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There has been a debate as old as time about whether life imitates art or if art imitates life. However, in the online space, the argument has switched over to whether memes imitate life or life imitates memes. I’d like to think that we create from our experiences, so that’s why so many memes on the internet are sometimes way too real for our own comfort. 

Speaking of… We have a whole batch of existential and relatable memes, courtesy of the 'TooMeIrlForMeIrl' subreddit. Scroll down to find them, and don’t forget to upvote the ones that you sympathize with the most.

While you're at it, make sure to check out a conversation with one of the subreddit's moderators under the nickname of FlyingPegasus and artists Heidi Jung and Jordan Swain, who kindly agreed to tell us more about art and memes imitating life and vice versa.

#1

Existential meme text about excitement and criticism, shared by user Aiiko.

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    Kermit the Frog leaning against a brick wall, pondering existential thoughts about life and pets.

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    Woman's face with math symbols, illustrating existential meme humor on awkwardness and self-awareness.

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    While the origins of the 'TooMeIrlForMeIrl' subreddit are unfortunately unknown, one of its moderators, FlyingPegasus, gladly agreed to tell us what it's all about.

    "I would describe it as memes that are all too familiar with everyday happenings and events that one can relate to," they told Bored Panda.

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    "What I like the most is the positive atmosphere it creates for everyone. Let's face it, a lot of us go through the same relatable experiences in our day-to-day lives. So the memes make for an immediate connection."

    #4

    Tweet about the awkwardness of being the third friend on a narrow sidewalk, capturing an existential meme moment.

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    #5

    A person in a suit with text: "If the Earth is flat, explain how my life has been going downhill consistently." Existential memes.

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    #6

    Tweet about existential meme humor, Googling word meanings before posting online.

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    The moderator's overall take on memes is this: "Memes are a creative expression of comedy for most people. Their simplicity makes it accessible for a wide-reaching audience. In general, I believe they create a positive impact because, despite everyone's differences, the community can come together to enjoy memes," they concluded.

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    #7

    Tweet from "common sad girl" about wanting to be 14 again with new ideas, capturing an existential meme sentiment.

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    Tweet about existential memes highlights avoiding new skills unless instantly good, captioned by anon with engagement stats.

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    Tweet about using humor to deflect trauma in therapy, highlighting an existential meme conversation.

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    Meanwhile, painter and photographer Jordan Swain could even see memes as pieces of art.

    "Memes are absolutely art, whether people want to admit it or not. They’re bite-sized cultural commentaries, using visuals and text to convey complex emotions, humor, and societal critiques in seconds."

    #10

    Existential meme tweet about wanting to nourish soil after death, with replies discussing usefulness in life.

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    #11

    A comic strip showing a woman aging over time, ending with her saying "well, that sucked," illustrating an existential theme.

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    Existential meme about late-night laundry folding and questioning depression.

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    Artist Heidi Jung could also see memes as art, but she's a bit more skeptical about it. "That requires us to ask the other age-old question, “What is art?'. In my mind, in order to be called art, something needs to have several elements. Does it strike an emotion, is it one of a kind and is it made by the human hand?" she says.

    "Under these guidelines, I think memes could be called a creative expression but are several elements away from being called art. I think they might better be described as a creative craft, with predictable elements placed together to achieve the item. A+B=C, image + text = meme."

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    #13

    Tweet about morning exercise and existential thoughts, highlighting the humor in realizing one's existence.

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    Elderly man in empty stadium hitting drum, representing existential meme humor.

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    #15

    Three dogs stuck in awkward positions, humorously depicting existential memes.

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    Since memes could be in some way considered art, this brings us back to the question we started this article with: Does life imitate art (memes) or does art (memes) imitate life?

    "The chicken-and-egg debate of the creative world," commented Swain. "Life throws something at us, and art catches it, exaggerates it, abstracts it, and throws it back. Then life, in turn, borrows from what art has reshaped. It’s not so much a matter of which imitates which, it’s more like a constant feedback loop where neither can exist without the other," she explains.

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    #16

    Existential meme with a koala and squirrel discussing failure and trying again.

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    #17

    Existential meme about arriving early, humorously describing waiting in the car to avoid being too early.

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    Squidward reflects on existential thoughts with text: "I want to live. I want to die," portraying existential memes.

