I'm sure at some moment in life people have thought of something they wanted to do but they never actually did it. What is one time this happened to you?

#1

I always wanted to be a vet but knew I wouldn't be able to cope seeing an animal in pain or putting one to sleep.

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Karen Violette Cubbison
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought of being a vet also. I worked for one when I was 14. The doctor invited me in to the surgery to watch him spay a cat. I thought to myself ''If this cat was awake, that would really hurt". Next thing I knew, I woke up to meet my Native American co-worker! lol Ooops!

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    #2

    I had a great idea for a plotline for a book but I just never actually started to write it

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    -logansucrose-
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no i start to plan it and spend months planning it and ironing out the plot and getting out the plotholes and designing the characters and writing their personality and finding names that actually fit the time that the book is set in and write the lore for the universe in that book and then never actually write the book itself

    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This works for some people, but I've found too much planning can be bad myself. Basic outline, one sentence for each character, basics of the world background (including technology as mines is sci-fi) then just started writing. If you plan too much ahead, you can end up writing yourself into a corner because you've already decided how things HAVE to be. I ended up with a character dying because that's the way the story went and needed, not because I planned it ahead. I actually got upset that I had no reasonable way to save him. Point was, have a general idea of how you want it to go and where you want to end up, but keep it loose and flexible so you can change things as needed.

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    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do it. I've wanted to write since I was a kid, but it was only after finishing University I realised that it wasn't actually that much writing in the scheme of things. I took the plunge last year, writing as an when I could, just finishing the last chapter of my first draft now. The thought of editing is scary, but I've got this far so YOLO.

    J. F.
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 3 different story ideas I want to write books about - but I think it would be a waste of time, no chance that anybody would ever read them

    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, don't think like that. So many artists don't like their own work, yet others find it amazing. I'm sick to the teeth of my own attempt at novel writing, but a friend finds it a compelling story and kept badgering me to finish, so I'm just finishing up my last chapter now (150k words thereabouts). Whether anyone else finds it good, we'll see. But I got the entire story out of my head and at least one person found it interesting.

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    #3

    My husband did some work in Ukraine about 5 years ago, and made some friends there. They encouraged me to come back with him on one of the trips and would provide me a driver/translator for sightseeing during the day. I declined twice because it was an inconvenient time. Now I believe I will never see Ukraine in its true glory.

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    S Mckay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One day Ukraine will actually be in its true glory. The historic buildings may not all still be standing, but the spirit of the people will rebound and thrive in time.

    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    Lewis Fisher Wells
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    war only creates more hiistory look at London or Germany

    Seadog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always wanted to visit Pripyat and Chernobyl. I actually was surprised in early '20 to find out how cheap airline tickets were and had real plans for going. Then the plandemic hit and then Putin ruined that dream for life.

    DeoManus Argentem
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally agree! I narrowly missed my chance to tour Ukraine too! Have wanted to visit for the past 10-20 years after that missed opportunity! Planned since the beginning of the pandemic to go on an extended tour around eastern Europe the first spring or summer everything is completely open/global travel is easy again. Ukraine was going to be the focus! I'm still definitely going, obviously not this year, but the heartbreak of the current situation and future is overwhelming :(

    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Putin miscalculated...He may apply The Scorched Earth Tactic,but we in the Free World will rally to-gether with the Ukranians and build a new and improved Ukraine..It will be gone with the ugly Sovjet era building blocks. As things are at the moment it could happen to anybody so staying together is staying strong...

    #4

    As you get older you realize that you regret more of the things you didn't do than the things you did. I wish I'd been a little more brave. My brother was a drug addict and it was a nightmare growing up, so I always wanted to be the 'good' kid. And so I was always trying to not get into trouble, which caused me to not take any risks. I ended up struggling a lot with pushing myself to do what I wanted, not what I thought I should do or what the most responsible thing was. I always took the safe route and while, yes, sometimes I think it was the best decision to do so, I often wish I'd spent some money to have fun instead of saving it. I wish I'd gone to that party or gone to see that concert even though I was by myself because I really wanted to. I wish I'd done something a little dangerous to have a good story. I only recently, in my forties, started feeling like I was living my life a little more and stopped caring as much if I was being responsible. I've been travelling a little bit and doing things I've never tried before. I wish I'd done it when I had more energy and could truly enjoy it.

