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GF Makes BF’s Friends And Family Uncomfortable By Wearing Skimpy Outfits At Home, He Kicks Her Out
Everyone is different and has their own sense of what’s right and wrong. Even though we’d all hope for an objective moral code, people’s values are often quite subjective. This can sometimes lead to big disagreements, even between close friends and partners.
That’s the situation a man found himself in because of the way his girlfriend liked to dress at home. She felt that it was okay to strip down to her underwear in the house, even in front of guests, but it made him very uncomfortable, especially when his family was around.
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Sometimes, even people who’ve been dating for many years might find themselves at a standoff while debating certain moral issues
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The poster shared that he didn’t like his girlfriend’s habit of only being in her undergarments at home even if guests were over and that she said it was her choice to do so
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The problem escalated when his girlfriend changed into her bra and underwear during a dinner with his parents and younger brother
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The poster’s dad shouted at his girlfriend, telling her to dress like a “proper woman,” and she hit back, saying that she could dress however she liked in her house
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The guy could not stand his girlfriend’s behavior any longer and told her to pack her stuff and leave his home, which she did
It’s clear to see that right from the start, the man was not comfortable with his girlfriend’s clothing choices. It’s probably only because of how he felt other people would view his partner that he was insecure about her lounging in her underwear at home. On the other hand, she felt perfectly comfortable to dress like that no matter who was around.
People’s dress sense can give us a lot of insight into their personalities. Some might wear conservative clothing and cover up their whole body because of their insecurities. Others might feel okay flaunting their assets, especially if they are confident in themselves.
The girlfriend obviously didn’t feel embarrassed or concerned about covering up around other people, and she felt that her boyfriend should also be on the same page. Whenever he voiced his concerns to her about the clothes she wore at home, she’d shut him down and say that it was her body and her choice to dress however she wanted.
It is easy to understand why this must have been such an important subject for her. In many cultures across the world, women are often told to cover up and dress modestly from a very young age. These rules can sometimes be very restrictive and strip people of their power to choose what clothes they want to wear.
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Now, obviously, the OP and his girlfriend had not resolved their debate about whether it was acceptable to wear underwear in front of guests. So, when the woman did so during a family dinner while his parents and brother were present, the poster could not take her behavior any longer.
According to women online, it’s perfectly acceptable to wear comfortable clothing at home, like shorts, dresses, skirts, or even formal outfits, based on one’s mood. Very few people mentioned being in their underwear, and they clarified that it was only around their partner.
Netizens in the comments also cleared up the confusion and stated that it’s okay to wear whatever you want at home but to treat guests with respect by wearing sensible clothing. This is the point the OP was trying to drive home to his girlfriend. When he noticed his father and partner arguing over the issue, he sided with his dad and told her to leave the house.
The man obviously acted in a fit of rage and kicked his partner out, but experts say that rather than retaliating, it’s important to discuss such topics at length. First take the time to process your feelings and then approach the situation with a calm mind. Use ‘I’ statements and explain how your partner’s behavior makes you feel. It’s important to discuss the issue till you reach a compromise.
The discussion on how to dress meant so much to the OP and his girlfriend that they were willing to end their 6-year relationship over it. The standoff between them might not be easy to resolve, but if they want to, I’m sure they could reach a solution.
Who do you think was right in this situation? Do you think the girlfriend’s actions were okay? Share your thoughts in the comments.
People felt that the girlfriend was being an exhibitionist and that the guy made the right decision by ending things with her
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XenoMurph 10 months ago (edited)
Intellectually I think we should all feel comfortable to wear what we choose, especially not men controlling what women wear. but at the same time, I'd feel uncomfortable being around her if she dressed like that. In this case I'd just say they were simply people from, or wanting to be in, different subcultures. She wants to live a more "bohemian" lifestyle. That's fine. She just needs more bohemian friends, and partner. They are more conservative. That's ok too. No one sucks here. But they shouldn't be together either.
Suzie 10 months ago (edited)
You still have to wear clothes in front of company even in your own home. If she can't understand that then good riddance.
XenoMurph 10 months ago (edited)
Intellectually I think we should all feel comfortable to wear what we choose, especially not men controlling what women wear. but at the same time, I'd feel uncomfortable being around her if she dressed like that. In this case I'd just say they were simply people from, or wanting to be in, different subcultures. She wants to live a more "bohemian" lifestyle. That's fine. She just needs more bohemian friends, and partner. They are more conservative. That's ok too. No one sucks here. But they shouldn't be together either.
Suzie 10 months ago (edited)
You still have to wear clothes in front of company even in your own home. If she can't understand that then good riddance.
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