Feminists, ask men questions you want them to answer.

#1

What do you do personally to make this world more equal?

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Billy The Kid
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work with clients from ALL back grounds and I treat them ALL the same.

Janoel Murrey
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i am not mean to women i will let a woman in front of me (idk if that is like gender something or sorry if it is offensive) i try to stand up for women i like equality not superiority but some time feminists are trying to make men seem like the devils but we are not devils some men are devils i mean some women are devils but yeah

Monolicle Potato
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t really believe we could live in an equal world. As a child, I was told girls were always better, and that they rule. Everyone says it’s ‘Toxic masculinity’, but now and days it’s both Toxic masculinity and Toxic femininity. Like, girls and guys both put each other down. It is a comeback to abuse when girls say such things, but when a guy does it to a girl, suddenly it’s not right? This confuses me. Furthermore, the world just doesn’t have the kindness and tolerance to accept equality. A majority of the world are either ignorant, too shy to support a cause, or a complete A-head. I don’t have hope for the future of equality, but would be delighted if equality could be reached. It just confuses me when girls have to be equal, but some girls who support this can’t treat guys equally? Honestly, I should just stop here before I get carried away, because I have a lot to say about this.

Dylan Acker
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I consider myself a male activist. I try to explain sexism to people and why it’s bad.

Brian Gross
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

dont care about whether someone wants to be lgbtq and get out of peoples buisness

SCP-096
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If somebody punches me, i punch them back no matter what.

Isaac7lego
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try to be kind to everybody and stand up against sexism.

Donkey boi
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't actively do anything. I just don't treat anyone differently, every is the same to me. Be pleasant to me, I'm the nicest person you'll meet, if you're a-hole I'll be sure to let you know. I don't push my opinions or beliefs on anyone and I will not allow anyone to push theirs on me. I'm happy to discuss them in a civil conversation, but we don't have to agree at the end.

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    #2

    What are your feelings on toxic masculinity?

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    Dylan Acker
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men cry. Men need emotional support. Men feel depression and anxiety. You don’t have to be some macho tough guy. It’s ok to feel what you feel!

    Micah64
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I hate being told not to cry.

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    Billy The Kid
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When these men brag about it or pose it off I just think Muppets. Its like its the only thing they have to offer. Like most people appearances don't mean anything, its about the personality. It also takes a bigger man to show their emotions.

    "Simo Häyhä"
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really really hate it. It hurts every one. I'm really tired of the whole "Boys don't cry" thing.

    Internet wanderer
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    by this point, I can't even cry. I don't know how bad something has to be for me to cry, but I really don't want to find out. Nothing to do with people telling me not to, I just kind of became emotionally dead in elementary school. I used to cry, and then I just...stopped.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was bought up with the same messages but with different reasons. I was never told to wear certain colours (my favourite colour to wear is pink), or to play with certain toys (my favourite toy was my cabbage patch doll), or to cut my hair short. I was never told not to cry, only don't do it in from of my sisters. I was to appear to be strong so that they knew they could turn to me for help. I was told, 'It's a mans job to...' so many time about so many things, but the core of the reasons was to ensure that a family worked together and to be 'manly' to protect. A lot of these things were balanced with things like, 'it's a man's job to listen and see if they are struggling, if they are help them'. Sometimes people think I'm portraying signs of TM because I don't cry at times that people think I should. The truth is I've cried due to 3 events in my entire life, but it's because I'm not capable, and would support ANYONE who is crying.

    Janoel Murrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i hate it i friking hate it i ducking hate it because i cry all the friking time but my brothers tease me about it my parents thik there is something wrong with me i hate toxic masculinity

    Brian Gross
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it hurts and is very painful to my happiness. i end up purposly surpressing my feelings to be a "man"

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    #3

    Why do some men call themselves "Alphas?" I don't understand

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    Burnerz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its weird but I think it's so they just can feel "superior" or feel like the "leader"

    Janoel Murrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its basically saying they are like strong its nit an insult towards women its mostly to another guy like i am better than you i am stronger than you basically

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually because they are not. They more often than not feel that their personality isn't that good, so they fall to an almost "primal" state where they can be better by just be better, it's a massive overcompensation that just gets worse the more women they sleep with and the more fights they win.

