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When you witness discrimination, you have two choices: stay silent and move on or speak up and challenge it.

Many of us like to think we’d always choose the latter, but with so much injustice in the world, it doesn’t always happen as often as we’d hope. That’s why seeing others take a stand can be inspiring—especially through conversations in spaces such as the Facebook group Feminist Info. Dedicated to women’s rights, this group tackles complex and often overlooked issues head-on.

Check out some of their most eye-opening takes below, and let us know your thoughts in the comments!

#1

Text post supporting social justice, praising trans women and drag queens for their kindness and safety in 90s NYC clubs.

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Megalodon Meg
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS. It's repulsive we're still having to say these things and cis white males are still trying to tell us what is safe and comfortable.

michael Chock
Community Member
9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a cis white man, I can tell you cis white men are not safe or comfortable to be round. Recently most of my conversations with "others" has been me defending this view is something I share. They have not been comfortable conversations. Do yourself a favor, don't make friends with me, find some Trans guy/gal/pal.

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anne sane
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9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was roofied at a club. Woke up on a couch (in the club) and could barely focus much less stand. My "friend" had left me. A drag queen who was just arriving ran up to me despite their friends protests. She took me outside, told the cops not to arrest me for public intoxication while she went to get her car. I couldnt remember my address...only my street and that i lived in a 2 story house. She started at one end of a very long street that went several blocks and shook me awake at each one until we arrived at mine.. my purse and everything had been stolen at the club. I dont know what would have happened if she hadnt saved me. And i never got a good look bc was so messed up. But will never forget that angel.

BookFanatic
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drag queens are some of my favorite people. I'm still hoping a miracle will occur and we will be allowed to have a drag time story hour at our library.

CariBear
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would trust 100 Drag Queens over 1 Unknown Male

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Deborah B
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9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lets be real here: no one wants to share a bathroom with cis men. Trans women don't feel safe in the mens room, cis women are afraid of cis men pretending to be trans women to intrude in womens room. Trans men are hiding in stalls to prevent cis men from identifying them as AFAB because they don't feel safe either. The problem is always the CIS MEN. All the demonisation of trans women and drag queens comes down to the same thing: the fear that they are going to behave like predatory cis men.

Joe Reaves
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even the transphobes and TERFS using fear to try to stop trans women using the women's bathroom focus on the idea that a cis man might *pretend* to be a trans woman to get into women's spaces. They're SO CLOSE to grasping that the real problem isn't trans women.

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KT
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9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

40 yrs ago for me. Best queens ever

marianne eliza
Community Member
9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love going out with my gay friends, to gay bars. I can have a good time without being hit on or worrying about being followed around.

Debby Keir
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in Occupational Health - any 'medical' issues at work were referred to me to 'solve'. 40 years ago, we had a trans woman in the workforce - really nice person, but thought the ladies' toiloets were just like the men's room as far as comments/banter etc. The women got really fed up with her pinging their bra's (common in the UK school playgrounds years ago - pulling the back elastic and letting it go - and it hurts) and asking everything about where they bought their undies/makeup. The ladies in the end, refused to share facilities with the trans woman. It needed quite a bit of talking through with her as she was 'offended' that they didn't see her as one of them. Explaining that the sort of teasing that men 'do' is not actually welcomed by the women, as she thought if someone did that to her, she'd 'fit in' better.

Breadcrumb.
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never known a Trans woman whom would do that, I've known at least half a dozen..maybe it was a personality trait not a Trans issue?

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tori Ohno
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You bet! They're the best when you need it.

Bryn
Community Member
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9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and what i don't understand is "we don't want men using the same bathroom as girls!" if you make transmen use the gender they were given at birth, they would be in those bathrooms. which is what you wanted to avoid.

the sixthgirl
Community Member
9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh lord, yes! I remember there was a time when I wasn't even willing to dance unless it was in a gay bar.

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    #2

    Text highlights a man's reflection on social justice issues related to women's safety at night.

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    Smeghead Tribble Down Under
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get it. Thank you to all the men who get it.

    michael Chock
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice guys need to realize, women are on their side. Entitled abusive men are ruining all of our social lives.

    Gracie Jay
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg, this! They ruin everything for all of us!

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    veryvenasaur
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly like I understand that the average guy is probably fine but at only 18 years old I have been harassed cat called and threatened with violence I don’t want to take the risk.

    Nikole
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always err on the side of caution, even if you think you’re being silly.

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    Heras buddy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try to move to the opposite side of the street if a woman is walking alone. It's not much but a little distance might help them feel safer.

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too. I'm tall, I'm big and I know very well that I could appear to be a potential threat. I am certainly not, the worst I would do would be to internally criticise someone's makeup, but no woman can know that if I am walking behind them or nearby at all. Women have had to learn to be constantly on the look out, just in case. It must be exhausting for them.

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    PunchinelloTX
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very true. I had an epiphany a few years ago, before I became critically ill, I would hike miles daily. Just all over the nature reserve. I had always thought, “I’m safe. A woman shouldn’t fear me— a small gay man.” But, I began to notice that if I was walking behind a woman, she’d get anxious. At first, these reaction insulted me. What a jerk I was! All men— it DOES apply to me. How should a woman know I’m no threat? It’s my responsibility to be respectful and give the woman space. I really felt ashamed and did a better job after that.

    Luke Oakridge
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And what if a white person started expecting black people to give them a wide berth when they hiked? I'm sure you'd call that racist. How is that any different from a woman expecting men to give them a wide berth?

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    veirdbuttrue
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He gets it!!! Thank you Matty!

    jet
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well said, and thank you!

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    As an adult woman, I’ve spent a lot of time trying to pinpoint the moment I first realized I was living in a world built for men. As a kid, even between the ages of three and five, I remember my parents fully supporting me, telling me I could achieve anything I wanted. Back then, I didn’t see myself as much different from the boys around me, aside from the obvious physical differences and a few varying interests.

    But as I sifted through old memories, flipping through photo albums and watching grainy VHS recordings, I started to notice the signs. The clues had always been there, subtle but constant reminders that my experience in life would be fundamentally different from that of my male peers.

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    #3

    Social media post advocating for social justice, discussing LGBTQ representation in books.

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    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always wondered about the "logic" behind that. Of course there is none.

    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But did Billy ask Brad to prom????

    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The morons who want to ban books like that just insist upon viewing gayness as something inherently sexual when it's not. Some gay people are also asexual, for one thing. As for me I grew up being bombarded with messages from every corner about how I was supposed to marry a man and have babies when I grew up. I turned out aro ace regardless and haven't so much as seen a guy with his clothes off in nearly twenty years.

    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, I am aromantic and I grew up watching old disney movies on repeat and the show "4 weddings for a honeymoon" every day on TV.

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    CariBear
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact that homosexuality IS NATURAL in NATURE (ie. observed occurrences of homosexual relationships between animals) and yet people (homo sapiens) still think it is UNNATURAL. I do not understand this world sometimes.

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Cause we are not animals!" I'm guessing lots of them believe really hard?

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    Rick Seiden
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If asking Brad to the prom makes Billy happy, who cares?

    keyboardtek
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Conservatives seem to be obsessed with other people's sexual proclivities even though do not affect their lives in the least.

    Bryn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so just have him read a book about a straight couple and he'll go back.

    Callie27
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is making me very emotional, especially that I'm listening to sad music T0T

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    #4

    Post about standing up for social justice at work, highlighting a supportive team member.

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    Megalodon Meg
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are the only men that can ever claim "not all men" but would never actually say that.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They also never declare themselves to be “nice guys”. They also take someone’s “No” at face value and back away. They also stop other men when they’re harassing anyone, especially women. They also never expect a woman to put out just because he asked her in a date and paid for the food. That’s not a complete list, but you catch my drift. Men like this are a rarity, and deserve to be cherished.

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    camomooey
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is like this. One of the many reasons I love him.

    Sophia Pandia de Delphia
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for sharing, camomooey. My husband has been a manager for over 20 years in four different industries. To see him grow over time to be "a nice guy" and "not all men" has made me love him more and more. Each step up doing these kind of things shouldn't surprise me. I think I'm surprised at how much prouder I am of him and how much more I love him for it.

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    B
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When people do this in a meeting I just get louder & talk over them. They usually get the point

    Rafael
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do that often. But usually I was the one interrupting. Both sexes. All ranks. I interrupt people A LOT, that's what I'm saying.

    CP
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do that for anyone who seems like they are trying to speak, but are a little more timid about announcing they want to. I am not timid.

    M H
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why the hell is this a "what a great guy: post? How about a lets stop inteŕrupting women post?

    Luke Oakridge
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So if a man was interrupted, would he stop to help him speak his mind?

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    Like the time when four- or five-year-old me wanted to play Pokémon—such a silly, innocent thing, really, but one that hinted at something bigger. I didn’t have any cards, so the boys each handed me their worst ones—just enough to let me join in, but never to actually win. Or how I was told that girls mature faster than boys, so I always had to be “the bigger person.” And how the parents at school seemed obsessed with the idea of first graders having “crushes,” as if every boy-girl interaction had to mean something.

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    #5

    Tweet showing a bartender helping a woman avoid an uncomfortable situation, illustrating social justice on social media.

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    ohjojo (you/your's)
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh I totally did not understand that. I had to read it over like five times before. I understood that the bartender was faking a text from his sister in order to warn her about the guy she was sitting next to. I was trying to figure out how the sister knew who the patron was sitting next to. well that one was definitely above my head

    Bryn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. "Is the sister somewhere in the bar???"

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    Chickie
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this bartender! I wish more people (men and women) would be this caring!

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There have been numerous clubs that have safe words for women to alert bartenders, bless them?

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should have been an exclamation point not a question mark!!!

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    EJN
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bartenders often know their patrons very well and their warning is probably on the mark.

    Donna Peluda
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Man, if I did this to a woman, who should she trust. Me or the other man? All men are bad a dangerous so what makes the bartender a good guy? Maybe he's just making sure she's alone and more vulnerable.

    Gracie Jay
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That logic seems silly. I’d not get into a conversation with the guy to the right. However, that doesn’t mean I now trust or know the bartender is some great guy. I’d still be using the standard amount of caution with him as well.

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    Warren Peece
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bartender wanted to hook up with him.

    Michael None
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    9 months ago (edited)

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    and then you'll get the "I don't need a man to tell me who to talk to or not" crowd blowing up in your face. No thanks, not my monkey not my circus.

    tai
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    9 months ago

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    We do. I think we all do.

    Maartje
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only wish that were true. So many times I have had to ask "If you knew this how come you did not tell me?" And they go "well I thought you were having a good time". That's just the thing, a predator is not going to say " Hi, I am a predator." WARN the girl.

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    Josh Gallant
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Toxic masculinity is a form of emotional abuse passed down through indoctrination generationally. We CAN rebel against it. We SHOULD rebel against it.

    CP
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like how you added passed down through indoctrination. It is a learned behavior that needs to be stamped out.

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    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a boyfriend who tried to imply, right out of the blue, that I was a gold digger and only with him for his money. I made a lot more than he did, and had paid his way numerous times by then, which was already getting on my nerves, so I asked him, “Really? So where are you hiding your vast fortune, Diamond Jim?” He had no answer for that. While he was unsuccessfully trying to think of a comeback, I told him we were going to strictly go dutch from then on, and each pay our own way when we went out together. Yeah, we didn’t last much longer—-which was absolutely fine with me and my bank account.

    Nikole
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an ex who I learned thought I went to the bathroom after the meal in order to not pay my part. I told him I have borderline IBS and to just sit with the check for a few minutes until I get back. Nope. I was being deceitful. Asshòle.

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    Michael None
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife does this. She expects me to fix all the things that break in the house, do all the remodeling, landscaping ect and then contribute 50/50 on the house and 50/50 with taking care of our daughter. You know what I do it all gladly because she does things I don't as well and that's what being part of a team is.

    Bryn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "i want a traditional wife, but I don't want to be a traditional man" They'll never pay the bills or fix anything.

    Joanne Hudson
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think I have ever in my life had a discussion about division of work/activities in the home.

    Sophia Pandia de Delphia
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We didn't either. We've been married 25 years and I was a full-time student with part-time work for 12 years (he saw me through 4 degrees). So I just started working on what we needed and he took care of whatever else. With the exception of making him take out the trash, we traded off with whoever had the time, ability, etc. When he lost his job, he took care of everything domestic without us talking about it. I've been chronically ill and he's stepped up and taking care of the harder tasks. I can't believe how lucky I am to have him. Thanks, Joanne, because I've never thought about this til now. I'm so lucky!

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    veirdbuttrue
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not something I had ever considered! But yeah!!!! This is so true!!!

    Je souhaite
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    9 months ago

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    Only if you are dumb enough to do all that

    tai
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    9 months ago

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    Well that isn't happening unless two forms of idiot collide.

