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Woman Feels ‘Violated’ When A Man Uses A Gender Neutral Bathroom In Front Of Her
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People, Social Issues3 years ago

Woman Feels ‘Violated’ When A Man Uses A Gender Neutral Bathroom In Front Of Her

People in the U.S. have been arguing over gender-neutral public bathrooms for years – and opinions appear to still be split. Some people say that it makes them feel uncomfortable, while others say that it provides safety and inclusivity to all. Twitter user @MaryBear_ took to the platform to share her opinion and experience in a gender-inclusive bathroom and people in the comments had divided reactions.

The woman said that she was in the bathroom stall, and two men came in while she was on her way out and that their presence and use of the bathroom made her feel uncomfortable. Scroll down to read the story for yourself and share your opinion in the comments.

A woman took to Twitter recently to share her complaints about a man in a gender-neutral bathroom

However, not everyone was supportive of her complaints

While other people backed her up

While gender-segregated bathrooms seen as a standard today, they are actually a modern invention. Less than 300 years have passed since the first gendered bathrooms first appeared in Paris in 1739. In the U.S., the gender-specific bathrooms weren’t put into law until the ‘separate spheres’ social phenomenon of the late 1800s. This ideology stated that women should avoid public spaces and focus on the home.

People in the comments felt the OP missed the point of gender-neutral bathrooms altogether

Gender-neutral bathrooms provide equal rights to both non-gender conforming and gender-conforming people. For non-binary and trans people, they provide a safer zone and a more inclusive place to use the bathroom; and are safer for families with children, as parents are able to accompany their other-gender children to wash up. Beyond safety, gender-neutral bathrooms provide more access to people with disabilities who might have other-gender caregivers.

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Alex T.
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This story is full of bull, sorry. It seems like the bathroom having no lock was the error that should have been fixed. It seens like the woman is trying to start a gender discussion that is absolutely not neccessary. Also the last comment is so accurate. I mean, she thanked the 2nd man for respecting her, yet it was a one stall bathroom and he was simply waiting. She has to adress the bathroom company about thr lock, THAT is the problem.

Doodlebug
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, the guy was kinda weird in that he didn't wait for the current occupant to exit the bathroom before doing his business, But that would have been just as weird if another woman had walked in and sat down to do her business. Human strangers don't generally bathroom that way in the west, right? So yeah, not really a gender issue so much as lock issue + a weirdo issue. Also if you're uncomfortable with the possibility of a stranger (or anyone) walking in on you in the bathroom, why would you choose to use one where the lock is broken in the first place?

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Artex Gorilla
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it's literally a toilet with a sink 1 ft away from it, basically a single person toilet, it doesn't matter what gender it's for, it's obviously for one person at a time only.

Artex Gorilla
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The error is with the company who should have put a lock on the door.

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Lira Mai
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her story is totally confusing.

anarkzie
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah I had to read it a few times to get what the problem was, judging from the other comments a few other people don't get it either.

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Luis Milian
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if it was a single toilet, it should have had a lock on it even if it was neutral bathroom. Man #1 should have waited due to the fact that it was a single toilet, Man #2 had no choice but wait cause there is a SINGLE toilet. either way single bathrooms should have locks, what if they were doing #2...

Tricia Evans
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it said single STALL not single bathroom. A stall within the room means that multiple people can be in the room with you but there is only one stall.

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Andrea Benedict
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then don't use the gender neutral bathroom. I highly doubt there was no lock on the door or that this even happened. I suspect she just wanted her 15 minutes. If there was no lock, why the hell did she use it to begin with?

Bonnie Clyde
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah. If the issue was that SOMEONE barged into a single-use bathroom while she was still using it then it's got nothing to do with gender so why even mention it? The problem is the lack of lock on the door - not anything about men or bathroom gender assignments. If she as a woman - doesn't want to see male/male-presenting people in a bathroom environment then use the women's. As far as I can tell she decided to make this a gender issue without any real reason.

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Mark Lockett
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How does a bathroom stall have no lock? This does not make sense. We all have "one-stall", gender-neutral bathrooms in our homes, but we have the sense to have locks on the doors so we can have a little privacy.

Michał Jastrzębski
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

single stall toilet, with also urinal = multiple PEOPLE can and will use it at once. If she has a problem with that, thats on her. Noone will wait to piss their pants just because princess spawned.