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    Jung seems to agree that one can't exist without the other. "I think that questions like this and others such as “Which came first, the chicken or the egg?”, can best be explained by giving them a visual symbol like the Yin and Yang symbol or the infinity symbol. They rely on each other to exist and one depends on the other, therefore there isn’t one without the other."

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    #19

    Existential meme about adulthood and feeling tired shared by TechnicallyRon on Twitter.

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    Existential meme about fleeting school friendships, featuring a tweet from elto.

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    #21

    Tweet about CVS interaction with humorous existential undertone.

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    Whether it's the case of art or memes, people imitate life because it's all they know, says Swain. "Even the most surreal, abstract work is still rooted in someone’s perception, emotions, or subconscious experience. Can we create without pulling from our experiences? Technically, sure. But it would probably feel hollow, like AI-generated art that looks nice but has no real soul behind it. The best art resonates because it reflects something true, whether that’s personal, cultural, or universal."

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    #22

    A person asks Mr. Henry if he's okay, with existential meme text overlayed on two panels.

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    #23

    A jester in red sits looking contemplative, with text about going home depressed after making friends laugh, illustrating existential memes.

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    #24

    Existential meme about making dark jokes online but causing concern in real life.

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    Meanwhile, Jung says, "I think people imitate life in order to draw a closer connection to it. It is a big world out there and people want to be a part of the conversation and possibly make their small mark on society. Their 15 minutes of fame."

    She also agrees that we can create without including our experiences in our works, but it would lack depth, meaning, and layers, which make up a higher-quality creation. "For example, something really hitting the universal mark, rather than falling flat due to lack of experiential understanding."

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    #25

    Existential meme with text: "Literally all you need to be an artist," above "art supplies & pain" sign in a store.

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    #26

    Text meme about reaching an age where good partners are taken, highlighting existential humor.

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    Text message meme illustrating existential anxiety and overthinking in a conversation.

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    Lastly, Jung additionally mentioned, "Whether classified as art or not, memes have created an oftentimes comedic language and dialogue desperately needed in these times. I know I use and rely on comedy regularly to absorb the amount of incoming information that we are peppered with on a regular basis in a digital age."

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    #28

    Overweight dog lying on grass with text about accepting your "winter body." Existential memes humor.

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    #29

    Text message meme on existential humor about rejection and reasoning skills.

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    #30

    Person in a fur coat with text "depression" overlayed, illustrating existential memes theme.

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    #31

    McDonald's drive-thru with humorous existential meme caption about a Happy Meal and depression.

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    #32

    Existential meme with text about living on autopilot as a result of emotional detachment.

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    #33

    Dog wrapped in a towel after bath, captioned with an existential meme moment.

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    #34

    Woman navigating laser beams, illustrating an existential meme about honesty with a therapist.

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    #35

    Person lying in bed with clothes and shoes neatly arranged, capturing an existential meme moment.

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    #36

    Tweet about a 7-year-old obsessed with "deez nuts" jokes, humorously capturing an existential meme moment.

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    #37

    Doctor shaking hands with patient as an existential meme humorously highlights lack of health insurance situation.

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    #38

    Existential meme text about simplifying skincare routine with a humorous suggestion to wash pillowcases.

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    #39

    Existential meme featuring uneaten banana bread at a party, with worried man inset.

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    #40

    Venn diagram with existential meme overlapping my 20s, The Great Depression, and 1920s.

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    #41

    Existential meme with luxury cars surrounding a regular car, captioned about friendship despite appearance.

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    #42

    Man pointing at his head with text about existential crisis, embodying the essence of existential memes humor.

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    #43

    Two characters labeled "me," one holding a pole, representing an existential meme scenario.

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    #44

    Parrot humorously wears a bell as a hat in an existential meme.

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    #45

    A kitten looking sad with a fry, illustrating existential memes and self-reflection humor.

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    #46

    Man reacts humorously to dopamine meme, feeling satisfied.

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    #47

    SpongeBob meme depicting an existential crisis about waking up for work, layered with frustration.

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    #48

    Tweet about existential struggles, revealing inability to produce serotonin humorously, with a reply about not being able to whistle.

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    #49

    Man looking at his reflection in a mirror with existential meme text overlaying.

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    #50

    Existential meme featuring a cartoon character opening a door labeled "College" leading to "Debt."

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    #51

    Woman looking surprised, representing existential memes about friends responding to a video awkwardly early.

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    #52

    Twitter post with an existential meme about a brain cell bouncing like a screensaver.