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    #7

    Tweet about an Uber driver embracing social justice, supporting the LGBTQ+ community and living with a lesbian couple.

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    LB
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always love this one somehow

    Lemaire
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love that while it’s unlikely that the woman ever referred to herself as the “husband lesbian”, the guy’s heart was clearly in the right place.

    Panda McPandaface
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know several lesbian couples that refer to their partner as 'husband' or 'wife' - I'm a gay man and I wouldn't use the titles in a relationship of my own, I'd say that the women I know do it in a playful way and it's not totally serious but it's not my business, it's purely what they are happy with that matters.

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    CP
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A few conservative politicians changed tune when a relative came out. We need to teach empathy somehow. If you can't imagine what it must be like for someone else without going through it yourself or having it happen to someone close to you, you are emotionally handicapped.

    CariBear
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learning new things; good for him :)

    I never questioned these things as a child. It wasn’t until I first heard the word feminism at ten years old—alongside terms like women’s rights and gender discrimination—that I started to understand. Well, maybe not the full scope of how much it would affect me, but I did understand that I would have to stand up for myself and support other women in doing the same. And I try to do that now.

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    #8

    Text post about standing up for social justice, discussing gender norms and receiving mixed family reactions.

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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the same generation that told girls if a boy pushes you or pulls your hair he likes you & wonders why so many of us wound up in abusive relationships saying but he says he loves me. I taught my son if you put your hands on a women I will knock your teeth out myself

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Odd that Grandma was pissed off that OP would question why it’s the woman’s responsibility, and that and Uncle already knew it wasn’t fair for women to have to control men instead of the men controlling themselves.

    Huddo's sister
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, though it was my mum congratulating me on realising it.

    #9

    Tweet about social justice supporting trans and non-binary people against racism and discrimination.

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    Full of Giggles
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Don’t ever listen to some b- who can’t blend their makeup.” I’m gonna use this the next time my trans daughter is crying about her fears.

    RiotGrrrl
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your daughter has a wonderful parent. Keep on kicking @ss. The world needs more folks like you.

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    Maartje
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so worried about my friends right now.

    Callie27
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, your friends always have someone watching their back, and so do you <3 :)

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    michael Chock
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be proud. I would 100% trust a non binary with my son before anyone these sex obsessed religious pervs have put into leadership positions.

    Earonn -
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keep the trans people, kick out the racists, terfs, and sexists (in many cases, that's a 3-in-1)

    Smeghead Tribble Down Under
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pissed off, I'm LIVID, that people have to be scared of their own countrymen, in their own country, because of that c*nt. I wish everyone who wants to had the means to leave the USA >.<

    Gwyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least half the populace hates the orange dictator and is on your side. Even if it doesn't seem like it remember there are people who care about what happens to you!

    camomooey
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately that b***h is dangerous in so many other ways as well. I am so scared for us all.

    Dawn Marie
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or a Marmalade Head who cares more about power and money that people.

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    #10

    A screenshot of a tweet about a social justice encounter at the gym.

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    Beachbum
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Orrrr Just hear me out, don't anyone record in the Gym!!

    Rafael
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All right, this is nice, but did the white blotchy background also made you think that either your screen was failing or, worse, your retina?

    CariBear
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the type of gym I'd want to go to :)

    Eunice Robertson
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a somewhat similar experience. I was in our local shopping mall, and it was pensioner's day, so there were a lot of seniors around. I noticed two guys, one white, one black eying out the old people and I just knew they were up to no good. I finished my shopping and as I walked home I noticed the black guy following me, but on the other side of the road. I had a small pepper spray in my bad, and as I got to the corner of the block, I stepped behind a tall hedge and waited for him to make his move. At the same time I noticed a gentleman crossing the intersection towards me. He said, "I saw that guy following you. You go off home and I will stop him as he comes around the corner." I don't know what would have happened that morning, but I know that that kind man saved me.

    Despite its significance, feminism remains misunderstood or outright rejected by many.

    According to the dictionary, feminism is “the belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes, expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women’s rights and interests.”

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    You’d think that striving for equality would be widely supported, yet a recent Ipsos survey found that only 39% of respondents from 31 high- and upper-middle-income countries identified as feminists. Meanwhile, an average of 51% disagreed with this label.

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    #11

    Social media post advocating for social justice by challenging body image standards set by certain men.

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    Heras buddy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a 64 year old man. The last thing I want is someone who doesn't understand my references to the 70s and 80s. They'll never get the joke. I learned it's best to be with someone who is happy with themselves in the way they appear.

    Sky Render
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And in some cases those men think teenagers are too old. Ick.

    Storm Rise
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh boy- right on the button with this comment! 100%

    #12

    Tweet highlights gender respect issues in social justice.

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    Megalodon Meg
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just tell them I have vagina dentata and that seems to work

    zovjraar me
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i would just say, "you know i have a d1ck, right?" sorry, transpeople, for using you to fend off these effers.

    Maartje
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That only worked half of the time for me.

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I even wore a wedding ring to work when I was younger and single, and still had men—-also wearing wedding rings—-hit on me. When I would say “But you’re married”, they would often reply “Yeah, so’s my wife”, like that’s some kind of joke. They never got anything from me except the bare minimum professional courtesy so I could keep my job. A******s.

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    Cydney Golden
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why can't a woman just say no and walk away safely?

    The Big Bad
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it about respect or could it be about avoiding head trauma?

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    #13

    Tweet advocating social justice, challenging beauty standards and embracing natural appearances in women.

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    Child of the Stars
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I stopped removing my body hair a few years ago. I have better things to spend my time and energy on. If my date doesn't like it, that's his problem, not mine.

    SkyyCaramba
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i love makeup in general, but y'all will always look great with or without makeup

    Rick Murray
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in a place where makeup and jewellery is banned (hygiene reasons). Honestly, to me, most of the women look far better au naturel than when painted with magic marker.

    Stannous Flouride
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was interviewed on the street by a Spanish TV reporter and she asked, "We have heard that American men don't like women with hair on their bodies. Is that true?" I answered, "Not me. I'm not into having $ex with little girls."

    Luke Oakridge
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So if a woman likes a man who shaves, does that mean she's not really into men?

    Chris Robertson
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my young days I rwice tried growing out the hair on my legs rather than shave. Turns out I just couldn't STAND the feel of the wind blowing through the hair. :) (Now that I am old, Nature has solved the leg hair problem for me.)

    Sophia Pandia de Delphia
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here! I tried so hard to not bother with leg hair. It felt awful with the way the hairs rubbed against my pants, leggings, hose, bed sheets ... So I shave.

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    Tabitha
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    9 months ago

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    Sounds more like you’re a perv who’s into children and should be locked up.

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    I’d say the current state of feminism can be summed up in just a few other statistics (though I could easily make a several-page-long list). 

    For instance, 81% of women report experiencing some form of sexual harassment or assault in their lifetime. Or consider the gender pay gap—it has hardly improved over the years. In 2002, women in the U.S. earned an average of 80% of what men made, and today, that number has only crept up to 82%, according to the Pew Research Center.

    Women of color, however, face even greater disparities. Black women in the U.S. have the highest maternal mortality rate, with 69.9 deaths per 100,000 live births in 2021—nearly three times the rate for white women, based on data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

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    #14

    Social media post by Derek Guy questioning why wealthy people commit crimes, suggests living peacefully with $500K.

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    Lady Eowyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And live in a sweet little cottage. Just let me live in peace.

    Curry on...
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A sweet little cottage with a backyard for the dog I'd get.

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    Beak Hookage
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too much money just seems to turn some people into psychopaths.

    Cerise Hood
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would adopt the amount of cats I can legally have

    Josh Gallant
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or possibly help those less fortunate than them instead of sowing discord in the world.

    Rick Murray
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dream that that sort of money could make real... Buy an old observatory up the top of a mountain. Enjoy the scenery by day, and the cosmos by night. I'm an introvert naturally, but more and more I think I would quite like taking my cat and myself to a place where other people just won't be. And, yes, be peaceful, drink lots of tea, watch Rob Ross reruns, and make some truly awful attempts at oil painting.

    Tim Gibbs
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s all about opportunity

    Grenelda Thurber
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People don't get rich by being nice, decent people.

    keyboardtek
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think acquisition of excessive wealth ultimately becomes a form of mental disease.

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    #15

    A tweet advocating for social justice regarding baby changing stations in men's washrooms.

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    Armac
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shopping malls having parents rooms is a blessing. But yes men’s rooms should have them too

    Gwyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes even the woman's restroom doesn't have one. There have been many times I've changed a diaper on the floor (always had to carry a big changing pad so baby wasn't on the gross floor).

    CP
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hated this as a dad. Going to a place and not knowing if there was a changing station in the men's room. I have in a pinch done it in the women's bathroom. I know the bathroom police on BP will have a problem with this, but it was always with the women around understanding my predicament.

    Tom
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the BP Bathroom police (snorts, really?) has an issue with that - then why have they neglected to provide for these rooms either gender neutral or also in the mens room? Or is the message "men are inept at taking care of children and we want to keep them that way?"

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    Manic Mama
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The shopping centres in my area in Australia have "Parent's Rooms".

    Danielle Helme
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet my husband still gets dirty looks from other mums when he goes in there alone to change our kids. He had one even wait until he was done changing our daughter and was leaving before changing hers

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    Max Fox
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I changed my kid's diapers in many inappropriate places since the men's room did not have a diaper changing table (their was the early 2000s).

    Doodles1983
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother is single. Fostered a baby single. Adopted and is raising him. Single. Every. Time. "Where is mum?" It's toxic. Expectation falls to the woman. We are WAY past that. Or should be.

    Child of the Stars
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's changing. A lot of places are starting to put them in.

    Austzn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We just need single use rooms that are properly equipped for whatever humans need in there. It literally solves everyone's problems.

    Stannous Flouride
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see them much more often than in the past, especially in restaurants and airports. Some progress at least.

    jet
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey Dad, I agree, but it's our sexist paternal society that's gotten us here, so...

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    #16

    Tweet highlighting social justice: A woman shares workplace experience where a man answered a question meant for her.

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    Maartje
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am laughing but yeah this is typical.

    veirdbuttrue
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had menopause explained to me by a 30 year old man at work. He told me it didn't exist.

    Fire Singer
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG I'd love to hear the reasoning he gave behind that! If he bothered to try and give any at all.

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    Fire Singer
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to just go completely silent when I'm interrupted (by man or woman honestly) and wait for them to finish. I stay silent just long enough for it to be uncomfortable then ask, "Are you done?" It's fun to see the reactions.

    Sally-Ann
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be tempted to reply "oh wow Fred...I never realised, your transition has been amazing! Or is that insenstive, because I don't want to offend...I don't really know much about people of your...gender." While looking very wide eyed and innocent.

    And as if that weren’t enough, global headlines continue to show just how far we are from true equality. In Afghanistan, the Taliban has banned women from speaking in public. In Iran, authorities are cracking down on women who refuse to wear hijabs, punishing them for something as simple as exposing their forearms or lower legs. If anything, feminism is a matter of survival.

    #17

    Tweet highlighting a social justice issue by questioning gender armor disparities in video games.

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    Feathered Dinosaur
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want men in tiny chainmail loincloths in video games, who's with me?

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, let’s have them go to real life war in chainmail bikinis, and see how it feels. Better yet, instead of going to war, let’s just have the leaders of the two main countries involved meet in a stadium and fight it out between them with nothing but 10 lb sacks of horse manure.

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    Patricia Manteuffel
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just on more place to objectify women.

    Heras buddy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But what about their fragile manhood?

    CP
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone know women are built for speed and the heavy armor will just slow them down.

    Andie Day
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Voted for that because I thought it was funny and am assuming you're being sarcastic. I hope.

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    Dolevaal
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Like girl, your going to fight, isnt this a bit impractical rn?

    Zero
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey Dino you know what I want that too.. it's our turn surely

    SheamusFanFrom1987
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm testing out this theory: I'm about to charge Alduin right now! Someone hand me my fur lavalava aka fur armor! XP XD

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    #18

    Text exchange highlighting social justice awareness, addressing safe relationships in healthcare settings.

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    Armac
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We do this sort of thing more often than you’d expect

    Beak Hookage
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An American friend of mine had healthcare providers checking in with her just like this while she was pregnant, to make sure she was in a safe and healthy relationship and pregnant by choice. Fortunately, she was. (It's a girl!).

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    Beak Hookage
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the most important parts of feminism is that we women must support each other instead of being set against each other. Unity is strength, and that goes for any situation where people must stand up for their rights and the rights of others.

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Putting women against each other is called divide and conquer, and is the oldest and most used trick in the book.