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Isle_of_stressed_pilots
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it's one sink and one toilet without a stall, then it's obviously meant for one person and it's the company's fault for not having a lock. ALTHOUGH, if it's one toilet WITH a stall and one or more sinks meant for more than one person, THEN IT'S FOR EVERYONE. If you don't like a man going in there at the same time as you, then go to the woman's bathroom. No one is expected to wait until YOU ARE FINISHED WASHING YOUR HANDS until they can go in. stfu

SirPatTheCat
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so confused about the structure of this bathroom and what happened ehh

Brooklynn H
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did no one else notice her comment about feeling "humble" for sharing the bathroom with white women? I think the whole thing is a troll.

Falcon
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, this is what real SJWs are like. Probably not trolling at all. They compete for victim-hood. It gives them status in their community.

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Foxxy
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3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So what I am gathering from the story is that it is a single unisex toilet cubicle and seems like the lock didn’t work or had no lock, which would be the fault of the establishment. So the guy entered the stall not realising it was occupied due to no lock, but he should have walked out as soon as he realised someone else was in there. Yes the man should have waited and shouldn’t have peed in front of her due to human decency. But her claim of “violation” is extreme to say the least.

Herb Coleman
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she was washing her hands then he probably wasn't "in front" of her (unless she turned around to look).

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Ashley Kellers
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like someone trying to get her 15mins, and here we are giving it to her......SMH

Natters
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The villian: the lock company who shouldve supplied a lock. Case closed. No violation, no assault.

Bonnie Clyde
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! Thank you. This isn't about gender, it's about a second person walking into a single-user bathroom.

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littlesaresare
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are we all just going to ignore her last remark where she even has issue allowing people of other races to use a public bathroom?

Falcon
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's 'humble' enough to actually share with women of other races. Isn't that so nice of her? We should all be honoured.

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TheExtremeSmell
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I put a lock on my gender neutral bathroom at home. Also why I don’t let my wife and cis gendered children use it either. Same for my blanket fort. Cats fine though

Lauren Caswell
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol I love that, "my gender neutral bathroom at home" XD very progressive

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Stille20
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel violated when people don't lock the door. For some reason men never lock the door at one of my favorite bars... but really this has nothing to do with equality or gender neutral bathrooms, just locking the door.

Joey Averett
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lot of details in this story don’t make sense. Sounds to me like there was a single stall inside the bathroom. In which case it really comes down to whether or not the guy closed the door to the stall.

anarkzie
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3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The language makes it confusing at first when the problem in a nutshell is that she was in a single person toilet with a single toilet bowl and a sink and someone came in before she had finished and started using it, which is gross, she has a point even as a man if a another man did that to me I would be like "WTF". I think the way she explained it was confusing at first as it gives the impression that she was upset that a man would also use a gender neutral toilet when the problem was that he was using a toilet that she was in.

Leo Domitrix
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How does a (presumably) public restroom carry expectations of privacy, and what bathroom has no lock? I've never seen a no-lock door even in the skankiest public restrooms. In any case, sorry she was so upset, but heaven help her if the OP goes to an outdoor music festival. The open-trough urinals... Yeesh...

Mita Ghosh
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ewe!!! Black people have been protesting to remove "colored" bathrooms and here is a woman wanting to bring back thise shitty days. Its lije she wants to go back to pre-apartheid era. This is so unfortunate.

Sue Prewitt
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it was a bathroom with a separate stall, then man #1 did nothing wrong. But if was a single room with a toilet and sink, then he was certainly wrong. You don't just go in a bathroom like that when someone else is in there, no matter the gender. I would feel violated too in that instance.

Paul Brake
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who gives a crap? (pun intended)

Minnie-me
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

did she just drop a rape comment out of nowhere? Get over yourself, honey. God forbid the man had to pee and it is a Gender Neutral bathroom. You don't like the idea of a GN bathroom? GO SOMEWHERE ELSE TO PEE!

Tecolote
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry but...I could understand her reaction if a guy game into a women's bathroom and did that but it was gender neutral so this is a non-issue. If she didn't want to experience anything like this then she shouldn't have gone into a gender neutral bathroom expecting it to be treated like a women's bathroom.