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    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's too bad, OP, and I'm sorry that's how things were for you growing up. However, the need to experience things in the way you would have if you'd been someone else is a desire that simply cannot be fulfilled because it's a situation that can't exist ('someone else' can be a different person or a past version of yourself). Instead, try to identify what it is that would make you happy right now, in this moment. Having fun is not reserved only for the young :) I wonder; how does having more or less energy keep you from truly enjoying things?

    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because the things I'd like to do require more energy. I get tired a lot quicker now than when I was 20, lol. I'm having a lot more fun now doing things that I like to do *now*, but in terms of the topic of regrets, I wish I'd done more active and wild stuff when I was younger. I don't honestly have interest in doing some things now because I'm just older and I'm not interested in partying or getting a crazy tattoo or going bar hopping until 2am. I wish I'd had that experience when I was younger, though. As an example, i've never been to a college party. When I was in school I worked full time so if I wasn't in class I was generally working. I wish I'd taken a night off and gone to a party and gotten drunk and made out with some guy and just had a wild, fun time so I could look back now and laugh and remember fondly. Just stuff like that.

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LIFE BEGINS AT 40 !...so go for it and best of luck...

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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. I've done quite a bit. Travelling especially.

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    Hagen Radcliffe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Only in your 40’s”. Good god, you’ve got plenty of time!! Take baby steps if you’re nervous, but DO IT !

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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not nervous at all, just have some other issues that make it difficult to do a lot of things. Money, time, health...but I'm definitely doing more. I think the overall point of the post was to say I wish I'd started it earlier. Am I really the only person in their 40s who believes they had more energy when they were in their 20s? Everyone in this thread is acting like they've never heard of such a thing. LOL.

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    #5

    In nearly sixty-three years of life, there's a whole list, parked right next to my bucket list. But one thing I regret is never having gone to culinary school.

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    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It may be too late to build a career out of it, but you can attend a training, course or schooling at any age :)

    Susanne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do it now. You are not too old to enjoy good food.

    Hagen Radcliffe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. Go ahead, jump in, do it. As long as you’re healthy enough, you can still do great things.

    #6

    I wanted to hike the Appalachian Trail. Unfortunately I didn't have the financial stability to allow for an extended time of not working. Now that I'm financially stable I can't do it because of a degenerative spinal disorder that makes walking difficult.

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    Lyone Fein
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is painful on several levels.

    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry this is happening to you, OP.

    Brian Carpenter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did several legs of it but i do regret not doing it all when I was young and in top shape

    Joann Pheasant
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry. I hiked a lot of it but wasn't too impressed. Previous experience was WA Cascades, Olympics, Mt Rainer, Sawtooths etc. I was a 17 yo camp counselor. Thought the AT was boring. Sorry AT fans. But if you love the outdoors consider Yosemite. It's huge and lots of accessible things to do and see. One year went with a group of friends who had mobility issues. We had a great time. And by we I mean everyone. Trams though redwoods. Star gazing. Walks v hikes. It's amazing. Come visit.

    Brian Carpenter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm also disabled now so you definitely have my sympathies

    Hagen Radcliffe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are ways to do it without actually “hiking” it. Research it, plan it, dream about it. You can find a new way. I promise.

    #7

    Have a healthy relationship with a girl.

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    Lyone Fein
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This becomes more likely the older you get. As you learn more about being a person, about being in relationships, and about how to treat other people.

    Lainie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't be in such a hurry to grow up. I hear it's not fun at all.

