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“Devastating”: Family Recalls Final Moments Before 12YO Ended Her Life After Being Bullied
“Devastating”: Family Recalls Final Moments Before 12YO Ended Her Life After Being Bullied
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“Devastating”: Family Recalls Final Moments Before 12YO Ended Her Life After Being Bullied

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The grieving parents of 12-year-old Charlotte O’Brien, an Australian teenager who tragically took her own life after being relentlessly bullied, shared their final moments with their daughter in an interview on 60 Minutes.

Mat and Kelly Howard went on the program to fulfill what they stated to be Charlotte’s last request: to share her story and raise awareness about the dangers of social media and its effects on the psychological well-being of teenagers.

Highlights
  • Parents share final moments with Charlotte on 60 Minutes to fulfill her last wish.
  • Charlotte's improved mood before her death stunned her family.
  • Bullying on social media pushed Charlotte to take her life.
  • The Howards are advocating to ban social media for under 16s.

“We were aware she had been struggling, but the last two weeks were the best we’d seen her in a long time,” Mat shared, recounting how blindsided he felt by his daughter’s improved mood just before she took her own life.

“It felt like we were finally making progress. She had a great day at school, and Kelly made her favorite dinner,” the father explained. “She was so excited, she ran into the house, ate her meal, and later skipped to bed.”

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    “That was the last time we saw her,” Mat said before breaking down in tears, firmly clutching the teddy bear Charlotte’s ashes are being stored inside of.

     

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    Charlotte was a Year 7 student at Santa Sabina College in Sydney’s inner-west. Before the incident, she left her parents handwritten notes. The letters contained her final wishes, with one urging her mother to keep going for her baby brother, Will, and another asking them to share her story.

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    Desperate to find a reason, the Howards eventually discovered that the bullying that tormented their daughter at school followed her everywhere. It had spread to social media apps like Snapchat and others, which they say pushed her over the edge that night.

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    “She barely had her phone, and yet it was enough to lead to this,” Mat explained, keeping the nature of the messages and bullying that caused Charlotte so much distress private.

    The parents are now pushing for legislation that would ban social media use for teenagers younger than 16 with the support of Australia’s Prime Minister

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    The following morning, Kelly’s heart broke in half when she discovered her daughter’s lifeless body with her phone lying on the floor close by

    Upon asking for explanations from authorities, all they told her was that she had been searching for ways to take her own life and that “in today’s world, all it takes is a quick Google search.”

    “I feel we’re handling our kids dangerous weapons when we give them these devices,” Kelly reflected. “It’s like giving them the whole world, with all its dangers, right in their hands.”

    After Charlotte’s passing, convinced of the dangers of easy, unrestricted access to social media for teenagers, Mat and Kelly traveled to Canberra to meet with Prime Minister Anthony Albanese, hoping to press for legislation to ban social media use for children under 16.

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    Social media is harming our kids, and it’s time to stop,” Albanese told local media. “I want parents to be able to tell their children, ‘Sorry, that’s against the law.'”

    For Charlotte’s parents, passing such legislation would mean that her loss was not in vain. “She didn’t have the chance to build her legacy, but maybe this can be it,” Mat stated.

    “Something needs to be done,” wrote one viewer, as others joined in to demand justice for what happened to Charlotte

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    Abel Musa Miño

    Abel Musa Miño

    Entertainment News Writer

    Born in Santiago, Chile, with a background in communication and international relations, I bring a global perspective to entertainment reporting at Bored Panda. I cover celebrity news, Hollywood events, true crime, and viral stories that resonate across cultures. My reporting has been featured on Google News, connecting international audiences to the latest in entertainment. For me, journalism is about bridging local stories with global conversations, arming readers with the knowledge necessary to make up their own minds. Research is at the core of my work. I believe that well-sourced, factual storytelling is essential to building trust and driving meaningful engagement.

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    Ren
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    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was bullied in middle school (late 90s) and it would have been much worse if social media had been a thing then. I feel terrible for kids now who may be dealing with it in person and online.

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel the same. The bullying started getting extreme in middle school (mid 90s) and I can't imagine how awful it would have been adding social media to the mix. I had 2 suicide attempts under my belt by the time I graduated 8th grade.

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    Phoenyx Moonshadow
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    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watched this on TV last night (Kept telling my sister to shut up so I could hear the story). Just hearing the parents voices when they talked about Charlotte made me cry. I also heard on the news (99% sure - it was a few days ago) that Snapchat would not be part of the platforms that had to change the minimum age to sign up to 16.

    AR
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    12 months ago

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    “Banning” social media for under 16s won’t stop bullying. A lot of sites like Facebook already technically disallow kids under a certain age to join, but kids find a way around it. What were the parents doing to combat the bullyong at school? Why was their daughter allowed on social media at 12? Why weren’t they watching her if they think it’s so detrimental? I’m sorry for their loss but they could’ve done a lot more to help their daughter. If my son had been bullied, I would’ve been all over it, including putting him in a new school.

    Carrie B
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    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was bullied and assaulted regularly growing up and never told my parents. Stop being judgey.

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    Ren
    Community Member
    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was bullied in middle school (late 90s) and it would have been much worse if social media had been a thing then. I feel terrible for kids now who may be dealing with it in person and online.

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel the same. The bullying started getting extreme in middle school (mid 90s) and I can't imagine how awful it would have been adding social media to the mix. I had 2 suicide attempts under my belt by the time I graduated 8th grade.

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    Phoenyx Moonshadow
    Community Member
    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watched this on TV last night (Kept telling my sister to shut up so I could hear the story). Just hearing the parents voices when they talked about Charlotte made me cry. I also heard on the news (99% sure - it was a few days ago) that Snapchat would not be part of the platforms that had to change the minimum age to sign up to 16.

    AR
    Community Member
    12 months ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    “Banning” social media for under 16s won’t stop bullying. A lot of sites like Facebook already technically disallow kids under a certain age to join, but kids find a way around it. What were the parents doing to combat the bullyong at school? Why was their daughter allowed on social media at 12? Why weren’t they watching her if they think it’s so detrimental? I’m sorry for their loss but they could’ve done a lot more to help their daughter. If my son had been bullied, I would’ve been all over it, including putting him in a new school.

    Carrie B
    Community Member
    Premium
    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was bullied and assaulted regularly growing up and never told my parents. Stop being judgey.

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