Hey Pandas, What Is Something In Your Life That You Are Not Sure Other People Also Go Through? (Closed)
For me, and this is my extroverted side showing, I sometimes get “friend-crushes”, basically wanting to be friends with someone but also going through the awkwardness of having a crush.
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Hiding my feelings from others, because I’m worried about what people will think of me if
Social-anxiety.
Bored panda. Are you guys affiliated with Mindy girous? Saying that she/he wants to run an ads to my page and pay me. Is this true?
Anxiety and self doubt but then I’m not the only one so no self-pitying.
Constant pressure of getting perfect grades, pleasing everyone, and not showing my feelings or being over-confident because I am afraid I'll get bullied again.
Not being allowed to cry or be angry without fear of chastisement, pressuring myself to be perfect
My sister has a mental illness that developed recently. She will go from all smiles and my best friend to complete rage monster in a BAD way. She will say things that really hurt me and never seems sorry. It’s really hard. And I feel like my parents aren’t doing anything and I get the blame for not wanting to be with her.
My brother has a similar problem. I'm certain you're doing a great job being patient and a great sibling. She still loves you, it's just harder for her to constantly show it right now. It's completely understandable that you don't always want to be around her, and great job setting boundaries for yourself <3
family getting sick. i’m 13 now but when i was about 3 or 4 my dad had cancer and i had no idea. (he’s better now!) multiple family members of mine have died of cancer. it’s just sad thinking about how my dad could be gone.
Being divorced more than once. The first time was like, ok this is normal, people get divorced. But the second time felt stigmatizing. I know other people have been through it, but I don't know anyone else and it feels like I'm the only one.
Even when I just eat a little bit I get fat off of it. My stomach with extend a lot. I am pretty sure I just have a really bad digestive system because I can't eat without getting stomach aches either. It will go away after a few hours but I look fat after I eat. I am a healthy thin girl but not after I eat. So this leads to crippling depression and I hate the way my body looks after I eat. I am 16 by the way
I’m so sorry! I’m also a teen with low self esteem when it comes to my body. I bet you’re beautiful (not in a creepy way) something that has helped me is to look at myself in the mirror for ten minutes a day.
Could you possibly have a gluten sensitivity? What you are describing sounds a lot like the symptoms of Celiac disease. Try going gluten-free and see if that helps (it can't hurt).
If you can, see a doctor and/or nutritionist. Your body shouldn’t be doing that after eating. If you can’t see a doctor, read up on how to properly do elimination diets. It really does seem more than likely that you’re just eating something your body can’t handle. If you can figure it out and get it out of your diet, you’ll feel better after eating. You have nothing to be ashamed of. For me, it did turn out to be celiac disease; I was recently diagnosed. I hate cutting gluten out of my diet—there’s nothing better than a burrito in a good flour tortilla—but I feel better than I’ve felt in a decade, so it’s absolutely worth it. Best of luck to you!
Load More Replies...Maybe it's as simple as eat more fresh fruit and veg. Roughage keeps the system clean!
Btw "friend crushes" may be known as squishes. Maybe look it up if u want to learn more
Btw "friend crushes" may be known as squishes. Maybe look it up if u want to learn more