    #8

    Build a holiday home for a family with a special semidetached studio for cancer patients so that they can holiday together but the patient can have a moments rest and privacy if needed. Make sure they have a lovely view, special paths easy to walk on (or wheel chair) in the garden. Lots of ill people can’t have this one holiday together with children and grandchildren because the holiday homes aren’t built for their needs. I’ve decided to try to get funding and do it anyway as I feel it’s something I need to do. Find an architect, get funding and go for it.

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That´s a lovely idea...hope you succeed ..

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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will. It's been in my head for years but I didn't have time. Now I do.

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    Susanne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a wonderful idea. I hope you manage to do it in the way you are planning

    #9

    Study abroad - I didn't go becuse of a girl, broke up 2 weeks into the semester

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    #10

    I have technically done this, but not completely. See, I am a foster child because mum's mental health was not good and my dad's skitsophrenia acted up and he was semi-abusive to my mum but not us. I have no memory of him. When I turned 14 I was finally allowed to see him because his mental health was better but because of COVID I couldn't. When restrictions were relaxed I was excited to meet him. I couldn't because he died when I was doing my prelims. I now have no memories with him. TL:DR - I was excited to see my father for the first time but he was dead.

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    HarriMissesScotland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. Death of a parent under any circumstance is never easy, but your father's death is even more tragic. Are there any family members that can tell you about the good times in his life? I know it isn't the same, but maybe it would help. If at all possible, I would suggest that you go to a support group or counseling. Being a teenager is hard enough without losing a parent in more ways than one. I wish I could reach through the screen a just hug you, and know that there are many people here who will support you. I hope that you have supportive family or friends to help you. Or, just pop on here and track me down. I will always listen.

    Tamra Stiffler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry, this sounds very painful.

    #11

    have a threesome, be an assassin, a dancer, a mom, an actress,

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    J. F.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Threesomes are overrated

    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They really are. And way too easy for one person to feel less involved.

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    Andrei Marentette
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you can bell all of those. a mom, who dances as an actress, while killing people, having a three

    Lewis Fisher Wells
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can help with everythingng but actress

    Brian Carpenter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't be a mom but the rest!?!? I'll never tell ok I've acted I've been a soldier(I blew stuff up so sorta an assassin) and man could I dance before my leg surgery. Threesome? Married one half of very young identical twins very drunk on honeymoon at their homestead mother in law knocking on door saying that ain't right!!! BWAHAHAHAHA to be young and stupid again

    Joel Strauss
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Done three out of your five. I'll leave you to guess which ones! I think I'd rather be a cat burglar than an assassin!

    #12

    I regret never getting my driver's license. Now I'm unable to drive because of my meds.

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it possible for you to take the perspective of not contributing to air pollution?

    #13

    for years i had planned that when i could i would take a trip to shikoku, japan and walk the path of the 88 temples. not take a bus but walk the path. i understood this would take around 3 months but that was okay with me. then, i was diagnosed with a degenerative bone disease and that this would impede my mobility. but, still i thought that i could do it and it would just take a little longer. as things happen, this disease has progressed faster than i anticipated. the thought of having issues overseas during this kind of trek concerned me so i thought maybe the appalachian trail. it would require a trek and take me through areas of our own history. apparently, my body has other plans as this crap is progressing faster. so far, have replaced a hip and am looking forward to replacing both knees in the next several months. [sigh..] on the positive side, at least i can return to the caribbean to scuba and attempt to get my deep dive certification. hell, at this time i would just appreicate floating in the ocean blue since water sports is the one thing that doesn't cause pain.

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    Lyone Fein
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Physical pain and degeneration is disruptive to so many of our plans. I am sorry you are going through this.

    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh, i'm doing okay. i have developed the attitude that while things like this don't necessarily make you stronger it does give you a twisted sense of humor.

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Concentrate on the things you can do...and enjoy them....the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence..

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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that is exactly what i do. in fact, i continue to do the things that i enjoy until the day comes that i can't engage in them any longer. also, i have allowed my son to give advice on how i should do things because i can be very stubborn. one of those things was my going fishing alone. he 'put his foot down' on this because he knows the places i go and was concerned i would fall and no one will be around. now, i have a 'chaperone' if and when i go. and, that's okay.