Eric Allen
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who I will never get are people who use their cellphones in public restrooms while it's occupied. If I'm on the other end of the line I don't want to hear people grunting away like their pushing boulders uphill while you're talking to me. It can wait.

hobbitly
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why use a bathroom that has no lock? People could walk in while youre still on the toilet :O Sorry, I dont see a problem with there being man and women at the same time if its gender-neutral, but I do see a problem with there being no lock.

iblowsheep
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This ain't got shit to do with gender issues at all. It;s a fucking privacy issue.

MingJai
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like someone needs to grow up? It's a gender neutral restroom. You can't have it both ways. But we're missing information here. Only have her account and very limited description of the restroom layout.

Robert Gellie
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't believe there was one toilet and no lock.. Makes no sense.

Ojberretta Berretta
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

women 1980 i want equality.....women 2019 i want to be treated special and have extra privileges.....and we gonna call it equality.....

Lauren Caswell
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women don't think that way. Extremist bigots do, on all side left and right.

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Miklós Nagy
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The first feminists who fought for separate bathrooms for women sure are happy in their graves that cheapstake companies uses feminism as an excuse to build only one bathroom. For everyone.

Lauren Caswell
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know that was part of the suffrage/feminist movement! But I'm glad they fought for their (and now our) rights. Every step is a little bit closer to better, it's a process, just gta keep on steppin

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Fred Tenzer
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish that in New York City and in the rest of the USA, there are many bathrooms (including many public bathrooms) that are mixed-gendered, have at least two toilets, the toilets (1) have no doors, (2) have no stalls, (3) have no privacy, and both men and women are allowed to use and actually use this type of bathroom together at the same time and whoever does not like it be given the use of a bathroom that gives privacy and/or is same-gendered and thus, each and every person be given a choice and thus, each and every person be pleased. Also, anyone may read my article on bathrooms and give feedback on it, here is the link to my article on bathrooms;https://www.mansmarbles.com/post/2017-12-30-a-case-for-bathrooms-on-nyc-subway-trains

Sara Nicole
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

IF YOU ARE SO VIOLATED DON´T GO AGAIN

Lauren Caswell
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That whole "I'm humble enough to share with white women...and now men too?!" Shit shows she's already a bigot through and through. Humble lol yeah

Jason Doakes
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The door couldn't be locked, so a man "violated" her, and GN toilets are great, as long as men don't try to use them even when they're open, all clear. But in the end, what does she want? Who's the bad guy? What can we do for her? Should we start a gender war because the man needed to pee and walked into an open bathroom? Should we boycott this establishment that doesn't put locks on bathrooms? Was it really just a one-stall bathroom? With no lock? Really? Where's the gofundme?

Herb Coleman
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1. You went into a "gender neutral" bathroom (did you not look it up?) 2. You were NOT violated. No one touched, harassed or even addressed you. 3. You may have felt uncomfortable but it was a bathroom and all he did is what he was supposed to to do. He came in and used the bathroom. Nothing was done to you. 4. Speculating about what "could" have happened is stupid because anything that could have happened n the bathroom could also happen out side of it. Next time pay attention to the sign. If you are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with men then use a female designated of the private family restroom. At any rate you got the attention you were seeking but you were not violated (you might want to look that up, too).

Id row
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't use a unisex bathroom in the future then. Also, I agree with the other comment about man #2 not being respectful, he was waiting his turn.

Steffen Kajendra
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For some reason I do not feel like it was a single person poopscoot. Why would it be gender neutral if only one person at a time could use it? Would it not just be a toilet? I think this woman went in for a piss in a GN loo and didnt realise that she wouldn't be the only one using it :\ .

Lauren Caswell
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm wondering if it had a stall toilet and urinal? If it was a one toilet bathroom it wouldn't have needed to be in a stall as a stall is installed (excuse the pun) when there may be others using the bathroom at the same time

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Shelly Hockenberry-Cauthen
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is ridiculous. If I understand this.. this "girl-person" chose to use a Gender Neutral facility, then feels entitled to complain when another person uses it, but it is unlike her? And now she'll compare "man-persons, to white-persons"... making me think this girl wants to complain... about something, and the harder it gets to complain about injustice, the more insane the complaints need to be. You want an all-girl facility... FIND ONE!~

Bill
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Australia has co ed bathrooms. Somehow everyone of us Americans survived the ordeal on my last trip to Darwin

Lisa Shaw
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one is easy, if you feel violated in a gender neutral bathroom, don't use it, you can go right ahead and use the gender specific bathroom and get over it.