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    BookFanatic
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't realize the reasoning behind my doc asking me--repeatedly--if I felt safe at home. Then it occurred to me that my multiple bruises along with my 6'3" 275 lb teddy bear of a boyfriend in the waiting room were causing concerns with the staff. I'm perfectly safe; I'm just a klutz who bruises if anyone so much as looks at me.

    Dee Rutherford
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Understand! Me too. My poor husband got grief till I straightened them out.

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    Tropical Tarot
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At my doctor's office there's a notice to mark your urine specimen a certain way if you are in an abusive relationship and need help.

    Huddo's sister
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mum, like my sister and I, bruises easily and is clumsy. The doctor saw some of her bruises once and asked if she was in a safe relationship. She felt similarly to the OP.

    B
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish someone had done this for me when I was a teenage mother

    OneHappyPuppy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. We have a mandatory thing when you give birth, a nurse comes to check on you, the baby, and to give you some starter tips for the basics in neonatal care. I had developed PPD, lack of sleep and was on the verge of getting mastitis and noticeably sad. I must add that I was a foreigner in my new country as well. So at first when she started questioning me as to why did I come here, get married and have a baby I was really offended. Much later did I get it... They are required to ask and probably report it

    Crystal M
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was seeing a specialist a few weeks ago and had two very large, fresh bruises on my face and neck from a fall (I'm fine, no one hurt me). I was a bit disheartened that no one inquired. As a nurse, I would have.

    Sophia Pandia de Delphia
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    During an emergency trip to the hospital, I blew six veins due to dehydration. By the time I was home and back to seeing my physician, it felt everyone was carefully pulling me aside and asking if I was safe because of the bruises. I then wore long sleeves and hid another with my hair (*never* try an IV needle in your neck unless you absolutely have to--oh the pain!).

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    Doodles1983
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do men get asked. In the spirit of equity.

    Phred
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my wife slipped on the pavement outside a coffee shop and got a concussion I left work to take care of her. At the hospital the triage nurse asked her if she felt safe at home. I know that because I WAS IN THE ROOM WITH HER! I offered to leave the room, but they both said I didn't have to. Both my wife and I knew she was safe, but unless I send out some kind of "completely harmless" signal, the nurse wouldn't know without asking.

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    #19

    Text image challenging social norms about women's attire in education settings, promoting social justice.

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    shivaani
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Now move along you're in the way of my degree' hell yes

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then the guys should go to class in nothing but assless chaps, so we have something cute to look at (or laugh at, tbh).

    Enlee Jones
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL and one of these days I may actually give a s**t about what men like.

    Upstaged75
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to a woman's college. According to my little brother (at the time) that made me gay. LOL, no. I had a boyfriend at another school. But being able to learn in an environment where I wasn't concerned about some dude looking at my a*s was an amazing gift. It was one of the best times of my life and I enjoyed every moment of it. And no, it wasn't like a convent - it was a typical US college. We just didn't have guys living or going to class there.

    Miki
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, girls like when boys shower so let start with this. :D

    Kelbers11
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I looked like a hobo most days I went to class. The professor certainly didn’t care what I looked like, so why should I? 😂

    Tropical Tarot
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to one of the few womens college left in the US. So relaxing not to have to deal will all the bs from dudes everyday.

    RiverWynn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! And YAY for you and higher education!

    Dolevaal
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank god we are no barbies poor bored men can play dressup with. Get lost, my outfit isnt your bloody business.

    Gracie Mae
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen this posted in other places and i will ALWAYS up-vote it--move, b*tch, get out the way!

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    Bored Panda spoke with Nyomi Winter, a project officer, blogger, and mother who is vocal about feminism, to explore why the movement remains essential for women today.

    “At the most basic level, feminism is so important to me because women and girls deserve equal rights and opportunities just as much as boys and men, yet that has still not been fully achieved in modern society,” she tells us. “This means not only are girls and women missing out, but society as a whole is losing out on their talent and the progress that could be achieved by maximizing that.”

    #20

    Social media post advocating social justice, discussing men's role in childbirth decisions.

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    Heras buddy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better yet do women have the right to deny them local anesthetic when having a vasectomy.

    Ruth Watry
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless he is willing to have a certain orifice expanded to 10 cm without d***s, he does not have a vote

    Tobias Reaper
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i totally agree with this yes they might be the father but the mother is one delivering its their body their choice dont matter what anyone else says

    Marianne
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    But it's also about the life of the child. Shouldn't the father have a say in decisions concerning the safety of the child?

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    SkyyCaramba
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if I had kids, whoever's giving birth to them is getting the utmost amount of care because HOLY S**T THERE'S A BABY IN YOU!!

    Gwyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ideally both parents have the same goals to keep Mom and baby safe and healthy during child birth and will want the same thing. If that's not the case then you need to question what the man actually wants most, if he's not listening to his wife's needs. He probably didn't care most for his family and has some other motive.

    michael Chock
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I 100% think men should get a say, but I also think women should 100% get to tell them it's time for them to be quiet because she has a job to do and she is going to do it her way.

    Bryn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless a man is pushing a full on human out then he can decide on the pain meds but until he's the one doing the birth, he has no say whatsoever unless he's advocating for his partner. Then and only then can he speak to pain meds

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    Zaach
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone tried to tell Queen Victoria that a painful birth was her birthright - she did not put up with that s**t

    Laura Mitchell
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Retired labor and delivery nurse. There's a method of childbirth education called the Bradley Method. Most of us call it Badly Bradley. You can tell they're Bradley because when you ask HER a question, HE usually answers, "WE don't want this, or WE don't want that."

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    #21

    Woman in a fur hat expresses social justice message about kindness and politeness being mistaken for flirting.

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    Miki
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally not true. We are also polite when we need something from that person. Like in city hall or something. :p :p

    Phred
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some men have heard of "being polite because it's the decent thing to do." Some.

    Jane Hower
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, that's an eye opener!! Great thought.

    Graham Berry
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A gross oversimplification but far to often yes.

    Lyone Fein
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ugh. How sad to such a self absorbed, mean hearted person. But it makes sense. I always have wondered about this.

    Max Fox
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    I hate this sort of thing. Women should tell of their experiences of the toxic ways that men treat them. They should name and shame. However, this person is not just talking about their own experience, but is claiming insight to a person's thought processes. Unless this woman (or man) has the capability of reading minds, they are making this up. Especially since it's unlikely that the OP has ever even asked one of these admittedly messed up guys why they suffer from the delusion that the woman likes them.

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    #22

    Social media post advocating social justice, highlighting the global issue of child marriage with a strong statement.

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    ohjojo (you/your's)
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The USA is becoming more and more disgusting everyday

    MentallyUnstable27
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i mean ur not wrong but like lotsa other countries too

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    josh M
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least the Pope "king pedo" will be dead soon, lol.

    Luke Oakridge
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The vast majority of men don't marry children. Can we stop with this kind of sexist generalization please?

    Sophia Pandia de Delphia
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's enough of them to NEED a law protecting children. If it's not an issue, why has the law raised the age again and again?

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    Zephyr
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also a daily reminder that that there are female pedophiles

    BoredLittleLeafSheep
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always has to be one twatwaffle that can't stand the fact that statistics don't lie and, statistically, MEN are far more prevalent predators than women. 🙄

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    For Nyomi, patriarchy is harmful to everyone. “It’s damaging to girls and women who are missing out on equal rights and opportunities and are experiencing violence and abuse,” she explains. “But it’s also damaging to men and boys, who may feel unable to express their emotions, leading to violent behavior and higher suicide rates.”

    #23

    Text message about support from management for mental health, illustrating a stand for social justice on social media.

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    Josh Gallant
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very uncommon response. At least in the US.

    Orange Panda
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, it varies by state and employer.

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    Roni Stone
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to work the day after finding my Italian greyhound bloodied and bruised from unexpected violent seizures, and my disabled partner broken hearted after having to crawl her way across the floor to be with her. My boss asked me what I was doing there. "Go home and make sure they are good today. Job's gonna be here tomorrow, too." I couldn't leave for crying.

    Earonn -
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My team's go to response when one of us doesn't feel well or has to call in sick. Therefore, if you're ill, you only have to handle the illness, and not worry about work on top of that.

    Nikole
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. We handle each other’s emails, even if it’s just a quick response saying so and so is out today but I’ll pass this along, up to doing work on the case that doesn’t step on the absent person’s toes. I took the morning off today because I wasn’t feeling well and texted my boss around 5:30 this evening to ask if I could work later than 6 (usual cut off time) so I can be more caught up. She said sure, and then texted me again like ten minutes later saying, “But not too late! You need to rest up!”.

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    CariBear
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wish I worked somewhere like that!

    Regina Holt
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me that you don't live in america without telling me you don't live in america.

    Storm Rise
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now THAT'S a place I would like to work!

    CanadianaKa
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to go on short-term disability when my dad died died because my mom needed support and my boss told me to use my vacation time. I would have understood that response except that it's company policy that additional bereavement time can be given *if the manager requests it*.

    Nikole
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When the grandmother of my then boyfriend of eight years died I let my boss know and she was like, “No problem. Take a PTO day or two.” I guessed it didn’t count as bereavement leave because he weren’t married, so I didn’t think much of it. Then I similarly learned that it was up to the manager’s discretion. I hated that place.

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    Phred
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in a place like that. And yes, I know how lucky I am.

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    #24

    Feminist-Social-Justice-Takes

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    ohjojo (you/your's)
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    any male who has to make a decision about the care of a woman's reproductive body should have to pass a test about where parts are and what they do, first.

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While wearing a pregnancy simulator, and strap on the belly appropriate for each stage, for nine whole months, then switch to a childbirth simulator for 24 hours.

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    Gwyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has he not seen eggs of anything other than a chicken? There are many other animals whose eggs that are clear or soft. Watch some national geographic for goodness sake!

    Miki
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet that ALL gov ppl think exactly the same things as her ex.

    $enna
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear, and there I was thinking there were tiny chicken in ovaries that would lay eggs every time...

    Luke Oakridge
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What makes you think women automatically know better than men about their internal organs? I'd trust a doctor to learn about a woman's internal organs long before I'd trust a random woman.

    Tamra
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jesus christ...now I know you're just a troll. This is, perhaps the dumbest thing you've said.

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    #25

    Social media post about cats symbolizing consent and resistance against control.

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    Child of the Stars
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the one that says: "Dogs are for people who need to be worshiped like gods, cats are for people who need their god standing on their chest at 4am demanding to be fed". I think about that every time someone says something stupid like how we don't deserve dogs.

    cerinamroth
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or dogs are for people who have cat allergies ;-) It's not always a key to decoding their psyche.

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    Rodney Bowie
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find that I agree with this 100%, however I am getting a bit tired of passages capped off with "and I haven't stopped thinking about it since."

    goldoche
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the reasons I left my ex : he never respected the clear signs of non-consent of our cat because he found it funny went she was getting mad.

    Roni Stone
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We need to be cats.

    Nancy Parker
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why superconservative types are always dissing cat ladies

    Jedi Panda
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    dang, that's gonna be in my head all day

    Bryn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't control people but I hate cats. I may be an outlier but yah, not a fan of cats.

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    One of Nyomi’s biggest concerns is the increasing threat of male violence against women.

    “I would like to see more done to address male violence towards women and girls because it feels like this has gotten worse lately, not better,” she says. “Why are misogynist narratives from ‘men’s rights’ influencers such as Andrew Tate resonating so strongly with young boys? How do we combat that?”

    As a mother, these issues feel deeply personal. “I have a daughter and a son. One of my biggest fears for my daughter is that she will experience violent abuse because of these narratives. One of my biggest fears for my son is that he could be influenced by misogynistic ideas and end up perpetuating harm to women.”

    #26

    Social media post challenging gender stereotypes and standing up for social justice.

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    Gwyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do that because that's what they think is what makes women valuable. They don't value women for their intellect or their opinions.

    SCamp
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope they do it because they’ve got nothing to say. When they say that, you’ve won

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    Max Fox
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The same numbnuts who try to discredit a woman by calling her fat and ugly will also say that beautiful women are dumb.

    Ellinor
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone says I'm fat (and I really am fat) I always answer : "Yeah I know, and what's your point ?"

    Fire Singer
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! I just look at the, like...ok...and?? Like I don't know that I'm fat?

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    Anony Mouse
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interesting that the SCROTUS has several times attempted to discredit his accusers by calling them ugly and fat.

    Forrest Hobbs
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, it's always funny when the rapist Trump criticises a woman for being fat and ugly - like, don't you have a mirror, dude? Or maybe he does know he himself is fat and ugly and it's all some kind of humour on his part? 🤷

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    kansasmagic
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men don't judge other men by their beauty - but by height, obnoxiousness, and how much they lift.

    Kathy Brooke
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And in many cases the beauty of their property... err partner.

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    Rinso The Red
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You'd be surprised how common this belief is in history. There was a woman accused of blasphemy in ancient Greece. Her defense was to show her breasts. How could she have the beauty she possesses if not from the gods? Beauty = Truth, Truth = Beauty. It sounds nice, but it leads to some weird thinking.