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    #14

    Spend the rest of my life with my partner. YvY

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    Caro Caro
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, that's a tough one. Hugs Basil.

    Tamra Stiffler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm very sorry you didn't get to do that, Basil. It's hard to find the fairness in life sometimes.

    #15

    I've always wanted to get a life, but I'm 23, single, and I play video games. I also am a pokemon superfan which never helps.

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    P.A.B.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go for it…whatever “it” is!!! You may feel old at 23, but before you know it, you’ll be 33, and regret wasting 10 years! You are in the prime of your life, and if I’d have known then what I know now, I would have been bolder and more open to new adventures. The first step is always the hardest, but it’s also the most rewarding! Go for what you want! I’m routing for you…good luck!!!

    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You consider 23 the prime of life? When does old age start in this timeline? I’m genuinely curious…I come from a long-lived family, so I considered my forties to be my prime.

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    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Playing videogames isn't a bad thing, it's how much time you spend doing so that will lower your chances of 'getting a life' in the first place. Hell, my life partner (19 years and counting) I met playing a shitty browser game, we still play games too much, but at least we're together for it. Pokémon... Well you can be a fan of things, nothing wrong there, you just need to learn how to separate your passion for pocket monsters from everyday interactions (the fact you recognize it could be an issue helps greatly).

    Crocodile
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know there's Pokémon cards too not just video games

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    Joann Pheasant
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're very young to give up on yourself. Go outside, start hiking, or anything athletic or outdoors. Really go after anything that you can. Don't expect or need to be great at it. Learn more. Fail. It's ok. Take up anything that connects you with others. Get outside your age group. VOLUNTEER. Talk to old people; they've lived through amazing stuff. Walk dogs st the shelter. Teach reading to kids as a volunteer. You are the only one responsible for your life. Literally no one else (except maybe family) will care. Try doing the next thing you can think of that sounds fun, or challenging, or maybe hard.

    #16

    Learning how to draw or create pictures digitally. I simply lack the natural talent, understanding of perspective and patience to do that. Also writing books, but why bother if nobody will ever read them?

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    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Assuming nobody will read your books is killing an idea based on an assumption, and assumption is the mother of all f**k-ups :) (doo itttt)

    Natalia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you really write one, I promise to read it.

    Susanne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why should nobody read them? Write one, and read it. If you like it someone else would too

    Wintermute
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've written 3 books. Only a few people have read them. Someday I may get around to publishing them, but so far the satisfaction of just doing it has been immense. That in itself is a worthy goal, and you don't need the validation of the masses to make it worth doing.

    VeninTheNonBinaryRogue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I woudl read them :) write one, and I’ll buy it

    Natalia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've started four books, they have 1, 5, 3 and 8 chapters, my friends have read them and they love the books, but I think they're perfect and I'm not going to follow writing. Maybe, one day I continue writing, but at the moment...

    #17

    Publish an original novel. I've been writing since I was a kid, from short stories to novellas to full length novels. I've even written fan fiction and some articles. I've never submitted any of them though, even though pursuing that dream is.... it would be everything to me. Of course the "dream goal" would be to make a living from it. Not get rich or anything, but just be able to do what I love and live comfortably. I keep telling myself, "maybe one day". I always have these crazy ideas though. Like doing a long distance thru-hike or bike, setting up a big aquarium of some kind like for fish or maybe for hermit crabs, etc. Just lots of stuff that I always tell myself is silly. I'm my own worst enemy.

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    HarriMissesScotland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easier said than done, but just do it. None of what you mentioned is silly. It all sounds amazing to me. Need a cheerleader? I'll be one for you! One step at a time...you can do it!

