKK were relatively conservative, while there were pockets of progressivism in both parties at the time (although that was mainly a Republican thing).
Load More Replies...I got beat up by my class mates for being gender fluid also did I mention 2 ofthem were my pals
I work in the financial services industry, and I have been at my current job for eight years (and I love it) so I know a thing a or two about our products and how they work. A customer called in with a question and while I don't normally talk to customers, no one else was available so I took the call. I answered all of the customer's questions, sent all of the materials he requested and then he asked a question and he didn't like the answer that I gave him, which was a simple fact, not my opinion, he could have used Google and got the same answer (I was quoting a law), but he DEMANDED to speak to a man because "there is no way a woman could read the law like that and interpret it correctly."
Both sexist and racist. All attackers of Asian hate only attack young women or old women. It’s pathetic to prey on the innocent, and even more pathetic to prey on someone that’s not on a level to defend themselves. Pick a fight with someone your level, cowards.
my foster daughter is Chinese Australian. I've been waiting for her to tell me someone has tried to give her a hard time over her race. If she doesn't mess them up, Dad is gonna bury them
I’m a Korean teen, living in the Midsouth in a very Trump-supporting town. There hasn’t been anything in my town yet, but my parents are very concerned each time we go out, and they understand your feelings.
Load More Replies...I used to have a friend on Facebook that would post racist BS and I would constantly call him out for it. He never had a response to me, until the day he posted a meme that asked why we didn't have a 'White History Month'. I responded by asking him if he'd ever heard of every single other month of the year. He commented back with (his exact words) "I don't post these things for you to comment on, and if you love them so much why don't you go paint yourself brown." I was responding with "Well, besides the fact that that would be very insulting to people of color, I would rather be associated with them than with bigots like you." but, unfortunately, he had apparently blocked me right after he responded to my post.
I have a transgender friend (ftm) and I told my friends at school about the change. One of my friends is a very strict Christian and refuses to use the correct pronouns and repeatedly uses my friends dead name we have all called him out on this and he refuses to back down and use the right pronouns. Also I recently came out as demiomnisexual and according to him I’m going to hell. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Once, in grade 2, when Pokémon was still popular I brought my book full of EXes to school. Someone tried to steal them from me and when caught said “hi et is don’t deserve to play Pokémon” I was furious and said “you don’t deserve to have a life”
Being expected to clean a whole house and look after other people’s children without even being asked simply because I’m a woman. My boyfriend’s mom left me alone in her house with 4 children without saying a word for 4 hours and had the audacity to complain that I didn’t even clean up after the kids and put them to bed. I was then told “cleaning and nurturing comes natural to a woman.”and “you would know that if You were a mother but as a woman you should simply know better.”
should have just asked her why her son hasn't built you a house with his bare hands then, as a mother she should have raised him better
I used to work at an Ivy League school in NH. A lot of the custodians there are sexist, racist, etc. One day a group of us were talking about Chinese food. Out of no where a guy goes “ those noodle f*****s”. This, among many other reasons is why I don’t work there anymore.
Almost any news story about politics or police abusing power has me triggered as a latina woman who like most of her life in southern US
A sexist thing I hear is it's okay for guys to have hair on legs, but if girls have hair on their legs its dsgusting.
I mean they have hair everywhere but I’m expected to shave even down there? F**k that.
Load More Replies...I called my mom last month. I don't talk to her often, but figured I would check in. She went on about the same negative crap. Then she started talking about my niece who had a baby 6 months ago. She is white, her BF is black, and the baby is a mix. She said she didn't want that 'n' baby near her. And the rest of the family has ostracized my niece and the baby and are making their lives difficult. All because the baby has 'n' blood. I pretty much disowned my family years ago because of racism, misogyny, and sexism. They don't talk to me now except my mom when I call her.
That is absolutely horrible. I don't understand racism, like, what is wrong with people with darker skin? I don't understand what's so weird about it?
Load More Replies...Most of these posts are general b****ing about the state of the world, but honestly this post just seemed to be a lazy way to get people upset and posting.
Not recently (in fact it was 2019 still) I've heard the most racist thing you could say. I'm from Italy, born and raised, and this racist ass (who worked as an ambulance driver/rescuer) said to his two year old daughter:"do not play with that monkey". He was talking about another child whose only sin in his eyes was that he was black. I had never been more disgusted by this "human" who is still instilling her daughter with this kind of hate and racism. Italy is still 50-60 years back on topics like racism unfortunately because of people like these that influence their heirs this way. Not all of them are like these, but the majority are unfortunately... Just because one is different for ideologies, culture, faith, or body it does not give the others any right to treat that person any different than it should be. As a human.