    Suzy Sheep
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Beauty is an enormous, unmerited gift given randomly, stupidly.” - And the Mountains Echoed

    CP
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humans do this all the time and it is effing annoying. Ye ole ad hominem attack. Insult ideas not people.

    Luke Oakridge
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do articles like this post sexist posts like this? They complain about being called ugly and fat and then do the same thing to men. Likely there are millions of men across the world that are better looking than her, so she has no reason to brag.

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    #27

    Social media post appreciating the tender portrayals of men in Lord of the Rings, highlighting respect and friendship.

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    Lady Eowyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is even more evident of the book. I read The Lord of the Rings when I was 10 and I think that spoiled me for real life.

    Lila Allen
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus it unfairly teaches that living in a comfy space and eating all the time are valid life goals.

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    Susie Elle
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why fantasymen are a treat

    Heras buddy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's funny how most men overlook these parts of the book and movies.

    Aidan Pierce
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was watching Lotr and was like "Arwen is cute" and then I was like "so is Gimli' and then i realized I'm not straight. (Yes, I had a crush on Gimli, don't you judge me.)

    Tropical Tarot
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh sweetheart I've had a crush on John Rhys-Davies since Raiders of the Lost Ark. He is amazing.

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    DeeDee M
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes 🙌. If only I could find a man like Aragorn…

    tori Ohno
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll take a double dose of Elrond thank you very much.

    Max Fox
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The dearth of women in the LoR is because Tolkien was ultimately writing it for his sons (the Hobbit was explicitly written for his sons). So the criticism of the lack of women and the racist undertones in some places should be tempered by the fact that he was teaching his sons the exact opposite of toxic masculinity. Fun fact - Tolkien was thinking of Jews when developing the Dwarves.

    Tracy Lanier
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I went to Quebec, a few years back, I was surprised at the casual affection that males showed one another.

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    #28

    Social media post highlights inequality in childbirth narratives, emphasizing the focus on mothers and babies over fathers.

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    BookFanatic
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somewhere (probably here!) I read about how some cultures would tie a rope around the man's testicles. Every time a contraction hit, the woman would yank on the rope to share the pain.

    Rick Murray
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a man I approve. It's crazy what pregnancy does to a woman's body and I can't help but think that most men (including myself) simply have no f*****g idea whatsoever what is involved beyond our scant few minutes of jiggling.

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    Orysha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The father is usually drunk at that point.

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or he passed out cold on the floor after seeing his baby actually coming out, because tbh that isn’t really a very pretty sight, regardless of how wonderful it is.

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    Aidan Pierce
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the dad did his part in the birth 9 months prior

    Doodles1983
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should be everyone. Men can experience psychological trauma when witnessing birth. And they experience a wealth of other emotions too. Why shouldn't they be offered a space to express it and be checked upon? My friend had a 27 week preemie. I took her, baby, and her partner a care package. They were all going through something. Consideration costs nothing.

    O. Puntia
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ???? Yeah, what ABOUT the father!

    Luke Oakridge
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most women don't die during childbirth either.

    Child of the Stars
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    9 months ago

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    I understand the point being made in the post, but I do think that dad's should be included in the "how is everyone" questions. And while yes, it's still common for men to be less involved, many dads ARE as involved as they can be and can struggle with postpartum depression too.

    BoredLittleLeafSheep
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you DIDN'T understand the point after all. 🤦‍♀️

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    Nyomi also stresses the need for feminism to be more intersectional, particularly in addressing racial disparities in healthcare. “I would like to see much more done about racism in health services, particularly why black women are experiencing worse birth outcomes and are more likely to die in childbirth,” she says.

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    #29

    A social media post advocating for social justice on respectful personal space in crowded areas.

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    Tabitha
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grab their d***s and say you’re just trying to get by them.

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    Earonn -
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favourite allies against sexists are the big gay guys who do to the sexists what they do to women (apart from the criminal stuff, of course). It's a pity that it takes that much to make some men understand not to be a prick, but it works.

    Rafael
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why people have shoulders.

    Cin
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I make a point of going out of the way to do this to men

    Geoffrey Scott
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Light touch on the shoulder " ' scuse me'

    Courtney Christelle
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I have to touch anyone it’s on the shoulder so they don’t step back on me.

    Austzn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "As a man", this has never crossed my mind as something that would be acceptable to do because I wouldn't want to be touched like that by some random person.

    CP
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    9 months ago

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    I think I do the waist or shoulder touch depending on which is more convenient at the time. Gender be damned.

    BoredLittleLeafSheep
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't touch women without their express permission. Ever.

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    #30

    Social justice message on social media challenging perceptions about women's equality.

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    Debby Keir
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Works both ways - I (F) gave birth to a girl, and my mother in law was 'so surprised' as apparently they only have boys in *their* family!

    MC C
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    9 months ago

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    Who TF says this? quit making up s**t to fit into your ugly narrative

    #31

    Social media post advocating for social justice, emphasizing workers' rights to sick days without guilt.

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    Alexandra
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you don't 'deserve sick days'. If you're sick, you're sick, however long it takes for you to recover. This will never cease to amaze me. It's one of the reasons I'm glad I'm not in the US. The husband of a friend of mine was diagnosed with terminal cancer. His employer kept him on the books until the day he died, almost a year later. Off and on he would be able to work for a day or two a week and they were always glad to have him. They hired a new guy who worked those two days in tandem with him. That's how it should be. Where I live, if you're ill, you can't be fired. Only after you've been ill/sick for two years your employer will have to ask for permission to let you go.

    Josh Gallant
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In America, we workers are treated as a necessary evil. Lower than even the machines and tools. Definitely not an investment that requires periodic maintenance.

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    SCamp
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where I work, sick days are a guaranteed right. It’s like saying I ‘deserve’ annual leave or weekends off or the ability to say no to overtime - they’re my rights, not so much what I deserve, those things are just viewed as absolutely and utterly normal where I’m from.

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    To her, women’s rights are more at risk now than ever before.

    “There is so much evidence that gender equality has not been achieved in the Western world. Male violence against women and girls is increasing, the gender pay gap still exists, and parity is not expected to be achieved in my daughter’s working life—let alone my own!” Nyomi says. “You only have to look at what’s happening with women’s abortion rights in America to see that gender equality in some areas is actually regressing.”

    “As a feminist, I never expected to see us actually lose rights we had already won in previous waves of feminism. It just shows why feminism is so important and how we can never rest on our laurels.”

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    #32

    Social media post about coming out during football practice, highlighting social justice and humor in a coach's reaction.

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    veryvenasaur
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well someone once said “be straight with me.” And I responded “I haven’t been straight a day in my life.”

    FlamingZombies
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the conservative icon Barry Goldwater once said he doesn't care if members of the military are straight, just if they can shoot straight.

    #33

    Social media post by Ron Placone discussing the shift from "cost of living" to "cost of survival" due to economic challenges.

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    Heras buddy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before buying anything ask yourself if you want to pay for a billionaires houses and yachts. Helps me keep things in perspective.

    Kat Alison
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F Republicans and corporations.

    Primrose Jones
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should be called the “Cost of NOT Starving” as “living” suggests being able to afford the odd treat now and then.

    Sprouted Tater
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too true and the worst is yet to come with the newly elected and his gang of idiots.

    Maggie Fulton
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think we ever achieved the cost of living. If you look at the requirements for the poverty level, they have always been unrealistic.

    Je souhaite
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    9 months ago

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    Yeah well stop buying brand name stuff to give the appearance of being well off and you will have more money for things like groceries

    Amy S
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hay everyone, Je's just solved poverty and world hunger! /s

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    #34

    Tweet about starting a jar for social justice, adding money each time kids are mentioned.

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    Jeya Mackelle
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandma is absolutely appalled that I do NOT plan on EVER having children—adopted or biologically—and makes sure I know how selfish and foolish she thinks I am. Love you too, Grandma. However, I find that ironic because when my siblings and I were much younger, my mom asked her if she could watch us for a couple hours a week so she could go to her Zumba class—she was an instructor—and my grandma would say "I already raised my kids, I don't need to raise any more." Next time she gets into me on this, I'll gently remind her of that statement, then ask her why she's so concerned with someone else's choice to birth children or not.

    Nikole
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a really bítchy thing for your grandma to say. Well, both of those things.

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    RiverWynn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spend away with JOY in your hearts! Kids are not mandatory...they are a choice.

    Gracie Mae
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    idk why some people think every woman was put here to have kids. i, for one, am grateful to those who make the conscious decision NOT to procreate, doesn't matter why. Some people SHOULDN'T have children, but they do anyway...i wish they had made the right decision--might've saved the lives of some that were abused (or worse)

    #35

    Tweet discussing social justice and feminist therapy research related to women's communication in certain backgrounds.

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    KatSaidWhat
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was told by a Zulu growing up that the reason they speaker louder in company is to indicate they are not gossiping around people who don't speak their language.

    Uncle Schmickle
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats interesting. On several trips to S. Africa, I wondered why the African people spoke so loudly.That was my experience on a train.

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    Earonn -
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex always told me to lower my volume when I was speaking. I thought it was just a bad habit of mine. Since we separated, nobody told me that my voice was too loud, even when I asked good friends about it.

    JuJu
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @tai you have absolutely no idea how loud americans are!

    Gracie Mae
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hmmm...maybe that's why i'm so loud?

    tai
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    9 months ago

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    Well that simply isn't true. Seriously, every mom outside of North America and Northern Europe is loud!!

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    #36

    Tweet highlighting social justice issues around gender roles and birth control responsibility.

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    Susie Elle
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes more sense to unload a gun than to keep shooting at a bulletproof vest, but on the other hand, I wouldn't trust a man to take a pill consistently.

    Snow_White
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. Also it's very baffling that there are no released male contraception but there are about 40 different kinds of erection pills. Priorities.

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    CariBear
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the male species of homo sapiens could become pregnant, and carry to full term and deliver the offspring, then reproductive healthcare would not be the joke that it is nowadays (especially in the US)

    Joe Reaves
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There'd be more abortion centres and reproductive health facilities than bars!

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    Jallamedalla
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was the reason I got a vasectomy 11,5 years ago, after the birth of our second child. I did not want my wife to risk blood clots and other side effects from the pill just for us to be able to have sex without the risk of her getting pregnant again. It was a mutual decision, BTW. (She was not very good at being pregnant).

    April Pickett
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because men have made it so. They are concerned about their virility, not so concerned about pregnancy - that's a woman's job.

    Austzn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all men.....some of us were happy to get vasectomy's. 😉

    Jane Hower
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Male orgasms arn't necessary either - pre c*m alone will get a girl pregnant - I'm PROOF!!!

    Graham Berry
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because it's about the consequences not the actions. In the end the consequences are much much much larger for woman. I would like to add though that there is a year long contraception for men called ADAM. it's not fair but men simply don't bare burden and many see little incentive to pursue contraception on their end beyond a condom, if that.

    Nancy Parker
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, one reason men don't have a medical option (only barriers) is that they don't carry any of the health risks of the pregnancy. This changes the risk/benefit calculation for d**g approval so that even not very serious side effects can prevent approval. This is kind of broken, but it's true.

    Luke Oakridge
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because society has screwed men over by not providing them with birth control pills that work on men. Women don't know how lucky they are to be able to control their reproduction with a pill.

    Doodles1983
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Up. No. They're cause by people having sex. Protected. Or not. Don't want a kid. Abstain

    Sophia Pandia de Delphia
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll let my husband know that since we don't want kids, we now have to abstain because Doodles 1983 said so.

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    #37

    Text post about social justice features a story on kittens and a foster mom's humorous remark about an orange kitten.

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    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not ashamed to say I almost fell off my chair laughing. I can see the loving look.

    Lila Allen
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same....my orange boy confidently stalked, pounced, and triumphantly produced his kill ( it was a rubber band) bless him

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    Gwyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this. We had an orange kitten we named Sputnik because every time he was in a room with a ceiling fan he would watch it with his head going in circles!

    Josh Gallant
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If cats could talk to cops, they wouldn't. And I LOVE THAT.

    KT
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have an orange boy and he is not stupid. He knows when I say goodnight it means its time he left my bedroom so I can shut the door. Super light sleeper and he snores.

    Bryn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the solid orange ones that are, it's the orange and white ones. Something about that color combination makes them lose things

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    Mary Tonningsen
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, this reminds me of my poor, stupid, orange boy - Wilbur (RIP) He was so damn dumb that it was adorable. He never could figure out the doggie door that the other cats and the dog went in and out of all day long. He would watch them all, then lay by the doggie door and look shocked when they came back in. He liked going outside and tried to sneak out whenever I opened the door, but that little flap just boggled him. Gawd, I loved that sweet boy. <3

    Earonn -
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is it about ginger cats being stupid? I've known three so far, and they were normally or extremely clever. Now, my tabby lady, on the other hand.... :D

    FlamingZombies
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a known fact that every single orange cat shares just 1 brain cell amongst them all.