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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not religious at all but certain phrases are just ingrained. God love you, Harri, thank you. I'll try my best! I've seen you around in comments, I've been a lurker for... awhile. And I've always liked you, so... thank you. xx

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    Brian Carpenter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SUBMIT THEM I've never taken the time to go as far as you have but I have had a couple short stories in Isaac Asimov presents as a teen and a few poems as an adult thanks to my college English Lit professor

    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No idea is silly! If you have finished stories, then submit them!! It's a waste to let them lying around :)

    #18

    I wanted to travel. I was supposed to leave sometime in May 2020.. well we know the rest.

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    HarriMissesScotland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I miss traveling, but am not longer able to due to lack of funds. I traveled when I could and never regretted it.

    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where have you been and for how long? After my grandfather died, I spent a year traveling around around Southeast Asia with my share of the inheritance…I would often go to a wat and send out my feelings of loss and love, hoping that all the metaphysical stuff I don’t believe in would reach him.

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    Susanne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh the pandemic will be over sometime. Then go for it

    #19

    I always wanted to jump rope without my brain going back to the bad parts of my ED.

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    #20

    Visit the European hometowns of my ancestors, from Germany, Norway, England, Scotland and Ireland to others that I haven't tracked down yet.

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandfather managed to trace his family tree back to the 900s…it helped that they were all English!

    #21

    Lived in Spain (due to work) and I thought I'd stay there for more than 3 years. So I'd lay resting most of the time and barely traveled (even though Spain had so many places to explore). I moved after a year. Regretted? Yes. I learned "never take things for granted" the hard way.

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HUGE mistake....but you can still visit Spain..totally worth it

    #22

    I need to find a business partner to focus on the people problems while I do amazing tech things.

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    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel you bro, I found that person at Uni, we are in sync about so many things, but he's better with people where I'm better at the technical things. I like to joke that together we make one fully functional entrepreneur.

    #24

    I can't complain really. I've done a lot of bucket list things to this point and for many more it is not too late. If I regret not doing one thing it has to be back when I was early teens. A sculptor lived near us and offered to give me lessons on art/sculpting. Life might have turned out very different.

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    Lyone Fein
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can still take a class in this. Check out a community college or university art department near you.

    #25

    I've always wanted to be an actor in a musical. I'll let you know if anything changes 👍

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    Kim Kermes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Community theaters are the best! Try out!

    -logansucrose-
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i want to do that too, but im not good at singing at all haha

    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What are your top five favorite musicals?

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    #26

    Move to Japan and have a new life.

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I turned 50 I moved to Thailand and lived there for nearly a year.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for your kind words, I am living in Tokyo now, feel very happy about it <3

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really did, have been living in Tokyo for four months now, thanks for the encouragement <3

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    #27

    Be with someone of the same sex, always been attracted to men and women, but unlike most of my friends who experimented in college, I was too busy studying, so never tried it despite several offers. I'm now happily married to my husband, but always wonder what could've happened if I'd gone for it.

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    kasei10
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whilst I have noted in another one that threesomes are overrated, maybe it's something you could look into/discuss with your husband? Even though they are overrated, I don't think it's an experience I'd erase from my mind if I had the choice, it was fun, both times. And as long as you go into it with a healthy mind set and all of the rules worked out...

    #28

    When I was in grade 5 I was interested in astronomy and turned out to be very good at it, as in so advanced my teacher/slash astronomy club educator had to scramble to find stuff to keep me from getting bored. He had connections in the astronomy community, but we moved, so he never had a chance to introduce me to people who could have taken my life in that direction. But, I have never lost my fascination with any of it and it has expanded into so many different areas. I would like to have gone back to school to learn architectural design to help design hospitals and units within the hospital that work, for the nurses and patients. So many architects and designers don't understand how things work in there, and so we walk into a totally completed project that we know is not going to work. My real dream could still happen. Because of covid they have put the program on hold. At the Addison Airport in TX, at the museum they have different historic planes that still fly. When I go to visit next, if the program is back on, I'm going up in a P52 Mustang. It costs some bucks, but I don't care. You only live once, and I'm in the last quarter.