Lisa Onitnelot
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if you have an issue with gender neutral people, just use the woman's bathroom. it would save the rest of us from having to read this crap.

Rinpai
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why was she using the gender neutral bathroom if she is female and identifies as such? GN bathrooms aren't the same as family bathrooms or standard gendered ones. Like so many have said, it seems she missed the point of them entirely.

Jewels Vern
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The name of the game was painted on the door: "gender neutral". If you can't play by the rules, stay out!

PAN-cake ;)
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She just fricken assumed their genders

Kaden Walker
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yall have your own restrooms. go use them if your so freaked out.

orenji
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So she doesn't agree with gender neutral bathrooms nor does she really enjoy sharing regular bathrooms with white women? Am I getting this straight? She's gonna have to pop a squat behind some bushes 😂

Katlyn Rich
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. The first thing she said was that she used a gender neutral bathroom..... which means anybody can use it (men, women, transgender, etc.). If you are not comfortable with the chances you will share this bathroom with another gender, then why use the gender neutral bathroom?!?!? If you do not want to use the bathroom next to men and you are a woman... then use the women's restroom and vice versa for men. Simple, common sense. This is not a lock issue or a respect issue. The only issue is her her own, nobody else's or the companies fault. She has nobody to blame but herself. She just wanted her own private bathroom. smh.

Russell Pisciotta
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personally, I think if someone feels 'uncomfortable' its just like someone getting 'offended', get over it. Your uncomfortable-ness is not my problem.

Derek Neibarger
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My assumption of a gender neutral bathroom is that both men and women can use that particular bathroom, not that they can use it at the same time. That just common sense. Man #1 should've shown some class and waited until she left the bathroom.

Leo H
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First off this isn't the women's restroom..it's a gender neutral. Second if a woman walks into the men's room to per cause women take forever...men are cool with it...reverse that and women call 911 on a man.. So much for equality,..now this person wants to claim gender neutral bathrooms for just women or mtf?.. Cause what..all men are stereotyped as rapist?

OCDRobot
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's just looking for something to be mad about. If it really bothered her, she would have either left, or would have used a strictly woman's room in the first place. It's like being offended there's pecan ice cream at an ice cream shop because you don't like nuts. That's how stupid this is.

Anna Maria
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She said: quote 'As a woman, I felt uncomfortable'. unquote And yet she used a gender-neutral bathroom. So are you a woman or are you gender-neutral? If you are a woman then use the ladies bathroom and feel safe and comfortable. If you are gender-neutral then don't forget that the gentleman had the same righ to use it as you had!

Anna Maria
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She said: quote 'As a woman I felt uncomfortable' And yet she used a gender-neutral bathroom So are you a woman or are you gender-neutral? If you are a woman then use the ladies bathroom and don't feel violated If you are gender-neutral then don't forget that the other gentleman had the same right to use it as you had!

Tamara Kroonen
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't use a fkn gender neutral bathroom then! That's the whole point of gender neutral bathrooms, THERE ARE NO GENDERS THERE! If you ACT like a woman and treat men like men by feeling violated, you don't get the concept of gender neutral.

Lira Mai
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Probably it is not a gender neutral restroom. Probably she was just too stupid to realized that she entered a male's restroom.

Fred Tenzer
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Part II: Whoever does not like this kind of mixed-sex bathroom, which I described here in Part I, must be given the use of a bathroom that gives privacy and/or is same-sex thus, each and every person be given a choice and thus, each and every person be pleased. Also, anyone may read my article on bathrooms and give feedback on my article on bathrooms, here is the link to my article on bathrooms; https://www.mansmarbles.com/single-post/2017/12/30/A-Case-For-Bathrooms-on-NYC-Subway-Trains

Fred Tenzer
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Part I: I wish that in New York City and in the rest of the USA, there are many bathrooms (including many public bathrooms) that are mixed-sex, have at least two toilets, the toilets (1) have no doors, (2) have no stalls, (3) have no privacy, both men (including cis men) and women (including cis women) are allowed to use and actually use this type of bathroom together at the same time, all people of all sexes (including both cis men and cis women) are allowed to and actually (1) expose their private parts to all people of all sexes (including both cis men and cis women), (2)look at the private parts of all people of all sexes (including both cis men and cis women), (3) be naked in front of all people of all sexes (including both cis men and cis women), (4) look at all people of all sexes naked (including both cis men and cis women), and if this type of mixed-sex bathroom (including mixed-sex public bathroom) were allowed to exist and actually exists, I would use it.