    Peri Nascimento
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because a scientifically wrong study on wolves, that called some wolves as "alphas", indirectly influenced the creation of some stupid online content

    Brian Gross
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    noone does. and if they do they are stupid people who cant grip with the idea they are not better than everyone.

    SCP-096
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    4 years ago

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    I don't know, i'm too Upsilon to understand

    #4

    Why do guys complain when your gf wears your hoodies, try wearing oversized hoodies maybe y'all will like it

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love it when she wears my clothes! I'll go to put it on and catch a wiff of her... That'll make me smile. But... When I buy a brand new t-shirt, and she starts claiming it for sleeping in... 'I was gonna wear that tomorrow, now I've got to find something else!' (but don't really mind because she look a lot better in it than I ever would).

    Janoel Murrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    umm i do not have a gf but i wouldnt care if my gf wore a hoodie you can wear like friking anything around me

    Burnerz
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idk this is a confusing one for me

    Billy The Kid
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If my partner is happy to wear something she likes then so be it. Women shouldn't be discriminated about what they wear like people shouldn't be discriminated over race, sexuality....

    #5

    what do you ACTUALLY talk about at sleepovers?

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    Donkey boi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been a while since I had one. At the last one I think it mainly Mario Cart 64 and Gun's 'n' Roses. But usually probably the same as a girls sleepover, we talk about the things we're interested in, TV programs, games, music. It's not really a big mystery, our friends are usually our friends because of shared interests, so when we are together, we talk about of interests.

    Billy The Kid
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never had a sleep over. I don't think my missus would approve.

    SCP-096
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have any sleepovers because i don't have friends

    Janoel Murrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    we don't really do sleepovers

    Monolicle Potato
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I rule at talking at night. Mostly, we talk about whatever crosses our minds. I once got into an argument at night about whether or not a tree could actually be used as a prison for evil souls.

    Brian Gross
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    anything. like every other human being. boys dont just talk about sports you know.

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    #6

    so how do you guys not show? like through your pants. and when you do show do you realize it? i feel stupid for asking but here i am asking.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it happens because we are aroused, sometimes it happens because we are desperate for a pee and sometimes... for no reason at all. We always know it's happening, though sometimes not until it's completely hard. Most of us have a quick adjustment to tuck it up under our belt/waist line and get to the toilet asap (having a pee will almost always make it go away) or wait it out.

    Dylan Acker
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I walk away and pull down my sweatshirt

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you dont even walk away. i mean i have had guys talking to me and yea i notice it but than they just walk away sum times i dont even care. lmao

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    Billy The Kid
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get it now. I have been with my missus for 35 happy years and not interested in other women.

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    Brian Gross
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you hope that it doesnt show. and if it does just put your hands over it.

    #7

    these answers you answer about girls 1. does acne matter? 2. do you like the sweatpants and sweatshirt look? 3. do you mind if we wear your sweatshirts? 4. long or short hair 5. older or younger 6. taller or shorter 7. what are your turnoffs?

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1.No. 2. On me? No. On her? depends on the situation. 3. Please do, I like the way it smells when I get it back. 4. Whatever make you feel best, if you're happy it will reflect in your behaviour. 5. Older is my personal preference, but personality will override any preference. 6. Again, Tall is my personal preference but my wife is under 5' so personality wins again! 7. Again, for me personally: Biggest turnoff, trying to be someone/something you're not. Turn on, take charge sometimes.