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    #29

    Have a teenage romance. Between debilitating social anxiety and a strict religious upbringing I never could bring myself to date in high school. I'm now almost 40 and in a great relationship, but I always look back with regret at all the things I missed out on by not having young love.

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    DennyS (denzoren)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one hit really close to home. I had really strict parents, social anxiety and I always pined over the wrong people. All lead to no good experiences.

    Hagen Radcliffe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All I can remember about young love” makes me cringe. Truly, you’re better off without those painful, embarrassing & sad memories.

    -logansucrose-
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a teenager, teenage romance is overrated and full of drama. I wish i never started dating young but im stuck now.

    #30

    I started to write a book with my friend. We wanted to make it a series. It was about a world which only had dragons and two continents. The series would be in the dragons perspective. My friend quit halfway through book 1. I continued to write it, disheartened, but near the end of book 1, I quit too.

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    Hagen Radcliffe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A book from the dragons perspective ?! What an amazing idea, I’d read that in a hot minute!

    #31

    Write and / or illustrate a children's book. Sadly, children's publishing is an extremely closed loop with some very unimaginative and limited rulesets at play. It's also very much a case of "Not what you know but who you know / who you suck up to" (Unless of course you're a celebrity, when you can have a lovely little book ghostwritten for you and become the industry darling literally overnight).

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    HarriMissesScotland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Self publish. Definitely look into it. A good luck!

    #32

    I've always wanted to see, touch the Whale calves in their nursery off SanLucia in the Baja.

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go see but don´t touch without permission..

    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Mama's push their babies right up to your boat so you can see and touch them.

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    #33

    Run for office. Also had opportunity to go on anthropology trip but disabled and trip not Ada friendly. A publisher wanted to publish my novel when I was 16 but it was a short story at the time and I didn’t know how to write a novel. Apparently I have a list. Right now it would be running for public office, but I can’t win a debate with my kids sooooo

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do like Joseph Kennedy and get your kids in public office....or maybe not be so ambitious..see what happened to the Kennedys....I would go for the novel...

    Susanne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But your kids know you better than those who could vote for you do!

    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a fair point! They are great people but I think I taught them how debate a little to young

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    #34

    When I was younger, in my 20's and 30's, I wrote about 200 songs. I used to perform in coffeehouses, at folk festivals, even on the radio sometimes. One thing I wanted to do was to record my songs, since I never actually wrote down the music to them. I just wrote down the lyrics for each, and the music for them is all in my head. Now I am 59, and my voice is nowhere near what it used to be. I haven't sung in almost 10 years.

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I gave up singing in successively better choirs over the course thirty years because it began to impinge on my birding time, which I had thrown myself into after seeing a bird so outrageously glorious that all I could do was laugh

    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here’s a link to a picture: https://drscdn.500px.org/photo/67997679/m%3D1170/d42be59db430df7601b1a94b6f45eae8

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    #35

    So many things. Dreams? Thought I’d be an archeologist some day. Then 9/11 made everyone around me talk crazy and I became afraid. A lone woman in Egypt? Impossible (I thought). Wanted to be a vet. Had a full ride (college) but got pregnant, got married, miscarried, and life went on. Had a secret dream of being a psychologist but just found out I have some mental health issues which means I can’t. But that’s okay. Idk what I’ll do or where I’ll end up but I think it’s okay to not find something. I might just spend my life with cats on my lap and a good book!

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    Susanne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like a very pleasant life

    Lyone Fein
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey. Most folks who go into psychology do it because they have their own issues. This doesn't have to stop you.

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    #36

    Always wanted to spray graffiti. Always was too scared.