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    #53

    Tweet about an apartment's large bathtub, reflecting on an existential moment.

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    #54

    Definition of "npc energy" with an existential meme about conversation habits.

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    #55

    A man at a restaurant looking awkwardly at a waitress, embodying existential meme humor.

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    #56

    Existential meme with a character greeting darkness and being rejected, expressing a relatable feeling of loneliness.

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    #57

    Existential meme text conversation about poisoned drinks and cost concerns.

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    #58

    Existential meme showing a conversation where one person forgets to block the sender.

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    #59

    Retro illustration of a man with a red tie, next to a humorous existential meme about self-perception.

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    #60

    Man on couch with remote, critiquing Olympic skater in existential meme on relatability.

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    #61

    Existential meme tweet listing "julia" five times humorously, asking for a goldfish back.

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    #62

    Existential meme with a superhero responding dismissively about political discussions.

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    #63

    Car with a humorous "No Baby on Board" sticker, reflecting existential meme humor.

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    #64

    Cute fluffy dog sipping from a juice box labeled "want to die," representing existential memes.

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    #65

    Two historical figures with text overlay about depression, exemplifying existential memes.

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    #66

    Illustration of two people labeled "me" and "literally nobody" with existential meme theme.

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    #67

    Text meme discussing anxiety and depression with an existential theme.

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    #68

    Elderly man in suit, holding glasses, with text about judging others for actions he recently quit; existential meme humor.

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    #69

    A humorous existential meme showing a man joking with a doctor about a serious diagnosis.

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    #70

    Text tweet about existential meme on D&D planning: 1. Set date. 2. Prep work. 3. Watch cancellations. 4. Drink.

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    #71

    Man staring at a computer screen in existential meme, 2009 vs 2019 comparison.

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    #72

    A boy wearing a party hat sits at a table with a caption expressing existential humor.

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    #73

    Existential meme of a boy making a self-deprecating joke and his friends agreeing instead of laughing.

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    #74

    Existential meme of a black dog labeled 'sadness' and a white dog labeled 'me' in a yard.

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    #75

    Text conversation meme about asking someone out, capturing an existential moment of rejection.

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    #76

    Existential meme about depression as a loyal companion, humorously reflecting on mental health challenges.

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    #77

    Existential meme showing a GPS error when trying to reach personal goals and dreams.

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    #78

    Existential meme by bill wurtz about having a pre-ruined day.

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    #79

    Switch labeled "h***y lol" and "I could die tomorrow," embodying existential meme humor.

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    #80

    Character adjusting mask with "Showtime!" caption; an existential meme highlighting procrastination and mental health struggle.

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    #81

    Existential meme with text about handling someone at their worst, suggesting it was their best, humorously implying decline.

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    #82

    Existential meme thread with comments discussing waking up to an uncharged phone.

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    #83

    Farmer in a field wearing overalls and a hat, with text referencing existential memes and humor.

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    #84

    A person doing a flip at the beach illustrates an existential meme about unreciprocated thoughts.

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    #85

    Comedian on stage delivering existential meme about escape rooms and depression, wearing a red polka dot shirt and glasses.

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    #86

    Existential meme with repeated words "yes" in response to the question "are you happy?"

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    Lock labeled "lock to happiness" with key labeled "key to happiness" humorously depicting existential themes.

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    #88

    Existential meme illustration with text about self-worth and debt on a green background.

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    #89

    Man on phone, looking worried, featured in existential meme about lying to parents on The Onion's website.

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    Tweet with existential meme text expressing feelings of failure and loneliness, featuring engagement stats like retweets and likes.

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    #91

    Comic strip with a doctor and patient discussing existential pain in a humorous setting.

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    #92

    Existential meme with a person alone in an empty stadium labeled "mom sad" under "Reasons to live" text.

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    #93

    Meme of a man rejecting "The Great Depression" and approving "The big sad," highlighting existential humor.

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    Shaggy and Scooby-Doo in an existential meme about daily struggles and depression with "Zoinks" text.

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    #95

    Blank attractions sign symbolizing existential memes, surrounded by trees, with the caption "people getting to know me be like."

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    #96

    A figure kneeling with a chain in a loop around its neck. Text reads: "me making fun of my own suffering." Existential meme theme.

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    Existential meme showing a Dorito chip lit like a candle as a humorous response to high achievement.

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