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Woman Fixes Everything Her Boyfriend Promised He’d Do, He Stomps Around Like A Baby Over It
If you’ve ever dated someone, you know the excitement of the early stages. You discover new interests together, try new things, and build routines that feel shared. Maybe you both enjoy painting, cooking, or even fixing things around the house. But sometimes that harmony shifts when one partner doesn’t appreciate the other’s skills.
In this case, a woman shared how her boyfriend reacted negatively to her being handy. Instead of feeling supported, she felt dismissed and ended up doing repair work in secret. The situation left her questioning the dynamic of their relationship. Keep reading to learn what happened next.
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One woman shared how her boyfriend belittled her whenever she tried to help with household repairs
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She also explained that he reacted negatively when she suggested ideas that differed from his own
Women are increasingly emerging as leaders and skilled professionals in many traditionally male-dominated industries
Society once operated on rigid expectations, where jobs and responsibilities were assigned based on gender rather than ability. For generations, people were told what they should do based on who they were, not what they were capable of. That narrative is finally being challenged. Today, more people are stepping into roles that reflect their true skills and passions, reshaping workplaces into spaces built on respect, opportunity, and inclusion.
A 2020 LinkedIn analysis offers a hopeful snapshot of how the workforce is changing. By looking at U.S. member profiles across 568 occupations, LinkedIn found that hiring trends shifted noticeably in the last five years. In fact, 23 jobs flipped from being mostly male to mostly female. One standout role was retail operations manager. Back in 2015, women made up 47 percent of new hires in that position. By 2019, that number jumped to 65 percent. It’s a clear sign that workplace dynamics are evolving. And the change is happening faster than many expected.
Not too long ago, many women simply didn’t have the same access to education as men. Schools, training programs, and professional opportunities were often out of reach. That lack of access shaped career paths for generations. Today, the landscape looks very different. More women are attending college, earning advanced degrees, and pursuing specialized training. Education is becoming more accessible across the board. This shift is opening doors that were once firmly closed. And it’s changing who gets hired.
Education plays a major role in this shift, according to LinkedIn senior editor Laura Lorenzetti. She explains that women are gaining the skills needed to enter specialized careers. In many cases, they’re doing so at an even faster rate than men. These skills make it easier to get a foot in the door. Employers are noticing the talent pool expanding. As Lorenzetti told CNBC Make It, education is helping women move into roles that once felt out of reach. Knowledge is becoming a powerful equalizer.
Women are also making steady progress in fields that were traditionally dominated by men. LinkedIn’s analysis shows improved balance in professions like professor and funeral director. These roles once leaned heavily toward male hires. Over time, the gap has narrowed. More women are stepping into these positions and thriving. This shift reflects changing attitudes and growing acceptance. It also shows that capability, not gender, is becoming the deciding factor. Progress may be gradual, but it’s real.
STEM fields are also seeing a steady rise in women entering, contributing, and reshaping these industries
Environmental consulting is another area where balance is emerging. In 2019, women made up 51 percent of new hires in this field. That number marks an important milestone. It shows that women aren’t just entering these roles; they’re being hired at equal rates. Environmental consulting blends science, policy, and strategy. It’s a field that values expertise and problem-solving. As more women bring their perspectives into this space, the industry grows stronger.
Creative and tech-adjacent roles are also seeing change. Fields like animation specialist, web designer, and UX designer are becoming more diverse. These careers combine creativity with technical skill. They reward innovation and fresh ideas. More women are finding space in these roles and shaping digital experiences.
Healthcare-related technical roles tell a similar story. Dental technician positions, for example, saw women make up 54.1 percent of new hires in 2019. This field requires precision, training, and attention to detail. More women stepping into these roles reflects broader changes in education and hiring. Employers are recognizing skill over stereotype. And women are claiming space in roles that blend science and care.
Even in STEM fields, progress is becoming harder to ignore. While challenges still exist, more women are entering science, technology, engineering, and math careers. Coding, research, and technical problem-solving are no longer seen as off-limits. Support systems, education, and visibility are making a difference. Each new hire helps shift perceptions. Change doesn’t happen overnight, but momentum is building. And the future workforce is starting to reflect it.
However, there are still people who believe that women can’t do certain jobs. In this particular case, many readers felt that the woman’s boyfriend showed clear signs of sexism. His reactions suggested discomfort with her skills rather than support for them. Situations like this highlight how deeply rooted these attitudes can be. What are your thoughts on this?
Many people online pointed out that his behavior appeared dismissive and potentially rooted in sexism
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FreeTheUnicorn 1 day ago
My two year old niece also cries when I fix things instead of letting her do it, but she also cries if the cat leaves the room, so I think she's not ready yet for a relationship either.
BeesEelsAndPups 1 day ago
Aside from the horror that is the idea of -40°, listening to this woman talk would be the highlight of my day. There is nothing sexier than competence, especially in a field for which I am out of my depth. Obviously you bleed the brass who-frangler before you use the locket-denoodler on the whompdoddle. If you say so my love, I'll just watch from back here. I am an engineer, but not that kind. Luckily for me my GF is equally wise in areas where I falter, and she lives somewhere that is habitable by humans, not polar bears.
Parmeisan 1 day ago
I'd upvote you if it weren't for the digs at Canada and others haha. So sometimes it gets really cold, you just dress for the weather and carry on. We do have fewer floods and earthquakes - everywhere has its own issues. I think we all just get used to what we have. :)
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Space Invader 2 days ago
If he cannot admit he's wrong, he never admits he makes mistakes or is less than perfect. Which means he will never learn from his mistakes and try to improve. So there is no potential left in him.
V 2 days ago
Or like me and my husband we found out niches. I am good at putting Flatpack furniture together, he is good at electrical stuff. If plumbing needs anything more than a washer change we get in a plumber because we both suck at that. And we don't have a car so don't need to worry about that at all.
Load More Replies... FreeTheUnicorn 1 day ago
My two year old niece also cries when I fix things instead of letting her do it, but she also cries if the cat leaves the room, so I think she's not ready yet for a relationship either.
BeesEelsAndPups 1 day ago
Aside from the horror that is the idea of -40°, listening to this woman talk would be the highlight of my day. There is nothing sexier than competence, especially in a field for which I am out of my depth. Obviously you bleed the brass who-frangler before you use the locket-denoodler on the whompdoddle. If you say so my love, I'll just watch from back here. I am an engineer, but not that kind. Luckily for me my GF is equally wise in areas where I falter, and she lives somewhere that is habitable by humans, not polar bears.
Parmeisan 1 day ago
I'd upvote you if it weren't for the digs at Canada and others haha. So sometimes it gets really cold, you just dress for the weather and carry on. We do have fewer floods and earthquakes - everywhere has its own issues. I think we all just get used to what we have. :)
Load More Replies... Space Invader 2 days ago
If he cannot admit he's wrong, he never admits he makes mistakes or is less than perfect. Which means he will never learn from his mistakes and try to improve. So there is no potential left in him.
V 2 days ago
Or like me and my husband we found out niches. I am good at putting Flatpack furniture together, he is good at electrical stuff. If plumbing needs anything more than a washer change we get in a plumber because we both suck at that. And we don't have a car so don't need to worry about that at all.
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