    Billy The Kid
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can answer all these in one word - Personality

    Dahungryfella
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. Perhaps in the very first stage of initial attraction, but past that, no. 2. Depends on situation. At home lounging its totally fine, at my grans funeral, not so much. Use your best judgement. 3. Not an issue in my experience. 4. No matter what you look like or what aspects of your body you like or dislike, there will be guys into that and others not. There is no such thing as a perfect body when it comes to mens physical attraction. It really is pointless for any girl to fixate on any part of their body for that reason. The general rule would be, the happier and healthier (mentally and physically ) you are, the more attractive you will be to the majority of men. Fair warning. This is a double edged sword and there are guys who themselves are unhappy or unhealthy and might therefore be attracted to girls like that. Steer clear of them because they are toxic and you cannot fix them! 5,6,7. See 4

    Internet wanderer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. depends on severity. 2. sure, it's comfy and I do it, so... 3. I don't care. 4. long. 5. doesn't matter, just not to much of a gap(4 years either direction preferred). 6. Doesn't really matter, but a little bit tall(idk...5'5"?). 7. Way to many toxic exes, body count over 20, instagram/tiktok girl(frequent poster, not user), mind games, controlling, overly feminist(if you know, you know)

    Burnerz
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. No it makes them unique. 2. Either. 3. No, you have to ask first tho. 4. Either. 5. Young. 6. Either. 7. None.

    Janoel Murrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the first 6 i don't care at all 7 i don't know

    #8

    Do you guys ever get tired of people assuming that you're sexist? (I've seen a lot of chicks accuse guys of being sexist because they turn the girl down...)

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    Isaac7lego
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. But I try to understand where they are coming from.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think for some people it'll be annoying. Doesn't bother me personally because I know it's not true and I know some Karen's will use any excuse to have an argument.

    #9

    I don't understand why boys talk about weird things that make no sense to us girls. Like talking about their own body part names in a public place. WHY????

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure if I understand, do you mean guys talking about their penises in public? I can't think of any reason someone would. With the exception of one time, when I was due to have an operation and was explaining the procedure to my friends, I have never spoken about my penis in public.

    Janoel Murrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    we don't really do that in public and if we do we are most likely just joking with other guys like hey my d is bigger than yours. its not really to make women uncomfortable we are most of the time in private when joking like this though

    Internet wanderer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    weird things: because funny. body part: we don't generally

    #10

    How do you not understand periods and other bodily functions of a woman, but pretend to know everything about it?

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    bored.hampster
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i honestly dont know tbh now thats not all guys who do that

    Internet wanderer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having an older sister, I understand most of it, but I don't know everything nor do I claim to

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a rule, boys are taught the basic biology. As this is something we have been told, we now know all about it. Unfortunately, basic biology is not the full picture. It's only boys that have grown-up with positive female figures in our lives (I have 3 sisters), who have explained the real truth behind curtain of ignorance. Even when studying at uni there was a fundamental difference between the science and real life.

    SushiPanda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when people just label men in general.

    #11

    why do some men send d**k pics? Do you think a picture of your penis will magically bewitch women into wanting to have sex with you? why?

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    SushiPanda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly think it is disgusting.....

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never understood doing that. The penis is easily the ugliest part of human anatomy! Had a friend that did it once, pulled him up on it, he said 'because they love d*ck!' I send him a pic of one (from google), 'ARGH, THAT'S DISGUISTING! Why did you send me that?' 'See it's not nice is it?' Then we had a talk and I'm pleased to say he has never sent another d*ck pic.

    Janoel Murrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    mostly because they are creeps

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    #12

    why do some men name their penises?

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    SushiPanda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wtf never heard of that lol

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do some women name their breasts? Why do some people name their cars? Humans name things that they have an attachment to. I've never done it myself, but I assume it's also probably because 'penis' is too... medical and 'D*ck' is too crass for some occasions. Being Irish, I have about 50 different words for penis so not really a problem for me.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    cars are external to my body. I can understand naming things that are external to ME, ie. not part of my self. but body parts are a part of me. they comprise me. they are not separate beings that are complete on their own.

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