I don't know if this is sexist but at my school, the girls have to buy these leggings from the school that are a specific color and cost like 20$ where the boys can go to old navy and get their pants for 5$. We have to buy skirts from the school that is like 30$ where we can buy the same ones off of amazon for 10$. yeah there using girls for profit ON TOP of our 14K admission fee. We have also been getting budget cuts. WHY
few years ago I went to ER with severe pain in upper abdomen... I suspected gallbladder problems since my mom had it at my age and this kind of s**t usually runs in the family... the doctor on duty, 60+ year old male, apparently expected quite night and I disrupted his plans... he almost didn't even look at me and his first question was when was my last period... when I said it had been three, almost four weeks ago, it was decided - I was just some hysteric woman who can't even recognize menstrual pains from upcoming period... anything I said after that didn't matter, he literally wasn't listening, didn't care the pain is in completely different location and I know where my uterus is after almost 20 years of periods... he's the doctor (and man), he knows better... of course it was the gallbladder...
The most homophobic (or transphobic?) thing i have seen recently was my friend told me that genderqueer people bug her because they would never be anything more than their birth sex and that they should just be happy with what god wanted them to be. I told her that by her religion's logic, genderqueer people were part of god's plan, and that she shouldn't interfere because he had it all planned out. she did not like that.
My family neglects me. Everything is my fault in their world.
Load More Replies...ok, BP doesnt ever let me add submissions so I'll put it here: when my ex-gf and I were still together people at our school were very surprised we were still together. It had only been four months. The same happened to the only other known queer couple in our year. Not to the straights, not even the ones with awful, awful chemistry. Of course, my ex was neglecting me at the time, but from the outside you wouldn't notice that. Now that we're not together tho I found out my best friend, who I liked for the best part of a year last year and never really let go liked me so we're together now and it's going great <3
Yay! Good for you :) (That your going out, not the bad things)
Load More Replies...A sexist thing I hear is it's okay for guys to have hair on legs, but if girls have hair on their legs its dsgusting.
I mean they have hair everywhere but I’m expected to shave even down there? F**k that.
Load More Replies...I called my mom last month. I don't talk to her often, but figured I would check in. She went on about the same negative crap. Then she started talking about my niece who had a baby 6 months ago. She is white, her BF is black, and the baby is a mix. She said she didn't want that 'n' baby near her. And the rest of the family has ostracized my niece and the baby and are making their lives difficult. All because the baby has 'n' blood. I pretty much disowned my family years ago because of racism, misogyny, and sexism. They don't talk to me now except my mom when I call her.
That is absolutely horrible. I don't understand racism, like, what is wrong with people with darker skin? I don't understand what's so weird about it?
Load More Replies...Most of these posts are general b****ing about the state of the world, but honestly this post just seemed to be a lazy way to get people upset and posting.
Not recently (in fact it was 2019 still) I've heard the most racist thing you could say. I'm from Italy, born and raised, and this racist ass (who worked as an ambulance driver/rescuer) said to his two year old daughter:"do not play with that monkey". He was talking about another child whose only sin in his eyes was that he was black. I had never been more disgusted by this "human" who is still instilling her daughter with this kind of hate and racism. Italy is still 50-60 years back on topics like racism unfortunately because of people like these that influence their heirs this way. Not all of them are like these, but the majority are unfortunately... Just because one is different for ideologies, culture, faith, or body it does not give the others any right to treat that person any different than it should be. As a human.
I don't know if this is sexist but at my school, the girls have to buy these leggings from the school that are a specific color and cost like 20$ where the boys can go to old navy and get their pants for 5$. We have to buy skirts from the school that is like 30$ where we can buy the same ones off of amazon for 10$. yeah there using girls for profit ON TOP of our 14K admission fee. We have also been getting budget cuts. WHY
few years ago I went to ER with severe pain in upper abdomen... I suspected gallbladder problems since my mom had it at my age and this kind of s**t usually runs in the family... the doctor on duty, 60+ year old male, apparently expected quite night and I disrupted his plans... he almost didn't even look at me and his first question was when was my last period... when I said it had been three, almost four weeks ago, it was decided - I was just some hysteric woman who can't even recognize menstrual pains from upcoming period... anything I said after that didn't matter, he literally wasn't listening, didn't care the pain is in completely different location and I know where my uterus is after almost 20 years of periods... he's the doctor (and man), he knows better... of course it was the gallbladder...
The most homophobic (or transphobic?) thing i have seen recently was my friend told me that genderqueer people bug her because they would never be anything more than their birth sex and that they should just be happy with what god wanted them to be. I told her that by her religion's logic, genderqueer people were part of god's plan, and that she shouldn't interfere because he had it all planned out. she did not like that.
My family neglects me. Everything is my fault in their world.
Load More Replies...ok, BP doesnt ever let me add submissions so I'll put it here: when my ex-gf and I were still together people at our school were very surprised we were still together. It had only been four months. The same happened to the only other known queer couple in our year. Not to the straights, not even the ones with awful, awful chemistry. Of course, my ex was neglecting me at the time, but from the outside you wouldn't notice that. Now that we're not together tho I found out my best friend, who I liked for the best part of a year last year and never really let go liked me so we're together now and it's going great <3
Yay! Good for you :) (That your going out, not the bad things)
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