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    DC and S
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had an orange cat (born one month before me). He was incredibly clever and resourceful. His name was DC - or dumb cat (my dad though he was funny). But he was anything but.

    Anna Drever
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have one. Not as stupid as you’d expect, but certainly a cutie. And his tail is so fluffy!!! 💕

    marianne eliza
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adopted my orange boy 3 months ago. He's now 5 months old and we're still way down the waiting list for the brain cell.

    CariBear
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are just some things about tabbies/orange cats that cannot be explained, but you can't help but love them

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    #38

    Text post on social media discussing a humorous conversation overheard about wanting to be stronger for practical reasons.

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    Lulu
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We need more dudes like this.

    Hile Troy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And pretty soon you wake up as Olivier Richters, getting out of bed at 3 a.m. to eat 1,000 calories.

    Donna Peluda
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBH, is he can't move a fridge he might need to work out a bit. Fridges aren't that heavy. Washing machine are heavy.

    Dolevaal
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is already strong but at heart.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But also I find it a bit sad too, I interpreted it as they don't feel needed enough 😔

    ART
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When moving into our house three male friends were discussing how to best carry the washing mashine downstairs. The look of surprise when I mentioned that our new neighbour was already halfway down, carrying it by himself. This was 25 years ago and I still giggle everytime I remember their faces, and how impressed we all were.

    #39

    Social media post advocating for social justice, discussing Starbucks policy changes and supporting libraries as community spaces.

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    Maartje
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good luck with funding libraries with our current US government. They want us ignorant and compliant.

    FreeTheUnicorn
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Libraries in the US are local government run. Write to your mayor, your selectmen, your country clerk. It's been years since federal or state government was helping to support libraries at all, which is itself stupid, but it means they aren't beholden to country level madness. Even where books are being banned, it's by local community consent.

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    Josh Gallant
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Literature is poison to those who wish to oppress.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then let’s keep poisoning them until they die. But this time we’ll need to drive the stakes through their hearts so they don’t rise again.

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    Aidan Pierce
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My town damn near rioted when they cut the funds for the library. they quickly fixed that issue

    Heras buddy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not just the Feds. State government is worse. This is the reason you need to vote in all elections. It's the only way to stop the dumbing down of America or any other nation. They don't want you to understand their motives. Libraries are the last bastion of knowledge, not the internal.

    kansasmagic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps the trick with "third spaces" is that you have to make them, rather than trying to find one ready-made. Take over that Starbucks!

    O. Puntia
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can one park outside the White House and use its Wi-Fi?

    rv branham
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    libraries?! they contain books! you can't have an informed & educated public, not if you want to have complete control of everything!

    Sprouted Tater
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See, other folks see the damage the trumpians will inflict on us, and enjoy doing so.

    Deeelite
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't drink coffee in libraries

    goldoche
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, you may in most of them. How long since your last visit? Libraries evolve constantly.

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    SlothyK8
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm surprised my tiny town even HAS a library. MAGA central in these parts. OTOH, maybe it's full of "books" by Hannity and Carlson and Vance. I've never been inside.

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    #40

    Social media post challenges the phrase "the customer is always right" in a witty discussion on consumer behavior.

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    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, the cherry picking and taking out of context that certain kinds of people practice, as long as it benefits/enriches them and f***s everyone else over.

    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In France there used to be a saying that "customer is always king". Well, what we do to kings in our country..

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cannot upvote this enough. Selfridge was a master business man, it is so annoying that his very good phrase has been butchered and misused.

    CP
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is harder to think of a saying that hasn't been cut up like this. Even "early bird gets the worm" is incomplete.

    Roni Stone
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love Love LOVE to remind people of this when they want me to give in to their ignorant demands for refunds, etc...

    Heras buddy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know that you only have to listen to a very tiny amount of what Jesus said to be a Christian. Just look at the Evangelicals who support Trump.

    Stannous Flouride
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Their SUPER HELL (hoping such exists) is endless Black Fridays and working the Returns window in the first week of January.

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    #41

    Social media post comparing ex found cheating at a party with a boyfriend enjoying buffalo chicken dip alone.

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    Heras buddy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be somewhere playing with the pets. 🐕 or 🐈. Even though I'm allergic to cats.

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too - if they had a dog I'd take it out for a walk and only go back when the party was winding up.

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    Miki
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be in a next room. But alone and trying to get 5 min of silence.

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't be either person. If my girl lost me, she'd probably find me at Toys'R'Us (Yup, we still have them) starring wide-eyed at the Tomica models and mentally calculating if I have space for one more XP XD

    Je souhaite
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    9 months ago

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    So he was hungry ..... this is not a game changer

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    #42

    Text post about social justice and personal authenticity on social media, featuring a humorous dating anecdote.

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    Manic Mama
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where do I get footie Grinch pyjamas? (Asking for a friend.)

    Kalikima
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amazon, where else? lol

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    Josh Gallant
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget to fart on the first date. You'll be able to tell a whole lot from their reaction.

    Jeya Mackelle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean yes, since women are human and therefore make NORMAL HUMAN noises, but also, yes.

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    Gracie Mae
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    firm believer in this line of reasoning!

    #43

    Social media post highlighting social justice with a humorous exchange between a customer and a cashier about decency.

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    Lady Eowyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've found similar reactions when I am basically just polite with people who work in retail.

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having been there myself, and suffered at the hands of abusive customers and managers who did not have my back—-even when the customer was a hundred percent in the wrong and I had witnesses speaking up—-I am incredibly patient with, and speak up for, service people when it’s obvious they’re having a bad time of it, and no one else, including their management, is backing them up. I do it because I don’t want anyone else to go through the absolute hell s**t I had to go through. I want it to stop, now. I am not one of those who thinks that, because I suffered, then that suffering must be passed down to succeeding generations. I want them to be treated BETTER than I was.

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    Charles McChristy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm always "Yes, Sir/Ma'am" or "No, Sir/Ma'am" with whomever I am addressing no matter what job they are doing.

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had to visit a council office and they told me (around lunch time) that I was the first not to shout insults at them. Strangely enough, they were also very helpful. Almost as if basic decency paid off...

    Sylvia Baker
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Working with the public? They deserve your respect and more.

    Storm Rise
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep- every time. Yesterday I was having lunch in the food court at my local mall, and one of the cleaning staff was cleaning a table nearby. As we finished up, and collected our rubbish and trays to put away, I looked over and called out "Thank you" with a big smile to her. She looked at me, startled for a second, and then smiled so wide you'd think I'd given her a free house! Basic. Frikkin', Decency people!

    Sprouted Tater
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It cost nothing to be kind to everyone you come into contact with.

    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IKR. Like why is it that cashiers, tellers, etc. are not allowed to have stools to sit on? Just standing in one spot for hours at a time is awful.

    Uncle Schmickle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It works every time. Just be nice or funny and it brightens up their day.

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    #44

    Tweet advocating for social justice, highlighting gender roles in household chores and work-life balance.

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    Susie Elle
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any man (or person, really, but usually man) that claims filling an entire day with things not related to kids or the household is easy, has a spouse at home on the verge of filing for divorce.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All the men throughout history who achieved great things could only do so if they had a woman at home—-wife, mother, maid—-taking care of everything else for them, so they didn’t have to worry and could devote all their time and energy to the great thing(s) they were about to do. If they had to do that work, plus work a full time job AND take care of the house, the kids, the pets, and cook three meals a day and clean up afterward, every day, day in and day out, there would have been practically NO time left for them to do the wonderful things that made them famous. Give a woman of equal intellect, talent, and ambition the same freedom, and most of the great achievements would’ve been made by women—-decades earlier and way better.

    Je souhaite
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well to be fair who wanted to get married and have kids in the first place ?

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    Beak Hookage
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had this gloriously ignorant woman tell me and a friend that she retired early to live on a horse ranch in the countryside and just write and that anyone can do that if they really wanted to! My friend and I, both massively disadvantaged money-wise because we're both disabled, were utterly incredulous. Or at least, I was. My friend just started laying into her in a very quiet voice of the sort that means "I am so annoyed I'm not even going to yell". I've never seen anyone's face fall that fast

    Luke Oakridge
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it takes you five hours a day to do your chores, you are doing it wrong.

    #45

    Text post discussing Pixar films and reflecting on life's outcomes through their stories on social justice themes.

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    Beak Hookage
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really loved the moral of The Princess and the Frog for the same reason. Sometimes a dream can turn into an obsession that might well not be worth the price. Yes, Tiana's dream of opening her own restaurant is admirable, but she pursues it at the cost of having a life outside of work (and she didn't *have* to do it all on her own, as is later shown when Naveen and Louis join forces with her to make it happen). Rather like how Carl's inability to let go of the past leaves him completely isolated from other people.

    Courtney Christelle
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like Brave, no guy was even involved in that love story.

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    Child of the Stars
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I can say from experience that the reality of my life at 42 is so much better than I ever dreamed it would be when I was 22.

    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The two "inside out" movies are amazing for that

    Donna Peluda
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't always get what you want But if you try sometime you'll find You get what you need

    Sprouted Tater
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Loony loony and Beak Hookage, you rock!

    #46

    Social media post humorously recalling past abundance of toilet paper and eggs for pranks.

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    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was walking along the side of the road and someone driving by lobbed an egg at me. Why didn't I value those days more when I had them?

    Clarissa
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eggs are like gold around here$$ can't waste them throwing at houses b

    #47

    Kera Lovell's tweet advocating for social justice, highlighting the value of women's time in breastfeeding.

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    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Number for like 2 kids? And to make it in different perspective: 1 and 2/3 years, 8h a day, everyday of getting your nippes chewed.

    Johnny McFearless
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make the baby work and then pay for the milk! No one should eat for free, and mother's time and other input absolutely should be monetized. So, get that baby to a factory, make it work for what it eats!

    Niki
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son is almost two, and I am trying to wean him. When someone asks me why I don't just stop, I remind them that my body carried my children, my body nourished them, and I have taken the time to be there for them as much as possible. I am not traumatizing a toddler to satisfy your weird delusions of appropriateness.

    Dee Rutherford
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, there are those of us who are unable to breastfeed. Try as I might.

    Marianne
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    9 months ago (edited)

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    I don't think that anyone who says that thinks like that. Formula costs a lot of money (just like bottles and everything else that you need if you don't breastfeed). And you still have to invest the same amount of time (even more, because you have to prepare and clean up). So at the bottom line, the monetary difference between breastfeeding and giving formula is still the money you have to spend at the store.

    Zephyr
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    9 months ago

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    Exaggerate much? Do the math

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    #48

    Social media post discussing childhood anxiety, maturity misconceptions, and social justice, with comments questioning behavior norms.

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    WayoftheStarPrincess
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was this kid too. But my parents really tried to compensate for how other adults treated me as if I was a perfect and well behaved child (you didn't put kids in therapy in the Swedish 90s, otherwise I might have actually been a fully functioning adult). And sometimes when my life feels messed up and I'm overwhelmed with anxiety I still take a deep breath and tell myself that "dirty children are happy children" and it instantly makes me feel better, even if I'm not a child nor dirty. It just represents to me that not worrying about appearances is just a waste of time.

    Colleen Glim
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can not upvote this enough. Children need to be allowed to play outside, and use their imaginations, and get dirty. Somehow, somewhere we seem to have lost this. Let them do the things that kids do. If they drink out of the hose, or skin their knees, or play in the mud, this is not a bad thing. It makes for much better adjusted adults

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    Smeghead Tribble Down Under
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This took the words right out of my head. This is me EXACTLY -_-

    Lila Allen
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Feeling mildly better about being considered a difficult child.

    Heras buddy
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't want to get in trouble so you sit in the corner and be quiet. Then as an adult you have an anxiety attack when you get in a large group of people. Simply because you can't make small talk.

    Cecil
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A little off topic but at a lecture on ADHD I attended 25 years ago, it was pointed out that very few people with ADHD traits go into teaching. Teachers tend to enjoy having everything routine, orderly and tidy. The kids who thrive in that environment have the same traits and many of them have mutual adoration going on with their teachers... and end up going into teaching. It was an eye opener.

    S P
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know about this. Some kids who aren't disruptive know when it's acceptable/expected behavior and when it's not. If the kid is quiet in class but not at recess, in gym, etc. then it may not be anxiety or trauma, but understood boundaries.

    Christa Cope
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, that hits close to home....

    #49

    Feminist-Social-Justice-Takes

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    CP
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope OP explained what happened and got a hug.

    Fire Singer
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too! Because whether he meant to or not it sounds like that man is a huge reason OP was able to finish the race. Who wouldn't love to hear they inadvertently inspired someone!?

