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Mom Suspects Ex Is Hiding Trackers In Kids’ “Gifts,” Reports Him The Moment She Sees Proof
You know that feeling when someone gives you a gift that’s just too thoughtful? I know gift-giving can be sweet, but when your ex is on domestic violence probation and a protective order is in place, things get complicated really fast.
This was the reality of today’s Original Poster (OP). During a supervised visitation with her ex-husband, she was left feeling unsettled after realizing the gifts he brought for their kids weren’t at all innocent.
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The author has a protective order against her ex-husband, and the children are included as protected parties so his visits are supervised by a social worker
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During a recent visit, the father gave one child a new pair of AirPods and another child a box with broken seal, which he claimed was to check the product
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When the child tried to set up the AirPods, a notification revealed the devices could be tracked, showing the father’s email and a device name he uses online
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She acted quickly by buying a new pair of AirPods for her son, filing a police report, notifying the DA, and involving the social worker
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She shared that her ex-husband father is now restricted from giving gifts directly
During visits monitored by a social worker, the OP’s ex-husband handed her children brand new AirPods. One son received a sealed box, while the other got one with the seal broken to which he explained that he wanted to make sure that the right product was in the box.
However, when setting up the device, her son received a notification that the AirPods could be traced by the owner. It also showed a partially concealed email matched her ex-husband’s address, and the device carried a name he uses on social media which went off as red signals about his intent and potential tracking.
The OP noted that she already had a protective order, and both children were listed as included parties, with her ex-husband on domestic violence probation. Despite previous restraining order violations not being taken seriously, this incident presented a clear, documented risk so rather than waiting, she acted decisively.
She shared that she purchased a replacement pair of AirPods for her child, filed a police report, and handed the original device to law enforcement. She also notified the district attorney’s office, and requested her ex’s probation officer be informed. Furthermore, the social worker overseeing visits updated the rules that gifts could only be purchased in front of her.
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Protective orders are a key legal tool designed to prevent further harm or mistreatment by establishing clear boundaries for individuals who pose a risk. The Carlson Law Firm explains that these orders can require a respondent to stay away from the victim, their home, workplace, or other specified locations, serving as a court-enforced measure to protect against ongoing threats or harassment.
Within this framework, social workers play a critical role in supporting child safety during visitation. Run Sensible notes that social workers conduct comprehensive family assessments, gather information from multiple sources, and prepare recommendations for the court regarding visitation arrangements.
They may provide counseling, supervise visits to ensure the child’s safety, and monitor compliance with court orders. While they do not have the authority to finalize visitation rights, their oversight is essential in cases where one parent may attempt to circumvent court protections, such as giving gifts with hidden tracking capabilities.
Supervised visitation also comes with strict guidelines for interactions and gifts, which are designed to protect children and prevent manipulation. Cohen Family Law explains that gifts may be allowed but typically must be unwrapped or presented in a gift bag for inspection by staff. Excessive or costly gifts are prohibited, and electronic devices or money usually require prior approval and are often given through the custodial parent.
Netizens showed support for the OP and offered practical advice for handling a potentially dangerous situation. They suggested involving legal authorities immediately, and also noted steps to protect the children, such as factory resetting or replacing the AirPods to prevent further tracking.
What would you do if you were in the OP’s shoes? What would you do if you discovered a child’s gift could be used to track them? We would love to know your thoughts!
Netizens offered legal, technical, and emotional advice, pointing out the seriousness of the situation while providing concrete steps to safeguard the children
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Earonn - 1 week ago
Why is that man still allowed to see the children? clearly he doesn't care about the limits put on him, and there's a restraining order for a reason to begin with.
Lee Gilliland 1 week ago
They are still his children. You have a right to visit until you have proved you're a danger. I don't agree, but that's the law.
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Historyharlot93 1 week ago
I hate to say it but that was a pretty cunning idea on the ex’s part. Thank god the child noticed the tracking and hopefully they won’t ever see their evil dad again.
Zoe Vokes 1 week ago
I’ve found that Apple is good at warning you if you’re being tracked by other Apple devices. I’ve walked with people who have an AirTag on them and I always get a notification on my phone warning me. That could definitely save your life if someone slipped one into your bag or car and intends to follow you home.
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KatSaidThat 6 days ago
Put those ones in someone's car. Ideally a trucker actually. Let him track and trace.
Earonn - 1 week ago
Why is that man still allowed to see the children? clearly he doesn't care about the limits put on him, and there's a restraining order for a reason to begin with.
Lee Gilliland 1 week ago
They are still his children. You have a right to visit until you have proved you're a danger. I don't agree, but that's the law.
Load More Replies... Historyharlot93 1 week ago
I hate to say it but that was a pretty cunning idea on the ex’s part. Thank god the child noticed the tracking and hopefully they won’t ever see their evil dad again.
Zoe Vokes 1 week ago
I’ve found that Apple is good at warning you if you’re being tracked by other Apple devices. I’ve walked with people who have an AirTag on them and I always get a notification on my phone warning me. That could definitely save your life if someone slipped one into your bag or car and intends to follow you home.
Load More Replies... KatSaidThat 6 days ago
Put those ones in someone's car. Ideally a trucker actually. Let him track and trace.
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