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go for it...plenty of places now-a-days that are not off-limit...also join a group of graffitti artists

    Notmyactualname
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Graffiti is horrible, f**k people who ruin other people's property

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    #37

    I wish I had tried to become a professional rapper.(I know, I just laughed, myself, when I reread that out loud.) But I was introduced to rap music at an inappropriately, early age and for some strange reason, always connected to it. I am a white woman, from a middle class neighborhood in Texas and never could understand why it touched me so deeply, when in many aspects, I really couldn’t relate. Anyway, I secretly wrote raps my whole life and I never shared this with people until older. In my thirties, I found a singing karaoke app and started playing around with writing my own lyrics to pre-made beats and feel like I’m not too bad and there could have been some potential there.. lol oh well, I wrote rap songs for my daughter and her friends as they were growing up and that was a lot of fun and great memories attached to those days, so I’ll always have that to look back on. That’s way better than fortune and fame anyway, right? So why am I even writing this? Who knows, maybe in my eighties, I will release an album called Fake Friends, Depends and False Teeth and it will go DIAPER PLATINUM ! What?!??

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    Crocodile
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yes it's better than fortune and fame

    Crocodile
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanted to be a rapper but I suck at rapping

    Jaye Keith
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give it a try OP. You'll never know if you could if you don't try.

    #38

    I wanted to play Major League baseball, & I believe I could have, if it wasn't for my total lack if talent.

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    #39

    Become a doctor, but then I have the fastest hands ever, so I'll probably kill everyone

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By fastest do you mean like gaming fast? Because there have been studies written up in medical journals that surgeons who’ve been gamers are faster and make fewer errors than non-gaming surgeons.

    #40

    Sorry, but the question is ambiguous. I.E. Let's say, that I wanted to throw a chipmunk into a fire, but I never did. However, I still could?

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    Susanne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you wish to throw a chipmunk into a fire, I suggest you get counseling

    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was obviously a flippant and hyperbolic example. If you take everything at face value then you need to lighten up.

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    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was throwing in a hypothetical question. I love animals. I also meant to drop a brick into a river, never did, however I still could?

    kasei10
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't really matter for the question though, you can answer it whether you can still do the thing or not... If you currently regret not doing something (yet) then it's still relevant.

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    Trice he/him
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone likes fire does not equal a psycho

    Crocodile
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone confused bout the hypothetical question

    The deadist of pans️‍️
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    Pyromania is the first sign of a disillusioned/violent mind

    kasei10
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first sign, really? Like, before anything else? Source please. Also, did you read the submission regretting killing a teacher? They may not even like fire, but I'd say it's a bigger sign of delusion and violence.

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    #41

    I was invited to go on a small archeological dig in my neighborhood. I never went, and I regret not pursueing my interest in archeology more.

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    #42

    Stand up to my dad saying that I’m the reason his life is stressful and that I’m not aloud to wear dresses at school( my behind isn’t even big I’m flat so I don’t understand his concerns)

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    Hagen Radcliffe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your father is wrong. YOU are not the reason for anything in his life. YOU are not responsible for any problem a grown man has in his life. I wish I could reach out & hug you. XOXO

    #43

    Commit suicide. I'm glad I didn't, I've found small joys in life :)

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    #44

    Go back to taking dance classes. It's just not the same when you know you'll never actually dance on stage in a production because they want young dancers. I'll have to take adult classes for "hEaLtH rEaSoNs". That just sounds gruelling and redundant when you want to go somewhere with it. I'm nearing 40, not in the best shape with my lower half and I was never able to get a good turn out, nor had the flexibility dance companies are looking for. Although I was always told my arm movements were beautiful and I had a good timing with the music. Still, we moved around too much and I never got past the 2nd Grade of ballet. I really wanted to get to pointe classes. I guess it's a good thing I missed that stage from what I've been hearing what it does to your feet and body.

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    #45

    Show off my successful achievements in life to my exfiance, telling him I'm doing well without him. But then I found out that I'm way too busy enjoying my life than to make time just to see him.

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    Jette Wang Wahnon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You grew up and became wiser....good on you

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    #46

    Study abroad - I didn't go becuse of a girl, broke up 2 weeks into the semester

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    #47

    Clinb one of the Higher mountains outside of the US climbed quite a few in the Rockies but blew my chances while serving in the Army in Europe

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