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    April Pickett
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You could make that a stretch. He and his wife should know he helped you stay motivated, too, so tell them.

    Gracie Mae
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    doesn't matter, i'd have come clean with my story & told them how he kept me going!

    Mel Colley
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't it Ironic, Don't ya think?

    Roni Stone
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The high from Accidental Encouragement Runoff is perfectly acceptable.

    #50

    Social media post advocating for women embracing their uniqueness for survival.

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    Lady Eowyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been gloriously weird my entire life.

    Min
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let your freak flag fly!

    Tabitha
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Act like a dangerous lunatic anytime you feel threatened. Chances are that the person threatening you could back off—-because they’re actually a coward trying to look tough, without being able to back it up with actual toughness. The caveat is that this isn’t 100% guaranteed, so pick your moments carefully.

    zovjraar me
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or poop. i'm not kidding. no one likes poop. if you can, throw your poop at them.

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    Sprouted Tater
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I so regret that I kept my weird under cover for most of my life. So whatever time I have left I’m gonna weird it up much as I can!

    Kat Alison
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was an old saying: “Conform, go crazy, or become an artist.” Unfortunately, I think I ended up going crazy.

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    #51

    Tweet standing up for social justice with humor, suggesting specialized grocery stores for experienced shoppers.

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    Nikki Gross
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this actually happened, Wal-Mart would go bankrupt really f*****g quick.

    ohjojo (you/your's)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there should be an alarm on your cart and someone else can hit it to put you in the freeze zone if you get too close to another person. I'm already in this space, you can't put your card where my cart already is. back off or wait until I move. Bzzz. 3-Minute penalty. You're stuck here

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm usually very patient at the grocery store, but there have been times where I just moved a cart out of the way. Without apologizing.

    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why apologise? If they're going to share their entire life history while standing in the middle of the aisle and their trolleys to either side facing out, they should be glad I calmly moved the trolley out of the way and didn't simply ram it (or them). Some people... 🤬

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    Cecil
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be better for everybody. Those who like to lollygag can do so without raising ire. Love it

    A girl
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. What's really annoying is I see the same people every week and they still don't know where stuff is

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, if the f*****g store would stop moving merch around to trick us into seeing and maybe buying c**p no one wants because it’s sitting on a shelf where the stuff we actually do want used to be, then we wouldn’t be confused about where stuff is. I am sick to death of being psychologically manipulated by businesses trying to squeeze my last penny out of me.

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    LB
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank youuu! I've been struggling with this recently.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone asked about my family, I just say I have cats, they are my family.

    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A single person and his cat, too. ❤️🐈

    Sylvia Hinz
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't deserve holidays off because you don't have a family. Uh I have a husband, he is my family. I also have parents, siblings and grandparents.

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my family is me, my husband, currently 6 cats and 2 dogs.

    luci (he/fae)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    to quote "don't hug me i'm scared": "we're not related, but we live together and have the same lawyer and that's enough!"

    Max Fox
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will disagree a bit. A "family" requires at least two humans. Otherwise I agree. It's another pet peeve I have - why does a person who lives alone with their plants have the need to be called "a family"? It's like a person driving a sedan demanding that their sedan be called "a truck". The term "family" developed to describe a unit made up of more than one human. I think that requiring three humans for it to be called a family is also OK. However, it describes a situation, not a morally or ethically higher state of living.

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i will disagree with you. family is shared love. if someone loves their plants, and the plants love them, i think that's a family.

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    #53

    Text message about high school friendship highlights social justice and kindness.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, because what you said or did, which to you was just a Tuesday, and has been totally forgotten, has stuck to the person/people on the receiving end of your words or actions deeply and forever. So be mindful about your moods, words, and actions, and try to practice kindness instead of nastiness.

    Brooke Kenner
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a teacher, I remind myself of this every day--that I can't just have a "bad day" because every day might be the one that I needed to say the kind thing most.

    #54

    Text post about social justice where a cashier recounts a story involving a customer at Forever 21 with a declined card.

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    Manic Mama
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess the bank doesn't know who she is either.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or knows full well who she is and refuses to extend her any more credit.

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    #55

    Social media post humorously discussing a child's reaction to learning about mitochondria.

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    howdylee
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not to be confused with midi-chlorians

    Geoffrey Scott
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So your saying my grandson is not wasting his/his mom's/dad's time? Good to know

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    #56

    Social media post highlighting a humorous moment related to social justice and acceptance.

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    #57

    Kelly shares a humorous story about meeting a soulmate on social media related to social justice themes.

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    Roni Stone
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find this heartwarmingly hilarious!

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds as if that's all going to go jolly well.

    #58

    A tweet advocating social justice, highlighting women's lifelong awareness of behavior and a call for men to be conscious too.

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    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Louder for the men in the back!

    #59

    Text image about social justice, discussing how to judge a man's character based on his reactions to women setting boundaries.

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    Maartje
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bless you for saying that because so many men behave like total asses when I do not fit the mold they want me to fit in.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Which is always an impossible mold for a living breathing woman to fill, because it stems from pure fantasy and reducing women to one-dimensional creatures. They are men who risk dying alone if they don’t straighten up and fly right.

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    Bored Seagull
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good advice that applies to both genders. How we behave when we're displeased often shows what kind of human we are.

    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Character is how you act when you think no one is looking.

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    #60

    Text post about a humorous ER visit highlighting a unique migraine remedy, advocating social justice in healthcare.

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    Verena
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My remedy is strong coffee and something salty, like chips/crisps

    WayoftheStarPrincess
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was always taught milk products makes a migraine worse. Have I been suffering extra from migraines and a lack of chocolate milk? My life is a lie.

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i eat comfort food when i have a migraine. i also like to rest my head on fluffy cat belly.

    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤷🏻‍♀️ I like milk, I like chocolate, sometimes in the night I wake up and just need something. So I throw a little bit of chocolate powder into milk and drink it, and in the morning discover my nearly full bottle of milk is mysteriously nearly empty (and sometimes brown because, well, sleepy me can be spectacularly dumb at times).

    #61

    Tweet discussing body positivity and social justice, challenging weight expectations for women post-high school.

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    17 to 18 is not a fully mature body, it is late adolescent/teenage. Womens bodies do not fully mature until at least 25.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one’s body—-or brain—-is fully grown and developed until their mid-twenties. I grew another inch and a half in height, gained about 10 lbs, and went up another size and an half in shoes, between the ages of 18 and 25. I also gained fully developed critical thinking skills by that time. TBH, considering someone to be an adult at 18 is incorrect. 25 should be the age when people are considered old enough to vote, go into the military, and drink. I would also say drive, but in the US we don’t have a lot of excellent public transportation—-some places have none at all—-so driving earlier is kind of a necessity until we straighten our act out and start improving things (ain’t gonna happen at all unless we finally get rid of all the knuckledraggers presently in positions of undeserved power).

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    Moana Manana
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a chubby baby, a chubby kid, a chuby teen, a chubby twen, and married chubby. Then I got fat after two kids, and was fat quite some time, then got chubby again. I realized, I could be so much worse and finally realized it is how it is. I'm extreme ok with myself now, and it's great. Chubby hugs to all 🤗

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How unlikely it is for anyone to maintain the body they had at 17/18

    Jed
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one's body, and especially not their brain, if fully mature until their early to mid-twenties.

    Heras buddy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Show me how many boys keep their high school weight after high school. Usually put on 30 pounds just from the beer they drink.

    #62

    Social justice comment criticizing opinions on women's hairstyles and personal choices.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so glad I don’t have to have this argument with my husband. His philosophy is if it grows out of my scalp, then I am the one who gets to decide how it looks—-and this is coming from a man going bald, but obviously doesn’t have one iota of hair envy.

    Johnny McFearless
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The most important dilemma i see here is whether they were tomaytoes or tomahtoes .

    Grace Note
    Community Member
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And now I want an Emmenthal, tomato and black olive sandwich on ciabatta bread.

    #63

    Text post challenging period secrecy, advocating for social justice.

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    Nikki Gross
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ALWAYS keep a small plastic bag in my backpack purse that has 3 different sizes of pads and 2 different tampons. I also keep a package of each (ALWAYS take advantage of sales) under my bathroom cabinet in case of emergencies or if someone is running short on money. I'm close to 48, but I went into Peri-Menopause at 39 and full blown Menopause at 40 (I cannot wait for that to be over) due to Cancer and Chemotherapy. As someone that had horrible and irregular periods, believe me I know what it's like to be caught off guard. Ladies, we need to look out and after each other, especially given our current situation and political climate, it's even more important now then ever before.

    Tropical Tarot
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm right there. My mom and Grandma went through menopause early due to health issues.. I'm 55 and my sister is almost 60. We have thermostat fight when we're together. Too hot, too cold..

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because nothing you say will be taken seriously by so many men in the workplace if they think you're menstruating.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the “male population” would STOP using menstruation and its symptoms against us, to belittle us and diminish us by turning us into nothing but a pile of hormones, then maybe we would be more open about it. But since they want to ascribe our fully justified anger at them, disagreement with them, or lack of sexual interest in their disgusting selves to being g “on the rag” and “PMSing”, then we would rather they remain unaware of what’s going on inside our bodies. They can understand it academically, of course, because men understanding how both their bodies and the bodies of women actually function can help dispel wildly incorrect myths they seem to be gullible enough to believe and continue to perpetuate.

    fb2mytcqkc
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always tell my boyfriend: I might be a bit quicker to be emotional when on my period, but that doesn‘t mean the emotions aren‘t there when I‘m not!

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    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, adverts for those things on TV use blue liquid to demonstrate absorbency, so either females are aliens or we guys still can't cope with stuff that might resemble blood that isn't tomato ketchup.

    MonsterMum
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A rep from Tampax came to my school to give 'the talk' and product samples, including a small plastic box to keep some in our school bags. Great for cigarettes, when we had our bags searched, the teachers avoided these boxes like they contained smallpox

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was only like 2 years ago that I stopped acting like a frigging secret agent whenever I was at work and had to bring a pad or tampon to the bathroom. Now I clutch that tampon in my fist where any co-worker can see it because it is absolutely absurd feeling the need to hide your feminine products up your sleeve just so your male co-workers can be spared the knowledge that you are on your period.

    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I taught my child to carry their menstruation necessities (including a pair of underwear and leggings because s.hit happens) in a plastic grocery bag in their backpack. But it wasn't secret, just a place they could keep their dirty things without them having to touch anything else until they got home.

    Learner Panda
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is so much misinformation about periods. Perhaps if they were made less 'secret' everyone would benefit.

    Sky Render
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even talking about it is taboo when men are around. Which is just BS. If we have to listen to their near-daily unsubtle declarations of sexual desires and intents, they can damn well listen to us talk about cramps, bloating, and bloody discharge a quarter of the time.

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my teenage and twen years I used my period to vet guys. Mentioned periods in conversations - if they squirmed, they were "acquaintances", nothing more.

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    #64

    A tweet addressing social justice, discussing fathers, daughters, and forgiveness dynamics.

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    Armac
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe just be a better man 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They need to be more aware of the world outside their own heads, fully appreciate how forgiving of their trespasses their wives are, and do their utmost to simply be BETTER men, ffs. Why is that so f*****g difficult? It’s not my job, as a woman, to make sure men stick to the straight and narrow, that’s THEIR own job. My job is to be the best person I can be, and that’s a 24/7/365 pursuit, all by itself. I have little time, energy, or inclination to have to look after every man on Earth and keep them from indulging their emotionally immature lack of impulse control.

    LouLou Bella
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% I have experienced this with my own dad. He was not prepared for me ha

    #65

    Social media post highlights gender statistics concerning OnlyFans usage, sparking social justice discussion.

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    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure what the reason was, but I said to my boyfriend yesterday how it's peak hypocrisy for so many people to devalue women and men who do (paid) porn, with SO MANY PEOPLE watching it, and I think I said something along the line of 'the venn diagram of people who get angry about someone's sexuality and the people who will angrily masturbate to other people's sexuality is a circle".

    CP
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a tale as old as time. Promiscuous women are sluts, promiscuous men are studs. Religion is the basis for a lot of these outdated beliefs.

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    Armac
    Community Member
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t see any problem with that, the women are doing it voluntarily, they’re making money independently, they have full control over who they interact with, the men are paying for their time and entertainment.

    Janeymc
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally I think as long as men can pay to see women naked (and more) we will never be on an equal footing. Feels like we are chattel. Sex can be bought. Women’s bodies can be bought. I dread my daughter finding this out. And my sons. We all like sex. There are other jobs.

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    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Population: male: 168,598,780, female: 173,364,628 (2024 est.). Soooo half of guys. That's... Wtf. What's wrong with free porn sites?