Mitchell Martin
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s FUCKING GENDER NEUTRAL! NOT A WOMANS BATHROOM!

Fred Tenzer
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone may read my article on bathrooms and give feedback on it, here is the link to my article on bathrooms; https://www.mansmarbles.com/post/2017-12-30-a-case-for-bathrooms-on-nyc-subway-trains

DC
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it is urgent, you don't wait. You can't. ... spoiled brat....

Eric Santiago
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe use the female bathroom like a female should instead of creating problems that does not need to be created.

Raquel Baldwin
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh just let it go,not so strange anymore anything is possible or can and will happen, and Now what, tey and stop it,that ain't gonna happen

Sara Nicole
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LOOOOL NO GENDER MEANS SOMETHING OR NOT ?

Owen Miller
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

FOR F**K'S Gender nuetral pathroom. Man went in a peed as he would in front another man. Do you want to treated with the same respect and rules as a man. You might have to see some d**k.

Iapetos
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Erm... gender neutral bathroom kind of implies that you are going to see something like that.

Sam Bishop
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop bitching. Everyone has a gender neutral toilet at home!

Tammy Ralph
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just another shit stirring comment, looking for problems where they're are none.

SnowWolf
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So why use a fucking gender neutral bathroom then? Get over yourself.

Tambot
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a feeling there was a closed stall, otherwise, how could there not be a lock? Who would do their business in a bathroom without a lock and no stall? If she was washing her hands, anyone could come in and use a stall, that's how stalls work! Very confusing and exaggerated story IMO.

Celtic Pirate Queen
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then don't go into a gender neutral bathroom, moron.

Mike
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A large part of the problem is that people don't communicate well. Some don't know how, some just don't care. Some use it as a tool to create conflict.

Eddie
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't buy the no lock BS. If it was a single toilet, no lock bathroom and she used it knowing that it did't lock, she took it upon herself that someone, male or female may walk in on her. She knew that was a possibility. In reality, she wanted to go viral.

Marnee DeRider
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a stupid post, Mr. Bored Panda. Not enough details to form any opinion. It's just comment-tantrum bait.

Fiona Toms-Yarnton
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have exactly half of our staff female, the other half male. There is ONE toilet, with sink and disposal unit for lady items. No problems sharing with others, but there is a good lock on the door so no-one comes in while I'm sitting on the toilet. THAT would be a problem for me, no matter what the gender of the intruder. But if there were a separate stall with a closed door, not a problem either.

b kukla
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still don't understand what a "gender neutral bathroom" is. At best it should be a place where a parent can bring their child of either sex. I am a woman. No way do I want to be in a room washing my hands when a strange man enters -- even if he doesn't use the urinal -- even if he is in a stall. Puh-leeze. Let us each have our moments of privacy.

Lauren Caswell
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that's fine to feel that way. It's that she chose a gender neutral facility when she would clearly prefer a single gender facility, seemingly just so she could complain that it was gender neutral

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Lola
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t care if the bathroom is gender neutral. You simply don’t use it if there is no lock. Or you make sure a friend stays right outside of it when you do your business to make sure no one goes in. If this is a one stall bathroom, then you should be more careful next time. I feel like we’re not getting the full story and you are looking for attention.

Jeff Requier
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its like a gas station with a SINGLE TOILET AND SINK! She didnt belong in there or they all belonged in there. "Gender neutral" washrooms are just handicapped washrooms because Men and Women share them one at a time.

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Patrick Shore
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

evil conception...a perversion of natural modesty

Kerry Smith
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I identify as Androgynous and I hate gender defined bathrooms and find neutral gender ones perfect for me but most are single occupancy and you lock the door while your in there.