    Max Fox
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Deceptive statistics. Cardi B has an Only Fans channel with 81 million subscribers. Other artists have channels with similar numbers. How many of those "83 Million American Men" are subscribing to the Only Fans channel of an artist? How many of the 1.5 million Only Fan creators are artists? This is BS on both sides.

    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We can safely assume actuall artists are in rounding error in compare to porn on this site.

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    #66

    Tweet on social justice, highlighting the need to stop glamorizing overworking and address burnout.

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was told "Don't you dare come into work if you're feeling a bit ill! Don't even think about work! Oh no, I just said work, so now you're thinking about it! I'm sorry" Yes, my supervisor has ADHD, but she is so lovely.

    Booker
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree whole-heartedly! And it needs to start in school. I taught at a school for at-risk kids. We had a policy of not assigning homework. I was amazed when many of the kids said they tried problems at home and asked me to look at them. I'd always keep my comments as neutral and objective as I could. At teacher conferences, parents would tell me it was mostly out of boredom.

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    #68

    AI-generated humorous obituary making a statement on social justice through satire on social media.

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    Nikki Gross
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't care how many times I see this because, it ALWAYS makes me laugh. 😂

    ohjojo (you/your's)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know, what can beat "retired from living"

    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In lieu of flowers, send Brenda more life. 🤣

    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought it was written by AI? It’s posted a lot with different captions.

    #69

    Screenshot of a tweet advocating social justice, questioning the notion that household work isn't considered real work.

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    Jallamedalla
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've done this job for almost three years now. We have two children and I run the household 100% of the time. She just works and comes home to a clean house and dinner ready. I'm going to put it on my CV when I start applying for my next job, when we're ready for it. I'm a man BTW, if that is relevant.

    Geoffrey Scott
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Long ago was yelled at by a co-worker for saying my wife doesn't work. I began adding "outside the house".

    #70

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    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Non, mais alors je suis COMPLÈTEMENT crevé a cause de mon boulot, le manque d'organisation, manque de personnel, et manque des foutre donné. Laissé moi recharger s'il tu plaît, MERCI! So there. 😂

    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I follow Duolingo's account on tiktok, and whoever run it needs to have at least 12 raises.

    #71

    Social media post featuring humorous exchange about childhood misconceptions and social justice awareness.

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    Feathered Dinosaur
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Going to make the villains the President of the US now. You can't stop me

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mind immediately goes to the legend of the poop knife.

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    #72

    Social media post advocating for women keeping their last names, highlighting a stand for social justice.

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now you have a republican christian conservative wanting to change voting rights to require any person voting to present their birth certificate and only allowing voting for those whose names legally match that.......make it make sense.

    Megalodon Meg
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's to opress women. That have already been oppressed.

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    Earonn -
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's not a problem to take your spouse's last name (apart from the recent USA Handmaiden move), then guys who criticise us for not doing it, why don't you just do it yourself?

    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one owes you a reason, Miliano.

    michellemartin
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His is further down in the alphabet, causing a longer wait for anything alphabetically oriented. Or I can't spell it correctly. Or, maybe, I don't want to.

    #73

    Social media post humorously discussing preferences and the challenges of genuine communication in social justice contexts.

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    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BDSM is one of the most amazing form of self-expression and care anyone could have (only for consenting grown-ups of course)

    #74

    Social media post on social justice: humorous take on gender nonconformity and challenging norms.

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    #75

    Tweet about ADHD as a tool against propaganda, highlighting social justice themes.

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    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too bad the spoons are getting bigger and being used to shovel more 'murican propaganda on top of you, making it harder to breathe.

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    #76

    Text exchange about planning a vacation with spreadsheets, highlighting a humorous approach to relationships and social justice themes.

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    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Matt? Matt Parker? Is that you? I know it's you.

    Courtney Christelle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A man who plans and also organizes? Turned on!

    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I planned my whole wedding on spreadsheets. I swear part of his attraction to me was conditional formatting.

    Aidan Pierce
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you married to Amy Santigo from Brookyln 99?

    #77

    Tweet about understanding frustration, referencing an Apple Watch and social justice.

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    Maartje
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .. and I assume it was a first. Whenever a woman is assertive or protests something she is being told this.

    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember in therapy when I'd ugly cry my therapist would occasionally just say "breathe" because my brain would just kind of forget to do that. It sent me into fits of giggles because it seems absurd that the brain would forget to do an autonomic function like that, but here we are 🤷‍♀️

    Lara Verne
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I witnessed scene in a store, between young girl and her father. Girl asked him to buy her sweatpants that she needed for P.E. Her father told her (very loudly) : "Calm down!" Girl repeated that she need sweatpants, and guy yelled at her: "Breathe!" Sir, you're making a scene in a store and your daughter is the one who needs to calm down?

    #78

    Social media post highlighting the imbalance in household responsibilities and advocating for social justice in partnerships.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mens’ math ain’t mathing.

    Geoffrey Scott
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do 90% of cooking, on the days I don't cook I do dishes. Anything else...I don't "do it good enough" (and NO it's not weaponized incompetence, I actually do a decent job)

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    #79

    Person shares a story on social media about their grandma's move from Poland to NYC and her confidence in making friends.

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    Mariotevez
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not an ounce of self doubt, as a fellow migrant, let me tell you: Grandma was in fight mode psychologically, she couldn't flee...

    Jallamedalla
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My english is not terrible, but I did not understand this. MaybeI'm just old...

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I asked my Grandma if she had a hard time moving to New York from Poland as a teen, and going to high school in Brooklyn not knowing any English. Whether people didn't want to be friends with her, and so on, and she held my shoulder, looked me in the eyes and said: "Austyn, I was gorgeous. Everyone wanted to be my friend!"

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    #80

    Tweet criticizing patriarchy, advocating for social justice and emotional intelligence in relationships.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Emotional intelligence AND emotional maturity.

    Aileen Grist
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The opposite of patriarchy is not matriarchy, but fraternity. All equal. I was brought up with a mother who believed that women would never be equal to men because (she said, not me) that women can't be equal to something they are already superior to. I just want everyone to love and respect one another, no matter who or what gender.

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Oxford English and Merriam-Webster dictonaries disagree.

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    Mariotevez
    Community Member
    9 months ago

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    If women would stop rewarding that conduct we could eradicate them in a generation... Freud was right, as to the motivation of human conduct.

    #81

    Tweet about adulting humor and a weekend spent doing nothing, related to social justice conversations on social media.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was single nd living alone, I would scramble and do my grocery shopping, plus get all my housecleaning and laundry chores done! on Friday after work, so I could clear my schedule for the weekend. If I wanted to do something, I had the free time. If I wanted to do nothing, I had the free time. I loved it.

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! I work my tail off Friday night and get everything done. Then I rot on the couch for two days. :)

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    #82

    Tweet about self-confidence and social justice with a comedic reference to Winnie the Pooh's crop top fashion.

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    Cin
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a crop top.. he just never wore pants

    setsuriseikou
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, a crop top is always a crop top, with pants or without.

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    #83

    Stacey Patton discusses spanking versus a***e in a social justice tweet on child brain response.

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    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I was spanked and turned out fine". No you didn't because now you think that spanking a child is not a big deal.

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    #84

    Tweet highlighting social justice issues in U.S. literacy rates, with statistics on adult and high school graduate reading levels.

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    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is pathetic. And worrying.

    LB
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoa, scary. And how do you graduate if you don't know how to read?

    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too many people think being stupid is a badge of honor.

    Opal Chagrin
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and because of their below average intelligence, they all voted for the Orange man

    Armac
    Community Member
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This explains quite a lot

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a book worm I find this incredibly sad.

    Kalikima
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my mother to pieces, and she's a very smart woman about a lot of things, but I'm beginning to think she reads at under a high school senior level. She never graduated because she got pregnant with my sister at 16, but I don't think she understands a lot of what she reads. She gets it if you explain it to her, but not if she reads it herself.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband and I own our own pest control business. We’re growing to the point where we have to hire another employee. We posted the job on Indeed, and our ad mentioned we would be willing to train the right person. It also said a minimum of a high school diploma or equivalent is required. We live in a rural area, even though there are both community colleges and universities located here, and you would not believe the number of applications we’ve received from people, grown adults anywhere from their twenties to their fifties, who only have a junior high education (and it shows on their applications), and I don’t mean they went to junior high, dropped out, then got their GED. I mean they went no further than junior high, and obviously had previously been held back at least a year or two because you can’t drop out of high school unless you’re at least 16. If their high school starts in 9th grade, they’re two years older than their fellow 8th grade students, who are only 14. It’s both appalling and incredibly sad.

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    #85

    Tweet highlighting social justice by challenging gender roles; men claim to provide, women call for action.

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    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men : "wants gorgeous women who birth children and stay at home to clean everything and prepare them every meal without ever complaining and always wear makeup and be pretty." Also men : "women are gold diggers, they want rich dudes to take care of them and never work."

    #86

    Feminist-Social-Justice-Takes

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    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I referred a patron to a specific coworker instead of just sending him to the desk. He was asking how to become a volunteer here and I told him the first name of our volunteer coordinator. Got my ear chewed for that one.

    *raspberry sound
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was written up for sending an email I was TOLD TO SEND

    #87

    Tweet addressing social justice themes by JessPected, discussing women's independence and empowerment.

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    #88

    A tweet about the difference in dating experiences related to personal desires in relationships, highlighting social justice issues.

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    setsuriseikou
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Welp, that's my current biggest relationship fear right there. Would be nice to have some sort of advice on how to find out whether he wants you and not just any girlfriend.

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if he wants you, he will think about you. he doesn't even have to try. it will be automatic. he sees something and thinks of you. then he tells you about it. or he comes home with some random dumb gift because it made him think of you. if he's not doing these things, you're just a placeholder.

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    Mariotevez
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait until you meet a guy looking to win over a wife...

    #89

    Social media post challenges societal norms on marriage and parenting with a commentary on peer pressure.

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    LB
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus a good dollop of weaponized incompetence, at least in my circles

    #90

    Fridge filled with groceries and vase of flowers, highlighting a social media moment of social justice and gratitude.

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    Smeghead Tribble Down Under
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is something my Mum would do. I love my mother beyond measure.

    #91

    A tweet criticizing unrealistic women characters, highlighting social justice issues in writing.

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    kansasmagic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This can't be right - you left off the part where she secretly loves to be "taken by strong men"?

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot "She could eat a chili dog in one bite."

    Smeghead Tribble Down Under
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the 45-minute period part. Wish it were true!

    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "born sexy yesterday" trope.

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    #92

    Text post advocating for social justice, highlighting LGBTQ+ perspectives against heteronormative views on relationships.

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    #93

    Text questioning teachers' personal lives, reflecting on social justice themes.

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    Malsumis
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a primary school teacher, i can tell you this is 100% what quiet reading time is actually for

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember those surprise days when you watched a video instead?

    cadena kuhn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once ran into one of my most straight laced teachers at the club

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I can never take my best friend from college seriously as a doctor. :)

    #94

    Two hands grasping each other, illustrating a social media post about social justice and community support.

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    Alex Kennedy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You will encounter a lot of older women absolutely willing to exploit the younger women.

    Grenelda Thurber
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you will encounter a lot of younger women absolutely willing to exploit older women

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read somewhere about an old folks home that rented out rooms to college students, and the rent was paid by spending quality time with the elderly residents—-their neighbors. There’s also a documentary about an old folks home that rented space to a daycare, and the kids and old folks spent a lot of time together, reading stories, doing crafts, eating lunch together, or just talking with each other. Both groups benefitted greatly from the mix. I wonder why either of these scenarios aren’t the norm by now, as they both benefit all parties involved.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, that's right Tabitha, I also recall hearing about the college students living in old folks homes. This should be done more.

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    Nikki Gross
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I wasn't on disability, this would be a dream job. I've ALWAYS gotten along better with older people vs one's my own age. My Mom passed away 2 months before her 88th birthday, so thanks to her and how I was raised, I've "clicked" with/and can relate more to people that are older than me. I understand and can relate to older generations more than most of my current, and definitely newer generations.

    Mariotevez
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think Germany tried the build a retirement center next to a kindergarten and let me tell you this was the epitome of a win-win-win-win situation...

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Intergenerational living is very big here in Germany (and the Netherlands, Denmark, much of northern Europe, I think).

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    veryvenasaur
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents did a very small scale version of it during Covid. My cousin couldn’t stay in the dorms and he needed somewhere to go. My parents are both in healthcare so they needed someone to watch me and my sister. He stayed in a detached room and kept an eye on me and my sister. It was awesome.

    #95

    Tweet humorously debating life insurance, highlighting social justice themes on social media.

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    Johnny McFearless
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It sounds like the fight my parents kept on having over and over again, because when my father's leg was squashed by his motorcycle and broken in several places, he called the ambulance before calling my mother.

    Toby
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shortly after we separated (amicably), I was up a ladder with my ex holding it when I realised that with the life insurance and the joint assets, she could be £ 600,000 better off if she jiggled the ladder. Luckily she didn't.

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    #96

    Tweet humorously describing an "Alaskan bear era" lifestyle. Social justice keywords.

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    Roni Stone
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my retired and eternally hibernating Alaskan bear era. I hear ya, sister.

    #97

    Social media post humorously addressing gender roles and social justice, with 24 likes and engagement options.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not physical motherhood. Psychological motherhood. Of an adult in his twenties or older.

    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    God, my first girlfriend. She totally thought I am her maid and wallet.

    #98

    Tweet by Julia Claire humorously seeking a deepfake of her dad apologizing, highlighting social justice on social media.

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    Megalodon Meg
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On behalf of your s****y dad, I'm not sorry f**k that guy but on behalf of me, I'm sorry you had such a s****y dad, you deserve better.

    Mariotevez
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a dad, i make it a point to apologize to my daughter. Even if she says it was no big deal, she needs to hear she deserves an apology, and the right man will have no problem in doing it. Psy-opping my daughter into being a self loving, capable woman one day at a time, that's the villain story i chose for all the boys that will try to break her heart...

    Kyra Noelle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How has it become common for people to never say I am sorry? We are not perfect, we make mistakes, we learn and become better. (I hope) People in power are so scared to be held accountable.

    #99

    Tweet humorously highlighting job interview expectations, featuring Harry Potter's triumphs versus Excel skills. Social justice theme.

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    Robert Millar
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exceleramus calculus! There you go.

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I'm going to shout that next time I'm teaching Excel. Thanks!

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    roddy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No hyphen in 17 years old. Unless it's used as an adjective. A 17-year-old cat.

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a proofreader and translator but would never point something like that out because I am aware that many people using the Internet do not have English as their first language. How many languages do you speak fluently?

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    #100

    Tweet highlighting the value of library cards and free audiobooks, emphasizing social justice benefits of accessible resources.

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    Sally Moen
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a library card for my city library, my county library, the next county over library, the biggest city nearby library, and all of them are on one phone app that allows me unlimited e-magazines, a set monthly limit of e-books and audiobooks per each library. So for free I can go hog wild and checkout a combination of 50 audiobooks or e-books each month. Plus, one library system offers free subscription to a separate app with documentaries and independent films, up to 10 digital checkouts per month. If I take the time to go into the physical branch of the library (any of the 4), I can reserve then checkout a wifi Hotspot, usually a month checkout. Unlimited data. So yeah, I also love saving my money by using public libraries. I've already paid for the access via taxes, why not use them?

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Years ago, I went to a library in a nearby county, and asked for a library card. The woman told me that they now have cards that cover the whole state. I told her that didn't matter to me. It was a badge of honor to have so many different libraries. I go to libraries whereever I am if I'm waiting for someone. That is where we meet if the time is not written in stone. I can wait there for however long it takes for them to get there.

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    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet they're often the first institutions to get their funding cut. Because why do we need libraries when we have Google and Amazon? Okay, but can Google help an overwhelmed breast cancer patient find easy-to-understand information? Will Amazon listen to the life story of a sweet elderly woman whose sole social interaction is the once-a-week library trip? (hops off soapbox)

    Nay Wilson
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem I have with libraries is you have to give the books back. I don’t like doing that. Once a book is in my possession it’s my book and you can’t have it

    Judy Reynolds
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter 2000 miles away has my library access code and uses it - I have access to a much larger library than she does.

    #101

    Social media post by Charlotte discussing social justice, highlighting the impact of shared experiences on fear.

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    roddy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if they hit you every day.

    #102

    Social media post expressing joy for fanfiction and connecting with LGBTQ+ community.

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    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a past era my cross eyed double vision wouldn't be fixed and I'd be lobotomized for refusing to have children

    Lukas (he/him, it/its)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure which part you need explained, so I'll explain it all! Many people tend to say they were "born in the wrong era" because they like the culture/aesthetics/etc of a past era/decade more. This person disagrees with that, because they like what we have in this era-fanfiction, which is like... take a book/show/movie you like and write your own story with those characters! It can expand on something that did happen, take the story in a different direction, completely rewrite it if you wish. It's a good way to connect with other fans of the same media and interact with it! As for the talking to gay people on their phone- Communication is so much easier now, so it's easy to make friends and talk to fellow gay people just from the phone in your pocket. It's another way of connecting with community that didn't exist in past eras.

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    Sky Render
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a past era there would have been a more-than-even chance that I would have been disposed of at birth for being visibly different in the genital area. Mind you, getting mutilated down there for it isn't a huge improvement...

    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend once comment that life was so much better a century or so ago. I pointed out that both of us would very possibly be dead before school age because of the lack of effective vaccines and penicillin. And if I had lived through the childhood diseases, I would've been effectively disabled because the material necessary to make my extremely heavy glasses prescription didn't exist.

    #103

    Social media post expressing nostalgia for childhood fantasy series and their impact on young girls.

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    setsuriseikou
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Animated series for me, but yeah. I'm over 40 now, and it's even more special now that I've read the comics, and nothing indeed comes close to it

    Hyacinth (Any pronouns)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me and Wings of Fire, lol. My secondary formational series are the Percy Jackson books (and anything else by Rick Riordan), the Mangoverse books (queer Jewish fiction, heck yeah), and The Aurora Cycle books (SPACE)

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ElfQuest comic series, and Tribe of One book series still mean a lot to me.

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the heartbreak when you go back to re-read your favorites and realize how...awful...they were. Lol

    T'Mar of Vulcan
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not fantasy, sci-fi. John Wyndham for life.

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    #104

    Tweet humorously suggests ending the five-day work week for dishwashing; a call for social justice.

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    #105

    Tweet discussing contrasting uses of group chats for social justice versus spreading harmful content.

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    Maartje
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh that is just terrible.

    ghost gurl
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    have a little google, it just gets worse.

    #106

    Tweet about fictional characters and miscommunication trope with a man laughing on a beach at night, highlighting social justice themes.

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    Learner Panda
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many fictional situations and real ones would be avoided by saying "pardon? Sorry, I didn't hear what you said."

    Aud (she/they)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *The Good Omens fandom pulls up*

    #107

    Tweet about checking "excessive crying" on a symptom list, social media humor for social justice.

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    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me (a guy) doing a questionnaire before MRI: no, no, no, no, no.....wait.. That previous "do I have excessive bleeding" question wasn't for me. F**k, what now?! :D (I thought it's a haemophilia question)

    kansasmagic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once I went in with bronchitis and checked off both "chest pains" and "shortness of breath", and got seen right away.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? So my tear ducts were supposed to permanently dry up after I reached a certain age? OK, so aside from death, what age is that supposed to be?

    WayoftheStarPrincess
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How silly, babies can't fill out symptom lists

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    #108

    Feminist-Social-Justice-Takes

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    Cin
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When she's got enough self respect to walk away

    Rinso The Red
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm still waiting for a facial expression other than "surprised"

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    ohjojo (you/your's)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think Mr. Diddy has room for two in his space

    Je souhaite
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh stop deluding yourselves she likes being his trophy wife

    #109

    Social media post about finding joy in simple things, contrasting teenage angst with adult hobbies like Greek yogurt and birdwatching.

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    Blue Bunny of Happiness
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading the news, I’m beginning to think the world isn’t worth living in. Anyone want to place a bet on when World War 3 formally starts? I’m predicting a week on Tuesday…

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd better reschedule the chimney sweep appointment!

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    kansasmagic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If Greek yogurt does the trick you were never much of a nihilist.

    #110

    Tweet advocating for self-love and social justice, urging against harmful narratives.

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    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    STOP! USING! ALL! CAPITAL! LETTERS! WITH! EXCLAMATION! POINTS! AFTER! EVERY! WORD!

    Aileen Grist
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, the whole idea is that you should love yourself, as you are, everyone is worthy, Until you love yourself the standard you feel you deserve in another is too low. Love yourself. You are a perfect examle of you.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not loud enough, and not enough exclamation points.

    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I didn't outsource love I wouldn't have any

    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, but no. If you don't like yourself, you will not create a HEATHY relationship.

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    #111

    Tweet by Beau Degás on social justice, expressing gratitude for friends setting new standards for personal treatment.

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    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what parents are supposed to do.

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    #112

    Social media post highlighting social justice with text on relationship dynamics and jealousy.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They will fall for a woman just the way she actually is, then spend the rest of their time together trying to change her into the exact opposite of herself. If you want a certain type of woman, go find someone who is naturally like that, instead of trying to force the rest of us to change. Of course, women who match the type men want simply do not exist in nature.

    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love dating a girl much cooler than me to be fair its not that hard im not that cool anyway

    #113

    Social media post addressing emotional intelligence and impact related to social justice.

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    #114

    Tweet from ItGIRL humorously discussing gender roles related to noise investigation, highlighting social justice themes.

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    Megalodon Meg
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pfft I get up and check it out myself thank you. With my dog. And every light on. And 911 dialed.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, my husband is such a deep sleeper that I know full well it will have to be ME who gets up to see what that noise was. Me and my Louisville Slugger, that is.

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you live alone, you learn to check the noise yourself...fast. With a baseball bat.

    Learner Panda
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our garage alarm was going off one night. My ex sent me to see what it was. His excuse was that he was then ready to call the police.

    #115

    Social media post by Danielle humorously questioning where to put a phone during a wedding.

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't think to bring mine with me! There was a photographer for photos. I was there to have a nice time with my new hubb, drink plenty of Pimms, do some ceilidh dancing and enjoy the canapés.

    OzymandiasTheManokit They/Them
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THAT IS A GOOD QUESTION THAT I WANNA KNOW THE ANSWER TO

    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's an important question. Why don't bridal gowns have pockets? You have to go all day with neither pockets nor a bag!

    OneHappyPuppy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excuse me, I had a bag on my wedding day... A small one, but a bag anyways

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    #116

    Social media post humorously addressing social justice themes with a woman sitting outside, referencing a thesis title.

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    EmJay
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who is downvoting all these comments? Literally someone is just asking who it is, and someone is just saying she was a good character.

    SlothyK8
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I LOVED that role. SUCH a badass.

    Zee Fam
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She played the lead character in "10 Things I Hate About You". Excellent movie.

    Lukas (he/him, it/its)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does anyone know who this is? I'm curious now

    Lally’s Maid
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it’s Julia Stiles. But I don’t get it tbh!

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    #117

    Feminist-Social-Justice-Takes

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    Ellinor
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A famous rapper who made the famous music of the famous movie Black Panther and who won 22 Grammy Awards.

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    Cin
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Far from being a hater or the world's largest.

    #118

    Social media post comparing natural look and makeup look, highlighting social justice issues in beauty standards.

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    Maartje
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well that is a crock of s**t . While I agree wholeheartedly that the makeup industry and the insane beauty standards are bad for women I guarantee you that guys are more likely to look at the girl with the makeup because they erroneously believe that "she is putting herself out there" and might be "available." Truth- if I wear makeup it's because I am in a good mood and want to express that.

    Rafael
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a man I am aware of a lot of the toxic c**p men say to women, but I'm with OP on this one, men tend to prefer the look on the left by far

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    Grenelda Thurber
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd say it's actually the social media industry that's destroying our young women.

    Pernille
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like putting on makeup, it is fun. I'm a farmer working at home, and most days I don't see another human being, this doesn't prevent me from wearing a colourful smokey eye or a bright red lipstick, I'm sure the cats, horses, ducks, chickens, and geese appreciate me having made an effort.

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's happening in the first pic and smug in the second. Just depends on what you're looking for. I go for happy and not spending a lot of time on appearance, but some people want the artistry and sophistication of make up and fancier clothes. There's nothing wrong with preferences as long as you aren't a d**k about it.

    SlothyK8
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP is a self-described "libertarian", which is just a conservative who smokes MJ. They're just as mental as the MAGA crew.

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    #120

    Tweet about a man helping a woman change a tire, highlighting kindness and social justice on social media.

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    LB
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uhm, no. This does not belong here.

    Je souhaite
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women should learn basic mechanics I mean isn't that what being a modern feminist is all about ?

    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes... If you ask first.

    Learner Panda
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Late one winter's night on a poorly lit road I suffered a tyre puncture. Being a self reliant woman I got the jack out, the wrench and set about jacking the car up. Several cars went by, but that's OK because I was doing alright. Then a car parked beside me, driver got out and said would I like some help, as he could see I was on my own. I was very grateful for his help, especially as he then said he had turned round a bit further down the road and come back to me.

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See this seems fine, asking if you want help. But the post makes it sound like a man just showed up and grabbed it all forcing himself into the position to help whether it was needed or not. Your story sounds wholesome and great, the original sounds creepy and irritating.

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